When an Aries loses his or her fire? what the stink? (Page 5)

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Hp199x
As an Aries, I must say physical activity is the most important thing. Being inactive due to the modern life style maybe the cause of one losing his or her fire. What you can do to regain that lost fire is to find a physical hobby (biking, running, mountain climbing, kick boxing,...) to get your blood flowing, your adrenaline pumping, your mind away from negative thought and you will think positively again.

I sooo miss the adrenaline high i use to get before they took haft my thyroid out. physical stuff was my number one way to deal with stress and clear my head. I love to push my body and see how far i could go, like a good run. But now i will get a sick feeling and some times my face gets white and i will crash for 3 to 4 hours after. so now i have to keep myself in check with that stuff. But you are so right in what you say.

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of course you do but you will eventually return - you haven't lost everything until your body is no longer on this earth - you are a warrior and was born to survive - so you must take it slow and find a new way around what you have lost - that is all - it is right there waiting for you to find it - so stop, rest, continue to climb, stop, rest, continue to climb ... seek and you will find the answers ...

Posted by tcta
ok - so there is then a reason she is not understood by others

1) she does not understand herself enough to communicate effectively

and

2) which is the one that I feel is more the correct one - is that the others are toxic for her and simply can not and will not ever be able to understand and therefore she is a black swan and needs to find her true family

2 hit home for me. The ones i care the most for, like my mom, i have accept she will never understand me. but it still hurts and i just have to live with that.



From the other post, yes it is a double edged sword - guilt on the one end for not complying/providing what she wants and guilt on the other end for doing just that.

And you do have to live with that - I was born into that as well and do understand that part completely because I am still living with it even though my mother has passed and I'm almost 60. I've lived with that my entire life and should be writing a book because I only hope to help others through this horrible mess.

I knew from a very early age that my family was not right - entirely dysfunctional - and I pulled away and tried to stay away but it is difficult. I survived well enough but I believe it was only because I did pull away. Had I not pulled away, I would still be living in the same small town like my siblings, sheltered and oblivious.

Feel free to PM me if you like to talk further.



Thank you so much. My mother was very good with the guilt trips. it was hard.

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Posted by Hp199x
As an Aries, I must say physical activity is the most important thing. Being inactive due to the modern life style maybe the cause of one losing his or her fire. What you can do to regain that lost fire is to find a physical hobby (biking, running, mountain climbing, kick boxing,...) to get your blood flowing, your adrenaline pumping, your mind away from negative thought and you will think positively again.

I sooo miss the adrenaline high i use to get before they took haft my thyroid out. physical stuff was my number one way to deal with stress and clear my head. I love to push my body and see how far i could go, like a good run. But now i will get a sick feeling and some times my face gets white and i will crash for 3 to 4 hours after. so now i have to keep myself in check with that stuff. But you are so right in what you say.

of course you do but you will eventually return - you haven't lost everything until your body is no longer on this earth - you are a warrior and was born to survive - so you must take it slow and find a new way around what you have lost - that is all - it is right there waiting for you to find it - so stop, rest, continue to climb, stop, rest, continue to climb ... seek and you will find the answers ...

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You are soo right on that. that why i am trying to get into Stem cells. its a long story, but i really think they can be a huge help to my problem.

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Posted by tcta
ok - so there is then a reason she is not understood by others

1) she does not understand herself enough to communicate effectively

and

2) which is the one that I feel is more the correct one - is that the others are toxic for her and simply can not and will not ever be able to understand and therefore she is a black swan and needs to find her true family

2 hit home for me. The ones i care the most for, like my mom, i have accept she will never understand me. but it still hurts and i just have to live with that.

From the other post, yes it is a double edged sword - guilt on the one end for not complying/providing what she wants and guilt on the other end for doing just that.

And you do have to live with that - I was born into that as well and do understand that part completely because I am still living with it even though my mother has passed and I'm almost 60. I've lived with that my entire life and should be writing a book because I only hope to help others through this horrible mess.

