I have had 3 Libra gfs and I am with one right now. Why do I feel like all 3 of them are thoughtless as far as ideas and good conversation? A little lacking in the creative thinking department I guess. I read that Libra is Aries total opposite but damn, is it really suposed to be like this?!
Myself the Aries and Libra girls...
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Why torture not one but three? This combo will never last. Try a control freak Aries or a Scorpio. These are your best matches. Pisces is also a lasting combo for Aries men. They will slog their asses off for you.
Posted by ImpressMe
Then stop dating Libras, lol.
I know so simple right? HAHA! The sex is outragous though and shes so good to me. But shoot, I feel like beating my head into a wall when I wanna shoot the shit lol
Posted by spica
Why torture not one but three? This combo will never last. Try a control freak Aries or a Scorpio. These are your best matches. Pisces is also a lasting combo for Aries men. They will slog their asses off for you.
Pisces really? My kids mother is a pisces and shes so insecure shes totaly phyco lol. But she was bananas for me for sure.
I couldnt be with her. She accused me of looking at women out in public I didnt know were there! No way not me lol
Posted by ImpressMe
LOL,
Dynamial she is a Libra BTW. One of the most creative I have seen to date.click to expand
So your saying they are suposed to be creative? Well, maybe I just put them all into stupified mode or something because they never talk, have an idea on what to do, or an idea period lol.
But my current gf is so sweet though. Damnit

Try an Aries girl who dresses and behaves like a Libra. That should solve your problem in more ways than one. 😉
Posted by spica
Try an Aries girl who dresses and behaves like a Libra. That should solve your problem in more ways than one. 😉
How did you know she dresses ummmm nice 🙂
But you are right though, im attracted to that strong personality type who has a spine and speaks her mind.
The scopio suggestion is a good one also. Last one I dated was tooooo demanding for her own good though. Very stuborn 🙂
Posted by ImpressMe
Dynamical if your Libra is sweet and she is good to you then stop complaining.
Ok so lets say you and I are going out. Everytime you ask me something and get ignorned its gonna get annoying right? How about if theres a very inportant issue you feel you need to bring up to me and when you do, you get ignorned and nothing gets acomplished. As an aries do you like being ignored? Do you like action? Does it piss you off when the person your with dosent appear to understand wth your talking about? It drives me nuts and im still weighing out the good with the bad.
Posted by amethyst2002
The guys tend to be more intellectual than the women, I've noticed. Not that they don't exist, but I'm not surprised by the ones you mentioned. Depends on how old they are, too. If they're relatively young, that's your answer right there, regardless of signs. A good portion of younger girls are about as dumb as a bag of hammers.
LOL shes 28 and I consider herself to be sheltered by family. So the real world experience is kind of lacking. She is young. FWIT im 32.
She does seem as daumb as a bad of hammers lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Large portion 🙂click to expand
say what?!
^ I agree
Posted by starlover
Go for someone over 35. Women dont reach their peak until around 40ish, they become more interesting then!
Welcome Joe, hope you have fun here!!
x
35?! Im not ruling it out but I might feel its to old for me. Well in anycase its life and will be fine 🙂
Thank you for the welcome
Posted by ImpressMePosted by amethyst2002
The guys tend to be more intellectual than the women, I've noticed. Not that they don't exist, but I'm not surprised by the ones you mentioned. Depends on how old they are, too. If they're relatively young, that's your answer right there, regardless of signs. A good portion of younger girls are about as dumb as a bag of hammers.
LOL, yea some young ladies are a hot mess. I don't think they are dumb. They act dumb.click to expand
Why do you think they act dumb? You think they do it on purpose? I find it hard to believe.
It seems as though shyness has alot to do with it. Being timid. Or like I said before...lack of life experience. People skills? Lack of ambition? Theres to many variables I feel like im trouble shooting my car or something LOL
Posted by ImpressMePosted by DYNAMICALPosted by ImpressMe
Dynamical if your Libra is sweet and she is good to you then stop complaining.
Ok so lets say you and I are going out. Everytime you ask me something and get ignorned its gonna get annoying right? How about if theres a very inportant issue you feel you need to bring up to me and when you do, you get ignorned and nothing gets acomplished. As an aries do you like being ignored? Do you like action? Does it piss you off when the person your with dosent appear to understand wth your talking about? It drives me nuts and im still weighing out the good with the bad.
I don't like being ignored but it seems like you do because you are still with her.
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No I dont like being ignored thanks, im trying to weigh it all out and give the girl a chance. Thanks for your advice though...

