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Do you have oppositions with your personal planets?
How to Manage Oppositions Between Personal Planets
Balancing oppositions between personal planets like Venus and Mars involves understanding their contrasting energies. Focus on integrating their qualities by setting boundaries and practicing self-awareness. Over time, you can develop healthier ways to express both planets, making it easier to handle conflicts and find harmony within yourself.
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Taurus sun opposite scorpio moon. A constant emotional confliction is always ongoing in my mind ?
no. i'm not that lucky.
Cancer mars opposite cap Neptune.
It will depend on the planets and the houses in the opposition.
Capricorn Venus will take a serious pratical approach in love. Taking relationships, pleasures, foods and anything venus related seriously with discipline.
Cancer Mars would act in a passive way more emotional, nurturer and home loving.
Cap/Cancer opposition is like father/mother relationship back in the days. Cap Works in the office/Cancer takes care of the home and etc...
Posted by SoulOfABird
I only have mars opposite saturn.I feel like my energy is very low so when I do get some energy I try to do as much as I can lol. Otherwise I dont feel this aspect too much.
What is your mars? Mine is low energy already, lol, I feel the pain.
Posted by Koniuchaa
If we count Chiron, I have Mercury opposite ChironNo clue how I handle it.
I haven't looked into Chiron very much, it's wounding, right? Where you feel pain?
Posted by Impulsv
Yes many
I do too, venus/mars is closest by degree. I also have sun/rising, moon/mercury, moon/pluto, and mars/neptune.
Aqua Mercury in 6th vs Leo Mars in 12th.
Both square midheaven!
Still trying to decide whether to work in a field that nurtures my intellect and is secure and practical or following my real passion. Can't find a balance for both 😢
I have libra mars/aries venus. My aries feel like wanting to throat punch someone but my librat mars will disagree. You need to balance that scale.
Idk if that even make sense to you. 😆
? Yes, it does. Are you a Gemini or a Sag? Hahah. Do you date a lot? I've read the venus/mars opposition is a player aspect.
Posted by aaponte511
Taurus sun opposite scorpio moon. A constant emotional confliction is always ongoing in my mind ?
Oof, do you feel misunderstood often? I think that's the hardest part for my oppositions, I have yet to meet someone who meets both needs.
Posted by raad182
It will depend on the planets and the houses in the opposition.Capricorn Venus will take a serious pratical approach in love. Taking relationships, pleasures, foods and anything venus related seriously with discipline.
Cancer Mars would act in a passive way more emotional, nurturer and home loving.
Cap/Cancer opposition is like father/mother relationship back in the days. Cap Works in the office/Cancer takes care of the home and etc...
Mars in the 3rd and venus in the 9th, I'm unsure of how it plays out in my houses. Yes, I swing back and forth between work and home, taking care of my partner and them taking care of me. I've heard that I can be cold or extremely loving, also.
Posted by goatpuke
moon opposite pluto and saturn opposite asci feel like yeah i have a problem w/ getting close to others
Moon opposite pluto here too. I do too, I never trust someone with my emotions. Pluto conjunct mercury in scorpio doesn't help the paranoia. Haaa.
Posted by mariaxvee
Aqua Mercury in 6th vs Leo Mars in 12th.Both square midheaven!
Still trying to decide whether to work in a field that nurtures my intellect and is secure and practical or following my real passion. Can't find a balance for both 😢
Ohh, are you interested in caring for others in some capacity?
I have libra mars/aries venus. My aries feel like wanting to throat punch someone but my librat mars will disagree. You need to balance that scale.
Idk if that even make sense to you. 😆
? Yes, it does. Are you a Gemini or a Sag? Hahah. Do you date a lot? I've read the venus/mars opposition is a player aspect.
I'm a Gemini, though I wish I was a Sag, but Sags sucks with communication, so let's just stick to Gemini, ok?
Nope, I don't date many, cos I hate going out for dates. It gave me anxiety. 😆
What else? 😛
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Hahah, hey now. I love Gemini's! I need more in my life. I'm a Sag, Gemini rising and mercury dominate. 🙂
Ah usually I get bored, even with cap venus and cancer mars. ?
Lol sorry for all the questions! I blame scorpio mercury. What's your rising?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
i am an opposition haha
that being said, i handle me better now that I'm a little older.
