Gemini or Cancer for a Capricorn?

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Well.....if you had to pick ONE in this scenario...the cancer or the gemini?
Which one do you like more? Tell your Libra moon to quit weighing the Pro's and Con's, STFU and decide.

And tell your Cap Sun to quit being a goddamn asshole about which one is more "appropriate" and listen to your intuition.

Assumming both girls are suitable for you and you for them.
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Hahaha.

Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.

But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...

so where I'm coming from?
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The thing is, the Gemini and I have been together for a couple years. My family likes her a lot. Things between us are pretty solid. I love her a lot.

The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years). And I sometimes feel like they say when someone returns to you it’s meant to be. Im surprised Im still attracted to her after all this time. I actually had to take her off my facebook 10 days after she friend requested me again because I couldn’t stand seeing her pop up in my feed.

But I’ve invested so much time into the Gemini now. And I do love her a lot. People always say “oh when you’re in a relationship it’s natural to be attracted to other people”. And I cant tell if it’s one of those scenarios or not. The attraction is just so mutually strong.
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Hahaha.

Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.

But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...

so where I'm coming from?
Of course I do! Y'all love us
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Ugh, you are NOT helping at ALL. You're being obnoxious.

Obviously, what you're saying ISN'T true because to be quite frank...the Cancer girl is actually much more sexually attractive than my Gemini girlfriend by a long shot. But this isnt about looks.

I like both. A LOT.

Please give a helpful response or go away. Thanks.
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Hahaha.

Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.

But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...

so where I'm coming from?
Of course I do! Y'all love us
Ugh, you are NOT helping at ALL. You're being obnoxious.

Obviously, what you're saying ISN'T true because to be quite frank...the Cancer girl is actually much more sexually attractive than my Gemini girlfriend by a long shot. But this isnt about looks.

I like both. A LOT.

Please give a helpful response or go away. Thanks.
80/20 rule bro. Gotta do whats going to be the right choice for the soul long term bruh. Either way, your missing out.
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How do I know which is better for the soul..?
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What makes you think the Cancer is even into you? You said she had a boyfriend for several years and is just recently single.

Was there anything said or done during the time period that made you think she was thinking about being with you in a certain way?

If so, what was said or done? In what capacity would you ultimately like her to be in your life? In what capacity do you think she sees you in hers? Same questions in regards to the Gemini too.

If this is mostly about satisfying a craving or tasting the Strange-bow, then go ahead. Just realize there might not be a pot of gold waiting for you on the other side. And your plate of silver might not be waiting for you on the flip side if your prospecting doesn't pan out.
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Hahaha.

Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.

But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...

so where I'm coming from?
Of course I do! Y'all love us
Ugh, you are NOT helping at ALL. You're being obnoxious.

Obviously, what you're saying ISN'T true because to be quite frank...the Cancer girl is actually much more sexually attractive than my Gemini girlfriend by a long shot. But this isnt about looks.

I like both. A LOT.

Please give a helpful response or go away. Thanks.
80/20 rule bro. Gotta do whats going to be the right choice for the soul long term bruh. Either way, your missing out.
How do I know which is better for the soul..?
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No one can answer that but you.

What does your gut say?
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Hahaha.

Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.

But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...

so where I'm coming from?

What do you want from the Cancer?
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Posted by RumiLove
Going by sun signs.. Cancer and Capricorn are the best match â¤

But your synastry comparison gives the Gemini a slight edge over Cancer, in my eyes. Your personal placements match so well.

You both have that sun-moon trine with each other.(her moon-your sun and vice versa)
Your Venus and her Venus are opposite
Your Venus conjunct her mars
Her mars trine your venus
Her moon trine your Venus

Her mars is Capricorn..meaning you are her ideal man.

And so on..

She I think would be more stable and she's more earthy. And you have your air moon to match whatever little air she has..

What are your mercury signs? Mercury is more important (imo) ..it tells you everything about communication, perceptions...the way you work out and make sense of everything - in you or outside..
I appreciate your thoughtful answer. And I do agree, my Gemini GF and I get a along very well, there is plenty of free-flowing affection and attraction – a lot of “triney-ness” going on. But the one thing that bothers me is maybe the lack of passion or depth of passion. At the end of the day, our sun signs still have a large impact and she is still quite a bit of Gemini (albeit, with earthiness, but Gemini nonetheless) and sometimes I feel like our sexual styles are different. The other girl has a Scorpio rising and I don’t know if my Mars in Scorpio finds that alluring or what. So what about the synastry between the Cancer girl and I? We have suns and moons in complementary aspecsts and also venus/mars in complimentary aspect.

Now my other “big astrology” friend, who did a full natal chart reading, pointed out that with the Cancer girl there is a “Mars Conjunct Pluto” synastry and that is why the attraction is so intense, raw and passionate. Does that make sense? Maybe that is the aspect that is missing with my current Gemini gf and what is speaking to me so strongly about the Cancer. Or maybe Im just going nuts!

