I have a stalker

I have this guy who is like in LOVE LOVE LOVE with me. I am not kidding you either. He has been in love with me for 2 years now, I used to go to school with him but the thing is we never spoke in high school. and when i found him again on myspace i was like do you remember me we went to school together and he said oh yes i do. and we spoke well we were friends for a year after that and he came to my house and i went to the movies with him JUST AS FRIENDS. And i never really knew he had feelings for me till i found out. I'm dating someone else and he hates the guy so much. And I moved far away too to be with this guy and my friend is still in chicago of course texting my phone everyday saying come home hes not good for you, always wanting me to talk to him all the time asking me what im doing. He gets too stalkerish he has my myspace and he would go to it over 10000 times in a day, and if i change my status to like im sick he will message me right away why are u sick whats wrong? like one of those dudes who just wont back the fuck off.
He would like message me saying "You are the most beautiful woman I ever seen in my whole life." and you know what he wont get away from me, he even cries too when i left to come here he said he was crying to his friend on the phone. He used to come visit me at work with a video camera an video taping me at work .. and he also saved all my pictures from my myspace to his phone and he looks at them all the time. When I got a xbox live account right he bought the xbox and the internet with it just to talk to me. The guy would go through barriars or whatever just to freaking be with me. Hes so weird though i dont see him like that and hes really obsessed with me to the point where it does become stalkerish. one time i was at home and i didnt want to talk to anyone and hes like please talk to me and he actually drove to my house to ask me whats wrong i mean thats how stalkerish he is. Jeesus christ.

I just want to know what makes him like that, I have his chart too. Hes a sun sagittaurius but i dont think its his sun that makes him ought to be that way. this is his chart:

Rising Sign is in 16 Degrees Gemini
Sun is in 04 Degrees Sagittarius.
Moon is in 28 Degrees Taurus.
Mercury is in 09 Degrees Sagittarius.
Venus is in 21 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 18 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 11 Degrees Aquarius.
Saturn is in 01 Degrees Sagittarius.
Uranus is in 17 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 02 Degrees Capri

My chart is this:

Rising Sign is in 13 Degrees Virgo
Sun is in 13 Degrees Pisces.
Moon is in 27 Degrees Cancer.
Mercury is in 23 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 20 Degrees Aries.
Mars is in 21 Degrees Aries.
Jupiter is in 05 Degrees Aquarius.
Saturn is in 28 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 17 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 03 Degrees Capricorn.


His neptune is in taurus by the way. i didnt know if you needed my chart as well to know why hes attracted to me or whatever but i cant get him off my back.

"Venus in scorp you might wanna look into that"

Is that bad?? oh my god..

I did read something in one of the astrology books i had at my old house. They said if a guy had venus in scorpio like this guy does that he was like really badly a stalker, like he had the whole al bundy type personality.. cuz al bundy had venus in scoprio too.

Lol. I don't think it has anything to do with his chart. I think he's just inbalanced.
I don't think you should be friendly with him anymore. It's clearly giving him false hope. You don't want this turn into a dangerous situation.

He messaged me a few days ago with this letter. Please tell me how stalkerish it sounds or obsessesive..

"rose youre so much better then all of this bullshit. youre better then him and youre better then me. ive ben lying to you for a while now but with everything thats happened lately its time that the lies ended. rose i have been in love with you since before you left and i havent gotten over it. with as much as i was tellin the truth about why i thught you should come back home i always had a thought in the back of my mind that when you come back we would be together. but now i see that can never happen and while i do still love you its only fair that youre the one who the choice whether or not to even talk to me again. and yes rose i do love you but if we do still talk i know that nothing can ecer happen between us. and i was never lying about how that son of a bitch will do nothing but hurt you again. im so sorry for lying to you rose i just thought it was time you knew the truth. if you want to talk after you read this you have my number. i would truly hate it to not have the chance to say goodbye to you."


This is his picture:

Oh jeeze he totally looks like a serial killer.
But anyways, don't talk to him about your relationship problems! For some reason, some dudes - especially creepy stalker types like this dude, think that when you talk to them about your relationship issues it's an invite to be your knight in shining armour. Like you want them to rescue you from your boyfriend and comfort you.
It sounds like you're encouraging his behavior a little, rather you're doing so intentionally or not. Please stop contact with this creep. He already offered to leave you alone. TAKE HIM UP ON THAT OFFER.

Lol @ Sag's being obsessive...

You wish.

Lol @ B.

I have a taurus guys who has been in love with me for 5 years. It's usually a figment of their imagination. You just say that sucks, I hope you get better soon and move on.

Lol, he looks demented to you guys? Damn. Picky bunch here.

He looks like a normal dude to me, but even the nicest looking guy can be insane on the inside.

I'd hate to wonder what you all would think of me when my eyes are red from dry eyes/contacts.

" but even the nicest looking guy can be insane on the inside." Yeah, like chris brown lol

like he had the whole al bundy type personality.. cuz al bundy had venus in scoprio too.

Uh...What?? You mean TED Bundy, you dummy. Al Bundy is a fictional couch potato.


I used to go to school with him but the thing is we never spoke in high school. and when i found him again on myspace i was like do you remember me we went to school together and he said oh yes i do. and we spoke well we were friends for a year after that and he came to my house and i went to the movies with him JUST AS FRIENDS.

