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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
This has nothing to do with virgo rising. Idk how you could miss that. Speechless.
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well....

honestly I don't know what retrograde is supposed to do to all of us??

😕

all we know of retrograde is don't sign anything serious, don't make appointments that are serious, don't get married don't get a new job.



I had trouble sending money though, like wire transfer money via bank on top of dishwasher broke down.

so I had to do dishes by hand for awhile.



it has been TOUGH!!!! with no dishwasher and not being able to send money.

so yes it is awful!!!!
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
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Maybe their 8th house and whatever's aspecting the venus retrograde is positive. In astrology it's always subject to the quality of aspects involved.

You're actually right, you're comparing yourselves to mzee's case where Aries falls in the 8th house (most likely)
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
Maybe their 8th house and whatever's aspecting the venus retrograde is positive. In astrology it's always subject to the quality of aspects involved.

You're actually right, you're comparing yourselves to mzee's case where Aries falls in the 8th house (most likely)
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I just read mz's case.



he sounds TOXIC.



I would get a restraining order. because that ex keeps coming around like a bad habit.
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
Maybe their 8th house and whatever's aspecting the venus retrograde is positive. In astrology it's always subject to the quality of aspects involved.

You're actually right, you're comparing yourselves to mzee's case where Aries falls in the 8th house (most likely)


I just read mz's case.



he sounds TOXIC.



I would get a restraining order. because that ex keeps coming around like a bad habit.
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So what aspects do they have to Aries around 5 degres?
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
Maybe their 8th house and whatever's aspecting the venus retrograde is positive. In astrology it's always subject to the quality of aspects involved.

You're actually right, you're comparing yourselves to mzee's case where Aries falls in the 8th house (most likely)


I just read mz's case.



he sounds TOXIC.



I would get a restraining order. because that ex keeps coming around like a bad habit.
So what aspects do they have to Aries around 5 degres?
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I just went to take this more seriously so I looked up the retrograde, it's in ARIES venus, Jupiter Libra and NN in Virgo.



here's some clues to the past retrogrades....



http://www.lynnkoiner.com/astrology-articles/venus-retrograde-for-2009



CRITICAL DATES:

APRIL 8 through 15 2017: Venus Stations a square to Saturn Stationing at 27 degrees. April 17 through 22 2017 – Venus Direct square Saturn — these periods can produce sadness or disappointment in relationships. It is not good for finances.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCES:

•During retrograde period in Gemini, I came to the realization that a woman, whose Moon was in Gemini, only valued my friendship as a paying customer and not a true friend. I did not end the relationship but I placed her in the “acquaintance” category.

•The 2004 Gemini transit was surprisingly favorable for relationships in general but a friend with Venus in Gemini in the 12th felt unloved and unappreciated…until Venus turned direct. An advertisement that I bought at the time was a relative loss and, though over-extending my self with too much relating with others, I was exhausted and contracted the Epstein-Barr Virus.

•On the day that Venus turned retrograde in Scorpio, I was able to tell a woman, who had greatly angered me in the past, why I was angry with her – that she was always using me and taking advantage of me. It was different from what she expected and she seemed relieved.

•In Scorpio, I observed a friend being very unkind to an elderly family member. I also observed that she has no patience with people who are ill. While Venus was in Scorpio, I was shocked but I said nothing. Later I knew that this is a great friend whom I care about dearly…but I will just not go to her when I am ill!

•When Venus was in Scorpio, I felt resentful of needy, overly sweet and manipulative people.

•When Venus was Retrograde in Capricorn, I was out of control with eating and my self-esteem was non-existent! A man became very angry when I did not teach astrology classes as I had intended. He took it upon himself to call local astrologers and attack my reputation. While this was disturbing, I became aware of people who did not defend me when he attacked me. I learned who I could trust.

•With regard to financial issues, a store credited 40¢ to my account when I actually paid $ 40. It took months to straighten this out.

•In Virgo into Leo, I was depressed a lot, feeling alone and isolated and feeling sorry for myself for the most part as Venus retrograded back into my 12th House. Health problems became a major issue for a lot of people. With Venus in Leo, we were very aware that our needs were not being met.

•In Aries, it was entirely different! I attended a conference in Serbia. I met some wonderful people who urged me to get on an E-List and this changed my life. I later learned that many people did not size up my personality correctly.

As a 12th House person in the midst of outgoing people, I came across as shy and not very knowledgeable. In later meetings, they were amazed that I was not this way at all. I have subsequently become very good friends with many of the people I met in Belgrad.

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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
Maybe their 8th house and whatever's aspecting the venus retrograde is positive. In astrology it's always subject to the quality of aspects involved.

You're actually right, you're comparing yourselves to mzee's case where Aries falls in the 8th house (most likely)


I just read mz's case.



he sounds TOXIC.



I would get a restraining order. because that ex keeps coming around like a bad habit.
So what aspects do they have to Aries around 5 degres?
I just went to take this more seriously so I looked up the retrograde, it's in ARIES venus, Jupiter Libra and NN in Virgo.



here's some clues to the past retrogrades....



http://www.lynnkoiner.com/astrology-articles/venus-retrograde-for-2009



CRITICAL DATES:

APRIL 8 through 15 2017: Venus Stations a square to Saturn Stationing at 27 degrees. April 17 through 22 2017 – Venus Direct square Saturn — these periods can produce sadness or disappointment in relationships. It is not good for finances.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCES:

•During retrograde period in Gemini, I came to the realization that a woman, whose Moon was in Gemini, only valued my friendship as a paying customer and not a true friend. I did not end the relationship but I placed her in the “acquaintance” category.