I appreciate your insight!
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Mr Cap.. Gemini is already your GF 😢 if its already harmonious why spoil it?

Okay..anyway, you said Cancer has Leo mars? How can it conjunct Pluto... Is her Pluto in Scorpio or Libra?

As far as passion goes.. I'm really not sure about it, its not the basis for choosing a life partner. And as you are a Capricorn yourself, who knows this better than you?

Your synastry with Cancer is good too. But if her mars in in Leo.. It squares your mars, perhaps the reason why you find her so alluring. Squares create for bad passionate attraction that burn each other out.
I'll write a more detailed comparison a little later.. I must go 🙂
Well, I wouldn't say it's all sunshine and rainbows. lol. But we do get along well. But our sexual styles are pretty different, given she is a Gemini. And in the long-term relationship that DOES matter. I mean, doesn't it?
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Maybe it really DOES just come down to physical and I am just a scumbag 😢

The cancer girl/scorpio rising has the most gorgeous, perfect hourglass body…sexiest curves…and long, beautiful hair down to her waist. Gorgeous eyes. She is just like a feminine Goddess. And us Caps like our women very “womanly”.

I like to think it's more than just that though....maybe I am just bored in my relationship. I just dont get why arent so long my attraction the Cancer girl just never went away.
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The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years).
you need to tell her to fuck off.
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Well...she is a Cancer at 29 degrees. And a Scorpio Rising which I feel like she comes off more Scorpio than Cancer. She doesn't come off very innocent at all. Very "womanly" and "spiritual"....very sexy. Not girlish.

Could be lust...could be..
It is!

These physical aspects dont make a relationship.. Its just part of it. Physical aspect wont last forever. And you can perhaps enrich your intimacy in many ways. Intimacy happens outside of physical thing too.

You find this cancer so alluring now.. You WILL find another lady more hypnotizing 5 years later...what will you do?

Dont spoil what is good with your Gemini... If you love her, make this one itself stronger or put into it what you want.


There will be some drawback, something you wish wasn't lacking in EVERY relationship...doesn't mean yu should look elsewhere🙂

I'm not going to write anything about your synastry with the crab :p .. I'll write more about your synastry with Gem though...a little later 🙂
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It's ok. I think I get the picture now.

That being said...how do I make the attraction STOP.
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The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years).
you need to tell her to fuck off.
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Why? Sometimes people meet at bad timing. She wasn't a bitch to me about it, she did the honorable thing. She stuck it out with her asshole Aries boyfriend who treated her like crap and finally moved on (which I knew would happen, but she had to walk the steps).

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Ok, I feel like everyone here is getting the wrong idea.

The cancer girl who NOT being a s l u t at all. We met at bad timing in life. She did the respectful thing and remained with her bf.

Now she is single. She reached out to me once. That is all. She hasnt tried to break us up at all. She gets it.

My attraction to her is still strong. But I have remained respectful to my current GF (just like she did with her ex when she was attracted to me).

That's all this is about.
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This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.
Not really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.
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Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.
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This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.
Not really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.
Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.
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I can't really help it. I was into the Cancer like a year before I even met the Gemini.

Is it possible that these things happen beyond astrology and there is a spiritual connection?
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This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.
Not really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.
Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.
I can't really help it. I was into the Cancer like a year before I even met the Gemini.

Is it possible that these things happen beyond astrology and there is a spiritual connection?
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No, it's curiosity that never got fulfilled.
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This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.
Not really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.
Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.
I can't really help it. I was into the Cancer like a year before I even met the Gemini.

Is it possible that these things happen beyond astrology and there is a spiritual connection?
No, it's curiosity that never got fulfilled.
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Limerence....

How do you make it STOP. I took her off my facebook. But that doesn't seem to help either.
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RumiLove...

I see what you are saying.
I do have complaints with my Gemini but I figured this isn’t the place to air those grievances. Do other things matter more than a relationship that sex and passion? Of course. Do those things fade over time anyways? Absolutely. But the thing is, the sex lacks DEPTH. I think sex should be an experience that brings you closer
on a spiritual level (is this my Mars Scorpio?) and the airy Gemini just doesn’t really have that side to them, even if their person planets are earthy. It kind of sucks. You either have it or don’t.
I feel like it can make a foundation very solid (and cause less wandering eyes—?)
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It's like...is my attraction the the Cancer a matter of something missing with my Gemini? Or do things just happen in relationships? (attractions to other people)
You get back what you put in dude, this chick is taking up way too much space and you're possibly neglecting your girl now. Not cool. This is how women turn to other men for attention they're not getting.