Posted by DYNAMICALPosted by ImpressMePosted by DYNAMICALPosted by ImpressMe
Dynamical if your Libra is sweet and she is good to you then stop complaining.
Ok so lets say you and I are going out. Everytime you ask me something and get ignorned its gonna get annoying right? How about if theres a very inportant issue you feel you need to bring up to me and when you do, you get ignorned and nothing gets acomplished. As an aries do you like being ignored? Do you like action? Does it piss you off when the person your with dosent appear to understand wth your talking about? It drives me nuts and im still weighing out the good with the bad.
I don't like being ignored but it seems like you do because you are still with her.
No I dont like being ignored thanks, im trying to weigh it all out and give the girl a chance. Thanks for your advice though...click to expand
You know what? I know a few Aries men personally and that includes my father. They never speak ill of the person they are seeing. On DXP however, I have noticed many Aries men speaking ill of their S.Os, especially Libras. Uh, it is obvious to me you'll never work, obviously you don't have respect for her. Aries, like I said, seldom respects Libras. Why torture her by giving her a chance? She ignores you because she thinks you're obnoxious in some way and insensitive in others.

Actually, I think Ariens who go for Libras and Pisces are weak. Why not go for a personality "stronger" or on par with yours? Why go for a sign you hardly respect and think are "weak"? Libras are strong through gentleness. Totally opposite of Aries, who is strong by showing brute force.
A scorpio or an Aries woman is what you should be aiming for, instead of dating a Libra and running your mouth off on them all the time. It doesn't look good, but you probably won't see it. You never learned from your mistake. 3 times Libras? Each of the is telling you something. Learn from it.
A scorpio or an Aries woman is what you should be aiming for, instead of dating a Libra and running your mouth off on them all the time. It doesn't look good, but you probably won't see it. You never learned from your mistake. 3 times Libras? Each of the is telling you something. Learn from it.
Posted by ImpressMePosted by DYNAMICALPosted by ImpressMePosted by amethyst2002
The guys tend to be more intellectual than the women, I've noticed. Not that they don't exist, but I'm not surprised by the ones you mentioned. Depends on how old they are, too. If they're relatively young, that's your answer right there, regardless of signs. A good portion of younger girls are about as dumb as a bag of hammers.
LOL, yea some young ladies are a hot mess. I don't think they are dumb. They act dumb.
Why do you think they act dumb? You think they do it on purpose? I find it hard to believe.
It seems as though shyness has alot to do with it. Being timid. Or like I said before...lack of life experience. People skills? Lack of ambition? Theres to many variables I feel like im trouble shooting my car or something LOL
Yea, well some women are manipulative. They can make you do anything they want. Even think they are shy, timid, lack life experience, people skills, ambition...the list goes on.click to expand
I understand what your saying. I just dont understand why anyone would wanna play game like that. Oh well it is what it is thanks 🙂
Posted by spica
Actually, I think Ariens who go for Libras and Pisces are weak. Why not go for a personality "stronger" or on par with yours? Why go for a sign you hardly respect and think are "weak"? Libras are strong through gentleness. Totally opposite of Aries, who is strong by showing brute force.
A scorpio or an Aries woman is what you should be aiming for, instead of dating a Libra and running your mouth off on them all the time. It doesn't look good, but you probably won't see it. You never learned from your mistake. 3 times Libras? Each of the is telling you something. Learn from it.
Well hey now let me tell you im no master of the astrology thing so excuse my mistakes lol. Im not so hung up on the astrology thing and I give people chances to see how it works you know? Call it whatever YOU want but maybe im just stumbling onto this stuff and didnt know any better. Im still skeptical and learning about it.
If you wanna call it running my mouth thats fine. I call it talking and if I didnt talk about it I would be just like her 😉
Posted by spicaPosted by DYNAMICALPosted by ImpressMePosted by DYNAMICALPosted by ImpressMe
