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Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
This.
Afterwards personally I don't like uncertainty I know it is a fact of life, but he probably won't say no to the most direct approach "we've known each other for a while, come round to mine and I'll rip your clothes off" or the subtler, but no ambiguity "how about meeting for a great coffee, my treat and let's see well we can get on without work distractions" - the wording is messy, but you get the idea.
Ok.. I’ll keep you posted… I’ll probably mess it up lol whenever I actually like someone I mess it up 🙄
It's all experience and a learning curve, nobody is good at this stuff without practise and experience.
Do you ever go out on a limb and ask someone out directly? One must have their ego and pride in check and for me, that’s the biggest problem 😐
Rarely I move very slowly. If someone shows interest and it's viable I might.
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I think he’ll be cautious because of his recent situation
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
It’s kiwi banter.. we understand each other and he’s old enough to be my son 🙂
I could probably fix him up with my friends daughters though 😉
Fix me up with a job on aussie wages yes please.
Keep in touch 🙂 there’s plenty of work here especially if you’re a tradie. Look on seek. Harder to find a rental atm do you have Cousie’s here at all?
Nah no relatives there, family friends on the sunshine coast is all I know. I like the look of malbourne.
Melbourne is Wellington
Is it windy? I don't want it too hot...
Im into the idea, NZ is too slow. I remember being over in Vancouver and loving the city, and Japan. I was on a job in town the other day that had an inner city feel and It reminded me of being in the big city. Auckland is a joke though.
The great you get use to because we have the facilities here for it unlike back home.
Melbourne is beautiful and the food culture is on Point!!! I only like it to party in but love the GC for the life style
Mmmm my Taurus moon wanna sit in cafes and drink coffees and eat all the nice food, Ill buy a land cruiser and drive around the desert too...
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Seriously make the move, you won’t regret it. Best move I ever made as scary as it was!
Ok so I dropped it tonight… nothing yet but it’s been a whole painful 3 minutes lmao
I’m going to bed, if no reply, I have my answer
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
I’ve point blank asked him out tonight… no answer yet and maybe nothing but at least by tomorrow morning… I’ll know and that is all I need
I’ve point blank asked him out tonight… no answer yet and maybe nothing but at least by tomorrow morning… I’ll know and that is all I need
No reply = there is your reply
If he doesn’t respond, save your dignity and move on to a next guy.
I’ve point blank asked him out tonight… no answer yet and maybe nothing but at least by tomorrow morning… I’ll know and that is all I need
No reply = there is your reply
If he doesn’t respond, save your dignity and move on to a next guy.
It's important to be patient and not set time frames. Just because he doesn't reply straight away doesn't mean he won't be interested later in the week.
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Not for me. I have 0 patience. You either show enthusiasm early on, or I will lose interest and become apathetic. I go from 💯 hot to cold.
We are not all wired the same.
But then again I am Gemini/Leo so I am not surprised.
I’ve point blank asked him out tonight… no answer yet and maybe nothing but at least by tomorrow morning… I’ll know and that is all I need
No reply = there is your reply
If he doesn’t respond, save your dignity and move on to a next guy.
It's important to be patient and not set time frames. Just because he doesn't reply straight away doesn't mean he won't be interested later in the week.
Not for me. I have 0 patience. You either show enthusiasm early on, or I will lose interest and become apathetic. I go from 💯 hot to cold.
We are not all wired the same.
But then again I am Gemini/Leo so I am not surprised.
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Same. I wouldn’t be happy camper waiting…
Though it CAN be that he is busy or away OR in bed with his woman!!! Common. Guy is an Aries after all! 😂😂😂
I just hope he will reply. We need love story here.
And YOU MISSY aren’t giving us any. 🫣
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
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Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
The last Aries guy i was seeing also was very keen throughout the relationship....we couldn’t keep our hands off each other both sexually and otherwise. He was very pushy lol but after being with a man for years who was pretty passive, it was a bit of heaven. We both have Taurus Mars...touch was a big part of the relationship. I wouldn’t be with a man that wasn’t enthusiastic and fiery....been there, done that.
