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Do you meal how is you venous sigh making you feel?

Or effecting your personality or life?

Because I want a lot of freedom lol!

Like I want to explore every chance I get!

I guess that's normal to feel that way but I feel that way every day!

I not only want to explore with activates

but with people and relationships.

And traveling.

I am such an extrovert I will latterly be in a room full of people and talk to any one even if they are just an acquaintance or stranger in a matter of minutes.
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
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Virgo rising.



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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.



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For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
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Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.

Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.

Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!

So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.

As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.

My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
Awe girl. Sorry to hear.

And good for you for keeping ground!

Good luck!

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Well, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.
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Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.

As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.

Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.



On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.

Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.

Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.

Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Hugs, Mark, for posting this for us!

Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!

My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡

I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!

Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!

Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!

Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!

That is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?
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Funny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")
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Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.

Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.

Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!

So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.

As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.

My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
Awe girl. Sorry to hear.

And good for you for keeping ground!

Good luck!


Well, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.
That hurts.

He is gone though. If he wanted to say something he woulda left a message at an appropriate and sober hour.

Social media is not all it seems anyway.

It can dig up hurts at the wrong times too because you know what you're looking for and you will find it.

I'm surprised you don't have his phone and social media blocked. Not for him- for you! Closure comes when you accept it.

Let sleeping dogs lie.



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My phone doesn't have a block option. I have him on the auto reject option but he's still able to call and text me. 😢
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The same thing happens to me, I'm thinking a lot about my ex girlfriend (4 years ago) She broke the relationship with her boyfriend this week and I found out that the reason was because it still misses me. I'm all surprised ... is this venus? We both share Venus in the same sign and same house (I do not know if that matters)
Yes of course it matrers....house is how and where it will affect you, sign is the style .

For example Venus in Aries in the 3rd house it will affect you in your daily activities, short distance travel, communication, and things might be rough or violent or crazy or sexual (Aries).

Say it's Leo 9th house it will affect your philosophy, big ideas, or long distance travel, and things will happen related to your social contacts, hobbies, gambling...
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Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.

As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.

Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.



On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.

Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.

Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.

Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Hugs, Mark, for posting this for us!

Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!

My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡

I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!

Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!

Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!

Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!

That is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?
Funny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")

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So this Venus retrograde is in your 3rd house, so it's affecting short distance travel, communication, texts, phone etc...and neighbors, and siblings...
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How do i figure out what house the retrograde is in currently for myself?

where is Aries 6 degree in your chart?

6th house? health and routine.
So you know about houses and transits but you won't say which house it's in for you, which would explain why it isnt affecting you..

oh no. I did not know house was asked. it is 4. in theory I'm in the middle of a relocation. practically lost in dxp.
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You don't have to ask for houses to discuss houses...it's just a natural reflex to look deeper i.e. house and sign is theres something unusual like no effect from the retrograde at all.

Physical relocation? And lost in dxp? Do you jse it too much and not do anything else?
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Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.

As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.

Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.



On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.

Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.

Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.

Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Hugs, Mark, for posting this for us!

Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!

My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡

I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!

Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!

Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!

Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!

That is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?
Funny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")


So this Venus retrograde is in your 3rd house, so it's affecting short distance travel, communication, texts, phone etc...and neighbors, and siblings...
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Tell me about it! I've been communicating w/the Gemini (he's not Taurus 😢 and I have to reboot my phone six times (we have hot spots at work) just to open his media contents. Grrrrrr 😡 Instead of calling Spectrum (before it was Time Warner) I (tenacious me) fooled around w/my kiddo's tv and I got the signal going again! (Mom is too smart! 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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I have no houses in aries, only my Descendant obviosuly since im Libra rising. How would that effect it?

have you been thinking/reviewing your ways with your family members? domestic matters? any of them got back at you?


Very much so.

But no, no one is getting back to me.
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this is what I'd assume OP wanted to know.

were those reviewing of issues, manners and memories easy for you? did they make sad? did you have to cry over past things?
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
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Can you splain that in dummy terms.

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Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.

As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.

Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.



On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.

Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.

Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.

Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Hugs, Mark, for posting this for us!

Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!

My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡

I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!

Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!

Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!

Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!

That is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?
Funny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")


So this Venus retrograde is in your 3rd house, so it's affecting short distance travel, communication, texts, phone etc...and neighbors, and siblings...
Tell me about it! I've been communicating w/the Gemini (he's not Taurus 😢 and I have to reboot my phone six times (we have hot spots at work) just to open his media contents. Grrrrrr 😡 Instead of calling Spectrum (before it was Time Warner) I (tenacious me) fooled around w/my kiddo's tv and I got the signal going again! (Mom is too smart! 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Oh yes lots of communication tech involved...and you're savvy! That's good! Lol ?
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.

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If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
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Alright- so weird story

Funny tho-

So- last night i posted for the past week i had been contemplating contacting someone from my past. Well, i choose to disregard it cause ya know- I make my own choices, didn't want it to be a venus thinger. lol

I just upgraded my phone- merged my contact list- thought i was hitting up a buddy of mine on the west coast today-

No- it's the dude i had been thinking about contacting.