Dynamical if your Libra is sweet and she is good to you then stop complaining.
Ok so lets say you and I are going out. Everytime you ask me something and get ignorned its gonna get annoying right? How about if theres a very inportant issue you feel you need to bring up to me and when you do, you get ignorned and nothing gets acomplished. As an aries do you like being ignored? Do you like action? Does it piss you off when the person your with dosent appear to understand wth your talking about? It drives me nuts and im still weighing out the good with the bad.
I don't like being ignored but it seems like you do because you are still with her.
No I dont like being ignored thanks, im trying to weigh it all out and give the girl a chance. Thanks for your advice though...
You know what? I know a few Aries men personally and that includes my father. They never speak ill of the person they are seeing. On DXP however, I have noticed many Aries men speaking ill of their S.Os, especially Libras. Uh, it is obvious to me you'll never work, obviously you don't have respect for her. Aries, like I said, seldom respects Libras. Why torture her by giving her a chance? She ignores you because she thinks you're obnoxious in some way and insensitive in others.click to expand
Torchuring her huh? Sorry I gave you that impression but thats not the case. My bad if I didnt explain it well enough to you 🙂 Heh, I guess I should just shut the door on any girl who likes me because of their sign? If thats so then I guess im just ignorant to the whole thing right now...but I supose you could school me huh
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by ImpressMePosted by amethyst2002
The guys tend to be more intellectual than the women, I've noticed. Not that they don't exist, but I'm not surprised by the ones you mentioned. Depends on how old they are, too. If they're relatively young, that's your answer right there, regardless of signs. A good portion of younger girls are about as dumb as a bag of hammers.
LOL, yea some young ladies are a hot mess. I don't think they are dumb. They act dumb.
Same thing. Both are annoying as fuck.
OP, as for your gf, it sounds like a typical Libran avoidance maneuver. If you want to bring up something serious, they'll avoid it because they are not big on conflict. They also tend to play dumb when avoiding the heat because again, since they don't like conflict.click to expand
Yes! You are correct and she even told me she hates any kind of conflict. The things I feel are just small issues that can be discussed and worked out she sees as a horrible argument. So I feel nothing is ever taken care of.
But seriously everybody, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. There will always be pros and cons about personalities mixing. Im just weighing it all out right now and maybe its worth it maybe its not. I sure as hell dont know everyone but I also understand the grass isnt greener on the other side.
Thanks for your thoughts 🙂

Posted by DYNAMICALPosted by spica
Actually, I think Ariens who go for Libras and Pisces are weak. Why not go for a personality "stronger" or on par with yours? Why go for a sign you hardly respect and think are "weak"? Libras are strong through gentleness. Totally opposite of Aries, who is strong by showing brute force.
A scorpio or an Aries woman is what you should be aiming for, instead of dating a Libra and running your mouth off on them all the time. It doesn't look good, but you probably won't see it. You never learned from your mistake. 3 times Libras? Each of the is telling you something. Learn from it.
Well hey now let me tell you im no master of the astrology thing so excuse my mistakes lol. Im not so hung up on the astrology thing and I give people chances to see how it works you know? Call it whatever YOU want but maybe im just stumbling onto this stuff and didnt know any better. Im still skeptical and learning about it.
If you wanna call it running my mouth thats fine. I call it talking and if I didnt talk about it I would be just like her 😉click to expand
Libs don't like to talk about some things. You got a problem?
You should find a more warring energy. Like amethyst. She's a fellow Libran-hater. You two should hook up.
You're always going to be annoyed with your Libra because that is how she is. There is no true mutual respect between the signs. Group with your Aries sisters and then multiply!

