When an Aries loses his or her fire? what the stink? (Page 6)

Posted by LadyLuna19

Not an aries sun, but have the rising and I would suggest taking the time to recharge. Maybe its not a bad thing to lose the drive, more like taking a break from it. Like fire, when you take a breath you'll be blazing in no time

thank you. but this was not a brake this had gone on for years. no fire just ass inside. i can very close to killing myself a few times. i am doing way much better now since i first posted all this. a lot has happen since. then. this was my first post when i cam to dxp a year ago 😆

i posted this about a year and four months ago. it was when i first found dxp. i was so needing some help then. i got a lot of help here on dxp and made a lot of new friends. the first time in my life i didnt feel alone. DXP has been very good to me. so since people are posting on it again i though i would give an update since it has been a year and four months since i first joined. i am now divorce and that was the best thing i ever did for myself. The this huge stress is gone now. i do have my fire back its not huge but good size. this year life has so knocked me around a lot and some very strange stuff has happen to me. like an old crash from school popped up in my life. that thing had me acting weird, lol. i live by myself and still trying to get an incoming going. This month the money from the divorce will be all gone. so wish me luck on that. i am doing some tshirt designs and other projects to make money. the looking for a job didnt work out for me and i listen to other people too. i should have just trusted what myself was telling me. Really all is good or getting there. I hope the other rams who posted on here saying they were having the same problem are doing much better now too. Wow its been over a year with you guys. so funny. we should do a gift party hehe. just saying.

Posted by LadyLuna19

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by LadyLuna19

Not an aries sun, but have the rising and I would suggest taking the time to recharge. Maybe its not a bad thing to lose the drive, more like taking a break from it. Like fire, when you take a breath you'll be blazing in no time

thank you. but this was not a brake this had gone on for years. no fire just ass inside. i can very close to killing myself a few times. i am doing way much better now since i first posted all this. a lot has happen since. then. this was my first post when i cam to dxp a year ago 😆

Oh shoot lol my bad. Well I'm glad you're doing better, and nooooooo dont do that. We need more fiesty people in the world, aries can be such sweethearts and I'm sure you're one ❤

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ah thank you so much.

This may not solve the problem, but my aries always got an enery boost when she helped others. You are actionoriented if you get too introspective , you might end up in a real bad place.

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Posted by LadyLuna19

Not an aries sun, but have the rising and I would suggest taking the time to recharge. Maybe its not a bad thing to lose the drive, more like taking a break from it. Like fire, when you take a breath you'll be blazing in no time

thank you. but this was not a brake this had gone on for years. no fire just ass inside. i can very close to killing myself a few times. i am doing way much better now since i first posted all this. a lot has happen since. then. this was my first post when i cam to dxp a year ago 😆

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Yes, I also seriously threatened life with my death twice if it didn't start getting easier. It was way too hard for way too long. It really broke me. I also feel like i'm not drowning anymore, and that i am recovering on a raft... getting the sense that I had to now build my oars/sails myself out of nothing and save myself from here on out. the storm feels over, so time to create again. I think uranus in aries squeezed me so tight, so that i could let go of behaviour that wasn't serving me, and learn to love and respect myself at the core. I am very self assured now and i take my power from myself, not outside of me, which is amazing growth.

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Posted by LadyLuna19

Not an aries sun, but have the rising and I would suggest taking the time to recharge. Maybe its not a bad thing to lose the drive, more like taking a break from it. Like fire, when you take a breath you'll be blazing in no time

thank you. but this was not a brake this had gone on for years. no fire just ass inside. i can very close to killing myself a few times. i am doing way much better now since i first posted all this. a lot has happen since. then. this was my first post when i cam to dxp a year ago 😆

Yes, I also seriously threatened life with my death twice if it didn't start getting easier. It was way too hard for way too long. It really broke me. I also feel like i'm not drowning anymore, and that i am recovering on a raft... getting the sense that I had to now build my oars/sails myself out of nothing and save myself from here on out. the storm feels over, so time to create again. I think uranus in aries squeezed me so tight, so that i could let go of behaviour that wasn't serving me, and learn to love and respect myself at the core. I am very self assured now and i take my power from myself, not outside of me, which is amazing growth.

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yea, i did the same thing. i was starting to doubting myself for a while there and thought everyone know what was best for me. lol that was wrong. I learn one way of loving myself was to trust i knew what was best for me.

Posted by Parkourler

This may not solve the problem, but my aries always got an enery boost when she helped others. You are actionoriented if you get too introspective , you might end up in a real bad place.

i agree to a point. what happen to me was i had a virgo husband that was never happy no matter what did. Anything he bitch about i would fix. lol i so almost lost myself in that marriage.

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Posted by Parkourler

This may not solve the problem, but my aries always got an enery boost when she helped others. You are actionoriented if you get too introspective , you might end up in a real bad place.

i agree to a point. what happen to me was i had a virgo husband that was never happy no matter what did. Anything he bitch about i would fix. lol i so almost lost myself in that marriage.

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Well then you need to spend time with like minded people. surround yourself with uplifting people, with fellow Aries,who speak the same language and embrace your quirks. So avoid us taurusses like a plague.

I had a similar problem with my aries ex, she didnt appreciate my decadent hedonistic side, I am around fellow

foodies, and I am happy as fuck. Do that.

😆 first post i made when i first joined dxp. i have come a long way since then. 😆 well update. i lost everything. i will be starting all over again. i even moving back to where i was born.

i would say all the aries have come a long way since this post.

@ariesfire82

it took me a bit but i found my first forum i did when i first came to dxp. there was a lot of great tips on here that helped me out. the biggest was just that these people got me. the understanding helped the most. I have another tip. remember something you use to love to do but dont do anymore, Start doing it again. make yourself do it.

I love Tony Robbins. That has also been a big help.

it happens when they go for scorpios

Posted by virgoOPPP

it happens when they go for scorpios

it was not a scorp that did it to me. it was my virgo mother and my virgo husband who is now my ex. They would mash down my fire every time things were going great for me. They were narcissist before their fear ruled their life.