
Is your 2nd house Aries?


Posted by mzmeeDoes he have a Libra rising?
Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.
Follows me around.
Calls my phone at odd times of the night.
Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.
Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.
Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.
I need some donuts.


Posted by bricklemarkNo, it's actually Capricorn!Posted by LilianniIs your 2nd house Aries?
I've been spending a lot of money.
I usually don't.click to expand


Posted by bricklemarkVirgo rising.Posted by mzmeeDoes he have a Libra rising?
Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.
Follows me around.
Calls my phone at odd times of the night.
Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.
Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.
Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.
I need some donuts.
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Posted by LilianniSo Venus in Aries is square your 2nd house riht now....Pluto is in Capricorn right now...something's being squared ?Posted by bricklemarkNo, it's actually Capricorn!Posted by LilianniIs your 2nd house Aries?
I've been spending a lot of money.
I usually don't.
But I have Neptune, Jupiter, and Uranus in there.click to expand

Posted by mzmeeFor some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?Posted by bricklemarkVirgo rising.Posted by mzmeeDoes he have a Libra rising?
Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.
Follows me around.
Calls my phone at odd times of the night.
Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.
Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.
Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.
I need some donuts.
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Posted by Nevermore
My period didn't arrived. So thats my venus retrograde.
As fornexes.. thank god I wouldn't get them. Except for dreams though 😐


Posted by DistilledWell, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.Posted by WalkergrlAwe girl. Sorry to hear.
Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.
Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.
Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!
So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.
As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.
My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
And good for you for keeping ground!
Good luck!
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Posted by bricklemarkFunny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.Posted by EvatheDivaThat is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by bricklemarkHugs, Mark, for posting this for us!
Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.
As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.
Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.
On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.
Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.
Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.
Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!
My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡
I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!
Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!
Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!
Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!click to expand

Posted by DistilledMy phone doesn't have a block option. I have him on the auto reject option but he's still able to call and text me. 😢Posted by WalkergrlThat hurts.Posted by DistilledWell, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.Posted by WalkergrlAwe girl. Sorry to hear.
Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.
Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.
Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!
So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.
As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.
My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
And good for you for keeping ground!
Good luck!
He is gone though. If he wanted to say something he woulda left a message at an appropriate and sober hour.
Social media is not all it seems anyway.
It can dig up hurts at the wrong times too because you know what you're looking for and you will find it.
I'm surprised you don't have his phone and social media blocked. Not for him- for you! Closure comes when you accept it.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
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Posted by FrancoYes of course it matrers....house is how and where it will affect you, sign is the style .
The same thing happens to me, I'm thinking a lot about my ex girlfriend (4 years ago) She broke the relationship with her boyfriend this week and I found out that the reason was because it still misses me. I'm all surprised ... is this venus? We both share Venus in the same sign and same house (I do not know if that matters)

Posted by EvatheDivaSo this Venus retrograde is in your 3rd house, so it's affecting short distance travel, communication, texts, phone etc...and neighbors, and siblings...Posted by bricklemarkFunny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.Posted by EvatheDivaThat is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by bricklemarkHugs, Mark, for posting this for us!
Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.
As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.
Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.
On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.
Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.
Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.
Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!
My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡
I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!
Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!
Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!
Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")
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Posted by heliumfiasco
How do i figure out what house the retrograde is in currently for myself?

Posted by heliumfiascoIt's the house where aries is.
How do i figure out what house the retrograde is in currently for myself?

Posted by DwellingOnMoveSo you know about houses and transits but you won't say which house it's in for you, which would explain why it isnt affecting you..Posted by heliumfiasco
How do i figure out what house the retrograde is in currently for myself?
where is Aries 6 degree in your chart?
6th house? health and routine.click to expand

Posted by bricklemarkPosted by heliumfiascoIt's the house where aries is.
How do i figure out what house the retrograde is in currently for myself?click to expand

Posted by DwellingOnMoveYou don't have to ask for houses to discuss houses...it's just a natural reflex to look deeper i.e. house and sign is theres something unusual like no effect from the retrograde at all.Posted by bricklemarkPosted by DwellingOnMoveSo you know about houses and transits but you won't say which house it's in for you, which would explain why it isnt affecting you..Posted by heliumfiasco
How do i figure out what house the retrograde is in currently for myself?
where is Aries 6 degree in your chart?
6th house? health and routine.
oh no. I did not know house was asked. it is 4. in theory I'm in the middle of a relocation. practically lost in dxp.click to expand