I have libra mars/aries venus. My aries feel like wanting to throat punch someone but my librat mars will disagree. You need to balance that scale.
Idk if that even make sense to you. 😆
? Yes, it does. Are you a Gemini or a Sag? Hahah. Do you date a lot? I've read the venus/mars opposition is a player aspect.
I'm a Gemini, though I wish I was a Sag, but Sags sucks with communication, so let's just stick to Gemini, ok?
Nope, I don't date many, cos I hate going out for dates. It gave me anxiety. 😆
What else? 😛
Hahah, hey now. I love Gemini's! I need more in my life. I'm a Sag, Gemini rising and mercury dominate. 🙂
Ah usually I get bored, even with cap venus and cancer mars. ?
Lol sorry for all the questions! I blame scorpio mercury. What's your rising?
Sag with venus in Cap? I smell danger! 😆
Sags, no matter any placements, has the tendency to get bored easily. I am not even surprise. Lol!!!!
Don't try to dig me with that mercury. Won't happen. Ok? Understood? Good. Damn, am i high on weed or something?
I am a Leo rising. Rawr......
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What?! I'm an angel. 😉 hahaha.
I would never....so, tell me about your relationship with you parents. Hahahah
Are you close with a lot of fire/air signs? Your chart should be drawing them in like crazy lol
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
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That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
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That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
I have libra mars/aries venus. My aries feel like wanting to throat punch someone but my librat mars will disagree. You need to balance that scale.
Idk if that even make sense to you. 😆
? Yes, it does. Are you a Gemini or a Sag? Hahah. Do you date a lot? I've read the venus/mars opposition is a player aspect.
I'm a Gemini, though I wish I was a Sag, but Sags sucks with communication, so let's just stick to Gemini, ok?
Nope, I don't date many, cos I hate going out for dates. It gave me anxiety. 😆
What else? 😛
Hahah, hey now. I love Gemini's! I need more in my life. I'm a Sag, Gemini rising and mercury dominate. 🙂
Ah usually I get bored, even with cap venus and cancer mars. ?
Lol sorry for all the questions! I blame scorpio mercury. What's your rising?
Sag with venus in Cap? I smell danger! 😆
Sags, no matter any placements, has the tendency to get bored easily. I am not even surprise. Lol!!!!
Don't try to dig me with that mercury. Won't happen. Ok? Understood? Good. Damn, am i high on weed or something?
I am a Leo rising. Rawr......
What?! I'm an angel. 😉 hahaha.
I would never....so, tell me about your relationship with you parents. Hahahah
Are you close with a lot of fire/air signs? Your chart should be drawing them in like crazy lol
All Sags told me they were the angels. I wonder who told them that? Bless their delusional hearts. Shrugs...
My relationship with my parents, ok so where do I start?
I was clingy when I was a small lil girl, but being raised by a Cap mom and a Leo dad, it's more like we were so close yet feels so far away but now, it has changed. We are no longer staying together, yet our hearts felt so close and they both, are my bff now.
My dad has a Gemini moon while my mom has an Aqua moon. Ayyye, why am I telling you all this—
Yeah, I'm like always attracting that water bearer and the centaur. Water signs seems to hate me? Idk..haha! Earth signs, I love them too, as long as they don't try to con me for money. 😆
How about chu?
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Hahaha. Just things I tell myself to feel better. ?
That's interesting. I was a clingy child too! Only to my dad though, my mom and I don't have a relationship. She is emotionally abusive so I cut her out of my life for my health. My dad, however, is amazing. The strongest man that I know! He is all Cap almost all the way, sag moon, gemini rising. My mom is a Sag with a leo moon.
My dad is my best friend still, he helps ground me.
What is your moon? I attract mostly fire signs, but lately earth signs! I have a taurus moon. My boyfriend right now is a taurus sun, cap moon, gemini venus, aries mars. It's amazing watching us take turns at freaking out about commitment. ?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
You have Neptune/Venus aspect as well? Really?
Lol, yes we are delusional. I have my venus trine my neptune. It sucks! 😄
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Hahah! Yes! My venus is lit up like an awful christmas tree that you didn't want. ?
Posted by Dead_Kermit
Nope, no opposition. Feeling all high and mighty the rebellion got crushed, even better, never truly established when the house of air claimed the throne 😉
Witchcraft!