I knew from a very early age that my family was not right - entirely dysfunctional - and I pulled away and tried to stay away but it is difficult. I survived well enough but I believe it was only because I did pull away. Had I not pulled away, I would still be living in the same small town like my siblings, sheltered and oblivious.

Feel free to PM me if you like to talk further.



Thank you so much. My mother was very good with the guilt trips. it was hard.



educate yourself on human behaviors and it will help - guilt trips are a form of manipulation and it isn't right for anyone to treat anyone like that - she may be your mother/family but as I said early on in my life - I wouldn't let anyone else treat me that way so why would I let her do that to me ...

I have a way of coming across harsh - my Aries Mercury I think - so don't take it personally - I am just very passionate about this subject because of what I've dealt with

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Posted by Hp199x
As an Aries, I must say physical activity is the most important thing. Being inactive due to the modern life style maybe the cause of one losing his or her fire. What you can do to regain that lost fire is to find a physical hobby (biking, running, mountain climbing, kick boxing,...) to get your blood flowing, your adrenaline pumping, your mind away from negative thought and you will think positively again.

I sooo miss the adrenaline high i use to get before they took haft my thyroid out. physical stuff was my number one way to deal with stress and clear my head. I love to push my body and see how far i could go, like a good run. But now i will get a sick feeling and some times my face gets white and i will crash for 3 to 4 hours after. so now i have to keep myself in check with that stuff. But you are so right in what you say.

of course you do but you will eventually return - you haven't lost everything until your body is no longer on this earth - you are a warrior and was born to survive - so you must take it slow and find a new way around what you have lost - that is all - it is right there waiting for you to find it - so stop, rest, continue to climb, stop, rest, continue to climb ... seek and you will find the answers ...

You are soo right on that. that why i am trying to get into Stem cells. its a long story, but i really think they can be a huge help to my problem.

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do the research and if that will help you then do it - I don't think it would be harmful at all ...

you just have to come to grips with the fact that you can only take good care of yourself today and do what you can today - tomorrow it "might" be a bit better but you don't know that until tomorrow and if it isn't it's still ok - just have good "days" - one day at a time - life is good no matter what - cherish what you have now and be grateful

be a beautiful and healthy and good person!

To me, Aries losing her fire is a sign she's been entrapped in a spiral of familiar and predictable events. Thing is, rams never completely lose their fire, but feeling that they're losing some of it, dismays them tremendously. That's the point where she needs to welcome a major change and remind herself she'll always remain a silly baby ram inside that needs to experience and initiate. It would be great if she finds ways to achieve success and prosperity without it impairing the dynamism in life she's hoping for. 🙂

Not being in love also quenches her flames... doesn't have to be with a person, it could also be with an activity - you see, there are things an Aries cannot sacrifice... If she does, it's going to have negative consequences on the people around her as well...

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Posted by Hp199x
As an Aries, I must say physical activity is the most important thing. Being inactive due to the modern life style maybe the cause of one losing his or her fire. What you can do to regain that lost fire is to find a physical hobby (biking, running, mountain climbing, kick boxing,...) to get your blood flowing, your adrenaline pumping, your mind away from negative thought and you will think positively again.

I sooo miss the adrenaline high i use to get before they took haft my thyroid out. physical stuff was my number one way to deal with stress and clear my head. I love to push my body and see how far i could go, like a good run. But now i will get a sick feeling and some times my face gets white and i will crash for 3 to 4 hours after. so now i have to keep myself in check with that stuff. But you are so right in what you say.

of course you do but you will eventually return - you haven't lost everything until your body is no longer on this earth - you are a warrior and was born to survive - so you must take it slow and find a new way around what you have lost - that is all - it is right there waiting for you to find it - so stop, rest, continue to climb, stop, rest, continue to climb ... seek and you will find the answers ...