Posted by bricklemarkTell me about it! I've been communicating w/the Gemini (he's not Taurus 😢 and I have to reboot my phone six times (we have hot spots at work) just to open his media contents. Grrrrrr 😡 Instead of calling Spectrum (before it was Time Warner) I (tenacious me) fooled around w/my kiddo's tv and I got the signal going again! (Mom is too smart! 😄Posted by EvatheDivaSo this Venus retrograde is in your 3rd house, so it's affecting short distance travel, communication, texts, phone etc...and neighbors, and siblings...Posted by bricklemarkFunny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.Posted by EvatheDivaThat is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by bricklemarkHugs, Mark, for posting this for us!
Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.
As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.
Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.
On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.
Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.
Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.
Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!
My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡
I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!
Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!
Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!
Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")
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Posted by DwellingOnMoveVery much so.Posted by heliumfiasco
I have no houses in aries, only my Descendant obviosuly since im Libra rising. How would that effect it?
have you been thinking/reviewing your ways with your family members? domestic matters? any of them got back at you?
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Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by DwellingOnMoveVery much so.Posted by heliumfiasco
I have no houses in aries, only my Descendant obviosuly since im Libra rising. How would that effect it?
have you been thinking/reviewing your ways with your family members? domestic matters? any of them got back at you?
But no, no one is getting back to me.click to expand

Posted by bricklemarkCan you splain that in dummy terms.Posted by mzmeeFor some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?Posted by bricklemarkVirgo rising.Posted by mzmeeDoes he have a Libra rising?
Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.
Follows me around.
Calls my phone at odd times of the night.
Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.
Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.
Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.
I need some donuts.
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Posted by EvatheDivaOh yes lots of communication tech involved...and you're savvy! That's good! Lol ?Posted by bricklemarkTell me about it! I've been communicating w/the Gemini (he's not Taurus 😢 and I have to reboot my phone six times (we have hot spots at work) just to open his media contents. Grrrrrr 😡 Instead of calling Spectrum (before it was Time Warner) I (tenacious me) fooled around w/my kiddo's tv and I got the signal going again! (Mom is too smart! 😄Posted by EvatheDivaSo this Venus retrograde is in your 3rd house, so it's affecting short distance travel, communication, texts, phone etc...and neighbors, and siblings...Posted by bricklemarkFunny you should ask! Only one -- Aries on the 3rd House Cusp: Aries is the sign of pioneers, leaders and 'firsts'. It is impulsive, assertive, and spontaneous. It tends to act first, only thinking about what it may have done later. Rushing in where others fear to tread, Aries energy is attention-getting and always provokes a response from the surroundings and from others. It takes decisive action and loves self-reliance.Posted by EvatheDivaThat is some hardcore activity...do you have Aries in the chart?Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by bricklemarkHugs, Mark, for posting this for us!
Venus is retrograde from March 2 to April 15, 2017.
As the planet of love and values, Venus retrograde periods are times when we re-assess what—and who—we value. It is a period that many astrologers consider inopportune for getting married or starting a new relationship. Major financial undertakings are not advised during this period either. Venus retrograde cycles are good times for creating budgets and financial plans, and for re-thinking our personal relationships. Taking final action in the areas of finance and love, however, is not advised until Venus turns direct again.
Because Venus rules beauty and aesthetics, Venus Retrograde is a less than ideal time for beautification processes (new hairdos, enhancements, purchasing a new wardrobe, cosmetic surgery, and so forth), renovations, redecorating, and the like. Because Venus is associated with social events, parties may not go as planned.
On the subject of love, past lovers may re-appear, and some relationships may end. With Venus retrograde in Aries much of its retrograde cycle, our needs for action may be especially high but frustrated. We may question how much independence and confidence we have in our relationships. With Venus in Pisces towards the end of the cycle, the tendency for misplaced faith, or to be blind-sighted, in love may be strong. The compassion we’re seeking may be missing now.
Old friends and lovers may re-appear, perhaps complicating current relationships. We are called upon to deal with relationship issues from the past during this Venus retrograde cycle. Events occur that seem fated or predestined. It can be a real challenge getting close to a lover during this period. Unorthodox, experimental, and non-intimate relationships may be favored.
Venus is in its detriment in the sign of Aries (Aries is opposite Libra, which Venus rules). Some of the more negative associations of Venus in Aries may be particularly prominent and/or hard to take, and these include impatience, arrogance, and childishness or naivety. Those who have Aries strong in their charts may be more introspective, distant, or hard to reach during this cycle. They may not be in a very favorable light just now, and they may be reconsidering things.
Relationships that have been especially challenging may come to an end during this cycle. However, strong relationships will survive it, even if there are a few bumps and bruises along the way. This can be a good time for “eyes wide open” or experimental dating, although opinions and assessments may change at a later date. It is not a time when people recognize the need for another person to “complete” them. Some people may be questioning whether they are with partners who actually fulfill them. We may, however, be especially in touch with our deeper, less obvious, and less superficial needs and wants. This makes it a good time for re-evaluating our relationship needs; but, again, major love decisions are best saved for after the cycle ends on April 15th, and better yet, beyond the shadow phase as well (after May 18th). Our perceptions may be skewed, and we can come out of the retrograde cycle with regret if we’ve acted hastily, as the tendency to change our minds later is strong.
Yippie! (Eva does a jig)...my birthday was on the 2nd of March (Texas Independence day) when the retro began and I cut my hair two weeks ago. I met a guy on a dating website, went to SPOKEO, looked him up and he is a scammer!! I called him up on it, deleted him on said dating website, and my phone (he keeps calling/texting)..jerk! I met another guy on same website as he lives two hours from my hometown (we'll see what happens) and this one sounds LEGIT (he wants to attend a Spurs game w/me); as I'll look him up on SPOKEO, too. I don't trust any man's intentions (even if I met him at the grocery store); so that means my radar is strong and kicking!
My finances are GREAT! I have lowered my home/auto insurance; but my son's tv (cable) keeps going on the blink twice now and it's aggravating me! 😡
I did some MAJOR spring cleaning this past weekend as it surprised the "procrastination" side of me! And I ordered clothes and shoes this week!
Went out to the club (by myself) last Friday and had a ball!!! Got drunk as a skunk (I took a taxi to and from) and a guy tried to pick me up....not!!
Lord God help the guy that TRIES to come back to my life as I'll tear him a new hole! 😈 I am NOT that desperate as I have a right hand (evil grin here, too) and I don't want anything to jeopardize the new guy that will one day walk into my life....nine more days!!
Other than than I dreamt of a guy telling me, "I saw your toes curl"....hmmmmmm.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Edited to add. My ex-husband texted me last week. I texted back, "Fu*ck off". Told ya I'd tear a new hole!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Just looked up the 2nd guy as I reversed his phone number and got his Facebook account. He texted me his has a 9 yr old and I informed him I have a 10 yr old. His bday shows May 1963 and I'll text him his full bday; either he will be Taurus or Gemini....praying he is a Taurus (tea leaves; coffee cup image I saw a "bull")
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
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Posted by mzmeeIf he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.Posted by bricklemarkCan you splain that in dummy terms.Posted by mzmeeFor some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?Posted by bricklemarkVirgo rising.Posted by mzmeeDoes he have a Libra rising?
Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.
Follows me around.
Calls my phone at odd times of the night.
Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.
Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.
Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.
I need some donuts.
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Posted by CaploveWhere's your Mars?
I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.
I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.