Posted by SoulOfABird
I only have mars opposite saturn.I feel like my energy is very low so when I do get some energy I try to do as much as I can lol. Otherwise I dont feel this aspect too much.
What is your mars? Mine is low energy already, lol, I feel the pain.
My mars is Libra in the 7th house. ?Not sure if that's why Im low energy
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Yes 🙂 cancer and libra are considered difficult mars placements. I'm emotional and you're indecisive. 😛
I have libra mars/aries venus. My aries feel like wanting to throat punch someone but my librat mars will disagree. You need to balance that scale.
Idk if that even make sense to you. 😆
? Yes, it does. Are you a Gemini or a Sag? Hahah. Do you date a lot? I've read the venus/mars opposition is a player aspect.
I'm a Gemini, though I wish I was a Sag, but Sags sucks with communication, so let's just stick to Gemini, ok?
Nope, I don't date many, cos I hate going out for dates. It gave me anxiety. 😆
What else? 😛
Hahah, hey now. I love Gemini's! I need more in my life. I'm a Sag, Gemini rising and mercury dominate. 🙂
Ah usually I get bored, even with cap venus and cancer mars. ?
Lol sorry for all the questions! I blame scorpio mercury. What's your rising?
Sag with venus in Cap? I smell danger! 😆
Sags, no matter any placements, has the tendency to get bored easily. I am not even surprise. Lol!!!!
Don't try to dig me with that mercury. Won't happen. Ok? Understood? Good. Damn, am i high on weed or something?
I am a Leo rising. Rawr......
What?! I'm an angel. 😉 hahaha.
I would never....so, tell me about your relationship with you parents. Hahahah
Are you close with a lot of fire/air signs? Your chart should be drawing them in like crazy lol
All Sags told me they were the angels. I wonder who told them that? Bless their delusional hearts. Shrugs...
My relationship with my parents, ok so where do I start?
I was clingy when I was a small lil girl, but being raised by a Cap mom and a Leo dad, it's more like we were so close yet feels so far away but now, it has changed. We are no longer staying together, yet our hearts felt so close and they both, are my bff now.
My dad has a Gemini moon while my mom has an Aqua moon. Ayyye, why am I telling you all this—
Yeah, I'm like always attracting that water bearer and the centaur. Water signs seems to hate me? Idk..haha! Earth signs, I love them too, as long as they don't try to con me for money. 😆
How about chu?
Hahaha. Just things I tell myself to feel better. ?
That's interesting. I was a clingy child too! Only to my dad though, my mom and I don't have a relationship. She is emotionally abusive so I cut her out of my life for my health. My dad, however, is amazing. The strongest man that I know! He is all Cap almost all the way, sag moon, gemini rising. My mom is a Sag with a leo moon.
My dad is my best friend still, he helps ground me.
What is your moon? I attract mostly fire signs, but lately earth signs! I have a taurus moon. My boyfriend right now is a taurus sun, cap moon, gemini venus, aries mars. It's amazing watching us take turns at freaking out about commitment. ?
Ahhh, so we both were raised by Caps. I am sorry to hear about your rs with your mom. 😢
I have your mom's moon. Leo moon...lmaooo! But, I'm a Gemini, okay. So don't have to worry about that. I love Taurus moon but you guys can be pretty stubborn. 😆
I'm now talking to a Sag with a Virgo moon and he's a Libra rising. He's more grounded compared to my ex Sag who has his moon in Aries. Grrrr
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Was your mom very business oriented, or cold? I perceived my dad to be cold, now I know that he expresses his feeling horribly. Hahah. It's all good, can't change the past, ya know?
I love leo moons still! Two of my sisters are and we're very close, even if you leo moons are dramatic 😛 hahah. They're cancer suns too, that probably changes it. Emotional and explosive little things! I dig my heels in when I'm pushed ahah, it annoys my equally stubborn taurus bff. She's an aries rising, moon, mercury, venus girl. ? also, calling me stubborn, with that aries venus, girl! Lol, I know you are too! Hahah
I think Sag's are great to date, if they have something grounding them. Can't have two runners together hahah.
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
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You both have 12th house moon! I do too! It's the hardest placement for me, by far. Mine is taurus! That's a very interesting chart, I want to interpret it haha.
