
No Gemini. Cancer is better. I'd rather not go down either road again, though, to be honest. But I won't say never.



Posted by CreatingChaos505Which one do you like more? Tell your Libra moon to quit weighing the Pro's and Con's, STFU and decide.
Well.....if you had to pick ONE in this scenario...the cancer or the gemini?




Posted by SensitiveBluesUgh, you are NOT helping at ALL. You're being obnoxious.Posted by CreatingChaos505Of course I do! Y'all love us
Hahaha.
Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.
But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...
so where I'm coming from?click to expand

Posted by WestsidekodakHow do I know which is better for the soul..?Posted by CreatingChaos50580/20 rule bro. Gotta do whats going to be the right choice for the soul long term bruh. Either way, your missing out.Posted by SensitiveBluesUgh, you are NOT helping at ALL. You're being obnoxious.Posted by CreatingChaos505Of course I do! Y'all love us
Hahaha.
Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.
But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...
so where I'm coming from?
Obviously, what you're saying ISN'T true because to be quite frank...the Cancer girl is actually much more sexually attractive than my Gemini girlfriend by a long shot. But this isnt about looks.
I like both. A LOT.
Please give a helpful response or go away. Thanks.click to expand



Posted by CreatingChaos505No one can answer that but you.Posted by WestsidekodakHow do I know which is better for the soul..?Posted by CreatingChaos50580/20 rule bro. Gotta do whats going to be the right choice for the soul long term bruh. Either way, your missing out.Posted by SensitiveBluesUgh, you are NOT helping at ALL. You're being obnoxious.Posted by CreatingChaos505Of course I do! Y'all love us
Hahaha.
Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.
But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...
so where I'm coming from?
Obviously, what you're saying ISN'T true because to be quite frank...the Cancer girl is actually much more sexually attractive than my Gemini girlfriend by a long shot. But this isnt about looks.
I like both. A LOT.
Please give a helpful response or go away. Thanks.click to expand


Posted by CreatingChaos505
Hahaha.
Which do I like better? Well, I liked the Cancer for YEARS but she had a boyfriend but now she is single. But now I am dating the Gemini. But I feel like a POS dumping her for the Cancer.
But I am REALLY attracted to the Cancer. I know she had a Scorpio Rising and I don't know if it's interacting with my Mars Scorpio but the attraction is so intense I can't stop thinking about her. But the Gemini has been a good girlfriend to me. I mean...
so where I'm coming from?

Posted by RumiLoveI appreciate your thoughtful answer. And I do agree, my Gemini GF and I get a along very well, there is plenty of free-flowing affection and attraction – a lot of “triney-ness” going on. But the one thing that bothers me is maybe the lack of passion or depth of passion. At the end of the day, our sun signs still have a large impact and she is still quite a bit of Gemini (albeit, with earthiness, but Gemini nonetheless) and sometimes I feel like our sexual styles are different. The other girl has a Scorpio rising and I don’t know if my Mars in Scorpio finds that alluring or what. So what about the synastry between the Cancer girl and I? We have suns and moons in complementary aspecsts and also venus/mars in complimentary aspect.
Going by sun signs.. Cancer and Capricorn are the best match â¤
But your synastry comparison gives the Gemini a slight edge over Cancer, in my eyes. Your personal placements match so well.
You both have that sun-moon trine with each other.(her moon-your sun and vice versa)
Your Venus and her Venus are opposite
Your Venus conjunct her mars
Her mars trine your venus
Her moon trine your Venus
Her mars is Capricorn..meaning you are her ideal man.
And so on..
She I think would be more stable and she's more earthy. And you have your air moon to match whatever little air she has..
What are your mercury signs? Mercury is more important (imo) ..it tells you everything about communication, perceptions...the way you work out and make sense of everything - in you or outside..

Posted by Aggrippina66789Well, I don't know the Cancer nearly as well...I just feel a very strong attraction to her but she always had a BF. now she is single but I am with someone who I love very much but find my attraction to the Cancer compelling.
If you are asking you don't feel it strongly enough for either of them or have misgivings about both.


Posted by RumiLoveWell, I wouldn't say it's all sunshine and rainbows. lol. But we do get along well. But our sexual styles are pretty different, given she is a Gemini. And in the long-term relationship that DOES matter. I mean, doesn't it?
Mr Cap.. Gemini is already your GF 😢 if its already harmonious why spoil it?
Okay..anyway, you said Cancer has Leo mars? How can it conjunct Pluto... Is her Pluto in Scorpio or Libra?
As far as passion goes.. I'm really not sure about it, its not the basis for choosing a life partner. And as you are a Capricorn yourself, who knows this better than you?
Your synastry with Cancer is good too. But if her mars in in Leo.. It squares your mars, perhaps the reason why you find her so alluring. Squares create for bad passionate attraction that burn each other out.
I'll write a more detailed comparison a little later.. I must go 🙂


Posted by Vixen2Funny you should say that. I was doing some research after you told me about that chaos astrology site,I forgot what aspect it was but it says I should be with a Pisces lol now I curious, need to look up that info again.
neither...it's Pisces.
Infact, Pisces is perfect for everyone. 😉
j/k



Posted by CreatingChaos505you need to tell her to fuck off.
The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years).