Posted by JustJulesActually, he texted me last night and my response, "Listen, contact me again, I will contact your girlfriend."Posted by WalkergrlPosted by DistilledWell, I just found out this morning that he (Scorp) has posted on his fb that he's in a relationship as of last night. He's full of mind fukkery and right now I feel pretty angry. WTF Why was he texting me and calling me 3 nights ago... I want him gone. Dammit.Posted by WalkergrlAwe girl. Sorry to hear.
Had a handful of one-time dates reach out to me.
Also, got some closure with the Scorp only for him to reach out via text last Monday followed by a phone call several hours later. Didn't respond to either. I did entertain revenge for a hot minute but decided to just chill and let the silence do its job.
Took an exam that I had to drive 3 hours one way for, last Friday... Passed!
So, all in all, going somewhat smooth. If only I could get my work hours up but I realize it takes time.
As for dating, that's all on the back burner until the end of April. (not that I'm putting an actual date on things) I'm feeling good and in no hurry to meet someone. More focused on family and friends right now.
My friends, though... damn. They're going through so much. Breakups. Death. Deployment. The list goes on and on...
And good for you for keeping ground!
Good luck!
I feel your pain. IGNORE HIM, it's a mindfuck game!!! Do not respond, repeat DO NOT RESPOND! If you need to reach out to a fellow Virgal about Scorp men please do...
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Posted by CaploveOk so your 8th house, of long term marriage, financial problems, death etc...is linked to your 12th house of dreams, and spiritual detachment. It's no coincidence that you dream of him therefore...and getting rid of his stuff is a way to get rid of his energy. I suggest doing a ritual or something, go in nature, burn a candle, look up spells, white magic...Posted by bricklemarkIt's in Leo in 12th house.Posted by CaploveWhere's your Mars?
I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.
I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.click to expand

