Alpha Males: What are the usual signs they have? (Page 2)

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here's a good article which really explains alpha male....

Beta male: Looks to quickly get into a relationship, as if he is desperate for a girlfriend.

Alpha male: Is not only not desperate for women, he is never desperate for anything. When you are not desperate for women's attention or affection, it's implied that you have plenty of it - which puts you at ease, and excites women.

Beta male: Believe it or not - he has a big ego. But it backfires on him because he is too sensitive and insecure regarding everyone's opinion of him. So he constantly is trying to prove himself by qualifying - or stating his qualifications.

Alpha male: Never feels like he must prove himself. His ego is his ally. Here is the truth: Big egos are a result of low-esteem, lack of control over emotion, and too many female feelings. A man who is truly confident in himself never needs to lash out at someone who insulted his ego.



http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Alpha-Male-vs-Beta-Male-Traits-Know-Difference-2

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hmmm i dunno it's kind of mixed, really...

and here is the number one, because men and women are easily jealous.

Beta male: Gets jealous really easily when he sees his girl talking or flirting with another guy.

Alpha male: Is supremely confident in his ability and status. If his girlfriend is talking to other guys, he goes to talk with other girls. He laughs at the thought of his girlfriend choosing another guy over him.

Tip: If "she" is talking to another guy, or obviously trying to get your dander up - simply tell her and the guy, "You guys would make an great couple!" And then go talk to some women.


Honestly, flirting is a no -no though. Talking is fine, like having discussions, but flirting, like hey baby doll, i love you, ect and batting eyelashes and stuff, is supremely crossing the line though.
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Tip: If "she" is talking to another guy, or obviously trying to get your dander up - simply tell her and the guy, "You guys would make an great couple!" And then go talk to some women.





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Yep. That means that that girl is obviously wanting to get more attention from her man or something, i dont know, not really sure how that goes. Getting her man JEALOUS. *shakes head*
The man will see right through that!!

and vice versa too, not just for men.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
I'm folding my laundry as we speak. How's that for beta? 😄



You know you're a Virgo when the thought of someone responsibly folding their laundry is smexy lol. 😉
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is that really true for Virgo rising/Virgo suns/moons?

because my hubby has virgo rising and does not fold his own clothes. I do it.
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Posted by DonJohnson
I have to laugh my head off at any idiot trying to pass of little quirks as either ALPHA OR BETA.
Wow you believe in astrology? NOT ALPHA! JP Morgan believes in it, I guess he's not alpha. You're a moron.
Wow you argue with girls? NOT ALPHA! Sean Connery not only argues with his wife, he slaps her. AND SHE STILL STAYS.
None of that matters....... Is the man a natural leader? Do people pay special attention to him? Does he have his choice of women?
Those are the basic qualifications for alpha.
He doesn't have to fit your feminist agenda or your old deluded criteria. If he plows prime time tail for free and people listen to his words. He is alpha by definition.



we get what you mean. But Sean Connery hitting his wife is really not attractive. Alpha or beta, a man should have complete control of his emotions if he's angry, or better yet, test out his future wife to see if she's the easily angry type, or to see if she's psycho or something. Someone who fits your "temperment." If she doesn't fit your temperment, then it's no one's fault but their own for choosing a partner whose temperment doesn't suit them. Compatibility is very very important.
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Posted by DonJohnson

yes mangina.

regardless of how he looks..... the girl he's banging listens to what he says..... and he just chewed out his inferior like a boss.

Hitler was goofy looking too.




The girl he's banging is the same type of girls you're banging-- insecure, with daddy issues and no will of their own! They were pushovers when you found them, so that's not an accomplishment precisely, but it gets the job done. Feeding your delusions, that is. Whose leader do you consider yourself to be exactly? Are you the leader of me? Do you see any guys in here bending over for you? I'd like to see your ways around a woman for once, see how far that'll get you...

And Hitler? Wow,, I wonder where all this obsession with power you have stems from. I kinda have a clue too. I mean if at least it was about the pussy, it would be healthier.... but this, this is just getting sick.

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I have to laugh my head off at any idiot trying to pass of little quirks as either ALPHA OR BETA.
Wow you believe in astrology? NOT ALPHA! JP Morgan believes in it, I guess he's not alpha. You're a moron.
Wow you argue with girls? NOT ALPHA! Sean Connery not only argues with his wife, he slaps her. AND SHE STILL STAYS.



we get what you mean. But....
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We do?

I don't.... How many men don't slap their wives around, and they still stay?

You only see what you want to see, Don.
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Alpha, a definition from real life and not a dictionary: We have some real alpha males in my family, though they are basically just old farts totally delusional about their own super-powers. At every family gathering, like around the Christmas table, they always try to provoke someone into an argument with them, just to prove (to themselves) that they still got it, while everyone else is rolling their eyes at them in awkwardness. Don't get me wrong, this "alpha" DOES own that table, but not because he's got everyone's respect, but simply because he's the loudest one there!

