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Posted by RumiLoveLol, aqua merc.
@Greentea -- my dad is aqua venus/mars toooooo! Sometimes websites show he's Aries rising..sometimes Pisces rising at 29 degrees though. I think he's Aries rising, it fits him perfectly! 🙂 . What's your mercury? My dad is Sag mercury 🙂
Posted by GreenteaI have a lot of sag and aqua placements in my chart.Posted by RumiLoveLol, aqua merc.
@Greentea -- my dad is aqua venus/mars toooooo! Sometimes websites show he's Aries rising..sometimes Pisces rising at 29 degrees though. I think he's Aries rising, it fits him perfectly! 🙂 . What's your mercury? My dad is Sag mercury 🙂click to expand
Posted by RumiLoveIs this why I am obsessive? My mars in scorpio?Posted by GreenteaIt's sad..it feels like us water mars get intoxicated and... just hypnotized. 😐Posted by RumiLoveYa, there was a virgo at my work with a scorpio mars that had a huge crush on me (he's no longer there), he told me that he was really attracted to me, and didn't want to miss out on what can happen between us, after I went out on one date with him, and decided he's not right for me. I told him this during a walk, and that's when he said that. I told him, I'm just don't see anything there with us. He quit a month later.Posted by CreatingChaos505"karma"....is what you do with yourself and nothing more.
maybe sometimes we feel strong attractions because there is a karmic pull..a lesson?
Physical attraction plays with the mind .. It creates illusions...on many levels...subconsciously. Dont fall for it.
You probably wanted that watery passion with your lover. I have seen a video where the astrologer said water mars can pick up on sensual things without their knowledge. Perhaps that is why you are sensing something in the Crab and you just want to experience that... But trust me, you wouldn't want to spoil something good.
Yeah... We quit, disappear, look for an escape..very typical of water mars.click to expand
Posted by RumiLoveHmmm....So I want depth and transcendental sex but deny it?
http://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-scorpio/your-marsvenus-combinations/mars-in-scorpio-with-venus-in-capricorn.html
I am a Cancer who has been married to a Cap for going on 18 years. He is amazing and his passion for me seems unchanged since the day that we met. It's a relationship that can take a lot of patience, and in the early years if it wasn't for the kids we may have given up but I can't imagine living my life with anyone else and enjoying it half as much.
That being said, take a card from your Cancer's playbook. Let it go and focus on your relationship with your Gemini. If it's not the right one you'll figure that out without interference. If you are meant to be with the Cancer down the road she will surely appreciate you more for having enough integrity not to chase tail while you were with your current girlfriend.
That being said, take a card from your Cancer's playbook. Let it go and focus on your relationship with your Gemini. If it's not the right one you'll figure that out without interference. If you are meant to be with the Cancer down the road she will surely appreciate you more for having enough integrity not to chase tail while you were with your current girlfriend.
Posted by PerceptiveSymmetryI really like your response because it pretty much resonates with how I have decided to go about this entire thing. I'm being respectful to my current girlfriend and continuing with our relationship and if things don't work out in the end, than it will be for the *right* reasons. Not because of someone else. Bad karma. Bad everything.
I am a Cancer who has been married to a Cap for going on 18 years. He is amazing and his passion for me seems unchanged since the day that we met. It's a relationship that can take a lot of patience, and in the early years if it wasn't for the kids we may have given up but I can't imagine living my life with anyone else and enjoying it half as much.
That being said, take a card from your Cancer's playbook. Let it go and focus on your relationship with your Gemini. If it's not the right one you'll figure that out without interference. If you are meant to be with the Cancer down the road she will surely appreciate you more for having enough integrity not to chase tail while you were with your current girlfriend.
And you are right, I did appreciate and respect how she did the right thing when she was still with her boyfriend and blocked me out of her life and let her relationship rwith her ex run its course. And she has kept her distance from me now that she knows I am not single.
So, if we get together later on there is no dishonesty right off the bat.
Posted by starwarsWhat do you mean?
for a capricorn you should be assertive, but then your libra moon kicked in and here you are.
Posted by CreatingChaos505capricorn is exalted in mars, that's why they are ambitious and Climbing up the mountain..that isn't because they are lazing around.Posted by starwarsWhat do you mean?
for a capricorn you should be assertive, but then your libra moon kicked in and here you are.click to expand
libra is venus, so it loves the luxury. and enjoys venusian harem style. you pull people in, instead of you going to them analogy.