Posted by bluemoon9043834
A successful Aries male and Libra female relationship was Bonnie (Libra) and Clyde (Aries). Clyde was a drop out loser and Bonnie was an enabler. Both of them had a lot of earth in their charts, though.
Outlaws aren't a good example of this pairing.. nothing but crime spree. Seems like what this pair can only manage..

Posted by starlover
oooh Bluemoon that is very interesting!
I have two wonderful libra female friends...both have Venus in Scorp and earth moons, they are both over 35. They are hugely intelligent, sexy and vivacious women, both really like Aries men (as lovers) 🙂
They've got a long way to settling down, if at all

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by spicaPosted by bluemoon9043834
A successful Aries male and Libra female relationship was Bonnie (Libra) and Clyde (Aries). Clyde was a drop out loser and Bonnie was an enabler. Both of them had a lot of earth in their charts, though.
Outlaws aren't a good example of this pairing.. nothing but crime spree. Seems like what this pair can only manage..
lmfao! I couldn't help but laugh at that.click to expand
Do you have a good example of Aries man and Libra woman? Seems like they're cross-purposing. They spend most of their energies cussing each other out because they do things differently. The only way they go is crime, because then they have a mutual target..

Posted by amethystramhead
That's because the Libra/Aries dynamic in bed is effing amazing. :p
You see, this ram over here. She is following her urges is all. It is ALL about HER HER HER. She wants a Libra because they are good in bed with HER. Nothing about compatibility. FYI, her Libra left her but she is still pining over him and insulting Libras any chance she can get on the sly.
Amethyst is so transparent
Posted by spicaPosted by DYNAMICALPosted by spica
Actually, I think Ariens who go for Libras and Pisces are weak. Why not go for a personality "stronger" or on par with yours? Why go for a sign you hardly respect and think are "weak"? Libras are strong through gentleness. Totally opposite of Aries, who is strong by showing brute force.
A scorpio or an Aries woman is what you should be aiming for, instead of dating a Libra and running your mouth off on them all the time. It doesn't look good, but you probably won't see it. You never learned from your mistake. 3 times Libras? Each of the is telling you something. Learn from it.
Well hey now let me tell you im no master of the astrology thing so excuse my mistakes lol. Im not so hung up on the astrology thing and I give people chances to see how it works you know? Call it whatever YOU want but maybe im just stumbling onto this stuff and didnt know any better. Im still skeptical and learning about it.
If you wanna call it running my mouth thats fine. I call it talking and if I didnt talk about it I would be just like her 😉
Libs don't like to talk about some things. You got a problem?
You should find a more warring energy. Like amethyst. She's a fellow Libran-hater. You two should hook up.
You're always going to be annoyed with your Libra because that is how she is. There is no true mutual respect between the signs. Group with your Aries sisters and then multiply!click to expand
I never said I hate libra. Got a problem?
Libra or not I can think of a few that are not libras and I have no respect for
Posted by amethyst2002
That's because the Libra/Aries dynamic in bed is effing amazing. :p
Yea you got that right
I love know it alls who have a distorted view of whats going on. Separating feelings and bias from truth seems to be a big problem in some people.
Wow, this thread has gone to hell in a hand basket! LOL!
Wow, this thread has gone to hell in a hand basket! LOL!

Posted by DYNAMICAL
I love know it alls who have a distorted view of whats going on. Separating feelings and bias from truth seems to be a big problem in some people.
Wow, this thread has gone to hell in a hand basket! LOL!
It always does when Aries and libra come together.
Oh and I blocked amethyst first, she just returned the favor.
Since you and amethyst have a common target, why don't you come together and shoot?
Aries really identify with Aries. I don't see you agreeing with me. Haha, I can imagine how disharmonious your relationship is.