Posted by Dead_Kermit
Nope, no opposition. Feeling all high and mighty the rebellion got crushed, even better, never truly established when the house of air claimed the throne 😉Witchcraft!
You surely meant: which craft? 😉
Doesn't really matter though for all the secret is in the thrust.
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Is it ever a dull day when you're talking to an aqua? ?
Posted by Koniuchaa
If we count Chiron, I have Mercury opposite ChironNo clue how I handle it.
I haven't looked into Chiron very much, it's wounding, right? Where you feel pain?
Me either.. I am thinking I should look into the whole opposition Chiron thing cause I have 3 opp Chiron :/
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My chiron is square moon and mercury, opposite saturn. I'm just gonna guess that I have mommy issues. ?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
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For comparison sake:
Sun - Sagittarius in 7th
Moon - Taurus in 12th
Mercury - Scorpio in 6th
Venus - Capricorn in 9th
Mars - Cancer in 3rd
Jupiter - Libra in 5th
Saturn - Aquarius in 9th (conjunct MC)
Uranus - Capricorn in 8th
Neptune - Capricorn in 8th
Pluto - Scorpio in 6th
North node - Sagittarius in 7th
Chiron - Leo in 4th
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
You both have 12th house moon! I do too! It's the hardest placement for me, by far. Mine is taurus! That's a very interesting chart, I want to interpret it haha.
But bull can swim right? At least, it is not that bad. 😆
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Hahah that would be if the bull knew it was even in water. Oh 12th house, most of the time I don't even know I should be swimming. ;P
Sun opp Mars
Sun opp Saturn
Moon opp Neptune
Mercury opp Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Mars opp Chiron
Jupiter opp Asc
Neptune opp Asc
idk what it all means but im an opposed muthafucker lol i think these are all major aspects.
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
For comparison sake:
Sun - Sagittarius in 7th
Moon - Taurus in 12th
Mercury - Scorpio in 6th
Venus - Capricorn in 9th
Mars - Cancer in 3rd
Jupiter - Libra in 5th
Saturn - Aquarius in 9th (conjunct MC)
Uranus - Capricorn in 8th
Neptune - Capricorn in 8th
Pluto - Scorpio in 6th
North node - Sagittarius in 7th
Chiron - Leo in 4th
Our Sun & Moon are both opposite. But we both have that murder Mars 😆
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It's funny because I'm scorpio and mercury dominant. I love Gemini's and Scorpio's but they don't love me back! Cancer mars is a murder mars! Hahaha. It was a crime of passion, I swear!
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
You both have 12th house moon! I do too! It's the hardest placement for me, by far. Mine is taurus! That's a very interesting chart, I want to interpret it haha.
But bull can swim right? At least, it is not that bad. 😆
Hahah that would be if the bull knew it was even in water. Oh 12th house, most of the time I don't even know I should be swimming. ;P
The 3 of us should hold hands together, now. How about that? 😆
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Lol get over here and let me love you! ?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
For comparison sake:
Sun - Sagittarius in 7th
Moon - Taurus in 12th
Mercury - Scorpio in 6th
Venus - Capricorn in 9th
Mars - Cancer in 3rd
Jupiter - Libra in 5th
Saturn - Aquarius in 9th (conjunct MC)
Uranus - Capricorn in 8th
Neptune - Capricorn in 8th
Pluto - Scorpio in 6th
North node - Sagittarius in 7th
Chiron - Leo in 4th
Our Sun & Moon are both opposite. But we both have that murder Mars 😆
It's funny because I'm scorpio and mercury dominant. I love Gemini's and Scorpio's but they don't love me back!Cancer mars is a murder mars! Hahaha. It was a crime of passion, I swear!
Stay away from me, you cereal killer. 😆
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All my exes are alive...probably. Hahah
Posted by AbbyNormal
Sun opp MarsSun opp Saturn
Moon opp Neptune
Mercury opp Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Mars opp Chiron
Jupiter opp Asc
Neptune opp Asc
idk what it all means but im an opposed muthafucker lol i think these are all major aspects.
Wow, you do have a lot! The oppositions to your ascendant will conjunct your descendant though! Jupiter opposite ascendant may actually give you luck in relationships!