Posted by lisabethur8So I am a walking contradiction?Posted by CreatingChaos505capricorn is exalted in mars, that's why they are ambitious and Climbing up the mountain..that isn't because they are lazing around.Posted by starwarsWhat do you mean?
for a capricorn you should be assertive, but then your libra moon kicked in and here you are.
libra is venus, so it loves the luxury. and enjoys venusian harem style. you pull people in, instead of you going to them analogy.click to expand
I mean, I did aggressively pursue the cancer but she had a BF at the time.
And now I have a gf. But she is single. And I still am super attracted to her. Normally, I would go right after her. But I can't, at the moment.
And now I have a gf. But she is single. And I still am super attracted to her. Normally, I would go right after her. But I can't, at the moment.
Posted by CreatingChaos505Can you explain the differences between you two sexually?Posted by RumiLoveWell, I wouldn't say it's all sunshine and rainbows. lol. But we do get along well. But our sexual styles are pretty different, given she is a Gemini. And in the long-term relationship that DOES matter. I mean, doesn't it?
Mr Cap.. Gemini is already your GF 😢 if its already harmonious why spoil it?
Okay..anyway, you said Cancer has Leo mars? How can it conjunct Pluto... Is her Pluto in Scorpio or Libra?
As far as passion goes.. I'm really not sure about it, its not the basis for choosing a life partner. And as you are a Capricorn yourself, who knows this better than you?
Your synastry with Cancer is good too. But if her mars in in Leo.. It squares your mars, perhaps the reason why you find her so alluring. Squares create for bad passionate attraction that burn each other out.
I'll write a more detailed comparison a little later.. I must go 🙂click to expand
I find this very interesting.
Posted by OceanBoy88Oceanboy, Go fuck yourself please.Posted by CreatingChaos505Can you see your self completely happy with the Gem? Marriage? Family? Does she understand you the way you want to be understood? Does she give you lots of BJs and keeps you sexually satisfied? Do both of your life goals have a common meeting point? Life is too short to not be fulfilled. Don't rely solely in astrology or be blinded by what can be lust. Capricorn and Cancer vs Capricorns and Gem are both relatively even in compatibility. Cancer is your opposite node and your both cardinal signs so it wouldn't be as great as say a Pisces or Scorpio. The cancer just got out of a relationship. I know 4 cancer girls. Out of those four, during the times they fell out of a long term relationship, they seem to uh, no offense cancer ladies, start hoeing around fuckin everything lol. Maybe your next in line. They seem very innocent at it but be careful . they know how to get what they want because they're do dam sexy and play the innocent girl role so well. Watch the Cancer girl. If shes fkirting around, let her fuck her system clean before you persue her full force. Think with your heart my friend. Not your dick.
The thing is, the Gemini and I have been together for a couple years. My family likes her a lot. Things between us are pretty solid. I love her a lot.
The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years). And I sometimes feel like they say when someone returns to you it’s meant to be. Im surprised Im still attracted to her after all this time. I actually had to take her off my facebook 10 days after she friend requested me again because I couldn’t stand seeing her pop up in my feed.
But I’ve invested so much time into the By Ell itGemini now. And I do love her a lot. People always say “oh when you’re in a relationship it’s natural to be attracted to other people”. And I cant tell if it’s one of those scenarios or not. The attraction is just so mutually strong.click to expand
You know 4 Cancer women huh?
And these women represent us all eh?
You don't know this particular Cancer girls intentions.
Nor is it a fact that Cancer women start whoring around after we break up.
You make assumptions that have nothing to do with what he's feeling and what the situation actually is.
BTW, in the Astro world; Pisces males are known whores whether in or out of a relationship.
There are MANY Cancer/Goat long-term successful relationsh
Posted by CreatingChaos505Please don't let a few losers on an astrology website convince you to demonize an innocent woman who is the object of your desires.
Ok, I feel like everyone here is getting the wrong idea.
The cancer girl who NOT being a s l u t at all. We met at bad timing in life. She did the respectful thing and remained with her bf.
Now she is single. She reached out to me once. That is all. She hasnt tried to break us up at all. She gets it.
My attraction to her is still strong. But I have remained respectful to my current GF (just like she did with her ex when she was attracted to me).
That's all this is about.
She didn't sign into DXP and create a thread saying she wanted to steal a Goat from his Gemini girlfriend.
There is some serious bias going on around her against Cancer women, just so you know.
And the usual suspects have attached themselves to this thread I see.
I can't tell you what to do, neither can anyone else on this site.
I can only do my best to help bring clarity.
Again what is your intentions with this Cancer woman?
You say you are attracted to her, yet in a long term relationship with someone else.