You are soo right on that. that why i am trying to get into Stem cells. its a long story, but i really think they can be a huge help to my problem.

do the research and if that will help you then do it - I don't think it would be harmful at all ...

you just have to come to grips with the fact that you can only take good care of yourself today and do what you can today - tomorrow it "might" be a bit better but you don't know that until tomorrow and if it isn't it's still ok - just have good "days" - one day at a time - life is good no matter what - cherish what you have now and be grateful

be a beautiful and healthy and good person!

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You have been so helpful in this post.

Posted by Fragrance
To me, Aries losing her fire is a sign she's been entrapped in a spiral of familiar and predictable events. Thing is, rams never completely lose their fire, but feeling that they're losing some of it, dismays them tremendously. That's the point where she needs to welcome a major change and remind herself she'll always remain a silly baby ram inside that needs to experience and initiate. It would be great if she finds ways to achieve success and prosperity without it impairing the dynamism in life she's hoping for. 🙂

Not being in love also quenches her flames... doesn't have to be with a person, it could also be with an activity - you see, there are things an Aries cannot sacrifice... If she does, it's going to have negative consequences on the people around her as well...

I so get what your saying. a lot of truth there. But here is the rub, sometimes sacrifice have to be made for family, mainly when it comes to kids. i do long for a major change but the effect it will have on my family kind makes that hard to get.

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Fragrance
To me, Aries losing her fire is a sign she's been entrapped in a spiral of familiar and predictable events. Thing is, rams never completely lose their fire, but feeling that they're losing some of it, dismays them tremendously. That's the point where she needs to welcome a major change and remind herself she'll always remain a silly baby ram inside that needs to experience and initiate. It would be great if she finds ways to achieve success and prosperity without it impairing the dynamism in life she's hoping for. 🙂

Not being in love also quenches her flames... doesn't have to be with a person, it could also be with an activity - you see, there are things an Aries cannot sacrifice... If she does, it's going to have negative consequences on the people around her as well...

I so get what your saying. a lot of truth there. But here is the rub, sometimes sacrifice have to be made for family, mainly when it comes to kids. i do long for a major change but the effect it will have on my family kind makes that hard to get.

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Hey... you're right. What you read was an opinion of a selfish single Aries 🙂

I think I understand although I don't have children...

But if I were you, I'd engage in an activity that involves a group of people like taking a course, learning a dance style you never imagined yourself mastering or practicing an uncommon hobby that manages to hold your interest because you feel challenged. Also communicating with people more (irl). I believe it's feasible in parallel with keeping a household 🙂

Relax your mind and allow delightful and happy thoughts to enter it... I hope you'll feel better real soon!

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Fragrance
To me, Aries losing her fire is a sign she's been entrapped in a spiral of familiar and predictable events. Thing is, rams never completely lose their fire, but feeling that they're losing some of it, dismays them tremendously. That's the point where she needs to welcome a major change and remind herself she'll always remain a silly baby ram inside that needs to experience and initiate. It would be great if she finds ways to achieve success and prosperity without it impairing the dynamism in life she's hoping for. 🙂

Not being in love also quenches her flames... doesn't have to be with a person, it could also be with an activity - you see, there are things an Aries cannot sacrifice... If she does, it's going to have negative consequences on the people around her as well...

I so get what your saying. a lot of truth there. But here is the rub, sometimes sacrifice have to be made for family, mainly when it comes to kids. i do long for a major change but the effect it will have on my family kind makes that hard to get.

Hey... you're right. What you read was an opinion of a selfish single Aries 🙂

I think I understand although I don't have children...

But if I were you, I'd engage in an activity that involves a group of people like taking a course, learning a dance style you never imagined yourself mastering or practicing an uncommon hobby that manages to hold your interest because you feel challenged. Also communicating with people more (irl). I believe it's feasible in parallel with keeping a household 🙂

Relax your mind and allow delightful and happy thoughts to enter it... I hope you'll feel better real soon!

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Your right i will be working on that this year. Thank you

I understand how you feel!

Last year I was feeling just like that beggining of the year. So out of the blue I decided to run a marathon! All the trainning and the dedication it needed brought my fire back. I had a challenge, a goal! I was shinning during the months it took to train for it.