It's pure attraction you have for this girl, what makes you think she's right for you in a real relationship, bcuz she she seems sweet, you're only getting the good right now, to allure you. That's the stage it's in..
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It's like...is my attraction the the Cancer a matter of something missing with my Gemini? Or do things just happen in relationships? (attractions to other people)
You get back what you put in dude, this chick is taking up way too much space and you're possibly neglecting your girl now. Not cool. This is how women turn to other men for attention they're not getting.

It's pure attraction you have for this girl, what makes you think she's right for you in a real relationship, bcuz she she seems sweet, you're only getting the good right now, to allure you. That's the stage it's in..
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Well, you are really going to scold me because the thing...she hasnt even talked to me in quite awhile. She hasn't been putting in any effort for my attention whatsoever. The attraction is..."just there". I guess maybe because I can see her facebook it doesnt help.

It's all just effed up!
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It's like...is my attraction the the Cancer a matter of something missing with my Gemini? Or do things just happen in relationships? (attractions to other people)
You get back what you put in dude, this chick is taking up way too much space and you're possibly neglecting your girl now. Not cool. This is how women turn to other men for attention they're not getting.

It's pure attraction you have for this girl, what makes you think she's right for you in a real relationship, bcuz she she seems sweet, you're only getting the good right now, to allure you. That's the stage it's in..
Well, you are really going to scold me because the thing...she hasnt even talked to me in quite awhile. She hasn't been putting in any effort for my attention whatsoever. The attraction is..."just there". I guess maybe because I can see her facebook it doesnt help.

It's all just effed up!
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Break up with your girl dude, do her a favor. Cap or not, you're being fuked up. Do the right thing.
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RumiLove...

I see what you are saying.
I do have complaints with my Gemini but I figured this isn’t the place to air those grievances. Do other things matter more than a relationship that sex and passion? Of course. Do those things fade over time anyways? Absolutely. But the thing is, the sex lacks DEPTH. I think sex should be an experience that brings you closer
on a spiritual level (is this my Mars Scorpio?) and the airy Gemini just doesn’t really have that side to them, even if their person planets are earthy. It kind of sucks. You either have it or don’t.
I feel like it can make a foundation very solid (and cause less wandering eyes—?)
Idk ..personally I think love can do magic.. If love takes you to those depths you can fund it with your Gem too. How long have you been with this Gem?

Its just attraction CC.

Dont fall for it 😢
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I made my decision to be with my Gem, so I am not breaking up.
There are more than one person in life capable of being a good match. You even said yourself the Cancer and I have pretty good planet placements.
So really, the lesson here is just accepting that fact and focusing on my current relationship. Thats really all that I can do. And hopefully the attraction will fade in time. I cant control it but I can redirect my focus best I can.
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maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
"karma"....is what you do with yourself and nothing more.

Physical attraction plays with the mind .. It creates illusions...on many levels...subconsciously. Dont fall for it.

You probably wanted that watery passion with your lover. I have seen a video where the astrologer said water mars can pick up on sensual things without their knowledge. Perhaps that is why you are sensing something in the Crab and you just want to experience that... But trust me, you wouldn't want to spoil something good.
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Yeah, I think you pretty much nailed it.

Well see how things work out this year.

Thanks again!
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maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
Why do you need a lesson? Don't you have enough common sense to know where this is going...

You just wanna fuk.
Right, a lesson to keep my head screwed on straight.
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Attraction is inevitable, however it's just that. If I wanted to fuk every guy I thought was handsome and was attracted to me... oh boy. ...

But it's just not right...water your own lawn and live your life.
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maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
"karma"....is what you do with yourself and nothing more.

Physical attraction plays with the mind .. It creates illusions...on many levels...subconsciously. Dont fall for it.

You probably wanted that watery passion with your lover. I have seen a video where the astrologer said water mars can pick up on sensual things without their knowledge. Perhaps that is why you are sensing something in the Crab and you just want to experience that... But trust me, you wouldn't want to spoil something good.
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Ya, there was a virgo at my work with a scorpio mars that had a huge crush on me (he's no longer there), he told me that he was really attracted to me, and didn't want to miss out on what can happen between us, after I went out on one date with him, and decided he's not right for me. I told him this during a walk, and that's when he said that. I told him, I'm just don't see anything there with us. He quit a month later.
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maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
Why do you need a lesson? Don't you have enough common sense to know where this is going...

You just wanna fuk.
Right, a lesson to keep my head screwed on straight.
Attraction is inevitable, however it's just that. If I wanted to fuk every guy I thought was handsome and was attracted to me... oh boy. ...

But it's just not right...water your own lawn and live your life.
Hi green tea 🙂

What are your placements if you don't mind me asking? =) ...your views / feelings about loved ones and some other things remind me of my papa 🙂
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Cap sun, leeb moon, aqua venus and mars
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