The 5th house of love/marriage.

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oh my goodness. So I just realized after looking through some of the 7th house marriage/partnershps.

5th house is Important too for playing and goofing around with your lover.

so what is in your 5th house.

I saw my 5th and thought ...oh that's WHY. you need your HEART (5th house connection) with your lover. as much as 7th house marriage is important.

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I can't find anything in depth that discusses 5th house to connection to your marriage partner, not with Sharpe's video (she talks about 5th but only what you need to express, but it isn't really to marriage)

because 5th house is important with your luck and love, so this guy kind of explains it.
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I'll watch the video right after I post. I think the 5th house is really important for the reason you mentioned. It fits my experience.

My 5th house is ruled by Leo and it's intercepted by Virgo. People I've dated who had things in their chart that fit into my 5th house were particularly fun for me to interact with. It's been great in friendships too. For example, I have a friend who is a Leo with Virgo Venus who I really enjoy talking to - the expression "it's a pleasure to talk to you" fits perfectly - immense enjoyment.
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I have an empty 5th house ruled by Gemini, intercepted by Cancer 6th, also empty. I don't really get along with either sign that well. My mom is a Gem amd my sister is Cancer. I love my mom but she can get a little crazy and overbearing, and I don't speak with my sister at all.

Mr Aqua has nothing in in either of those houses for me, although his Gem MC is a few degrees from my 5th house cusp.



So for me, the theory doesn't fly.
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I'll watch the video right after I post. I think the 5th house is really important for the reason you mentioned. It fits my experience.

My 5th house is ruled by Leo and it's intercepted by Virgo. People I've dated who had things in their chart that fit into my 5th house were particularly fun for me to interact with. It's been great in friendships too. For example, I have a friend who is a Leo with Virgo Venus who I really enjoy talking to - the expression "it's a pleasure to talk to you" fits perfectly - immense enjoyment.
keep in mind he maybe Vedic,

but the ideas/still the same.

friendship is one thing though. it's not the same as romance/love.

I don't see it as the same. I feel a lot of Platonic energy from a lot of men, even though I know they have desired me, but I felt nothing, absolutely nothing. even if I try to "force it" it won't come out. it's like BLAH.

I enjoy friendhsp talk with lots of people, but I want nothing to do with them romantically. just an example.
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platonic /friendship - awesome hey buddy!! let's just keep a "distance" but LOL it up.

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My fifth is in Taurus

Is that why I'm attracted to Taurus

N in luck in love lol


but you are a scorpio, so you automatically gravitate to Taurus energy, and you have Taurus moon and Capricorn rising right?

maybe the 7th house is much more impact for you.
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I have an empty 5th house ruled by Gemini, intercepted by Cancer 6th, also empty. I don't really get along with either sign that well. My mom is a Gem amd my sister is Cancer. I love my mom but she can get a little crazy and overbearing, and I don't speak with my sister at all.

Mr Aqua has nothing in in either of those houses for me, although his Gem MC is a few degrees from my 5th house cusp.



So for me, the theory doesn't fly.


maybe the 7th house is the most important though. 5th house is fun and games, but it isn't really "deep" as 8th house,

and 7th house is not a deep house/ like the water houses, but it is about sharing/partnership and marriage. and the 8th intercepted with combination 8th/7th is the true love aspect. it has to be a strong connection and only scorpio house has that ability to make it "stick" and last.
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I'll watch the video right after I post. I think the 5th house is really important for the reason you mentioned. It fits my experience.

My 5th house is ruled by Leo and it's intercepted by Virgo. People I've dated who had things in their chart that fit into my 5th house were particularly fun for me to interact with. It's been great in friendships too. For example, I have a friend who is a Leo with Virgo Venus who I really enjoy talking to - the expression "it's a pleasure to talk to you" fits perfectly - immense enjoyment.
keep in mind he maybe Vedic,

but the ideas/still the same.

friendship is one thing though. it's not the same as romance/love.

I don't see it as the same. I feel a lot of Platonic energy from a lot of men, even though I know they have desired me, but I felt nothing, absolutely nothing. even if I try to "force it" it won't come out. it's like BLAH.