This year Im again feeling numb...I started coloring mandalas and Im planning on taking a language course. But what I really want is to travel somewhere or hike or somethig physical!!

Anyway, find a challenge. Something not easy and pursuit it. You're an Aries. This will make you be you again!

Posted by IamAries
I understand how you feel!

Last year I was feeling just like that beggining of the year. So out of the blue I decided to run a marathon! All the trainning and the dedication it needed brought my fire back. I had a challenge, a goal! I was shinning during the months it took to train for it.

This year Im again feeling numb...I started coloring mandalas and Im planning on taking a language course. But what I really want is to travel somewhere or hike or somethig physical!!

Anyway, find a challenge. Something not easy and pursuit it. You're an Aries. This will make you be you again!

Thank you and good luck on your stuff too. We should throw a huge Aries party. lol

I posted this in a virgo post and thought i should also post it here. I have been thinking a lot about what a lot of have said. this is about my husband. I really love him we have had great moments together but the are very few. so i am going to put it here, because i am really not sure what to do about him. so here it is.

my virgo husband

A lot of the things you say do not apply to my Virgo husband. we been married since 1989.

-He remembers things when he feels like it, or i am mad at him. Getting his attention is like pulling teeth from a turtle. (I dont even try any more)

-affectionate gaze, once in a blue moon. He has cried for me. most likely the only one that has ever did that.

- no not always around, when I need him for some reason he is to busy helping others.

- he always talking to me about his day and his stuff, never ask me about mine. criticizing a lot about ever thing. So I had always took care of it all.

- his jokes and teasing are way for him to tell what he doesnt like that i am doing without hurting my feeling Lol

- still not there for me. but he has tried and it looks like he going to pop a gut.

- never ask me anything only when he doesnt want to make the decision. When make the decision WOW criticize flying around like a mad bee.

- he fixes things that i want to fix and when i need his help, not there.

- he is getting a little better at picking out gifts for me. there were some really good ones, but those where when i was really upset with him.

- yea everyday i would hear about his day. i just life the fact he really could care about my day. so i have stop trying to tell him about anymore.

- random thought a and feeling about stuff he doesnt like. I use to fix or take care of everything he would complain about. I stop doing that because it was taking way to much out of me.

- he keeps promises he makes with other people but always breaks the ones with me. Gives a line of bull why.

- i am done with asking him to tell me something nice too. he just cant tell me something nice on his own but has no problem with pointing out the bad points.

- he knows stuff about me but he doesnt understand me even after all these years, why i say that, because he wouldn't do things that really hurt me again and again if he did understand. The funny part he knows not to do it. He just doesnt understand the pain it puts me through because its not a big deal to him.

But one thing he is 'Great Father' to our daughters. I love how he is with the girls. He is a hard worker and very very smart about all kinds of things. He is also very attentive in bed.

Whats an Aries to do?

Mars is in Pisces and so our ruler is making us more reflective... although we maybe trying to do what we normally do and people maybe seeing is still being seemingly normal we feel we have lost our fire.

When mars enters Aries we will feel much better. I know I just had a surgery and am personally getting back in the shape I was before and it has been interesting. I have reminded myself it does not happen all in one day. I believe it will movie in to Aries next month. We will all regain our fire... on top of that this Capricorn has been pritty harsh...

PM

Damn!!! I just created this account because I am feeling eerily similar to you @Op and I wanted to get involved in this talk!! Seeing this post/forum is one of the most excitement I had in a while! So, yeah, I need help too!

Posted by RoseAries3
Damn!!! I just created this account because I am feeling eerily similar to you @Op and I wanted to get involved in this talk!! Seeing this post/forum is one of the most excitement I had in a while! So, yeah, I need help too!

I know, it was great when there were a lot of other aries that were understanding what i was going through. You should their stories in the post too. It has been very helpful. I happy to see it will help others too.

lol I'm a watery aries and always feel like my flame is going out

Posted by WitchmitchAries
What do i do if I feel like i have lost my fire? I really am feeling like the living dead with out it. Any Aries got some tips on getting my fire back?