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
For comparison sake:
Sun - Sagittarius in 7th
Moon - Taurus in 12th
Mercury - Scorpio in 6th
Venus - Capricorn in 9th
Mars - Cancer in 3rd
Jupiter - Libra in 5th
Saturn - Aquarius in 9th (conjunct MC)
Uranus - Capricorn in 8th
Neptune - Capricorn in 8th
Pluto - Scorpio in 6th
North node - Sagittarius in 7th
Chiron - Leo in 4th
Our Sun & Moon are both opposite. But we both have that murder Mars 😆
It's funny because I'm scorpio and mercury dominant. I love Gemini's and Scorpio's but they don't love me back! Cancer mars is a murder mars! Hahaha. It was a crime of passion, I swear!
Hahahaha! I'm Scorp and Pluto dominant.
Why don't they love you back? Don't normally jive well with Gem's & Scorp's?
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I do actually, venus in scorpio and gemini venus or mars comes around a lot. I don't meet many sun/rising/moon gemini's or scorpios though! Where are you all hiding?! Lol
Posted by Senorita_LL
Actually, I don't really hate my 12th house moon. The only thing I hate about that placement, will be my needs for isolation.I can't deal with people for long. I'm easily drained and that's where I will start to feel numb. And that venus trine neptune, always made me do stupid things for love. A love that I don't even know, if it's truly exist. The need to love the broken people and nurture them. It's crazy!
The thing that drives me crazy is that I need space to think and process. A lot of people that I meet don't respect that and push me before I'm ready to talk. That's what makes it hard! If I don't know how I feel first, it's like I get swayed easily and I'm manipulated easily. I'll put my feelings aside for someone else. It's a hard placement at times. 😢
Posted by AbbyNormal
Sun opp MarsSun opp Saturn
Moon opp Neptune
Mercury opp Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Mars opp Chiron
Jupiter opp Asc
Neptune opp Asc
idk what it all means but im an opposed muthafucker lol i think these are all major aspects.
Wow, you do have a lot! The oppositions to your ascendant will conjunct your descendant though! Jupiter opposite ascendant may actually give you luck in relationships!
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add in all the retrograde natal planets and it's been quite a journey so far LOL
*waves at 12th house mooners club* can i joinz?? ?
Posted by AbbyNormal
Sun opp MarsSun opp Saturn
Moon opp Neptune
Mercury opp Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Mars opp Chiron
Jupiter opp Asc
Neptune opp Asc
idk what it all means but im an opposed muthafucker lol i think these are all major aspects.
I'm gonna try checking with my bff, what's all that about. Mr Goo who tried to be a Gle. Ok?
Will that makes you feel better? 😆
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i have no idea what half that meant so.... maybe? ?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
For comparison sake:
Sun - Sagittarius in 7th
Moon - Taurus in 12th
Mercury - Scorpio in 6th
Venus - Capricorn in 9th
Mars - Cancer in 3rd
Jupiter - Libra in 5th
Saturn - Aquarius in 9th (conjunct MC)
Uranus - Capricorn in 8th
Neptune - Capricorn in 8th
Pluto - Scorpio in 6th
North node - Sagittarius in 7th
Chiron - Leo in 4th
Our Sun & Moon are both opposite. But we both have that murder Mars 😆
It's funny because I'm scorpio and mercury dominant. I love Gemini's and Scorpio's but they don't love me back! Cancer mars is a murder mars! Hahaha. It was a crime of passion, I swear!
Hahahaha! I'm Scorp and Pluto dominant.
Why don't they love you back? Don't normally jive well with Gem's & Scorp's?
I do actually, venus in scorpio and gemini venus or mars comes around a lot. I don't meet many sun/rising/moon gemini's or scorpios though! Where are you all hiding?! Lol
They must all be Introverts like me.. Hahaha
I don't go out much.
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Jeeze go outside..*as I close the blinds becuase the sun is too bright*... ?
Posted by AbbyNormal
Sun opp MarsSun opp Saturn
Moon opp Neptune
Mercury opp Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Mars opp Chiron
Jupiter opp Asc
Neptune opp Asc
idk what it all means but im an opposed muthafucker lol i think these are all major aspects.
I'm gonna try checking with my bff, what's all that about. Mr Goo who tried to be a Gle. Ok?
Will that makes you feel better? 😆
i have no idea what half that meant so.... maybe? ?