I’ve point blank asked him out tonight… no answer yet and maybe nothing but at least by tomorrow morning… I’ll know and that is all I need
Good for you!
At least you’ve courage to go get it😃.
Gotta be better than being passive
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
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I am not SO lucky! What is your dads placement that is romantic and all?
My Irish neighbors who’s husband is Aries - for 30 years I had never seen than near each other! Even at their oldest sons wedding but I know there is 100% of devotion but none whatsoever emotions. I always thought it’s because he is an Irish from Ireland and she is American Irish but only second generation. Her parents were also very reserved. To the end.
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
I am not SO lucky! What is your dads placement that is romantic and all?
My Irish neighbors who’s husband is Aries - for 30 years I had never seen than near each other! Even at their oldest sons wedding but I know there is 100% of devotion but none whatsoever emotions. I always thought it’s because he is an Irish from Ireland and she is American Irish but only second generation. Her parents were also very reserved. To the end.
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Moon Sag
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Mercury Pisces
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
I am not SO lucky! What is your dads placement that is romantic and all?
My Irish neighbors who’s husband is Aries - for 30 years I had never seen than near each other! Even at their oldest sons wedding but I know there is 100% of devotion but none whatsoever emotions. I always thought it’s because he is an Irish from Ireland and she is American Irish but only second generation. Her parents were also very reserved. To the end.
Moon Sag
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Mercury Pisces
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Ok. My uncle was a sag. Aunt an Aries. Bickering never ended. Until his death. Nothing warm but we knew they loved each other.
Taurus friend isn’t affectionate.
So it is Gemini Mars then? Because I am a psycho on hugging and physical skin in skin shit…
Pisces - idk - because he has Merc AND Venus but NADA!
So is it Gemini and he has nine so I can go beat my head against the wall? 🤔
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
I am not SO lucky! What is your dads placement that is romantic and all?
My Irish neighbors who’s husband is Aries - for 30 years I had never seen than near each other! Even at their oldest sons wedding but I know there is 100% of devotion but none whatsoever emotions. I always thought it’s because he is an Irish from Ireland and she is American Irish but only second generation. Her parents were also very reserved. To the end.
Moon Sag
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Mercury Pisces
Ok. My uncle was a sag. Aunt an Aries. Bickering never ended. Until his death. Nothing warm but we knew they loved each other.
Taurus friend isn’t affectionate.
So it is Gemini Mars then? Because I am a psycho on hugging and physical skin in skin shit…
Pisces - idk - because he has Merc AND Venus but NADA!
So is it Gemini and he has nine so I can go beat my head against the wall? 🤔
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Decide what you want
Thats who he is and wont change
Like i said i couldn’t be with a guy who isnt affectionate, i don’t look for that with other friends so if i’m with a lover whats the point of feeling unfulfilled? Life is too short....
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
I am not SO lucky! What is your dads placement that is romantic and all?
My Irish neighbors who’s husband is Aries - for 30 years I had never seen than near each other! Even at their oldest sons wedding but I know there is 100% of devotion but none whatsoever emotions. I always thought it’s because he is an Irish from Ireland and she is American Irish but only second generation. Her parents were also very reserved. To the end.
Moon Sag
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Mercury Pisces
Ok. My uncle was a sag. Aunt an Aries. Bickering never ended. Until his death. Nothing warm but we knew they loved each other.
Taurus friend isn’t affectionate.
So it is Gemini Mars then? Because I am a psycho on hugging and physical skin in skin shit…
Pisces - idk - because he has Merc AND Venus but NADA!
So is it Gemini and he has nine so I can go beat my head against the wall? 🤔
Decide what you want
Thats who he is and wont change
Like i said i couldn’t be with a guy who isnt affectionate, i don’t look for that with other friends so if i’m with a lover whats the point of feeling unfulfilled? Life is too short....
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Of COURSE I am going to decide what I want!
I am just trying to see what is that in his ass placement that he is like that.
So my other Ariese friends and specially those with Aqua - ALL ARE NOT A HUGGERS!
One Aqua woman says - not even hands touching !!! and when she orgasms it is dangerous if he touches her!