Posted by RumiLoveIt's ok. I think I get the picture now.Posted by CreatingChaos505It is!
Well...she is a Cancer at 29 degrees. And a Scorpio Rising which I feel like she comes off more Scorpio than Cancer. She doesn't come off very innocent at all. Very "womanly" and "spiritual"....very sexy. Not girlish.
Could be lust...could be..
These physical aspects dont make a relationship.. Its just part of it. Physical aspect wont last forever. And you can perhaps enrich your intimacy in many ways. Intimacy happens outside of physical thing too.
You find this cancer so alluring now.. You WILL find another lady more hypnotizing 5 years later...what will you do?
Dont spoil what is good with your Gemini... If you love her, make this one itself stronger or put into it what you want.
There will be some drawback, something you wish wasn't lacking in EVERY relationship...doesn't mean yu should look elsewhere🙂
I'm not going to write anything about your synastry with the crab :p .. I'll write more about your synastry with Gem though...a little later 🙂click to expand

The user who posted this message has hidden it.This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.

Posted by hydorahWhy? Sometimes people meet at bad timing. She wasn't a bitch to me about it, she did the honorable thing. She stuck it out with her asshole Aries boyfriend who treated her like crap and finally moved on (which I knew would happen, but she had to walk the steps).Posted by CreatingChaos505you need to tell her to fuck off.
The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years).click to expand

Posted by GreenteaNot really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.The user who posted this message has hidden it.This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.click to expand


Posted by CreatingChaos505Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.Posted by GreenteaNot really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.The user who posted this message has hidden it.This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.click to expand

Posted by GreenteaI can't really help it. I was into the Cancer like a year before I even met the Gemini.Posted by CreatingChaos505Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.Posted by GreenteaNot really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.The user who posted this message has hidden it.This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.click to expand

Posted by CreatingChaos505No, it's curiosity that never got fulfilled.Posted by GreenteaI can't really help it. I was into the Cancer like a year before I even met the Gemini.Posted by CreatingChaos505Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.Posted by GreenteaNot really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.The user who posted this message has hidden it.This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.
Is it possible that these things happen beyond astrology and there is a spiritual connection?click to expand

Posted by GreenteaLimerence....Posted by CreatingChaos505No, it's curiosity that never got fulfilled.Posted by GreenteaI can't really help it. I was into the Cancer like a year before I even met the Gemini.Posted by CreatingChaos505Ok, well then you do the same. How woukd you feel if your girlfriend was crushing on some dude on the side.Posted by GreenteaNot really. She didnt know I had a gf. She hasn't bothered me since, she has been very respectful actually.The user who posted this message has hidden it.This hoe is wanting to break you two up. Do what she did, tease the fuk out of her and block her out.
Is it possible that these things happen beyond astrology and there is a spiritual connection?click to expand


Posted by SensitiveBluesThe biggest "undercover hoes" are people with Mars/Pluto aspects in their chart...from what I have experienced.Posted by GreenteaAnd Pisces aren't?
They're both undercover hoes. Go with pisces.click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesLol!! I knew you would comment.Posted by GreenteaAnd Pisces aren't?
They're both undercover hoes. Go with pisces.click to expand


Posted by SensitiveBlueswhat about a gemini?
Anyways my thing is crab can break your heart! Are you ready for that?
I'm scared you might get burned


Posted by CreatingChaos505You get back what you put in dude, this chick is taking up way too much space and you're possibly neglecting your girl now. Not cool. This is how women turn to other men for attention they're not getting.
It's like...is my attraction the the Cancer a matter of something missing with my Gemini? Or do things just happen in relationships? (attractions to other people)

Posted by GreenteaWell, you are really going to scold me because the thing...she hasnt even talked to me in quite awhile. She hasn't been putting in any effort for my attention whatsoever. The attraction is..."just there". I guess maybe because I can see her facebook it doesnt help.Posted by CreatingChaos505You get back what you put in dude, this chick is taking up way too much space and you're possibly neglecting your girl now. Not cool. This is how women turn to other men for attention they're not getting.
It's like...is my attraction the the Cancer a matter of something missing with my Gemini? Or do things just happen in relationships? (attractions to other people)
It's pure attraction you have for this girl, what makes you think she's right for you in a real relationship, bcuz she she seems sweet, you're only getting the good right now, to allure you. That's the stage it's in..click to expand