Google those placements. That's what I meant. 😛
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har har silly ?
wheel dew!!
Posted by AbbyNormal
Sun opp MarsSun opp Saturn
Moon opp Neptune
Mercury opp Pluto
Venus opp Pluto
Mars opp Chiron
Jupiter opp Asc
Neptune opp Asc
idk what it all means but im an opposed muthafucker lol i think these are all major aspects.
Wow, you do have a lot! The oppositions to your ascendant will conjunct your descendant though! Jupiter opposite ascendant may actually give you luck in relationships!
add in all the retrograde natal planets and it's been quite a journey so far LOL
*waves at 12th house mooners club* can i joinz?? ?
Yes, welkum to the club. A club where people stays away from the other, because the need to have their own space. 😆
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my kinda club ?
Posted by blvckphase
Venus Opposition Neptune & Venus Opposition SaturnHardest aspects within my chart I find. Have not at all learned how to manage them and they do not get any easier to deal with. Finding out about them was like impending doom.
Also have Neptune Opposition Chiron, Uranus Opposition Chiron & Saturn Opposition Chiron
But I don't know a whole lot about them or how they effect me.
What houses do they fall into? I have a venus/neptune conjunction, and I avoid reading about it. Hahaha. Nah but I do have a hard time seeing my relationships clearly.
Conjuncts are normally positive. The squares and oppositions are where things get messy.
As far as Houses.. you mean what House my Venus & Neptune are in?
Venus - Cancer 8th
Neptune & Saturn - Capricorn 2nd
That's what I was thinking but I think because of the nature of neptune, it's a more difficult conjunction. I also have the venus conjunction with uranus. Are you a scorpio dominant gemini?
Yes, I am a Scorp dominant Gemini. And you are right.. any aspect with Neptune / Venus tends to cause a bit of a delusion in love I think.
That's interesting, can I ask what the rest of your placements are? 🙂
Sure 🙂
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House
For comparison sake:
Sun - Sagittarius in 7th
Moon - Taurus in 12th
Mercury - Scorpio in 6th
Venus - Capricorn in 9th
Mars - Cancer in 3rd
Jupiter - Libra in 5th
Saturn - Aquarius in 9th (conjunct MC)
Uranus - Capricorn in 8th
Neptune - Capricorn in 8th
Pluto - Scorpio in 6th
North node - Sagittarius in 7th
Chiron - Leo in 4th
Our Sun & Moon are both opposite. But we both have that murder Mars 😆
It's funny because I'm scorpio and mercury dominant. I love Gemini's and Scorpio's but they don't love me back! Cancer mars is a murder mars! Hahaha. It was a crime of passion, I swear!
Hahahaha! I'm Scorp and Pluto dominant.
Why don't they love you back? Don't normally jive well with Gem's & Scorp's?
I do actually, venus in scorpio and gemini venus or mars comes around a lot. I don't meet many sun/rising/moon gemini's or scorpios though! Where are you all hiding?! Lol
They must all be Introverts like me.. Hahaha
I don't go out much.
Jeeze go outside..*as I close the blinds becuase the sun is too bright*... ?
Haha.. well I go out.. I just don't attend social functions or hang out with friends really. Like to do stuff on my own or with my s/o.
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Ahh, I'm an introverted extrovert. I go out by myself too, or with my best friend, but a lot of the times we don't even talk. We just eat. ?
Posted by Senorita_LL
Actually, I don't really hate my 12th house moon. The only thing I hate about that placement, will be my needs for isolation.I can't deal with people for long. I'm easily drained and that's where I will start to feel numb. And that venus trine neptune, always made me do stupid things for love. A love that I don't even know, if it's truly exist. The need to love the broken people and nurture them. It's crazy!
The thing that drives me crazy is that I need space to think and process. A lot of people that I meet don't respect that and push me before I'm ready to talk. That's what makes it hard! If I don't know how I feel first, it's like I get swayed easily and I'm manipulated easily. I'll put my feelings aside for someone else. It's a hard placement at times. 😢
That's what I'm saying. The need to isolate and wanting lots and lots of space, drives me nuts. When people tends to be pushy, that is where I will be cold and they hate that the most. Having that 12th house moon in Leo, makes it even worst. I am dramatic when I am alone, especially in front of the mirror.