Hi boo hope all is well.

@WitchmitchAries, if you don't mind sharing (if not PM ?)

How are you, is your fire back?

I've seen many good advices here

I have been sick this week lol. But i have been slowly getting my fire back. You guys were a huge help. I have been dreaming again. Thinking up plans again. The biggest thing is has been doing thing that are fun which i have needed for a long ass time. Big thank you guys. I am mad that i got sick this week. i was on a roll for a bit there LOL. so funny

So I made this discord server for horoscopes. Its a place we can voice chat or just live chat. I also have a fortune telling bot my friend made for me. Its fun to play with. I want to invite everyone to come join. So we can all talk with each other. If you don't want to talk or don't have a mic it has chats you can use. Please come and check it out. I would love to live talk with you guys. let me know what you think.

https://discord.gg/EHW9PGP

You're probably discouraged, or unhealthy. Eat well, go out in sunshine, gather together some things that inspire you, a quote book or something, and have a vision board. Really know your goals, and really have a plan towards them.

Also, try something new every week. Small or big. It's something to look forward to.

Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
You're probably discouraged, or unhealthy. Eat well, go out in sunshine, gather together some things that inspire you, a quote book or something, and have a vision board. Really know your goals, and really have a plan towards them.

those are very good tips. i have been working on them. Thank you

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Posted by RumiL
hey I'm aries sun/scorpio moon too! (:

..IDK lol.. since when have you been feeling this way, because I'm feeling the same.. kinda.. My energy levels fluctuate a lot.. with transit Neptune and mars (in pisces) making aspects to my natal placements :/

since 2011 after i lost my shop. but lately i have been playing video games with this Aries guy and it seem to help. I find myself wanting more of that spark. i guess that is the best way to say it. another reason why i post. hoping for more tips on what i should do

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I've been complaining about the exact same Thing for the past 2 years. Just yesterday I told a friend I don't know how to get my spark back. I actually called it a spark and constantly feel like my fire is out. The struggle is real and it's torture. I've really been battling internally because of it. I have apathy and no energy or motivation to do anything or go anywhere. ... I used to constantly be on the go... here there everywhere... meeting new people and lovers was easy. I felt alive. I've got Scorpio rising.

I don't know how to help myself.

It is because of the many strong long term transits (Pluto, Uranus) we've had these past few years. I dont know if there are any Aries that dont feel beat down atm. Low and emotional energy.

I think this energy has been trying to make us persevere in order to then re-ignite us in a different way.

Pretty soon Aries will be called out to lead, these transits are preparing us, and we better be ready when the time comes.

Failure is not an option.

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Posted by RumiL
hey I'm aries sun/scorpio moon too! (:

..IDK lol.. since when have you been feeling this way, because I'm feeling the same.. kinda.. My energy levels fluctuate a lot.. with transit Neptune and mars (in pisces) making aspects to my natal placements :/

since 2011 after i lost my shop. but lately i have been playing video games with this Aries guy and it seem to help. I find myself wanting more of that spark. i guess that is the best way to say it. another reason why i post. hoping for more tips on what i should do

I've been complaining about the exact same Thing for the past 2 years. Just yesterday I told a friend I don't know how to get my spark back. I actually called it a spark and constantly feel like my fire is out. The struggle is real and it's torture. I've really been battling internally because of it. I have apathy and no energy or motivation to do anything or go anywhere. ... I used to constantly be on the go... here there everywhere... meeting new people and lovers was easy. I felt alive. I've got Scorpio rising.

I don't know how to help myself.

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there were some great tips in here from the others that help. The big thing for me was being understood here on dxp. that help the most for me.

Posted by RamOnFire1
It is because of the many strong long term transits (Pluto, Uranus) we've had these past few years. I dont know if there are any Aries that dont feel beat down atm. Low and emotional energy.

I think this energy has been trying to make us persevere in order to then re-ignite us in a different way.