I enjoy friendhsp talk with lots of people, but I want nothing to do with them romantically. just an example.
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True, he likely is talking about it in Vedic. I had some trouble understanding what he was saying.

5th house is the house of pleasure, is how I learned about it, so it's what a person finds fun, romance, creativity and also children. So the 5th house can be involved in friendship thanks to the pleasure aspect, it isn't just romantic and sexual.

http://www.astrology.com/article/houses-fifth.html

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I'll watch the video right after I post. I think the 5th house is really important for the reason you mentioned. It fits my experience.

My 5th house is ruled by Leo and it's intercepted by Virgo. People I've dated who had things in their chart that fit into my 5th house were particularly fun for me to interact with. It's been great in friendships too. For example, I have a friend who is a Leo with Virgo Venus who I really enjoy talking to - the expression "it's a pleasure to talk to you" fits perfectly - immense enjoyment.
keep in mind he maybe Vedic,

but the ideas/still the same.

friendship is one thing though. it's not the same as romance/love.

I don't see it as the same. I feel a lot of Platonic energy from a lot of men, even though I know they have desired me, but I felt nothing, absolutely nothing. even if I try to "force it" it won't come out. it's like BLAH.

I enjoy friendhsp talk with lots of people, but I want nothing to do with them romantically. just an example.


True, he likely is talking about it in Vedic. I had some trouble understanding what he was saying.

5th house is the house of pleasure, is how I learned about it, so it's what a person finds fun, romance, creativity and also children. So the 5th house can be involved in friendship thanks to the pleasure aspect, it isn't just romantic and sexual.

http://www.astrology.com/article/houses-fifth.html

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yes, youre right. that 5th house /kind of like the 11th. different but similar. I like that description you said, "involved in friendship" due to the pleasure aspect.

so interesting, with 8th /2nd house, the house of possessions and materialism, and inheritances/death/taxes.

the most "valued" in this life for human beings to feel happiness and security.

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actually in order for life to be pleasurable for both 11th/5th house, even 7th house of partnership,

you have to have the foundation of 2nd/8th house, well established, and with that you feel you can "conquer" anything, even love and marriage because of the help /aid of those two strong houses.

we are always seeking to feel secure, by employment, career, talents into money, anything to give us the tools, to help us.

I don't feel that any of the houses will do anything in terms of happiness if those 2 houses aren't secured/harmonious in our lives.
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I have an empty 5th house ruled by Gemini, intercepted by Cancer 6th, also empty. I don't really get along with either sign that well. My mom is a Gem amd my sister is Cancer. I love my mom but she can get a little crazy and overbearing, and I don't speak with my sister at all.

Mr Aqua has nothing in in either of those houses for me, although his Gem MC is a few degrees from my 5th house cusp.



So for me, the theory doesn't fly.


maybe the 7th house is the most important though. 5th house is fun and games, but it isn't really "deep" as 8th house,

and 7th house is not a deep house/ like the water houses, but it is about sharing/partnership and marriage. and the 8th intercepted with combination 8th/7th is the true love aspect. it has to be a strong connection and only scorpio house has that ability to make it "stick" and last.
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Yeah, we don't have any 7/8th house overlays either (except his Pluto is in my late 7th).

My sun is in his 11th house and moon is in his 4th but other than that, no real house overlays.

Seems our bond is all in planetary aspects.



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My 5th house is ruled by Scorpio and completely intercepts sag.

I have Pluto and Jupiter in my 5th. But Jupiter is on the cusp of 5th and 6th. Meh I'll count it as 5th because it's still physically in the 5th.
I don't have any good information on Jupiter 5th house, that is an interesting house for Jupiter to be in, I would imagine it's expanded and beneficial.

but in scorpio? you'd have to do some extensive research, TF.

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I have an empty 5th house ruled by Gemini, intercepted by Cancer 6th, also empty. I don't really get along with either sign that well. My mom is a Gem amd my sister is Cancer. I love my mom but she can get a little crazy and overbearing, and I don't speak with my sister at all.

Mr Aqua has nothing in in either of those houses for me, although his Gem MC is a few degrees from my 5th house cusp.