Do you see yourself breaking up with the Gemini to be with the Cancer woman?
So far all you speak of is attraction, not a desire to be apart of her life.
Do you see yourself waking up at 3am to help her fix a flat while she was driving home?
Is she someone you feel you could introduce to your family?
Posted by RumiLoveSome attractions never die.Posted by CreatingChaos505TIME....
I feel like if she starts dating someone new later on I am going to be sooo jealous. But why? How do I make this attraction just die off?
Time takes care of everything ðŸ™click to expand
It Is what it is, call it synastry if you will.
The only question he needs to ask himself is, if he wants to leave a good relationship to pursue someone else he was and still is intensely attracted to.
If he feels strong enough, he will.
If he doesn't he will stay.
Posted by Arielle83This is really taking everything I said and putting it into a really cheap light. I really LIKED the cancer girl a long time ago. As a person, regardless of how she looked.Posted by CreatingChaos505So basically you got into a 2 year thing with a Gemini only to still want some cancer who was in a relationship you have an opinion on.Posted by hydorahWhy? Sometimes people meet at bad timing. She wasn't a bitch to me about it, she did the honorable thing. She stuck it out with her asshole Aries boyfriend who treated her like crap and finally moved on (which I knew would happen, but she had to walk the steps).Posted by CreatingChaos505you need to tell her to fuck off.
The cancer girl stopped talking to me a long time ago because she had a BF, blocked me on facebook and everything. Which I respected. Then one day (2 years later!!) she popped into my life out of NOWHERE. And my attraction to her was still strong. She said she still always had me in the back of her mind all that time (her and her ex were together 6 years).
How do you know about her ex? Are you seriously going to dumb someone you invested 2 years of your life for someone with an hourglass figure? You know bishes don't stay skinny forever, right?
Does cancer know you have a gf? Does she want you even though she knows?click to expand
You can't really help who you are attracted to. No, I'm not dumping my Gemini.
Cancer
Posted by Arielle83It sounds more to me like you are projecting your experience onto me. I'm sorry to hear that. Guess what? Were not messaging each other. As a matter of fact, she sent me one message, saying hello and asking how I was doing. I let her know I wasnt single. And she hasnt bothered me since, and I havent reached out to her since. It is just a strong attraction that is "just there" and has been for a long time.Posted by CreatingChaos505Dude, you're dishonest as fuck. I was with a cap close to a year only to find out he was messaging all these single moms from high school and trying to meet up while I'm at work. Like how you're reconnecting with someone and wishing you were single.Posted by PerceptiveSymmetryI really like your response because it pretty much resonates with how I have decided to go about this entire thing. I'm being respectful to my current girlfriend and continuing with our relationship and if things don't work out in the end, than it will be for the *right* reasons. Not because of someone else. Bad karma. Bad everything.
I am a Cancer who has been married to a Cap for going on 18 years. He is amazing and his passion for me seems unchanged since the day that we met. It's a relationship that can take a lot of patience, and in the early years if it wasn't for the kids we may have given up but I can't imagine living my life with anyone else and enjoying it half as much.
That being said, take a card from your Cancer's playbook. Let it go and focus on your relationship with your Gemini. If it's not the right one you'll figure that out without interference. If you are meant to be with the Cancer down the road she will surely appreciate you more for having enough integrity not to chase tail while you were with your current girlfriend.
And you are right, I did appreciate and respect how she did the right thing when she was still with her boyfriend and blocked me out of her life and let her relationship rwith her ex run its course. And she has kept her distance from me now that she knows I am not single.
So, if we get together later on there is no dishonesty right off the bat.
Youre not worth it for either woman. I've never met a cap who didn't have a backup plan.
Lame ass ego.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83You're not going to like my answer but you do realize I haven't taken vows and love is always a risk? If I think someone is going to be a better match for me, long term, than that is who I will decide to be with. Does that make sense? Or does it make more sense to stay in a relationship, that is not even a marriage, that is not the right one for you?
I'm sure your Gemini gf will be real happy to meet the cancer "friend" you're considering a future with, over her.
Posted by Arielle83Alright, I think you make a valid point. And I do see where you are coming from.
Ya I'm projecting my Capricorn experience, since you are wondering which astrological experience is best for you (Gemini/cancer).
As a cancer who has been with a Capricorn, the cancer will not be happy knowing what you might do to make HER a better option over the Gemini.
Cancer doesn't want a love triangle or drama.
I'd be disgusted knowing you were in a relationship and you thought of me as an option. You know why?
Because you can do it to me? Like I said, cap is always looking for a better option.
