How can I " cure " my Venus in the 12th house?

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Do you have friends and family?
One true friend and an okay family... i guess its normal right?!
Yes it's perfectly normal. I can count the amount of true friends I have on one hand and 2 of them are family members. Most people are like that.

The notion of families can be hyped up and exaggerated. I'm not saying they're a bad thing but tv and movies tends to make happy sunshine rainbow families a norm when they're not. Your Ok family are probably more than ok (sorry if I'm being ignorant. There are probably things about your family I don't know about that might make them not so good) but comparing them to tv and movie families distorts this. All families have issues, that's the real norm.

I bet you have trouble connecting with people.
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Not at all but the person need to be eccentric or interesting in my eyes, if not i prefer to be alone.

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Do you have friends and family?
One true friend and an okay family... i guess its normal right?!
Yes it's perfectly normal. I can count the amount of true friends I have on one hand and 2 of them are family members. Most people are like that.

The notion of families can be hyped up and exaggerated. I'm not saying they're a bad thing but tv and movies tends to make happy sunshine rainbow families a norm when they're not. Your Ok family are probably more than ok (sorry if I'm being ignorant. There are probably things about your family I don't know about that might make them not so good) but comparing them to tv and movie families distorts this. All families have issues, that's the real norm.

I bet you have trouble connecting with people.
Not at all but the person need to be eccentric or interesting in my eyes, if not i prefer to be alone.



Do you think these eccentric or interesting people would like you back?

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Sure but normally its too much craziness for both of us to last
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Do you have friends and family?
One true friend and an okay family... i guess its normal right?!
Yes it's perfectly normal. I can count the amount of true friends I have on one hand and 2 of them are family members. Most people are like that.

The notion of families can be hyped up and exaggerated. I'm not saying they're a bad thing but tv and movies tends to make happy sunshine rainbow families a norm when they're not. Your Ok family are probably more than ok (sorry if I'm being ignorant. There are probably things about your family I don't know about that might make them not so good) but comparing them to tv and movie families distorts this. All families have issues, that's the real norm.

I bet you have trouble connecting with people.
Not at all but the person need to be eccentric or interesting in my eyes, if not i prefer to be alone.



Do you think these eccentric or interesting people would like you back?

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the other question is if their liking back can warm his heart.

I'd say an Aqua might have interesting talks with a Gemini or a Sag, but with a Cancer they might feel the whole house is warmer than before.

with good luck he can have a mix of both worlds.
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Do you have friends and family?
One true friend and an okay family... i guess its normal right?!
Yes it's perfectly normal. I can count the amount of true friends I have on one hand and 2 of them are family members. Most people are like that.

The notion of families can be hyped up and exaggerated. I'm not saying they're a bad thing but tv and movies tends to make happy sunshine rainbow families a norm when they're not. Your Ok family are probably more than ok (sorry if I'm being ignorant. There are probably things about your family I don't know about that might make them not so good) but comparing them to tv and movie families distorts this. All families have issues, that's the real norm.

I bet you have trouble connecting with people.
Not at all but the person need to be eccentric or interesting in my eyes, if not i prefer to be alone.



Do you think these eccentric or interesting people would like you back?


Sure but normally its too much craziness for both of us to last



What craziness?

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Crzy stories to share, life style and mind. Nobody gets impressed
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A loving family helps a lot. So do good friends. Giving love to pets is also a positive thing to do. Animals will love you unconditionally and make you feel great about yourself as a result. People with Venus in the 12th are especially good with large animals like horses, or even wild animals and this is true. I have a great rapport with wildlife.

Dating every woman in the world isn't going to help you because you'll just run into the same problem every time. You have to find a way to heal yourself. IMHO.
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A loving family helps a lot. So do good friends. Giving love to pets is also a positive thing to do. Animals will love you unconditionally and make you feel great about yourself as a result. People with Venus in the 12th are especially good with large animals like horses, or even wild animals and this is true. I have a great rapport with wildlife.

Dating every woman in the world isn't going to help you because you'll just run into the same problem every time. You have to find a way to heal yourself. IMHO.


I live in a big city, its impossible for me to have contact with the wild life constatly.

I have good friends and a normal family but I always felt unloved, I don't want to date every woman for the sake of it, I like to have a deep connection with them, its like every woman that I know and have a deep connection it feeds me but it doesnt last more than 3 months.

I can't commit to a relationship even wanting to.
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A loving family helps a lot. So do good friends. Giving love to pets is also a positive thing to do. Animals will love you unconditionally and make you feel great about yourself as a result. People with Venus in the 12th are especially good with large animals like horses, or even wild animals and this is true. I have a great rapport with wildlife.

Dating every woman in the world isn't going to help you because you'll just run into the same problem every time. You have to find a way to heal yourself. IMHO.


I live in a big city, its impossible for me to have contact with the wild life constatly.

I have good friends and a normal family but I always felt unloved, I don't want to date every woman for the sake of it, I like to have a deep connection with them, its like every woman that I know and have a deep connection it feeds me but it doesnt last more than 3 months.

I can't commit to a relationship even wanting to.
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maybe write a legacy about your love?? like dante Alighieri? make it into a talent that the world will LOVE.

that's probably your destiny. put all your love into a work.

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A loving family helps a lot. So do good friends. Giving love to pets is also a positive thing to do. Animals will love you unconditionally and make you feel great about yourself as a result. People with Venus in the 12th are especially good with large animals like horses, or even wild animals and this is true. I have a great rapport with wildlife.

Dating every woman in the world isn't going to help you because you'll just run into the same problem every time. You have to find a way to heal yourself. IMHO.


I live in a big city, its impossible for me to have contact with the wild life constatly.

I have good friends and a normal family but I always felt unloved, I don't want to date every woman for the sake of it, I like to have a deep connection with them, its like every woman that I know and have a deep connection it feeds me but it doesnt last more than 3 months.

I can't commit to a relationship even wanting to.
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Why not? Just saying that doesn't even make sense. If you truly wanted to commit, you'd commit. Sounds like to me you could use some therapy to deal with your issues and a better coping mechanism than self-sabotage. I'm pretty sure at least one of those women tried to connect and you slammed the door in her face. Best I can offer you is this...if you can't love yourself, how do you expect anyone to be able to love you in a way you'd understand? You have no frame of reference if you've never felt loved. So learn to love yourself and fill that void on your own....the rest of the pieces will fall into place.
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A loving family helps a lot. So do good friends. Giving love to pets is also a positive thing to do. Animals will love you unconditionally and make you feel great about yourself as a result. People with Venus in the 12th are especially good with large animals like horses, or even wild animals and this is true. I have a great rapport with wildlife.

Dating every woman in the world isn't going to help you because you'll just run into the same problem every time. You have to find a way to heal yourself. IMHO.


I live in a big city, its impossible for me to have contact with the wild life constatly.

I have good friends and a normal family but I always felt unloved, I don't want to date every woman for the sake of it, I like to have a deep connection with them, its like every woman that I know and have a deep connection it feeds me but it doesnt last more than 3 months.

I can't commit to a relationship even wanting to.
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Why can't you commit to a relationship even when you want to? There must be a reason. 12th house Venus tends to live in the past and focuses on past relationships, unable to look forward and embrace the future. This used to hinder me a lot. 12th house Venus tends to idealize a prospective partner in their minds so the reality never lives up to expectations.