So for me, the theory doesn't fly.


maybe the 7th house is the most important though. 5th house is fun and games, but it isn't really "deep" as 8th house,

and 7th house is not a deep house/ like the water houses, but it is about sharing/partnership and marriage. and the 8th intercepted with combination 8th/7th is the true love aspect. it has to be a strong connection and only scorpio house has that ability to make it "stick" and last.
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Hmm... yes and no--

To get into the 7th or 8th house you must go first

through the 5th... once in the 8th house of death, taxes

*endurance*, and the real business of living, you call on

memories of the 5th to remind you why you began with

this person in the first place.

The fifth may be a bit enchanted... but with a purpose.



5th House LEO-- Sun

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I'll watch the video right after I post. I think the 5th house is really important for the reason you mentioned. It fits my experience.

My 5th house is ruled by Leo and it's intercepted by Virgo. People I've dated who had things in their chart that fit into my 5th house were particularly fun for me to interact with. It's been great in friendships too. For example, I have a friend who is a Leo with Virgo Venus who I really enjoy talking to - the expression "it's a pleasure to talk to you" fits perfectly - immense enjoyment.
keep in mind he maybe Vedic,

but the ideas/still the same.

friendship is one thing though. it's not the same as romance/love.

I don't see it as the same. I feel a lot of Platonic energy from a lot of men, even though I know they have desired me, but I felt nothing, absolutely nothing. even if I try to "force it" it won't come out. it's like BLAH.

I enjoy friendhsp talk with lots of people, but I want nothing to do with them romantically. just an example.


True, he likely is talking about it in Vedic. I had some trouble understanding what he was saying.

5th house is the house of pleasure, is how I learned about it, so it's what a person finds fun, romance, creativity and also children. So the 5th house can be involved in friendship thanks to the pleasure aspect, it isn't just romantic and sexual.

http://www.astrology.com/article/houses-fifth.html



yes, youre right. that 5th house /kind of like the 11th. different but similar. I like that description you said, "involved in friendship" due to the pleasure aspect.

so interesting, with 8th /2nd house, the house of possessions and materialism, and inheritances/death/taxes.

the most "valued" in this life for human beings to feel happiness and security.



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Good point about the 5th and 11th houses, with the Leo and Aquarius axis, and the 8th and 2nd - that covers many things in life that humans value and need.

Thanks! Yes, I think it definitely can be involved in friendship. When I looked at the similarities between the charts of friends of mine who I have a special kind of enjoyment with, I found the Leo and Virgo connection. I have my South Node in Leo in the 5th house, but that's it for Leo things in my chart. I have Pluto in Virgo but it's in my 6th house. I also have a lot of 6th house planets including Venus so I'm sure that adds to my affinity with Virgo-influenced people for friendship and romance.

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I have:

Pisces in the 5th house

Aries in the 7th house

😕 I have a lot of very close friends that are Aries and we work amazingly well together. Always a huge amount of admirability and always on a high - but, I've never felt romantic feelings.

I have had romantic feelings for Pisces MANY times and been in deep relationships.



😐 Not sure what that means for me. My husband has Sun and Venus in 12th house.... Maybe that counts...lol!


I definitely think it can count that your husband has a Pisces influence strongly in his chart with the 12th house placements as a tie to your 5th house - what you enjoy, romance, etc. I don't think it has to always be the exact sign that rules the house, it might even be, using PIsces in your example, a person with a strong Neptune conjunction (say, Neptune conjunct sun). That's what I've noticed, anyway, when looking at charts and what people like.



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I have an empty 5th house ruled by Gemini, intercepted by Cancer 6th, also empty. I don't really get along with either sign that well. My mom is a Gem amd my sister is Cancer. I love my mom but she can get a little crazy and overbearing, and I don't speak with my sister at all.

Mr Aqua has nothing in in either of those houses for me, although his Gem MC is a few degrees from my 5th house cusp.



So for me, the theory doesn't fly.


maybe the 7th house is the most important though. 5th house is fun and games, but it isn't really "deep" as 8th house,

and 7th house is not a deep house/ like the water houses, but it is about sharing/partnership and marriage. and the 8th intercepted with combination 8th/7th is the true love aspect. it has to be a strong connection and only scorpio house has that ability to make it "stick" and last.


