I have no game. I do not know how to flirt, and rarely ever get hit on.

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Posted by GetMisted
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Does anyone else suffer from this? haha
With a face like yours you don't need game. Sit back and let the men come to you.
She said she rarely gets hit on.
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I very much doubt that. She just doesn't recognize that she's being hit on.

Op, if a guy strikes up a conversation with you and he's not taking your order or trying to sell you something... he's interested.
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What about the cancer guy tho? U never reply to that
That never mended itself. He acted like a child. I am moving forward.

I'm just looking to get some game going. I feel like Im soooo awkward. haha
What bout the virgo at work?
Blimey! It's all coming out of the woodwork!
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The Virgo is cute, but I dont really know if hes interested. We actually have mutual friends outside of work and we are going to a concert together next Thursday. I need to step my game up by then!! haha
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When I was single I had the same problem. Plus if I like someone I won't give anything away until I feel the feelings mutual. Infact I was more introverted around people that I fancied until I felt comfortable.

When I did the online dating one of my dates told me that if he seen me in a bar he would never have approached me?! I asked why, he said that my height (5ft 10 without heels) the way I dress, I can be reserved, I'm not loud and brash, he said he'd feel like I was too intimidating to approach!! I was like "i'm one of the most down to earth people you could meet! I'll talk to anyone" he said I know that because I got to know you before we met. Charming ?
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I liked the Cancer because I had to do zero work breaking the ice on our date. He was so outwardly confident (inside not so much,come to find out) But our first date he just came in my house, opened my fridge, grabbed a beer and was like "sup?". I appreciated someone making me feel so at ease. He wasnt someone id physically go after, but that was so attractive to me.
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I can easily flirt with people I'm not interested in.

Apparently, I do this all the time..but didn't know.

Maybe it's part of the Libra Moon charm....



When it comes to someone I'm interested in...like really interested....I have the worst game ever.

New game plan is just to shut up, act aloof and barely reply to texts.

I did that in the beginning and it worked really well. Now that I've opened up and am acting normal.I feel the power dynamic has shifted and I'm coming across like I'm really into her. And she's taking that for granted.....and subsequently cheapening our interactions.

Time to pull back...way the fuq back...and go cold.

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Depends on how comfortable you are talking to people. Really that's all flirting is, talking. You can also call men to you by simply looking at a man, holding eye contact, and smiling. Play with your hair for added effect. Touching a man's arm and laughing at his "jokes" will also portray interest. Tease the guy a little to make sure he's got a spine, but keep it playful. Keep it simple.
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People think I'm flirting when I'm avoiding them and avoiding them when I'm trying to flirt.




Those are my experiences with you guys. lol

Give an example if possible
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lol When a guy I'm not interested talks to me. I talk!! and even long time, no nervousness and I'm even funny making jokes then they ask me out and I just smile trying to say no thanks. Some keep insisting, I've been called egocentric, and I've even had to call security twice. Some guys get rude when turned down.

When a guy I like talks to me I am staring trying to seem interested but all my mind is blank so I can't recall anything to talk about. I stay there, they think I'm not interested and leave. They don't even ask me out 😢 Some have actually told me they like me and I agree to go out but I have hard time telling saying I like them.
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People think I'm flirting when I'm avoiding them and avoiding them when I'm trying to flirt.




Those are my experiences with you guys. lol

Give an example if possible
lol When a guy I'm not interested talks to me. I talk!! and even long time, no nervousness and I'm even funny making jokes then they ask me out and I just smile trying to say no thanks.

When a guy I like talks to me I am staring trying to seem interested but all my mind is blank so I can't recall anything to talk about. I stay there, they think I'm not interested and leave. They don't even ask me out 😢 Some have actually told me they like me and I agree to go out but I have hard time telling saying I like them.

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I see

A lot of women do this though

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When I did the online dating one of my dates told me that if he seen me in a bar he would never have approached me?! I asked why, he said that my height (5ft 10 without heels) the way I dress, I can be reserved, I'm not loud and brash, he said he'd feel like I was too intimidating to approach!!
Same problem #tallgirlissues
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Tall girls are the best for so many reasons. I've never understood men who get intimidated by height. Not to hate on short women, I love them too.
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When I did the online dating one of my dates told me that if he seen me in a bar he would never have approached me?! I asked why, he said that my height (5ft 10 without heels) the way I dress, I can be reserved, I'm not loud and brash, he said he'd feel like I was too intimidating to approach!!
Same problem #tallgirlissues
Tall girls are the best for so many reasons. I've never understood men who get intimidated by height. Not to hate on short women, I love them too.

Maybe it's the height combination with my first impression or personality. I've had men say to me that I am very intimidating due to my heigh, body type, beauty and brains.

It sucks because I'm not willing to compromise my personality or who I am to get the guy. I think this why I like fire signs or end up with fire sign dominant men. Very straightforward and unafraid (or at least pretend they aren't).
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That's a good thing, it shows you have inner strength. Never compromise your personality. The right guys won't be intimidated.