@Sag898
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Understanding Compatibility Beyond Sun Signs and Moon Signs
While sun and moon signs offer valuable insights, true compatibility also involves other factors like Venus and Mars signs. Relying solely on sun and moon signs provides an incomplete picture of relationship dynamics. A comprehensive astrology reading considers multiple planetary influences for better accuracy.
All you need are the Moon signs.
Yeah but sun too it seems like
I can see your POV on this because Gemini women interest me a lot. Something about them I really like. Also I have Aquarius Rising and Mercury so that might be a factor. They also really gravitate towards me for some reason.
Right
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I'm a sag moon and have no interest in sag dudes. So you're wrong 😛
I’ve seen plenty of Leo moons with Libra moons and Virgo moons with Aqua moons.
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I don't know. All my long term relationships were never with someone who I had moon compatibility with. Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces moon.
Their Venus are what I think made it last. Sag, Leo, Cap.
Than the longest was with the Leo sun while the two others were Scorpio's.
I dated an Aries with a Gemini moon and he was a totally piece of shit lol
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I don't know. All my long term relationships were never with someone who I had moon compatibility with. Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces moon.
Their Venus are what I think made it last. Sag, Leo, Cap.
Than the longest was with the Leo sun while the two others were Scorpio's.
I dated an Aries with a Gemini moon and he was a totally piece of shit lol
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Sometimes we date people that are available to us, not necessarily compatible with us. If you are incapable of being single, you don’t discern compatibility but rather date whoever is there at the time. That has nothing to do with attraction. That’s just simply going for what available. I’m not saying you’re like that but my friends who don’t know how to be single tend to date whoever shows interest in them, meanwhile the person isn’t even what they are attracted to either physically or emotionally.
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I don't know. All my long term relationships were never with someone who I had moon compatibility with. Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces moon.
Their Venus are what I think made it last. Sag, Leo, Cap.
Than the longest was with the Leo sun while the two others were Scorpio's.
I dated an Aries with a Gemini moon and he was a totally piece of shit lol
Sometimes we date people that are available to us, not necessarily compatible with us. If you are incapable of being single, you don’t discern compatibility but rather date whoever is there at the time. That has nothing to do with attraction. That’s just simply going for what available. I’m not saying you’re like that but my friends who don’t know how to be single tend to date whoever shows interest in them, meanwhile the person isn’t even what they are attracted to either physically or emotionally.
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What? No I loved all my boyfriends lol and we were compatible for sometime. Are you saying I shouldn't of dated them because of their charts? Haha I didn't know as much about astrology than as I do now.
Nope. Literally never been into an Aries. Sry.
I'm a Leo and I've attracted Capricorn and Aquarius Moons like the plague...
What's your moon?
I LMFAO on compatibility signs unless it's for marriage and even then it's iffy. I have never heard no with an A+ approach when in search for a 6 month union tryout on first impressions. I'm a newbie to astrology and my buddies doubt it all together and have good success . The full moon reactions and few past ships peeked my interest to see if there's a true connection on tendencies. Traveling for work i've been joked with for inquiring about astrology. I may be wrong but past victories has me in a different bubble.
Sun sign is pretty much the only compatibility that means anything.
Also moon signs.
Example. Leo moon you are likely to fall for a Leo.
Someone tell me I'm wrong?
Men do not like being the moon to a woman's sun, i.e. Leo sun woman and Leo moon man. It's an attraction for sure but, the imbalance wears on them afterwhile.
yes sun and moon are the most important
along with dominants
Thank you for the clear simple answer. Jesus Christ lol lighten up people!
Sun sign is pretty much the only compatibility that means anything.
Also moon signs.
Example. Leo moon you are likely to fall for a Leo.
Someone tell me I'm wrong?
Men do not like being the moon to a woman's sun, i.e. Leo sun woman and Leo moon man. It's an attraction for sure but, the imbalance wears on them afterwhile.
But men tend to be attracted to sign traits of their moon and venus, according to astrology and I kind of see that pattern.
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Not the "sign" traits of his moon... just the traits. There's other astrological ways to skin that cat.
He won't even know the source of his feelings of awkwardness... as most do not know astrology... but, it will be the sun/moon reversal.
Sun sign is pretty much the only compatibility that means anything.
Also moon signs.
Example. Leo moon you are likely to fall for a Leo.
Someone tell me I'm wrong?
Men do not like being the moon to a woman's sun, i.e. Leo sun woman and Leo moon man. It's an attraction for sure but, the imbalance wears on them afterwhile.
Yeah being around Virgo sun women just feels like too much Virgo energy going on, it stresses me out lol. They’re still cool and I can relate to them tho
Do you think it’s the same for the man being the sun sign of the woman’s moon?
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That's the ideal, the standard, as you think of all that these planets represent. The sun is masculine, the moon is feminine.
Sun sign is pretty much the only compatibility that means anything.
Also moon signs.
Example. Leo moon you are likely to fall for a Leo.
Someone tell me I'm wrong?
Men do not like being the moon to a woman's sun, i.e. Leo sun woman and Leo moon man. It's an attraction for sure but, the imbalance wears on them afterwhile.
But men tend to be attracted to sign traits of their moon and venus, according to astrology and I kind of see that pattern.
