So, okay. This guy and I talked over Snapchat for almost a year before we even decide to hang out with each other. Once we did, I came over to his house and we got along super well. We talked for 6 hours straight, I went with him on a drive to pick up his kitten, and we came back and still talked all night. I stayed with him but I didn’t have sex with him, we just made out a bunch. A week later, he asks me to come over again and takes a day off for me to stay and spend the next day with him. All goes well, talked all night, ended up banging. A few days later, we both got off work early, so I came over for a few hours. Nothing sexual, sensual, just chatting for a few hours and then we both had somewhere to be. But after that is gets weird. He’s asked me to hang out twice since then, but bails every single time. Idk if it’s the Aries, or the cancer moon, Pisces venus or what. But it drives me nuts!! I understand the distance thing, but don’t ask me to hang out if you need space. He messages me every single day, multiple times a day. Especially if I don’t answer. I just don’t understand the flakeyness. Advice?
Gemini woman needs help decoding this damn aries
So, okay. This guy and I talked over Snapchat for almost a year before we even decide to hang out with each other. Once we did, I came over to his house and we got along super well. We talked for 6 hours straight, I went with him on a drive to pick up his kitten, and we came back and still talked all night. I stayed with him but I didn’t have sex with him, we just made out a bunch. A week later, he asks me to come over again and takes a day off for me to stay and spend the next day with him. All goes well, talked all night, ended up banging. A few days later, we both got off work early, so I came over for a few hours. Nothing sexual, sensual, just chatting for a few hours and then we both had somewhere to be. But after that is gets weird. He’s asked me to hang out twice since then, but bails every single time. Idk if it’s the Aries, or the cancer moon, Pisces venus or what. But it drives me nuts!! I understand the distance thing, but don’t ask me to hang out if you need space. He messages me every single day, multiple times a day. Especially if I don’t answer. I just don’t understand the flakeyness. Advice?
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