Of course I am not taking everything as an Manual To Dump. Silly! He is too pretty to dump him for not hugging specially considering all other benefits…😂😂😂😂😂
Aries men I’ve known chase the hell out of you. My dad did with my ma and he met her when he was 15! Never gave up till she gave in!
The two Aries guys I was with were the same, there was a third online who never gave up for a long time
I mean if you want something you go after it (my Aries rising talking)
OMG! Really? 15—
THATS WHY I am feeling like I am done with him meaning he won’t let me leave him. He just said I speak with an accent so he doesn’t understand WTF am I saying…then I laugh and that’s it! 🤔🤦♀️
Yes and she was 17 and seeing another man who was boring 😂 so she ended it
Dad was always very affectionate with her even after years of marriage ... hugging, holding hands, dancing. I saw him grabbing her and holding her tight lots of times. He was also very romantic ... so nice to see ❤️
I am not SO lucky! What is your dads placement that is romantic and all?
My Irish neighbors who’s husband is Aries - for 30 years I had never seen than near each other! Even at their oldest sons wedding but I know there is 100% of devotion but none whatsoever emotions. I always thought it’s because he is an Irish from Ireland and she is American Irish but only second generation. Her parents were also very reserved. To the end.
Moon Sag
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Mercury Pisces
Ok. My uncle was a sag. Aunt an Aries. Bickering never ended. Until his death. Nothing warm but we knew they loved each other.
Taurus friend isn’t affectionate.
So it is Gemini Mars then? Because I am a psycho on hugging and physical skin in skin shit…
Pisces - idk - because he has Merc AND Venus but NADA!
So is it Gemini and he has nine so I can go beat my head against the wall? 🤔
Decide what you want
Thats who he is and wont change
Like i said i couldn’t be with a guy who isnt affectionate, i don’t look for that with other friends so if i’m with a lover whats the point of feeling unfulfilled? Life is too short....
Of COURSE I am going to decide what I want!
I am just trying to see what is that in his ass placement that he is like that.
So my other Ariese friends and specially those with Aqua - ALL ARE NOT A HUGGERS!
One Aqua woman says - not even hands touching !!! and when she orgasms it is dangerous if he touches her!
Of course I am not taking everything as an Manual To Dump. Silly! He is too pretty to dump him for not hugging specially considering all other benefits…😂😂😂😂😂
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Orgasms and not touching 😂🤣😆
I knew an Aqua woman who wouldnt let her hubbie sit too close to her on the settee...there had to be so many inches between them
The divorce was messy 🥴🤣
No happy ending
No answer… 😢
Don’t regret putting it out there though. Makes me realise that when I’m interested in someone, I can’t read them lol
I did say don’t answer if your not interested. Last thing he needs is to make up excuses.
Just got a text…
Hi G, under different circumstances I might have taken you up on that offer but I'm currently seeing someone.
M
Well that was a surprise! I was thinking, it might have been a bit soon considering he’d just split from his wife last year… now I’m wondering if he had someone all along?? lol
No happy ending
No answer… 😢
Don’t regret putting it out there though. Makes me realise that when I’m interested in someone, I can’t read them lol
Dam shoulda left your undies for the other woman to find, so you can swoop in after she leaves him.
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Ahahaha you’re an egg 😂
Aries are never single so I am not surprised. I hate how difficult it is to find a fire sign man nowadays.
Sorry my lady. I hope you meet another sexy stud soon 🙂
How would you like a woman to approach you?
Do you like it direct or suttle?
Be* direct ----> to dominant water/feminine /Yin men (like myself)
(easier to know especially at a younger age that you are interested in us)
Be* indirect -----> to dominant fire/masculine/ Yang men
(direct is not necessary to them as they will pick up on the subtle and go after
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EDIT: I apologize because I did not recognize this was within the Aries* forum.
There are Aries Sun men that have a lot of water/earth feminine influence.
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The most I’ve done is ask someone for a a dance lol I wait for any interested party to approach me and I’d they don’t… oh well 🤷♀️ But I want to with this one