Pretty soon Aries will be called out to lead, these transits are preparing us, and we better be ready when the time comes.

Failure is not an option.

I am ready. Bring it.

Posted by RamOnFire1
It is because of the many strong long term transits (Pluto, Uranus) we've had these past few years. I dont know if there are any Aries that dont feel beat down atm. Low and emotional energy.

I think this energy has been trying to make us persevere in order to then re-ignite us in a different way.

Pretty soon Aries will be called out to lead, these transits are preparing us, and we better be ready when the time comes.

Failure is not an option.

When do these transits end?

Uranus leaves Aries January 2 2018

I know quite a few Aries and we all seem to feel the same way.

I am looking forward to this ending as well... until then such as life...

This is alot of the world as well and what it has been going though in general. It has greatly been affecting the economy.

This has made many Aries feel stuck... and have sudden changes in directions. We all have been feeling it and it i not easy. Most of my Aries friends in real life know I am into astrology and I just let them know. We just keep feeling like we are on empty.

Piscesmoon

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Posted by RamOnFire1
It is because of the many strong long term transits (Pluto, Uranus) we've had these past few years. I dont know if there are any Aries that dont feel beat down atm. Low and emotional energy.

I think this energy has been trying to make us persevere in order to then re-ignite us in a different way.

Pretty soon Aries will be called out to lead, these transits are preparing us, and we better be ready when the time comes.

Failure is not an option.

I am ready. Bring it.

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And the Gemini rising comes out... lol

Piscesmoon

Posted by piscesmoon2
Uranus leaves Aries January 2 2018

I know quite a few Aries and we all seem to feel the same way.

I am looking forward to this ending as well... until then such as life...

This is alot of the world as well and what it has been going though in general. It has greatly been affecting the economy.

This has made many Aries feel stuck... and have sudden changes in directions. We all have been feeling it and it i not easy. Most of my Aries friends in real life know I am into astrology and I just let them know. We just keep feeling like we are on empty.

Piscesmoon

I have been doing much better since find dxp and a aries guy i play videos games with. the biggest thing for me was being understood. that helped a lot getting through all this.

I just Google uranus in aries for the transit.... This is what I found at the end of the one article. A quote by lady gaga: “Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.”

This is EXACTLY how it's played out. My life has been completely destabilised since 2011... to the point where I have moved 17 times in the last 3 years. And the moving situation and not being able to find a steady home is just the tip of the iceberg. There were many other things that were traumatising to me. Finances and not being able to find steady lasting work.

My life is still not stable.... but at least im not freaking out about it anymore. I am the calm amongst the storm. I've found a happy living space and I don't feel like a refugee fleeing one unsafe space to another anymore, but I'm still treading water on the money and job front taking random jobs just to make ends meet. And I have had no energy to muster for joy and fun.... the motivation has disappeared too because of all the heavy stuff I've had to deal with.

I feel broken. I'm not who I was 5 years ago and I frequently grieve the light happy state of my life from then.

It's been the hardest 5 years of my life.

Posted by lotuslily
I just Google uranus in aries for the transit.... This is what I found at the end of the one article. A quote by lady gaga: “Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.”

This is EXACTLY how it's played out. My life has been completely destabilised since 2011... to the point where I have moved 17 times in the last 3 years. And the moving situation and not being able to find a steady home is just the tip of the iceberg. There were many other things that were traumatising to me. Finances and not being able to find steady lasting work.

My life is still not stable.... but at least im not freaking out about it anymore. I am the calm amongst the storm. I've found a happy living space and I don't feel like a refugee fleeing one unsafe space to another anymore, but I'm still treading water on the money and job front taking random jobs just to make ends meet. And I have had no energy to muster for joy and fun.... the motivation has disappeared too because of all the heavy stuff I've had to deal with.

I feel broken. I'm not who I was 5 years ago and I frequently grieve the light happy state of my life from then.

It's been the hardest 5 years of my life.