I love how amethyst plays innocent and Denys everything.
Posted by spicaPosted by DYNAMICAL
I love know it alls who have a distorted view of whats going on. Separating feelings and bias from truth seems to be a big problem in some people.
Wow, this thread has gone to hell in a hand basket! LOL!
It always does when Aries and libra come together.
Oh and I blocked amethyst first, she just returned the favor.
Since you and amethyst have a common target, why don't you come together and shoot?
Aries really identify with Aries. I don't see you agreeing with me. Haha, I can imagine how disharmonious your relationship is.click to expand
I dont care who else agrees with me...you were putting words in my mouth because your associating me with others you may not like. Its a bias. I never said I hate libras. You put that in my mouth. I sensed something from your posts that there was some kind of issue but hey whatever. I have better things to do than to argue over stupid nonsense and im sure (if you take a breath) you do to.
To be honest, the blocking thing is a little childish male, female, aries, whatever lol
Posted by spica
I love how amethyst plays innocent and Denys everything.
I dont know anything about anyone im new here. Im nutral but some of what has been said is starting to tell a story lol.
Humm.....I'm an Aries moon and my best friend is a male Libra.......no issues at all 🙂

Posted by ImpressMePosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by spicaPosted by starlover
oooh Bluemoon that is very interesting!
I have two wonderful libra female friends...both have Venus in Scorp and earth moons, they are both over 35. They are hugely intelligent, sexy and vivacious women, both really like Aries men (as lovers) 🙂
They've got a long way to settling down, if at all
What I get from you is a lot of "resistance" energy to Aries. It seems like a futile waste of energy to me. But it is definitely something worth introspecting about with yourself. What is driving that resistance?
Resistance is right. She should just give in and let go.
People sometimes hold on to negative energy, and that is really not healthy.click to expand
Why dont you say that about amethyst? Oh I get it, she's a fellow ram.
Aries women always try to twist things to their favor and make others look bad. There's nothing really to like about verbal manipulation like that. It's wholly unattractive.
Good luck, impressyourself and amethyst in trying to snag a libra. You have to act very different from what u display here.

Amethyst needs to know that playing the mentally unsound card doesn't make her look right. She's tripping over her ego and desperately trying to eradicate the enemy by clever word manipulation. Love that warring energy - I don't hate it 🙂 it's a good target practice for me - sharpens my manipulation detector.

Posted by Archimedes
Humm.....I'm an Aries moon and my best friend is a male Libra.......no issues at all 🙂
aqua sun Aries moon. I know someone like that - you're very Aries and the friendship is skewed to your favor.

Posted by DYNAMICALPosted by spicaPosted by DYNAMICAL
I love know it alls who have a distorted view of whats going on. Separating feelings and bias from truth seems to be a big problem in some people.
Wow, this thread has gone to hell in a hand basket! LOL!
It always does when Aries and libra come together.
Oh and I blocked amethyst first, she just returned the favor.
Since you and amethyst have a common target, why don't you come together and shoot?
Aries really identify with Aries. I don't see you agreeing with me. Haha, I can imagine how disharmonious your relationship is.
I dont care who else agrees with me...you were putting words in my mouth because your associating me with others you may not like. Its a bias. I never said I hate libras. You put that in my mouth. I sensed something from your posts that there was some kind of issue but hey whatever. I have better things to do than to argue over stupid nonsense and im sure (if you take a breath) you do to.
To be honest, the blocking thing is a little childish male, female, aries, whatever lolclick to expand
I am feeling the ares lib dynamic here. No you weren't neutral; you were agreeing with all your rammy sisters 🙂. I wouldn't blame you, but like I said, libra is your opposing sign - you will always find fault and make a fool out of your libra girls for who they are. Show me something you can give to them instead of what they can and cannot give you, and quit running your mouth on libra girls or you'd look like amethyst2002 the 2nd.
Maybe after you break up with ur libra you'll look for an Aries girl because you can't help but agree with them and nothing us more harmonious than that.

