I want a street smart cunning man. What natal aspect could be indicative of that? Details below

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I have studied astrology for a while now, but cannot pinpoint the aspect that would cause me to want a marriage where my spouse is :

Slick, streetsmart, cunning, knows worldly ways, survival in the world and teaches me those things....

Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men.

I cannot imagine a marriage where I am with a man who is not as such, no matter how loving he is towards me, I just wouldn't be able to respect him, I dont know why.

And I cannot pinpoint the aspect in my chart.
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I have studied astrology for a while now, but cannot pinpoint the aspect that would cause me to want a marriage where my spouse is :

Slick, streetsmart, cunning, knows worldly ways, survival in the world and teaches me those things....

Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men.

I cannot imagine a marriage where I am with a man who is not as such, no matter how loving he is towards me, I just wouldn't be able to respect him, I dont know why.

And I cannot pinpoint the aspect in my chart.
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Posted by Bloop
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11 Spetember 1991

New Delhi



I have studied astrology for a while now, but cannot pinpoint the aspect that would cause me to want a marriage where my spouse is :

Slick, streetsmart, cunning, knows worldly ways, survival in the world and teaches me those things....

Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men.

I cannot imagine a marriage where I am with a man who is not as such, no matter how loving he is towards me, I just wouldn't be able to respect him, I dont know why.

And I cannot pinpoint the aspect in my chart.
Street smart , knows wordly ways , survival & teaches by influencing i would say leo with virgo rising virgo moon . Cunning i dont know .

My best friend is also 11th sep born. Happily married to a taurus . Was seeing a leo for very very long time. Dint work for her .
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New Delhi



I have studied astrology for a while now, but cannot pinpoint the aspect that would cause me to want a marriage where my spouse is :

Slick, streetsmart, cunning, knows worldly ways, survival in the world and teaches me those things....

Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men.

I cannot imagine a marriage where I am with a man who is not as such, no matter how loving he is towards me, I just wouldn't be able to respect him, I dont know why.

And I cannot pinpoint the aspect in my chart.
Street smart , knows wordly ways , survival & teaches by influencing i would say leo with virgo rising virgo moon . Cunning i dont know .

My best friend is also 11th sep born. Happily married to a taurus . Was seeing a leo for very very long time. Dint work for her .



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Yes ParisianCappy ?

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Posted by aphrodite3
No one should have to be street smart and no woman should feel the need to be with someone street smart and is able to "survive" if the world was a utopia off back. Now I know why I my exes are exes because they give up on the world and accept how it is so they find a dude who can "protect them" when things should already be good but I'm gonna g-mack-- \\ it's all good

I agree.

I'm not that street smart but I survive challenges. One day a few years ago I noticed how surprisingly nice these guys out there are. But only after I admitted I might have been stressing my luck. So how can I be an idiot and still have a good life? Aha, cause people are good too, they are not only bad.
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As I understand it, and please correct me if I've got the wrong idea, in Indian culture, bargaining is almost a sport, correct? Men who can land a good deal are considered to have great prowess and aptitude. Obviously, that would apply to most cultures, but it seems like I read it was either in India or somewhere in the middle east that it have a magnified importance, possibly due to the cultural relevance of bartering for limited resources. In any event, that sort of cultural tradition can be inherited by one's father rather easily.

As a side-note, we have our respective Venus in exactly the same degree in Leo; very cool.
No, its nothing like that.

Women like marrying guys just like the rest of the world.
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Virgo and Gemini placements are aware of what crap is on everybody's mind.

Virgo and Scorpio can handle it better than Gemini. Cause social signs.

I guess. how should I know? not an Astrologer.

Taurus could be so too.
I "always" find myself deeply attracted to Venus in Gemini guys. Always. Maybe its because they are the only ones that banter with me and can handle my "oddity" or maybe because I myself am more open to them from encouter number one itself (i get bored with most other guys once that smart talk is over and dont even talk to the much).

It's like I am a small magnet and Venus in gemini guys are some huge metal 😢
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Virgo and Gemini placements are aware of what crap is on everybody's mind.