I so understand. Right now i am working on a way to make money. thing not so good in the marrage department. trying to work on it but i heart not in even though i do love my husband. The video games help. talk with others here on dxp has been a big help. i also starting to reseach some thing and hopefully, the projects i start in may work out. i have been feel like a failer. its like every projecy or thing i do has been falling apart. if i am doing something for someone else it go great, but for myself it falls to peices. grrr

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Posted by lotuslily
I just Google uranus in aries for the transit.... This is what I found at the end of the one article. A quote by lady gaga: “Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.”

This is EXACTLY how it's played out. My life has been completely destabilised since 2011... to the point where I have moved 17 times in the last 3 years. And the moving situation and not being able to find a steady home is just the tip of the iceberg. There were many other things that were traumatising to me. Finances and not being able to find steady lasting work.

My life is still not stable.... but at least im not freaking out about it anymore. I am the calm amongst the storm. I've found a happy living space and I don't feel like a refugee fleeing one unsafe space to another anymore, but I'm still treading water on the money and job front taking random jobs just to make ends meet. And I have had no energy to muster for joy and fun.... the motivation has disappeared too because of all the heavy stuff I've had to deal with.

I feel broken. I'm not who I was 5 years ago and I frequently grieve the light happy state of my life from then.

It's been the hardest 5 years of my life.

I so understand. Right now i am working on a way to make money. thing not so good in the marrage department. trying to work on it but i heart not in even though i do love my husband. The video games help. talk with others here on dxp has been a big help. i also starting to reseach some thing and hopefully, the projects i start in may work out. i have been feel like a failer. its like every projecy or thing i do has been falling apart. if i am doing something for someone else it go great, but for myself it falls to peices. grrr

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Yeah that has made me give up on a lot. And I've been taking life so seriously. I really don't feel like an aries anymore, let alone a fire sign. I've been staying at home, like a hermit, and I learned to crochet to keep myself busy. It's definitely getting better, but I have I tense self esteem issues and self confidence issues. I thought just today "who would actually be interested in Me?" My self worth is at an all time low because I feel like I've failed massively at life.

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I just Google uranus in aries for the transit.... This is what I found at the end of the one article. A quote by lady gaga: “Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.”

This is EXACTLY how it's played out. My life has been completely destabilised since 2011... to the point where I have moved 17 times in the last 3 years. And the moving situation and not being able to find a steady home is just the tip of the iceberg. There were many other things that were traumatising to me. Finances and not being able to find steady lasting work.

My life is still not stable.... but at least im not freaking out about it anymore. I am the calm amongst the storm. I've found a happy living space and I don't feel like a refugee fleeing one unsafe space to another anymore, but I'm still treading water on the money and job front taking random jobs just to make ends meet. And I have had no energy to muster for joy and fun.... the motivation has disappeared too because of all the heavy stuff I've had to deal with.

I feel broken. I'm not who I was 5 years ago and I frequently grieve the light happy state of my life from then.

It's been the hardest 5 years of my life.

I so understand. Right now i am working on a way to make money. thing not so good in the marrage department. trying to work on it but i heart not in even though i do love my husband. The video games help. talk with others here on dxp has been a big help. i also starting to reseach some thing and hopefully, the projects i start in may work out. i have been feel like a failer. its like every projecy or thing i do has been falling apart. if i am doing something for someone else it go great, but for myself it falls to peices. grrr

Yeah that has made me give up on a lot. And I've been taking life so seriously. I really don't feel like an aries anymore, let alone a fire sign. I've been staying at home, like a hermit, and I learned to crochet to keep myself busy. It's definitely getting better, but I have I tense self esteem issues and self confidence issues. I thought just today "who would actually be interested in Me?" My self worth is at an all time low because I feel like I've failed massively at life.

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Well we need to pull ourselves up and have fun. thats what we need to do. Stop letting other get in our way. you with me?

Well we need to pull ourselves up and have fun. thats what we need to do. Stop letting other get in our way. you with me?