Hmm... yes and no--

To get into the 7th or 8th house you must go first

through the 5th... once in the 8th house of death, taxes

*endurance*, and the real business of living, you call on

memories of the 5th to remind you why you began with

this person in the first place.

The fifth may be a bit enchanted... but with a purpose.



5th House LEO-- Sun



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yes, what I pretty much said in my other post.

8th/2nd house are houses of ENDURANCE imo.

and if you don't have that....



the "lighter" fun houses are not reachable.

you have to go DEEP into the nitty gritty, taking care of business, and if you are free of those, you are FREE to pursue happiness.
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but make no mistake, the bigger you are, the harder you fall...so be careful too of Saturn. Always be humble as well in your dealings with others/ in the workplace, everywhere you go.

lol just the wisdom I've seen through others and people everywhere. They accrue happiness, with humbleness.

yes there's huge successes and big egos, but it will catch up to them if they don't be careful and be humble.

which is why Astrologers seem to bow down to Saturn.

edit -they are afraid of what Saturn will do. but Saturn is good to you if you pass the tests of every Saturn lesson.

Jeeez...we never get a freaking BREAK!!
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Oh my...

I have Pluto, Saturn, and Mars in Scorpio in my 5th house... could this be why I feel magnetic attraction to them so f- ing much?? Ugh it's hard to explain but VERY REAL lol


to who, Abby? Scorpio men?

maybe that's because of your Taurus naturally, and I think you also have Taurus venus?

and that mars/Saturn scorpio ect is gonna amplify that.

are you with a scorpio man now?

edit - but you have cancer asc....



wouldn't that also mean you are attracted to Capricorn energy? with those other two signs intercepting it? Aquarius and Sagittarius on either side....

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Oh my...

I have Pluto, Saturn, and Mars in Scorpio in my 5th house... could this be why I feel magnetic attraction to them so f- ing much?? Ugh it's hard to explain but VERY REAL lol
You have a lot of "tough" planets in one house. Do you have kids? If so how is your relationship with them? 5th house is also the house of children.
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Interesting. I have one kitty and one puppy and we get along like peas and carrots : - P

Other than that, no humans yet. Have only met a few I've considered procreating with but luckily my moon in Gemini has come up with reasons why they weren't right for me lol pfft

Eventually... I do believe I'll find Daddy. He is just still getting ready for us I guess 😉
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Oh my...

I have Pluto, Saturn, and Mars in Scorpio in my 5th house... could this be why I feel magnetic attraction to them so f- ing much?? Ugh it's hard to explain but VERY REAL lol


to who, Abby? Scorpio men?

maybe that's because of your Taurus naturally, and I think you also have Taurus venus?

and that mars/Saturn scorpio ect is gonna amplify that.

are you with a scorpio man now?

edit - but you have cancer asc....



wouldn't that also mean you are attracted to Capricorn energy? with those other two signs intercepting it? Aquarius and Sagittarius on either side....

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My ex fiance was the closest I found to a perfect match so far. Double Scorpio with Cap rising. I seem to befriend Caps very quickly and easily but have never dated one. There is always a very almost familial feel with them. I have had two Cap men come at me pretty strongly lately but I'm not interested when I should be lol both have a lot to offer it seems.

Aquarius is the sign that has taken me longest to understand and I still feel like I just don't get them most of the time lol Sag men I never had a good run in with however I found out the guy I've been swooning over at work is a Sag so that fizzled lol my current SO is a Virgo Aqua moon Aries rising mercury Virgo Venus Libra mars Sag can you guess what annoys me the most about him?? This is just for funsies... he's not a bad guy lol
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Oh my...

I have Pluto, Saturn, and Mars in Scorpio in my 5th house... could this be why I feel magnetic attraction to them so f- ing much?? Ugh it's hard to explain but VERY REAL lol


to who, Abby? Scorpio men?

maybe that's because of your Taurus naturally, and I think you also have Taurus venus?

and that mars/Saturn scorpio ect is gonna amplify that.

are you with a scorpio man now?

edit - but you have cancer asc....



wouldn't that also mean you are attracted to Capricorn energy? with those other two signs intercepting it? Aquarius and Sagittarius on either side....