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by spicaPosted by starlover
oooh Bluemoon that is very interesting!
I have two wonderful libra female friends...both have Venus in Scorp and earth moons, they are both over 35. They are hugely intelligent, sexy and vivacious women, both really like Aries men (as lovers) 🙂
They've got a long way to settling down, if at all
What I get from you is a lot of "resistance" energy to Aries. It seems like a futile waste of energy to me. But it is definitely something worth introspecting about with yourself. What is driving that resistance?click to expand
resistance from being ploughed through by a bulldozer type, maybe? Strictly astrologically speaking, you know the symbols of ram and scales. Why are you getting personal with me? Can you show me, from an Astro pov how rams can be good for scales, instead of attempting emotion/ base assault? If yes, you can impress me with your knowledge and gentility and show me how a ram can compromise afterall and not bulldoze ala amethystic style .
But don't bother otherwise 🙂

Posted by amethyst2002
The guys tend to be more intellectual than the women, I've noticed. Not that they don't exist, but I'm not surprised by the ones you mentioned. Depends on how old they are, too. If they're relatively young, that's your answer right there, regardless of signs. A good portion of younger girls are about as dumb as a bag of hammers.
I've had this same experience but with cancers. Every single, blasted cancer female I have ever known, or met, has been an utter mess of emotions and dumber than rocks to boot. The combo is quite sickening for me. Plus they all had this snooty, bitch side that comes outta nowhere. The only thing these girls had going for them was their looks. They were all cuties and I'll give them that.
Cancer males, on the other hand, I usually adore. They're sweet, maybe a little too sensitive, but smart with sharp wits. They can get moody in a darker way than the girls, which can be a little scary if you've really seen it, but overall I tend to like them better.
Spica...
You are such a hypocrite its just stupid. You come on here putting words in my mouth so why dont you own up to it?! Do you have a distorted view of reality?! Go back through the thread and see who started giving who trash! You tried to get cute with your talk but I figured your fake ass out plain and simple. And yes I did come in here nutral listen to what im telling you. I come in here nutral not knowing anyone and you start getting your panties in a bunch just because im talking about the libra girls personalities that iv dated! Of course im going to end up having a problem with you! You start shit! Get your head out of your ass
You are such a hypocrite its just stupid. You come on here putting words in my mouth so why dont you own up to it?! Do you have a distorted view of reality?! Go back through the thread and see who started giving who trash! You tried to get cute with your talk but I figured your fake ass out plain and simple. And yes I did come in here nutral listen to what im telling you. I come in here nutral not knowing anyone and you start getting your panties in a bunch just because im talking about the libra girls personalities that iv dated! Of course im going to end up having a problem with you! You start shit! Get your head out of your ass

Dynamical you just prove Aries and Libra cannot get along. The type of feelings Aries try to evoke is not a good one. They go to base level insults just to have their way. I say good for you a Libra is attracted to you, but be careful of the burnout. AGAIN. I just feel sorry for the Libras involved with Aries. But it's their karma.
Spica Just take some responsibility that you put words in my mouth, and you started getting out of line with your posts. Thats why you are taking heat right now. I dont go starting fights with anyone for no reason. You were out of line just go back through the thread and read. Facts, logic, reality, are you not able to put these in perspective? On second though nevermind, you have already answered that and im just wasting my time. I can see why amethyst blocked you "FIRST" because im done with you as well.