Haha. Yes. I'm with you. I'll join your chat thingy when I'm back from my little getaway this week. I'm keen to connect.

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Well we need to pull ourselves up and have fun. thats what we need to do. Stop letting other get in our way. you with me?





Haha. Yes. I'm with you. I'll join your chat thingy when I'm back from my little getaway this week. I'm keen to connect.



Yea another one comes over to the darkside.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
With sour cream, guacamole, tomatoes, and love cheddar cheese, with beans.heaven.

Yes!!!

Posted by piscesmoon2
Uranus leaves Aries January 2 2018

I know quite a few Aries and we all seem to feel the same way.

I am looking forward to this ending as well... until then such as life...

This is alot of the world as well and what it has been going though in general. It has greatly been affecting the economy.

This has made many Aries feel stuck... and have sudden changes in directions. We all have been feeling it and it i not easy. Most of my Aries friends in real life know I am into astrology and I just let them know. We just keep feeling like we are on empty.

Piscesmoon

Also, once Uranus leaves Aries it will be going into Taurus which is Aries, 2nd house.

There'll be some upheaval with finances. Everyone stay low and watch the money. 😉

Fire suns always make a comeback. You just need one little thing to attract or inspire you and that flame will be bigger then ever!

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Fire suns always make a comeback. You just need one little thing to attract or inspire you and that flame will be bigger then ever!

The biggest thing that helped a lot for me was being understood.

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Posted by Soul
Fire suns always make a comeback. You just need one little thing to attract or inspire you and that flame will be bigger then ever!

The biggest thing that helped a lot for me was being understood.

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Wut?

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Fire suns always make a comeback. You just need one little thing to attract or inspire you and that flame will be bigger then ever!

The biggest thing that helped a lot for me was being understood.

Wut?

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what do you mean what? since coming to dxp i have had more people understanding me then i have had in my whole life. that alone has helped me a lot. lol

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Oh. 4 months ago 😐

lol thats ok. it turns out that others been having this problem too and they find the post very helpful. i liked your post with the music.

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Posted by piscesmoon2
Uranus leaves Aries January 2 2018

I know quite a few Aries and we all seem to feel the same way.

I am looking forward to this ending as well... until then such as life...

This is alot of the world as well and what it has been going though in general. It has greatly been affecting the economy.

This has made many Aries feel stuck... and have sudden changes in directions. We all have been feeling it and it i not easy. Most of my Aries friends in real life know I am into astrology and I just let them know. We just keep feeling like we are on empty.

Piscesmoon

Also, once Uranus leaves Aries it will be going into Taurus which is Aries, 2nd house.

There'll be some upheaval with finances. Everyone stay low and watch the money. 😉

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OMG. .. what do you Mean? My finances have been in upheaval for the past 3 Years!

Aaaaaaand? How are we all feeling now that Uranus is out of Aries for a li'l bit? I feel like I've healed and have become so strong! I have uncertainty around me still, but i'm so chilled about it nowadays... like it's enhanced my manifestation abilities because i keep calm and centred and know it will all figure itself out and I must just got with the flow!

How are you all doing?

It`s eclipse season, i think there a LOT of negative energy around for a lot of people. It won't last long!

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Aaaaaaand? How are we all feeling now that Uranus is out of Aries for a li'l bit? I feel like I've healed and have become so strong! I have uncertainty around me still, but i'm so chilled about it nowadays... like it's enhanced my manifestation abilities because i keep calm and centred and know it will all figure itself out and I must just got with the flow!

How are you all doing?

well the divorce was such a good thing for me. i feel like i dont have this stress anymore. i lost 25 pounds this year and was not even trying. i making an income still not off the ground yet. there is this other aries guy that got me all fired up. i have not felt thats alive in years and years extra. my head seems to becoming more clear, not sure if thats the right for it. i use to get this feeling like there were weights on my feet causing me to sink under the water. i was having a very hard time keeping my head up. but now its more of a feeling on a raft and drifting above the water. no ores or sails yet. but way better then being pulled under the water 😆