It's crazy as it's been a year since we was last talked. I thought he had a new number, i was going to ask a friend if she knew how to get in contact with him.

Idk, hella weird.
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I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.

I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.
Where's your Mars?
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My Gem ex has Venus retro passing over his Moon! So I thought he has been thinking of me, since I was his last serious girlfriend and we've been dancing together recently.

Well, according to his FB, it turns out he was thinking about his first ever attempts to get laid, several decades ago in Oxford!

It looks like he is very thorough, taking it in chronological order 😄. And I'm his very last 😛
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Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.

Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.

Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!

So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.

As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.

My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
Awe girl. Sorry to hear.

And good for you for keeping ground!

Good luck!


Well, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.

I feel your pain. IGNORE HIM, it's a mindfuck game!!! Do not respond, repeat DO NOT RESPOND! If you need to reach out to a fellow Virgal about Scorp men please do...

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Actually, he texted me last night and my response, "Listen, contact me again, I will contact your girlfriend."

That was it. Done and Done!
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I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.

I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.
Where's your Mars?
It's in Leo in 12th house.
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Ok so your 8th house, of long term marriage, financial problems, death etc...is linked to your 12th house of dreams, and spiritual detachment. It's no coincidence that you dream of him therefore...and getting rid of his stuff is a way to get rid of his energy. I suggest doing a ritual or something, go in nature, burn a candle, look up spells, white magic...

Why can't you contact him and fix things?
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I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.

I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.
Where's your Mars?
It's in Leo in 12th house.
Ok so your 8th house, of long term marriage, financial problems, death etc...is linked to your 12th house of dreams, and spiritual detachment. It's no coincidence that you dream of him therefore...and getting rid of his stuff is a way to get rid of his energy. I suggest doing a ritual or something, go in nature, burn a candle, look up spells, white magic...

Why can't you contact him and fix things?
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Burn some sage.
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I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.

I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.
Where's your Mars?
It's in Leo in 12th house.
Ok so your 8th house, of long term marriage, financial problems, death etc...is linked to your 12th house of dreams, and spiritual detachment. It's no coincidence that you dream of him therefore...and getting rid of his stuff is a way to get rid of his energy. I suggest doing a ritual or something, go in nature, burn a candle, look up spells, white magic...

Why can't you contact him and fix things?

Thank you for that, it's really helpful. That makes sense. I haven't contacted because he's the one that broke it off and I want to respect that decision. I don't have the confidence to contact and it really just shattered my faith in him, I don't think I can ever get it back. I think I just need to let it go.

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Ok. I understand. So, remember your love life, the more serious kind, is linked to the greatest kind of spirituality. You probably should become an expert in white magic, do a ritual for everything. Maybe you don't believe or don't want to be a "new age freak" but these things work, it's about the subtle energies and you're absolutely tuned into that. And it's Mars, it's a big deal. I heard of Mars in the 2nd and it really affects how people treat possessions, Mars in house seems a big thing.
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My Gem ex has Venus retro passing over his Moon! So I thought he has been thinking of me, since I was his last serious girlfriend and we've been dancing together recently.

Well, according to his FB, it turns out he was thinking about his first ever attempts to get laid, several decades ago in Oxford!

It looks like he is very thorough, taking it in chronological order 😄. And I'm his very last 😛
People never change hey girl? 😐

Keep moving forward xx
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My Gem ex has Venus retro passing over his Moon! So I thought he has been thinking of me, since I was his last serious girlfriend and we've been dancing together recently.

Well, according to his FB, it turns out he was thinking about his first ever attempts to get laid, several decades ago in Oxford!

It looks like he is very thorough, taking it in chronological order 😄. And I'm his very last 😛
People never change hey girl? 😐

Keep moving forward xx
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Thanks, Star. He will still be in my future if I become a salsa addict like him! I recently met someone at salsa and there were sparks the first time around. It turned out it was a friends of my Gem ex! Yesterday night he didn't pay attention to me at all 😐. Could it be that Gem said something about me to put him off?
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Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.

Follows me around.

Calls my phone at odd times of the night.

Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.

Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.

Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.

I need some donuts.


Does he have a Libra rising?
Virgo rising.




For some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?
Can you splain that in dummy terms.


If he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.

And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....
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uh no.



Ryan Reynolds is virgo rising and so is my man and we're not having any problems. 😕



you all are scared of something. lol

just don't do anything bad and keep on the down low and stay on the good side of life, and obey the laws ect. easy peasy.

live life and be good.
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My ex, got engaged after 3 months of dating someone, oh & my cycle just started -_-

So a lot of crying, hopefully that parts over


I didn't read everyone's responses...



aw that's too bad about your ex.



he wasn't for you anyway, there's another person out there. maybe on here on dxp. some lovely single man who is looking for a good girl.