But, I'm guessing you just want a bunch of strangers telling you, astrologically, this scenario is "okay", because the better option is simple "cancer".
Look a bit deeper, Capricorn, your shallowness would turn a cancer off.
I realize it's...not an ideal circumstance. But, in all honesty, what DO you do when you are in a scenario where you REALLY were into someone (think of someone from your life who you were SUPER interested in) who had a really similar family background to yours, same sense of humor, same interests and emotional styles, and just other really uncanny similarities...but when you first met them the timing was off. You move on. But then they reappear in your life. what do you do in that scenario? I am asking a genuine question.
And the emotional connection is still strong.
Why was her boyfriend an asshole?
You're being really shady dude. Feel bad for the Gemini.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16He was an alcoholic.
Why was her boyfriend an asshole?
Posted by Arielle83Yeah, but very few you actually share chemistry with that transcends friendship. At least from my experience.Posted by CreatingChaos505Think of how many ppl are in the world and the possible mix matches of personality, background and compatibilities that are possible. Heck look at astrology charts if you're basing it on that.Posted by Arielle83Alright, I think you make a valid point. And I do see where you are coming from.
Ya I'm projecting my Capricorn experience, since you are wondering which astrological experience is best for you (Gemini/cancer).
As a cancer who has been with a Capricorn, the cancer will not be happy knowing what you might do to make HER a better option over the Gemini.
Cancer doesn't want a love triangle or drama.
I'd be disgusted knowing you were in a relationship and you thought of me as an option. You know why?
Because you can do it to me? Like I said, cap is always looking for a better option.
But, I'm guessing you just want a bunch of strangers telling you, astrologically, this scenario is "okay", because the better option is simple "cancer".
Look a bit deeper, Capricorn, your shallowness would turn a cancer off.
I realize it's...not an ideal circumstance. But, in all honesty, what DO you do when you are in a scenario where you REALLY were into someone (think of someone from your life who you were SUPER interested in) who had a really similar family background to yours, same sense of humor, same interests and emotional styles, and just other really uncanny similarities...but when you first met them the timing was off. You move on. But then they reappear in your life. what do you do in that scenario? I am asking a genuine question.
The point is there are more ppl in the world for you than just this one. And ppl change, she might not be the same because you're basing this all on an ideal.
If you're over the Gemini then break up cuz you don't believe in the relationship. Don't hold onto her until cancer wants you etc because you may self sabotage Gemini just to get the cancer.
That's not fair to someone you dedicated 2years of your life with.
Can you be single and not in a relationship?click to expand
I'm capable of being single. And that's probably something I should consider at this point.
Posted by CreatingChaos505Lol, you're only considering it so you can go after the cancer dude.Posted by Arielle83Yeah, but very few you actually share chemistry with that transcends friendship. At least from my experience.Posted by CreatingChaos505Think of how many ppl are in the world and the possible mix matches of personality, background and compatibilities that are possible. Heck look at astrology charts if you're basing it on that.Posted by Arielle83Alright, I think you make a valid point. And I do see where you are coming from.
Ya I'm projecting my Capricorn experience, since you are wondering which astrological experience is best for you (Gemini/cancer).
As a cancer who has been with a Capricorn, the cancer will not be happy knowing what you might do to make HER a better option over the Gemini.
Cancer doesn't want a love triangle or drama.
I'd be disgusted knowing you were in a relationship and you thought of me as an option. You know why?
Because you can do it to me? Like I said, cap is always looking for a better option.
But, I'm guessing you just want a bunch of strangers telling you, astrologically, this scenario is "okay", because the better option is simple "cancer".
Look a bit deeper, Capricorn, your shallowness would turn a cancer off.
I realize it's...not an ideal circumstance. But, in all honesty, what DO you do when you are in a scenario where you REALLY were into someone (think of someone from your life who you were SUPER interested in) who had a really similar family background to yours, same sense of humor, same interests and emotional styles, and just other really uncanny similarities...but when you first met them the timing was off. You move on. But then they reappear in your life. what do you do in that scenario? I am asking a genuine question.
The point is there are more ppl in the world for you than just this one. And ppl change, she might not be the same because you're basing this all on an ideal.
If you're over the Gemini then break up cuz you don't believe in the relationship. Don't hold onto her until cancer wants you etc because you may self sabotage Gemini just to get the cancer.
That's not fair to someone you dedicated 2years of your life with.
Can you be single and not in a relationship?
I'm capable of being single. And that's probably something I should consider at this point.click to expand
How was your relationship with the Gemini before the canc
*the cancer came back into the picture?
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