•The 2004 Gemini transit was surprisingly favorable for relationships in general but a friend with Venus in Gemini in the 12th felt unloved and unappreciated…until Venus turned direct. An advertisement that I bought at the time was a relative loss and, though over-extending my self with too much relating with others, I was exhausted and contracted the Epstein-Barr Virus.

•On the day that Venus turned retrograde in Scorpio, I was able to tell a woman, who had greatly angered me in the past, why I was angry with her – that she was always using me and taking advantage of me. It was different from what she expected and she seemed relieved.

•In Scorpio, I observed a friend being very unkind to an elderly family member. I also observed that she has no patience with people who are ill. While Venus was in Scorpio, I was shocked but I said nothing. Later I knew that this is a great friend whom I care about dearly…but I will just not go to her when I am ill!

•When Venus was in Scorpio, I felt resentful of needy, overly sweet and manipulative people.

•When Venus was Retrograde in Capricorn, I was out of control with eating and my self-esteem was non-existent! A man became very angry when I did not teach astrology classes as I had intended. He took it upon himself to call local astrologers and attack my reputation. While this was disturbing, I became aware of people who did not defend me when he attacked me. I learned who I could trust.

•With regard to financial issues, a store credited 40¢ to my account when I actually paid $ 40. It took months to straighten this out.

•In Virgo into Leo, I was depressed a lot, feeling alone and isolated and feeling sorry for myself for the most part as Venus retrograded back into my 12th House. Health problems became a major issue for a lot of people. With Venus in Leo, we were very aware that our needs were not being met.

•In Aries, it was entirely different! I attended a conference in Serbia. I met some wonderful people who urged me to get on an E-List and this changed my life. I later learned that many people did not size up my personality correctly.

As a 12th House person in the midst of outgoing people, I came across as shy and not very knowledgeable. In later meetings, they were amazed that I was not this way at all. I have subsequently become very good friends with many of the people I met in Belgrad.

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NO!!! What are you MAN's aspects to the Venus retro?

Interesting info tho.
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Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.

Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.

Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!

So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.

As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.

My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
Awe girl. Sorry to hear.

And good for you for keeping ground!

Good luck!


Well, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.

I feel your pain. IGNORE HIM, it's a mindfuck game!!! Do not respond, repeat DO NOT RESPOND! If you need to reach out to a fellow Virgal about Scorp men please do...


Actually, he texted me last night and my response, "Listen, contact me again, I will contact your girlfriend."

That was it. Done and Done!

Just curious, what did his text say?
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First text on Mon was just "?" followed by a phone call later that night. Ignored both. Then on Thurs, his text, "just wanted to talk". That's when I sent my response.

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I thought I was pretty much in the clear but the other night I had a dream where my pisces ex searched for me and found me and finaly told me he was in love with me. It tore at my heart for the rest of the day when I woke up. I just wanted to go into a drug infused stupor. Then I found out the moon was in pisces....Which probably explains the emotional torment. If it wasn't for having my virgo fwb thurs and Fri to help ground me somewhat id probably have gone into a drug binge it was that bad. I had to fight myself not to contact him. When will this be over—?
So typical...and this is a bad thing, theres no way you should maybe see your ex? What future transits are you having?
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Some of this VR has been awesome for me...business wise things have been literally off the wall busy and there's been a huge increase in sales. So, money has been rolling in like crazy. So....definitely NOT complaining about that. I could deal very easily with this until April 16th. LOL

My emotions were all over the place until last week...had some seriously ugly cry moments. I more or less looked inwards and pulled myself together. I'm in a good mental space right now...I'm focusing on myself and staying present in my thoughts the best I can.

People stuff...I have a friend who is more than a friend who's being very distant. Saw him on the eve of VR and then he went more or less silent since then. He answered a couple of texts of mine on the 10th and he sounded okay...and then literally nothing since then. My imessages have gone undelivered since the 12th. So...I'm thinking he may have blocked me. He has usually come back after distancing himself after about 10 - 14 days. This is the longest he's been quiet. He has combat PTSD...and I think there are some feels he felt the last time we got together spooked him. I think I actually saw fear in his face when I last saw him. I'm giving him space right now...I think I will try sending him a card when Venus goes direct. But, I have been seeing what going on between us more clearly and I have been processing things more objectively this month. There is a silver lining on him being quiet though...I don't have him as a distraction while my business is really busy.

I'm not looking forward to Mercury in Retrograde coming up...things always go nuts for me during those.

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I thought I was pretty much in the clear but the other night I had a dream where my pisces ex searched for me and found me and finaly told me he was in love with me. It tore at my heart for the rest of the day when I woke up. I just wanted to go into a drug infused stupor. Then I found out the moon was in pisces....Which probably explains the emotional torment. If it wasn't for having my virgo fwb thurs and Fri to help ground me somewhat id probably have gone into a drug binge it was that bad. I had to fight myself not to contact him. When will this be over—?
So typical...and this is a bad thing, theres no way you should maybe see your ex? What future transits are you having?
No. He just lies. So much that I don't know who I fell in love with. Him or some fictional him. He's dealing with some legal matters that he doesn't know I know about(public records are a wonderful thing) but I really want to avoid anything until this venus Rx crap ends. I do love him and if he could be honest with me I'd be with him. But, until then, no.

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Well lies =probably Pisces, and they don't lie to be mean, they just see life from a greater perspective. If they're cornered they'll just start to say anything!...lol it's part of their make up. But you have Pisces moon, maybe you're fit for eachother. But in any case waiting for VR to end is a good idea.
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I've started listening to my "inner voice" which is now helping me cope with this Venus retrograde. Since my Venus is in the 12th anyway, this seems like a good idea. I had a few warnings which I ignored to my dismay of problems I could have avoided. Things are going better since I began doing this a few days ago. Before that things were pretty bad. Everything going wrong.