The point of the story-- the Alpha male is basically a persistan, annoying, stubborn, unevolved, old fart. They are the laughing stock of the family. But Don represents a new type of alpha male (wannbe, that is). He comes with a narcissistic personality disorder of sorts. Not very alpha imo. Leader? Possibly. There will always be sheeps and prostitutes who need guidance.

Btw, what do you call a man who's neither a follower nor a leader of men, and who's completely devoid of any sense of obligation towards them?



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Geminis are alphas imo.




lack conviction imo.

Geminis are the best presenters and they can play an alpha very well... but more often than not they fall short on conviction. Followers can't follow a leader who is always flip flopping. Mit Romney is gemini rising.

a lot of alpha males in history are taurus. they are so certain of their destination, it's intoxicating as a leader. People would die for their ideals, even if ludicrous.

Malcolm X

Hitler

Heaven's gate leader

Jim Jones

Sadam Hussein

Ho Chi Minh

etc
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I think people receive what they desire, and leadership/power were the desires of the Taureans listed above imho. Geminis, do not seem to desire to lead or have followers, Taurus imo do. I think Taureans get off on that type of "power," especially after they've had a taste of it. I don't really determine if someone is an alpha by the amount of followers they have. The conviction was a representation of the desires.

Gemini's imho can be very influential and very independent thinkers.
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I consider my husband an alpha and I can't necessarily equate it to his sun alone, his aspects are whoa. And that why I think people have basically named all the sun signs. I suspect the aspects involved with this.

My husband is very similar to how starlover described her father.

Here are a few situations:

A man was harassing me on the bus. I came home and told my husband. He is an intense listener. He told me he would walk me to the bus stop. He not only walked me to the bus stop, he got on and gave a PSA to all the men that he heard their punk asses like fucking with women and if he hears that anyone of them has fucked with me, he will be waiting and will dust the concrete with their ass. He added that he will be there every evening so, try him. No one said a word, not even the bus driver. Was not bother anymore.

Poor little Jack and Dianne, to american kids doing the best that they can. Scratch together some money to get the carburetor repaired. The mechanic, J.R. with the gold chain and the long slick black hair in a ponytail, shitted us. Took our money and did not do shit. I say to my husband, "Oh no, what are we going to do?" My husband steps out of the car. He tells J.R. the car isn't fixed, fix the car. They are profanities and threats exchanged. J.R. threatens to call the police. My husband said, "then I might as well start whooping your ass now and I'm gonna put your ass in the hospital. J.R. to my fucking amazement today, fixed the car beautifully and my husband somehow trusted and knew he would.

There are many more situations like this. Women look at him like he's a god. I heard a woman shout "damn!" at the sight of him. Our house is the house where the men gather. He's not the boss at work but, no one bosses him around -ever. He's the strong silent type, smoldering. Raised on a farm.
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Posted by VenusAquarius
I consider my husband an alpha and I can't necessarily equate it to his sun alone, his aspects are whoa. And that why I think people have basically named all the sun signs. I suspect the aspects involved with this.

My husband is very similar to how starlover described her father.

Here are a few situations:

A man was harassing me on the bus. I came home and told my husband. He is an intense listener. He told me he would walk me to the bus stop. He not only walked me to the bus stop, he got on and gave a PSA to all the men that he heard their punk asses like fucking with women and if he hears that anyone of them has fucked with me, he will be waiting and will dust the concrete with their ass. He added that he will be there every evening so, try him. No one said a word, not even the bus driver. Was not bother anymore.

Poor little Jack and Dianne, to american kids doing the best that they can. Scratch together some money to get the carburetor repaired. The mechanic, J.R. with the gold chain and the long slick black hair in a ponytail, shitted us. Took our money and did not do shit. I say to my husband, "Oh no, what are we going to do?" My husband steps out of the car. He tells J.R. the car isn't fixed, fix the car. They are profanities and threats exchanged. J.R. threatens to call the police. My husband said, "then I might as well start whooping your ass now and I'm gonna put your ass in the hospital. J.R. to my fucking amazement today, fixed the car beautifully and my husband somehow trusted and knew he would.

There are many more situations like this. Women look at him like he's a god. I heard a woman shout "damn!" at the sight of him. Our house is the house where the men gather. He's not the boss at work but, no one bosses him around -ever. He's the strong silent type, smoldering. Raised on a farm.



Wow, VenusAquarius, that sounds wonderful and gooey dreamy!!
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Geminis are alphas imo.




lack conviction imo.

Geminis are the best presenters and they can play an alpha very well... but more often than not they fall short on conviction. Followers can't follow a leader who is always flip flopping. Mit Romney is gemini rising.

a lot of alpha males in history are taurus. they are so certain of their destination, it's intoxicating as a leader. People would die for their ideals, even if ludicrous.

Malcolm X

Hitler

Heaven's gate leader

Jim Jones

Sadam Hussein

Ho Chi Minh

etc



I think people receive what they desire, and leadership/power were the desires of the Taureans listed above imho. Geminis, do not seem to desire to lead or have followers, Taurus imo do. I think Taureans get off on that type of "power," especially after they've had a taste of it. I don't really determine if someone is an alpha by the amount of followers they have. The conviction was a representation of the desires.