My ex fiance was the closest I found to a perfect match so far. Double Scorpio with Cap rising. I seem to befriend Caps very quickly and easily but have never dated one. There is always a very almost familial feel with them. I have had two Cap men come at me pretty strongly lately but I'm not interested when I should be lol both have a lot to offer it seems.

Aquarius is the sign that has taken me longest to understand and I still feel like I just don't get them most of the time lol Sag men I never had a good run in with however I found out the guy I've been swooning over at work is a Sag so that fizzled lol my current SO is a Virgo Aqua moon Aries rising mercury Virgo Venus Libra mars Sag can you guess what annoys me the most about him?? This is just for funsies... he's not a bad guy lol

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oh ok, thanks.

but you're not with him though (the double scorpio) so, it's obviously not that good. To me, personally, if it didn't work and you're not with him, (barring any terrible toxic energy in the relationship --- people can be together and FIGHT to be together due to family but they have a terrible toxic relationship - they stay for the children ect)

ah I see!! the Capricorn rising,too. Also, your current is Aquarius moon. How is that btw?? do you get along allright? that might have a strain on your Scorpio mars and Venus Taurus.

unless you're an 11th house Venus Taurus, or have a strong 11th house. I like the venus to moon energy, I notice that people love the venus to moon energy, in relationships from what I have seen.

I think my Virgo brother in law is a scorpio moon because my sag sister is a scorpio venus. but she is an 11th houser, (personal planets there) so that's probably why she is OK with the libra moon (I don't know his rising but he might be a scorpio moon OR libra moon)
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I have:

Pisces in the 5th house

Aries in the 7th house

😕 I have a lot of very close friends that are Aries and we work amazingly well together. Always a huge amount of admirability and always on a high - but, I've never felt romantic feelings.

I have had romantic feelings for Pisces MANY times and been in deep relationships.



😐 Not sure what that means for me. My husband has Sun and Venus in 12th house.... Maybe that counts...lol!


I definitely think it can count that your husband has a Pisces influence strongly in his chart with the 12th house placements as a tie to your 5th house - what you enjoy, romance, etc. I don't think it has to always be the exact sign that rules the house, it might even be, using PIsces in your example, a person with a strong Neptune conjunction (say, Neptune conjunct sun). That's what I've noticed, anyway, when looking at charts and what people like.





Thank you for sharing your insight CopperDove, that makes complete sense to me and it's very true. We both speak the same language and have the same style of expressing love and our outlook on life.

We DO have Neptune conjunct Neptune in our synastry chart!! And I also have: Venus, Pluto and NN in 12th house.

It makes sense 😄

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You're welcome. 🙂

Neptune stays in each sign 14 years, so if you're born within a few years of someone, Neptunes will be conjunct (if allowing up to 7 degrees for the aspect), but the rest of the tie to Pisces and Neptune is more personalized in your chart so cool, that seems quite strong.

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You're welcome. Thank you too. It's interesting to read about real life examples of these things!

I often wonder the same thing about planets that are generational. I think it likely only matters a lot if Neptune does more than just conjunct Neptune in someone else's chart - if along with that it forms aspects that the person doesn't have natally that are either positive or negative, for example.

Not to say that Neptune conjunctions do nothing, certainly the description you posted is good and can link a generation together. Maybe some people do well with people of their own generation with Neptune, and others do not thanks to the way their charts are, so that could in part explain why some people are consistently drawn to older or younger people, aside from the usual psychological theories about why people are not "into" people of their own age group.

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My 5th house is in Scorpio. It is loaded, with my moon, Jupiter, Pluto and NN there!



I like my 7th and 8th house in Capricorn better :p
I think 5th house in Scorpio can in part link to enjoyment of exploring esoteric subjects like astrology. Maybe it gives a more playful quality to it, too, taking away some of the somber energy Scorpio can sometimes impart in people. It fits how your posts can come across - a happy quality even if the subject is kind of serious or heavy.