Typical dumb, naive chick. So you went to school with the guy but never spoke to him during that time? And you find him on MySpace and randomly decide to start talking to the guy...then you let him come to your house and then go to the movies together?? And then you're shocked when the guy claims he has a crush on you?? You were practically asking for it, you dumb bitch!

I can't stand naive chicks who just don't "get it" with men. The only shot you had of being "just friends" with this guy is if he were Gay.

And I can't blame the guy for acting the way he does to you since you practically brought it upon yourself. Chatting with the guy for over a year, inviting him to your house and then going to the movies together? Jesus Christ. I can see why he was under the impression that you might like him. And now that you've strung him along this far, he isn't going to give up, I can tell you that much.

Unfortunately he can't see how much of a stuck-up cunt you are. And allow me bring you back down to earth a little here, because you need it badly...You aren't that Attractive. I know that you think you're irresistible or whatever and that every guy is a stalker, but cut it out with the "Paris Hilton Syndrome"

Actually I think she is entertained with this whole Stalker stuff..Really its nothing to be bragging about..The questions should be how do I get rid of this guy..

Typical Liberal Attitude. I would bet you my life that she voted for Obama. She could care less if the guy is dangerous, she loves it simply because it helps stroke her ego. She walks around all pompous and high & mighty feeling so flattered that some guy is stalking her that she won't take it seriously. It's the Liberal's way of thinking. Complete stupidity and not thinking things through.

Speaking of Liberals, "irishlibra", you are the most disgusting liberal on this site. As a matter of fact, every Libra is a Liberal (Notice how both words sound similar? Can't spell Liberal without Libra). You all are basically pathetic, weak, pansy "yes men". You just follow the lead of the media or whatever is considered hip and cool. You are completely unable to generate an original thought and you have absolutely NO backbone or integrity.

Libras = Pussy Liberals

And quit kissing this girls ass by telling her she's attractive. She looks like a fucking clown with all that makeup doused all over her face. She's your typical attention-whore liberal with the "I'm so perfect" attitude.

Grow a fucking pair of balls and learn to criticize people every once in a while, you pussy.

"Grow a fucking pair of balls and learn to criticize people every once in a while, you pussy."


Lol....

"She is trying to find an ego boost."

if that's what she wanted, well, it was deffinitely given to her.

all i have to say is......... WOW!! i thought i was in kindergarden for a min there.

on the other hand, lets hope she really isn't being stalked. i don't think all the fighting is really helping. we don't know if this is real or not. but i for one wouldn't feel to good if i saw her on the evening news.

call the cops. i know what it's like. i had a guy who was stalking me and my sis. it wasn't all that funny having some guy silently walking through your yard night after night with kids in the house!! this is a terrifying matter! call the cops every time you see him at your house. eventually the cops will do something about it with enough reports made on him. if he calls tell him ONE time that you don't want to talk to him anymore. then don't except his calls. change your # if he continues to call. and like it's been said, block him on myspace.

it's alot to do, but, it's all small compared to the risk of losing your life. no one will know when it gets to that point, so it's best to take action now.

You guys are all morons. I didnt ask for a ego boost either I just wanted to know what his chart said about HIM as a person. If you cant help me then dont bother replying to this and flaming me, you all sound like a bunch of 5 year old chidren, seriously grow up and a get a life.

Angry couldn't be more right about Libras. I knew I wasn't alone on that.

"When we were together he would say that, and I used to tell him Ill get the gun for him, but that was when I wasn't afraid of him yet.."

Hahahaha!! My ex use to say that to me too and I'd ask him if he wanted me to load the gun for him.He'd just look at me like "WHAT?" Stupid cowardly bastard. He tried to "crash" into a phone pole when I left him to get my attention. The dumbass only swerved off the road missed the poll, jumped the ditch and his truck went into a pond. LOL!!! What a turd.

What the hell is up with Gemgal? Whoa nellie!

PB... Um why would you want his chart if he is stalking you? I was stalked for a short amount of time and all I knew about his was he was a Gem because he told me. After his craziness started in I could have cared less if he was a purple people eater. I wasn't interested in finding out any info on him. If this guy is seriously stalking you stop with all contact or get a restraining order. My guess is you don't need one. What you need to do is tell him that you don't have feelings of any sort for him and that his behavoir is unexceptable. If he doesn't respect your wishes then take the next step of getting a no contact order on him.

Go ahead🙂

Yeah, what about Sag women? 🙂
That's always fun.

hhhhhhummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm every step you take every move you make you belong to me OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH don't you see you belong to me.

sting

"You treetrunking teased him until he fell in love with you and now you are getting a thrill from it. Woopee, all little girls have done this at one point or other. So...it's high time for you to grow up, be a woman, and tell this guy to treetrunk off for real.
Unless you enjoy being a prick tease, which of course will get you plenty of stalkers you idiot."

I agree

ArianMilWife-YOUR BABY IS ADORABLE!!!!

Lol........

Posted by piscesbeauty

This is his picture:

Wow, what a bundle of joy.

u probably led him on and just like the attention since you need to feel so wanted..if you wanted him to stop this wouldnt be an issue...admit you are so flattered..

GEEZ I'm lost...who is Gemgal parading as now— Can't be starfish or Ms pisces!?!?!

Can't leave you guys alone for 2 weeks without all hell breaking loose!! lol

Travesty. Travesty. Girls that lead guys on need to be lead to a cliff in single file and shoved off. No not really, but I have a terribly low opinion of attention seeking five year olds in women's bodies. Grow up and quit being a useless idiot.