Gemini's imho can be very influential and very independent thinkers.




once again, deviating from the definition. you are trying to put your own interpretation on it.

independence isn't alpha.

A desire to lead and he who does lead, is alpha. Period.
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Ha, I do follow my own definitions. There's alpha males of every sign in that case.
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Got it Don! In that case Omega male is more appealing imo.

1. omega male


The polar opposite of the Alpha Male. Omega Males can have friends and close acquaintances but prefer to accomplish things on their own without the help of a group. Omega Males generally don't belong to any cliques and have no desire to be the leader or most outstanding of said clique. Omega Males have relations with people from all groups and carry a resourcefulness and cunning (sometimes strength) to get a job done with their own skill. This being said, an omega male can have great pride without it manifesting as "ego." (There are always exceptions.

An Alpha Male MUST absolutely be perceived by his peers as the toughest, most popular, and smartest. An Omega Male cares little for this recognition...but knows that he is all those things and more.

Alpha males must have the support of his "boys." This can be the foundation for many shallow and superficial relationships. An Omega Male needs support from time to time, but has few true friends who know him intimately and generally shuns shallow acquaintences.

Two sides of the same coin....both being very effective in accomplishing goals.

In Animals:

Two Rams are butting heads while the female watches. The winner who mates is the stongest and therefore the Alpha Male.

Wait...A third ram runs out of the woods and mates with the female while the two males are fighting. THAT is the omega male.

In Humans:

Alpha Male: John Stewart
Omega Male: Steven Colbert
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Posted by DonJohnson
lol there are people that have met me in real life here.

they might not want the fire on dxp, but let me assure you if i wasn't who i am.... they'd talk about it.


Seems like if they realy exist, they should be TALKING about you being "all that", instead of being quiet BECAUSE you're all that! In the case of the latter, all we have to rely on is yor word. How convenient, lmao!

Furthermore, meeting a person irl once or twice does not mean you know how and who they really are!
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Posted by lisabethur8

he does have a point.

Hitler was scary!! No one dared to go against him back then. Everyone was cowering in fear.

But he had people who were loyal to him to the end. No matter if he were evil or good.

Same with jesus christ.....

interesting.


What is the point exactly? None of that had anything to do with Hitler being an alpha, it had to do with circumstances of the times, and the propaganda machine, which Hitler invented himself and by doing so, invented an image of himself (just like Don is doing on DXP) .

Privately, his most favoured sex act was being humiliated and peed on by his mistress. Very alpha indeed, lol.

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Posted by DonJohnson

You don't even know how social interaction works. Do you have aspergers?

Naturally if a girl hooks up with a guy over the board wants to brag about it to everyone on the same board and destroy her reputation.



Another convenient Catch-22 from Don.

LMAO @ "every point you have put forth has been deconstructed". That's funny because so far, you haven't delivered anything but your big words! Just saying'... 😉
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Posted by lisabethur8
here's a good article which really explains alpha male....

Beta male: Looks to quickly get into a relationship, as if he is desperate for a girlfriend.

Alpha male: Is not only not desperate for women, he is never desperate for anything. When you are not desperate for women's attention or affection, it's implied that you have plenty of it - which puts you at ease, and excites women.

Beta male: Believe it or not - he has a big ego. But it backfires on him because he is too sensitive and insecure regarding everyone's opinion of him. So he constantly is trying to prove himself by qualifying - or stating his qualifications.

Alpha male: Never feels like he must prove himself. His ego is his ally. Here is the truth: Big egos are a result of low-esteem, lack of control over emotion, and too many female feelings. A man who is truly confident in himself never needs to lash out at someone who insulted his ego.



http://www.modernmalelife style .com/Article/Alpha-Male-vs-Beta-Male-Traits-Know-Difference-2


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I didn't need the explanation above between alpha and beta male to say that all you Internet badboys who are sitting behind a computer talking about how many girls you do/get and the size of your penis are all no life losers who probably get nothing in real life. A real man, especially an alpha, doesn't need to flaunt how many women he gets or the size of his penis to bunch of strangers on the net. How pathetic is that. It even looks pathetic! Real men like an alpha gets women all the time. It's so mundane and he knows it, which is why he doesn't talk about it. People usually talk big when they aren't getting something. Mr. Johnson, I hope you know how stupid you look talking big and trying to prove your manhood to bunch of strangers. And Mr. Enfant, you posting a pic of your penis is not short of pathetic either, given that people post fake pics all the time.
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actually i do rock Dolce T-shirts for the ladies. They see a man in a Dolce T. They know what time it is.



now how could it possibly be logical to spend $ 350 on a t-shirt?? lol smh




#1. i don't spend 350. I get them at 50-70 bucks a pop thru importers. authentic.

#2. 50 bucks to me ain't a thing.
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I am guilty of spending too much money on a piece of clothing. It happened only a few times when I paid the full price since I always look for discounts. There are so many good discounted stores in US, I would just feel foolish if I paid full price for all the goodies I want to have.