Shut up, don't laugh! 😆
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Totally normal lol, I practice expressing my thoughts and feelings sometimes hahahah. Sag's aren't very good at it and scorpio mercury just makes evade questions.
Normal people: "Hey, how's your day?"
Paranoid me: "Why? How is yours? Why did you ask me that?"
Posted by Senorita_LL
Actually, I don't really hate my 12th house moon. The only thing I hate about that placement, will be my needs for isolation.I can't deal with people for long. I'm easily drained and that's where I will start to feel numb. And that venus trine neptune, always made me do stupid things for love. A love that I don't even know, if it's truly exist. The need to love the broken people and nurture them. It's crazy!
The thing that drives me crazy is that I need space to think and process. A lot of people that I meet don't respect that and push me before I'm ready to talk. That's what makes it hard! If I don't know how I feel first, it's like I get swayed easily and I'm manipulated easily. I'll put my feelings aside for someone else. It's a hard placement at times. 😢
That's what I'm saying. The need to isolate and wanting lots and lots of space, drives me nuts. When people tends to be pushy, that is where I will be cold and they hate that the most. Having that 12th house moon in Leo, makes it even worst. I am dramatic when I am alone, especially in front of the mirror.
Shut up, don't laugh! 😆
Totally normal lol, I practice expressing my thoughts and feelings sometimes hahahah. Sag's aren't very good at it and scorpio mercury just makes evade questions.
Normal people: "Hey, how's your day?"
Paranoid me: "Why? How is yours? Why did you ask me that?"
Hey, how's your day?
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WHO WANTS TO KNOW? ?
Posted by mariaxvee
Aqua Mercury in 6th vs Leo Mars in 12th.Both square midheaven!
Still trying to decide whether to work in a field that nurtures my intellect and is secure and practical or following my real passion. Can't find a balance for both 😢
Ohh, are you interested in caring for others in some capacity?
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It's the only work I've ever done. Developmentally disabled and a nurses aide in a nursing home. It's either nursing/medical or psych/social work with me. I love both.
Venus and Mercury opposite Saturn
I usually give into Saturn, or at least the negative manifestations. This involves being hard on myself with Mercury or Venus related stuff like my intelligence or relationships/self-image respectively. Tend to restrict myself in those areas. Saturn is in the ruling sign also. I am still figuring out how to "balance"
Jupiter opposite Neptune in the natal chart gives and incredibly curious intellect. You question the reality or truth of things which most others take for granted. The facts of a matter or some societal standards do not constrain your thoughts or behaviors in the normal way.
Moon opposite Pluto in the natal chart gives you intense and complex feelings. The extremes in mood and behavior you display can often cause relationship problems. Your emotions can become so intense that they frighten other people.
Venus Opposite North Node: You may have trouble expressing your feelings and may lack affection or displays of affection as a child, but you have a deep love of your family and your parents. Your love of domestic harmony often leads you to marry in order to have a beautiful home and family life.
Mercury Opposite North Node: Your ideas are either ahead of or behind the times. If ahead, you have mental originality and independence. You're often on your own with your ideas since you can't gain support for them. You may feel frustrated and mentally alone.
Posted by Nixx
How do you handle it? Has it gotten easier for you to balance? I have a capricorn venus and cancer mars opposition and the signs nor the placements are easy to deal with.
Sun opposition moon. Cancer sun moon in Capricorn ...it's difficult for me to recognize my strengths.
Posted by mariaxvee
Aqua Mercury in 6th vs Leo Mars in 12th.Both square midheaven!
Still trying to decide whether to work in a field that nurtures my intellect and is secure and practical or following my real passion. Can't find a balance for both 😢
Ohh, are you interested in caring for others in some capacity?
It's the only work I've ever done. Developmentally disabled and a nurses aide in a nursing home. It's either nursing/medical or psych/social work with me. I love both.
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That's an interesting chart, those house are service houses and the planets that fall in them are both career important and they are both square MC. Hmm. I have something similar, except my moon falls into my 12th and my mercury and pluto are conjunct in the 6th, both square my MC too.
I hope you can find a balance so you feel fufilled, satisfied and secure in your career. 🙂
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How do you handle it? Has it gotten easier for you to balance? I have a capricorn venus and cancer mars opposition and the signs nor the placements are easy to deal with.