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DYNAMICAL
Spica Just take some responsibility that you put words in my mouth, and you started getting out of line with your posts. Thats why you are taking heat right now. I dont go starting fights with anyone for no reason. You were out of line just go back through the thread and read. Facts, logic, reality, are you not able to put these in perspective? On second though nevermind, you have already answered that and im just wasting my time. I can see why amethyst blocked you "FIRST" because im done with you as well.
Spica has always taken issue with Aries for as long as I can remember. Getting her to look at herself and introspect is the biggest challenge of all. Plus, we might knock her scales off balance. I do notice an improvement with her, but I am going to say it has to do with some aspects in her chart. I bet that she has an afflicted Mercury.click to expand
My problem is that Aries wants to win at all costs. Truth means nothing to you guys. Aflicted mercury or not, don't make this about me. You guys are the BULLDOZERS of the Zodiac. Don't make Scorpio the bad guys. Scorpios, comparatively, don't lie as much as Aries just to win at all costs.
WIN AT ALL COSTS! Something a Libra doesn't respect at all. LIE to give the illusion of being right. BULLDOZE anyone that opposes you. Aries are transparent. Why pretend Libra likes all this? Why try to say Libra is compatible with the Aries anger?
This will be my last post here.
Well anyway, are libra women usualy attracted to aries men? This one is phyco mad about me.
Posted by BatukPosted by DYNAMICAL
Well anyway, are libra women usualy attracted to aries men?
Eh,not really. I never had any experience with Aries guys and I`ve never been attracted to them.
That`s funneh how all your gfs have been Libras.
So you didn`t find them having any similar character traits with you,right? Maybe she doesn`t have anything to share with you, and you 2 are very different people. That`s why you think that she lacks some creative thinking,etc. And that`s also why you`ve found them boring, perhaps?
If so, then try to find someone else who shares similar personality and interest with you. That`s all what I can say.click to expand
Well no I didnt mean all my gfs have been libras I just meant there have been 3 libras out of all gfs iv had.
Current gf was very VERY shy and still shows it but shes really opened up to me alot more. I dont know everything about her but im figuring out alot and the shy thing has alot to do with how she acts. Shes a very quiet and laid back girl which sometimes makes me frusterated if I wanna talk about things or whatever. We actauly spend today together and we had a really nice relaxing time in the sun. She opened up today like a nice flower 🙂
Posted by LibraLuv
I wanna respond to this. With me and the Aries men I've come across, there is an EXTREME physical/sexual attraction. It's undeniable, and I'll admit that. However, there are also EXTREME power struggles. With the ones I know, it's as if we are in a fight (of some sort) all the time. Like, let's see who's the best, at anything we do. Well, those are the underlying factors that I've observed, never said aloud, but more implied.
Usually it turns into a "know-it-all" situation on both sides, which has been my observation. At first, I try to be tactful/civil (whatever you want to call it) and not become indignant. But after awhile, I end up having to go off, just to get my point across. And then the other side, they go off immediately and afterwards say...I'm sorry, I didn't mean to say it like that. Needless to say, none of my friendships with these men have turned into a romantic relationship and I do have several of them as friends. But, we could never go beyond friendship, because of that constant battle.
In my opinion, both Arians and Librans are sensitive, in the area where our egos are concerned. And can be bruised, pretty easily. Can a Arian/Libran relationship work for the long haul? Well, I'm an optimist so I'll say anything is possible, and only if both individuals have evolved. Have I personally seen a successful couple from this match? To be honest, no. However, I can only base that on my own personal experiences and only that of one other couple that I know of who tried. *shrugs* Just my .02 cents.
+1 on the "EXTREME physical/sexual attraction" for aries/libra 🙂
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by BatukPosted by DYNAMICAL
Well anyway, are libra women usualy attracted to aries men?
Eh,not really. I never had any experience with Aries guys and I`ve never been attracted to them.
Curious, but how can you say anything on the matter if you've admitted to not having any experience with Aries?click to expand
^ this
Posted by BatukPosted by DYNAMICALPosted by amethyst2002Posted by BatukPosted by DYNAMICAL
Well anyway, are libra women usualy attracted to aries men?
Eh,not really. I never had any experience with Aries guys and I`ve never been attracted to them.
Curious, but how can you say anything on the matter if you've admitted to not having any experience with Aries?
^ this
I didn`t know that I must have "experience" with Aries guys to answer your question.
I gave you my own advice just because I`m a female Libra myself. And thought your Libra ex`s, and your current gf may be kind of like me. Shy,reserved and quiet.
Also,I know that Astrology says Aries and Libra are opposite signs,so my advice was baised on my astrology knowledge.
Well, people are always posting and giving their advices even if they don`t have exact similar experience with the original poster, btw it`s a public forum,right?click to expand
It was just a valad point and question that was raised thats all. I happen to believe all the books in the world will never add up to real world hand on experience. Would you want a personal trainer who weighs 400lbs and is telling you what your training guide should look like because he read all the books? Would you want someone to give advice on how to discipline your kids even though they dont have kids but they watch The learning channel? Would you want someone working on your car that has not done it before but read all the service manuals? LOL
Are all libras pretty laid back and quiet? Thats my experiences.
Bottom line is real world experience means more than reading your books. Its simple and dosent need a discusion by some book worm internet know it all.
You just dont understand where im coming from so your not understanding what im saying. No big deal. Your begining to remind me of your spica buddie with putting words in my mouth and twisting what I meant into what YOU want it to mean.
Wow! where did your posts go?! Suddenly its almost like you have been ignored?! Oh well buh bye!
You just dont understand where im coming from so your not understanding what im saying. No big deal. Your begining to remind me of your spica buddie with putting words in my mouth and twisting what I meant into what YOU want it to mean.
Wow! where did your posts go?! Suddenly its almost like you have been ignored?! Oh well buh bye!