Posted by bricklemarkBurn some sage.Posted by CaploveOk so your 8th house, of long term marriage, financial problems, death etc...is linked to your 12th house of dreams, and spiritual detachment. It's no coincidence that you dream of him therefore...and getting rid of his stuff is a way to get rid of his energy. I suggest doing a ritual or something, go in nature, burn a candle, look up spells, white magic...Posted by bricklemarkIt's in Leo in 12th house.Posted by CaploveWhere's your Mars?
I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.
I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.
Why can't you contact him and fix things?click to expand

Posted by CaplovePosted by bricklemarkPosted by CaploveOk so your 8th house, of long term marriage, financial problems, death etc...is linked to your 12th house of dreams, and spiritual detachment. It's no coincidence that you dream of him therefore...and getting rid of his stuff is a way to get rid of his energy. I suggest doing a ritual or something, go in nature, burn a candle, look up spells, white magic...Posted by bricklemarkIt's in Leo in 12th house.Posted by CaploveWhere's your Mars?
I've been thinking about my ex a lot, so I can't wait for this to be over. I've been dreaming of him almost every night and it's incredibly annoying because I just wanna move on, you know? Aries is in my 8th house but I don't have any planets there.
I really wish I could have changed the way I handled some of our problems but it's too late and I just have to fix it in my mind for next time I suppose. I threw away some things he left for me when he moved out. I just didn't want them in the house anymore.
Why can't you contact him and fix things?
Thank you for that, it's really helpful. That makes sense. I haven't contacted because he's the one that broke it off and I want to respect that decision. I don't have the confidence to contact and it really just shattered my faith in him, I don't think I can ever get it back. I think I just need to let it go.
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Posted by UndinePeople never change hey girl? 😐
My Gem ex has Venus retro passing over his Moon! So I thought he has been thinking of me, since I was his last serious girlfriend and we've been dancing together recently.
Well, according to his FB, it turns out he was thinking about his first ever attempts to get laid, several decades ago in Oxford!
It looks like he is very thorough, taking it in chronological order 😄. And I'm his very last 😛

Posted by MyStarsShineThanks, Star. He will still be in my future if I become a salsa addict like him! I recently met someone at salsa and there were sparks the first time around. It turned out it was a friends of my Gem ex! Yesterday night he didn't pay attention to me at all 😐. Could it be that Gem said something about me to put him off?Posted by UndinePeople never change hey girl? 😐
My Gem ex has Venus retro passing over his Moon! So I thought he has been thinking of me, since I was his last serious girlfriend and we've been dancing together recently.
Well, according to his FB, it turns out he was thinking about his first ever attempts to get laid, several decades ago in Oxford!
It looks like he is very thorough, taking it in chronological order 😄. And I'm his very last 😛
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Posted by bricklemarkuh no.Posted by mzmeeIf he has virgo rising, then 2nd house is probably Libra, and so 8th house is opposite, Aries, where Venus is right now.Posted by bricklemarkCan you splain that in dummy terms.Posted by mzmeeFor some reason l imagined you saying that..lol and l thought "why am l thinking that? Shes probably gonna say Libra rising, but even if she did, then Libra would be in 2nd house, meaning the Venus retro in Aries is in his 8th, so it's long term marriage and joint finances being affected" ?Posted by bricklemarkVirgo rising.Posted by mzmeeDoes he have a Libra rising?
Ex husband has been consistently stalking me.
Follows me around.
Calls my phone at odd times of the night.
Caught his first case from beating on his new wife.
Called me to bail him out. Denied his request.
Yeah. Venus regularlator, retrograde, restriction,what the fuck ever, just be done.
I need some donuts.
And if Venus is retrodgrade Aries, in 8th house, then there are be some serious problems related to law, violence, marriage etc....click to expand
Posted by SpotlessmindI didn't read everyone's responses...
My ex, got engaged after 3 months of dating someone, oh & my cycle just started -_-
So a lot of crying, hopefully that parts over
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