Virgo and Scorpio can handle it better than Gemini. Cause social signs.

I guess. how should I know? not an Astrologer.

Taurus could be so too.
I "always" find myself deeply attracted to Venus in Gemini guys. Always. Maybe its because they are the only ones that banter with me and can handle my "oddity" or maybe because I myself am more open to them from encouter number one itself (i get bored with most other guys once that smart talk is over and dont even talk to the much).

It's like I am a small magnet and Venus in gemini guys are some huge metal 😢
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one of my hubby's best friend is a guy who has venus in Gemini and he's with a libra (I don't know her chart...but i'll get it. lol)

and this Gemini venus man really can talk !!! him and Jenna Elfman, his wifey, also a libra, they both can really converse good. they're constantly mentally stimulating eachother!! why they're married a long time. lol



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11 Spetember 1991

New Delhi



I have studied astrology for a while now, but cannot pinpoint the aspect that would cause me to want a marriage where my spouse is :

Slick, streetsmart, cunning, knows worldly ways, survival in the world and teaches me those things....

Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men.

I cannot imagine a marriage where I am with a man who is not as such, no matter how loving he is towards me, I just wouldn't be able to respect him, I dont know why.

And I cannot pinpoint the aspect in my chart.
Street smart , knows wordly ways , survival & teaches by influencing i would say leo with virgo rising virgo moon . Cunning i dont know .

My best friend is also 11th sep born. Happily married to a taurus . Was seeing a leo for very very long time. Dint work for her .



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i'll be honest, since you have dot on your profile nobody can go on your profile pages
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Even i cant see my own profile 😢 . Have also written to dxp helpline asking for solution . No reply...thats why I say dxp admin sleeps .

I didnt know dots are the reason. Guess have to create a new profile then .

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Posted by Lord-Paladin
As I understand it, and please correct me if I've got the wrong idea, in Indian culture, bargaining is almost a sport, correct? Men who can land a good deal are considered to have great prowess and aptitude. Obviously, that would apply to most cultures, but it seems like I read it was either in India or somewhere in the middle east that it have a magnified importance, possibly due to the cultural relevance of bartering for limited resources. In any event, that sort of cultural tradition can be inherited by one's father rather easily.

As a side-note, we have our respective Venus in exactly the same degree in Leo; very cool.
In terms of money and work I will agree with you to an extent . Negotiation is crucial here. I have seen women bargaining for few Rs (1US $ is abt 68 INR/Rs) with veg venders , shop keepers . I think that other than wanting to save few bucks , not having standard pricing could be a reason. We some times dont know if we are paying the right price or not . I have worked with people from across the globe . Doesnt hold true for all but yes first point of shortlisting a product or service is the quality for many western country clients whereas many of us(Indians) put a higher stress on financials .

When it comes to marriage i think like Bloop said that many like street smart people . I dont think marriages here are based on bargaining skills .
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I found one and I don't like the trait 😢 cunning.. penny-pinching cheap. Bargaining with people in your life -- I wouldn't want that. It feels like I'm in the company of a snake.

I'm your opposite - Generosity and abundance mentality is what I like. Maybe it has something to do with Moon and North Node? My Moon is Cancer and True Node Taurus 9°27'12 in house 2 --security and comfy comfy life I guess?
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Why is everyone here associating street smartness with bargaining skills ?
Exactly my point
Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men. 



Probably because of that ^^

Imo. anyway.

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That's not bargaining. Thats smart talking people into doing stuff. Bargaining would be something like

The shopkeeper was selling me tomatoes for 10 bucks and I got them for 8 bucks by haggling him on the price.

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Why is everyone here associating street smartness with bargaining skills ?
Exactly my point
Like those salesmen who would sell a comb to a bald men. 



Probably because of that ^^

Imo. anyway.


That's not bargaining. Thats smart talking people into doing stuff. Bargaining would be something like

The shopkeeper was selling me tomatoes for 10 bucks and I got them for 8 bucks by haggling him on the price.

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Oh I know the difference.

But once Paladin brought up the Indian 'sport'

of Bargaining, it was attributed to your list

of sought out character traits.

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