Are you an angry man, Henry?
lmao

Posted by LibraLuv
I wanna respond to this. With me and the Aries men I've come across, there is an EXTREME physical/sexual attraction. It's undeniable, and I'll admit that. However, there are also EXTREME power struggles. With the ones I know, it's as if we are in a fight (of some sort) all the time. Like, let's see who's the best, at anything we do. Well, those are the underlying factors that I've observed, never said aloud, but more implied.
Yes I get that totally with mine but as for intellect, he has his field, I have mine. Mine is of the business nature and his more in the physical as he is a personal trainer. I wouldn't dare try and tell him how to run his programs and classes however giving him advice on increasing his clients & sales...can't help myself, and it does irritate him!!
When we disagree on something, he is extremely one eyed and boy does that egg know how to SULK!
Making up... is an EXTREME workout, in the bedroom! 😉

You know what? I know a few Aries men personally and that includes my father. They never speak ill of the person they are seeing. On DXP however, I have noticed many Aries men speaking ill of their S.Os, especially Libras. Uh, it is obvious to me you'll never work, obviously you don't have respect for her. Aries, like I said, seldom respects Libras. Why torture her by giving her a chance? She ignores you because she thinks you're obnoxious in some way and insensitive in others.
I can understand an Aries not getting a long with a Libra well because of the respect thing. I do think if they have water/air in their chart they can get along well or if they have a different fire sign other than Aries. Other than that other dominant signs like Scorpio would go well with the super Aries people, it kind of makes sense lol.
I mean I'm an Aries (with Cancer Ascendant) and I'm close with my Libra sister.

Posted by DYNAMICAL
I have had 3 Libra gfs and I am with one right now. Why do I feel like all 3 of them are thoughtless as far as ideas and good conversation? A little lacking in the creative thinking department I guess. I read that Libra is Aries total opposite but damn, is it really suposed to be like this?!
I'll admit, I've only read half way thru the thread, and I stopped at when you started accusing Spica of putting words in your mouth...
But check this out and tell me what you think.
If someone described YOU as being thoughtless and lack 'creative thinking'..how would YOU interpret that?
If someone said that about me, I'd be extremely insulted, ESPECIALLY if that someone was dating me. If I was the lone libra that was dating you, and read that, there is no way that I wouldn't see that as an insult, I'd wonder why you were dating me(since why would someone date someone who thought was stupid, oh right...besides sex), and also if someone was to say that you didn't have much respect for me, I'd agree.
Now, this maybe reading too much into it(you know like any person with some cognitive ability)...but let me throw this in...If you really wanted to understand "how libras think" I'd assume that you'd probably would have posted this thread in the Libra board no? But you didnt..you seem to be a smart man, I'm sure you could have figured out how to post in a thread, so I'm going to assume that the reason that your posted this thread isn't because you wanted some feedback on libras, you just wanted to vent.
Which isn't a problem....I could care less about that...bash away..but please at least admit you are bashing/venting and stop back-peddling when someone calls you on it..I don't really agree with everything spica says, but she did have a point.
Oh and, signs aside...if you are constantly dating people that you consider vapid...don't you think that says more about you than them? Just sayin.
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