Posted by CreatingChaos505Break up with your girl dude, do her a favor. Cap or not, you're being fuked up. Do the right thing.Posted by GreenteaWell, you are really going to scold me because the thing...she hasnt even talked to me in quite awhile. She hasn't been putting in any effort for my attention whatsoever. The attraction is..."just there". I guess maybe because I can see her facebook it doesnt help.Posted by CreatingChaos505You get back what you put in dude, this chick is taking up way too much space and you're possibly neglecting your girl now. Not cool. This is how women turn to other men for attention they're not getting.
It's like...is my attraction the the Cancer a matter of something missing with my Gemini? Or do things just happen in relationships? (attractions to other people)
It's pure attraction you have for this girl, what makes you think she's right for you in a real relationship, bcuz she she seems sweet, you're only getting the good right now, to allure you. That's the stage it's in..
It's all just effed up!click to expand



Posted by CreatingChaos505Why do you need a lesson? Don't you have enough common sense to know where this is going...
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?

Posted by GreenteaRight, a lesson to keep my head screwed on straight.Posted by CreatingChaos505Why do you need a lesson? Don't you have enough common sense to know where this is going...
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
You just wanna fuk.click to expand

Posted by RumiLoveI made my decision to be with my Gem, so I am not breaking up.Posted by CreatingChaos505Idk ..personally I think love can do magic.. If love takes you to those depths you can fund it with your Gem too. How long have you been with this Gem?
RumiLove...
I see what you are saying.
I do have complaints with my Gemini but I figured this isn’t the place to air those grievances. Do other things matter more than a relationship that sex and passion? Of course. Do those things fade over time anyways? Absolutely. But the thing is, the sex lacks DEPTH. I think sex should be an experience that brings you closer
on a spiritual level (is this my Mars Scorpio?) and the airy Gemini just doesn’t really have that side to them, even if their person planets are earthy. It kind of sucks. You either have it or don’t.
I feel like it can make a foundation very solid (and cause less wandering eyes—?)
Its just attraction CC.
Dont fall for it 😢click to expand

Posted by RumiLoveYeah, I think you pretty much nailed it.Posted by CreatingChaos505"karma"....is what you do with yourself and nothing more.
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
Physical attraction plays with the mind .. It creates illusions...on many levels...subconsciously. Dont fall for it.
You probably wanted that watery passion with your lover. I have seen a video where the astrologer said water mars can pick up on sensual things without their knowledge. Perhaps that is why you are sensing something in the Crab and you just want to experience that... But trust me, you wouldn't want to spoil something good.click to expand

Posted by CreatingChaos505Attraction is inevitable, however it's just that. If I wanted to fuk every guy I thought was handsome and was attracted to me... oh boy. ...Posted by GreenteaRight, a lesson to keep my head screwed on straight.Posted by CreatingChaos505Why do you need a lesson? Don't you have enough common sense to know where this is going...
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
You just wanna fuk.click to expand

Posted by RumiLoveYa, there was a virgo at my work with a scorpio mars that had a huge crush on me (he's no longer there), he told me that he was really attracted to me, and didn't want to miss out on what can happen between us, after I went out on one date with him, and decided he's not right for me. I told him this during a walk, and that's when he said that. I told him, I'm just don't see anything there with us. He quit a month later.Posted by CreatingChaos505"karma"....is what you do with yourself and nothing more.
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
Physical attraction plays with the mind .. It creates illusions...on many levels...subconsciously. Dont fall for it.
You probably wanted that watery passion with your lover. I have seen a video where the astrologer said water mars can pick up on sensual things without their knowledge. Perhaps that is why you are sensing something in the Crab and you just want to experience that... But trust me, you wouldn't want to spoil something good.click to expand

Posted by RumiLoveCap sun, leeb moon, aqua venus and marsPosted by GreenteaHi green tea 🙂Posted by CreatingChaos505Attraction is inevitable, however it's just that. If I wanted to fuk every guy I thought was handsome and was attracted to me... oh boy. ...Posted by GreenteaRight, a lesson to keep my head screwed on straight.Posted by CreatingChaos505Why do you need a lesson? Don't you have enough common sense to know where this is going...
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
You just wanna fuk.
But it's just not right...water your own lawn and live your life.
What are your placements if you don't mind me asking? =) ...your views / feelings about loved ones and some other things remind me of my papa 🙂click to expand
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