What now ??!?!

Hello Aries peeps,

I've been posting about this Aries guy quite a bit last year. To keep a long story short, we went on a few dates and ending updating for about a year before he moved away to NY for a year. We both knew he was moving away, this was planned before he met me.

I went to NY last year originally I was supposed to visit him but we broke it off a month prior to that. Anyway, I went with a friend and met up with him anyway, it ended in tears, probably the most horrible night of my life. I was a mess, drunk and emotional.

We moved on from this and a year went by so quickly! we kept in touch. Few messages now and then and the odd likes on Instagram.

The other night I was out at a Concert and put it on my Instagram, he liked the band too so this is how our conversation started:

Aries Guy: Big Raver - he replied to a story that I put up of the concert

Me: Join Me

Aries Guy: Still In NY! coming home on December 3rd

Me: Catch Up tea? no alcohol this time... or no

Aries Guy: Is it a good idea?

Me: Maybe not would like to hear how you got on

Aries Guy: Yeah sure let's do it

Obviously, I was drunk and felt really confident to ask him out for a cuppa tea?? like what was I thinking———?

My plan to play it hard and keep it cool and wait until he texts me went to shit... well he did text me but I felt like I was too easy—

the bit where he said is it a good idea?? im like cmonnnnnnnn and then he said sure let's do it

like what does he wants from me..

If you can't tell im obviously inlove with this aries guy

you felt for the retrogade maybe? well at least the date's on december 😆

Posted by LibraJackson

Hello Aries peeps,

I've been posting about this Aries guy quite a bit last year. To keep a long story short, we went on a few dates and ending updating for about a year before he moved away to NY for a year. We both knew he was moving away, this was planned before he met me.

I went to NY last year originally I was supposed to visit him but we broke it off a month prior to that. Anyway, I went with a friend and met up with him anyway, it ended in tears, probably the most horrible night of my life. I was a mess, drunk and emotional.

We moved on from this and a year went by so quickly! we kept in touch. Few messages now and then and the odd likes on Instagram.

The other night I was out at a Concert and put it on my Instagram, he liked the band too so this is how our conversation started:

Aries Guy: Big Raver - he replied to a story that I put up of the concert

Me: Join Me

Aries Guy: Still In NY! coming home on December 3rd

Me: Catch Up tea? no alcohol this time... or no

Aries Guy: Is it a good idea?

Me: Maybe not would like to hear how you got on

Aries Guy: Yeah sure let's do it

Obviously, I was drunk and felt really confident to ask him out for a cuppa tea?? like what was I thinking———?

My plan to play it hard and keep it cool and wait until he texts me went to shit... well he did text me but I felt like I was too easy—

the bit where he said is it a good idea?? im like cmonnnnnnnn and then he said sure let's do it

like what does he wants from me..

If you can't tell im obviously inlove with this aries guy

Apollo Creed

The conversation feels a bit boring, why do you put “or no” on your message, why aren’t there any jokes? And then what happened after he said “yeah sure”

Feels like you aren’t enjoying it at all, even if you do love him, is all this worth it, how good do you feel about yourself? You need a guy you can be yourself with, not nervous about whether he accepts you or not.

Plus something sounds a bit strange from his side, asking if something is a good idea? What does that even mean? He’s scared of something?

in the words of @heartoftopazz #awkward

Posted by AriesJo

The conversation feels a bit boring, why do you put “or no” on your message, why aren’t there any jokes? And then what happened after he said “yeah sure”

Feels like you aren’t enjoying it at all, even if you do love him, is all this worth it, how good do you feel about yourself? You need a guy you can be yourself with, not nervous about whether he accepts you or not.

Plus something sounds a bit strange from his side, asking if something is a good idea? What does that even mean? He’s scared of something?

Very true, I guess theres so much history and both of us are just nervous? well I am anyway.

Yeah I had a good think of what you said there, you're right I shouldn't be nervous but I guess I just like him too much?

I don’t like how it went. The convo.

Falllll all the way back now. Let him come to you. His lackluster response would have been enough for me. I also always advise women against asking men out, I know most here don’t agree but nah.

It does seem that you are constantly chasing him from your other threads. I think you need to move on and get interested in other men until this Aries makes a concentrated effort to chase you. If he isn't chasing you he isn't interested. Why can't you let him go———?

Posted by bkbella86

I don’t like how it went. The convo.

Falllll all the way back now. Let him come to you. His lackluster response would have been enough for me. I also always advise women against asking men out, I know most here don’t agree but nah.

I agree but most women are desperate.... Fact.

Posted by LibraSupreme

Posted by bkbella86

I don’t like how it went. The convo.

Falllll all the way back now. Let him come to you. His lackluster response would have been enough for me. I also always advise women against asking men out, I know most here don’t agree but nah.

I agree but most women are desperate.... Fact.

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Facts on facts on facts.

This has definitely crossed the "DESPERATE" line.