Not the "sign" traits of his moon... just the traits. There's other astrological ways to skin that cat.
He won't even know the source of his feelings of awkwardness... as most do not know astrology... but, it will be the sun/moon reversal.
So do you mean that they aren’t attracted to people of that sign but just the personality traits alone? Like a guy has a Gemini Venus and Moon it doesn’t mean he gravitates towards Geminis but maybe even a Cancer who is say, very social and talkative?
That would make sense. Because they say that it’s more ideal that the man is the Sun, and woman the moon in synastry. Just like how the man should be mars and the woman venus.
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Exactly.
Sun sign is pretty much the only compatibility that means anything.
Also moon signs.
Example. Leo moon you are likely to fall for a Leo.
Someone tell me I'm wrong?
paris hilton (Leo moon) is marrying a Taurus sun 😛
my husband had more interest (he's leo moon) in Taurus suns (Jessica Alba) with singularity aquarius ..she is stellium taurus. and mostly Aqua suns, who are water/earth dom (it's difficult because there's not many that are very attractive to him LOL because many are air/fire dom) sorry to say, Aqua suns lol i'm dissing my own sun sign but it's true.
even jennifer aniston who is fire/air dom with scorpio mars. he doesn't think she is attractive LOLOL
like boring to him. smh. it's just preferred taste. and she married a Leo sunAries moon
yes sun and moon are the most important
along with dominants
Thank you for the clear simple answer. Jesus Christ lol lighten up people!
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ehhh houses.
otherwise..it's not complete.
Oh yeah and I guess I’ll say that I think Virgos are ok but I’ve never really had a thing for one. I prefer Taurus and Capricorn when it comes to earth signs
I'm gonna pretend like I didn't see this ...fish 😐
I honestly don't know anymore...people who I didn't think I would have any compatibility with...turns out I have the most. 🤷. I do dig the Sun/moon combo though.
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I don't know. All my long term relationships were never with someone who I had moon compatibility with. Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces moon.
Their Venus are what I think made it last. Sag, Leo, Cap.
Than the longest was with the Leo sun while the two others were Scorpio's.
I dated an Aries with a Gemini moon and he was a totally piece of shit lol
Sometimes we date people that are available to us, not necessarily compatible with us. If you are incapable of being single, you don’t discern compatibility but rather date whoever is there at the time. That has nothing to do with attraction. That’s just simply going for what available. I’m not saying you’re like that but my friends who don’t know how to be single tend to date whoever shows interest in them, meanwhile the person isn’t even what they are attracted to either physically or emotionally.
What? No I loved all my boyfriends lol and we were compatible for sometime. Are you saying I shouldn't of dated them because of their charts? Haha I didn't know as much about astrology than as I do now.
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Don’t base your life on astrology or seek compatibility via astrological charts. Compatibility for those who aren’t into astrology (and how one ought to do it) is assessed from how much one has in common with the other, similar to same sense of humour, life goals etc. I personally would never base my life on astrology even tho I joke about it all the time on here that I would never date a Libra moon. LOL. Astrology is just an intriguing hobby to kill time with.
Having said that, if you want to go by charts strictly (even though I’m not encouraging that), look to the moon, venus and mars.
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
How can you tell when you have both your sun and moon in the same sign?
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Because sun traits are different from the moon. For example, the penchant for doing charity, helping the downtrodden/underprivileged is far greater in Aqua moon than in sun in Aqua. Doing charity is a must for me. It’s innate in me. My younger Aqua bro is also into charity as well, but he’s not tooo into it.
I dated a Kenyan Indian guy once who got me into Bollywood. I came across this Indian star who I just felt drawn to for his similarities with me: his disciplinarian style and love of charity/underprivileged. In fact he started a charity called “Being human.” I actually knew what he meant when he named his charity prior to him explaining where he got the inspiration for the name. I knew he was a Capricorn but I was like I need to see his chart. He must have an Aqua somewhere. I wanted to see where my chart was connecting with his to understand the similarity. Lo and behold, he’s Aqua moon. Princess Diana was my hero as a kid. I remember writing about her in Grade 7 for her humanitarian efforts with the landmines. I didn’t care if she was a princess. I liked her for her humanitarianism. She was also Aqua moon.
I’ve seen plenty of Leo moons with Libra moons and Virgo moons with Aqua moons.
I love Virgo moon men and Im an Aquarius moon woman 💗 what is it about them that attracts us I wonder
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Lately I’m coming across Virgo moon men and I feel like I really missed out. I find there is such a strong attraction between these two. The two Virgo moon men and I have such a strong pull.
I find myself attracted to them because you can discuss ideas and thoughts with so calmly and logically; their intellect, reasoning skills, calm demeanour and best of all, silent masculinity that is soooo appealing to Aqua moons. They aren’t talkative fools. They talk when they have something intelligent to say, not pointless ranting. Both parties have good listening skills and take the time to ponder/process what’s being said.
I'm a Leo and I've attracted Capricorn and Aquarius Moons like the plague...
Same here!.. they also show more of their emotions to me.. (cancer moon 🙅🏻♀️)
It's weird. My longest and I do mean all my longest relationships have been with people who according to Synastry chart compatibility I should not even go near. Then the people I have "amazing" synastry with, turn out to be the creeps and worthless pieces of shit...
Lets take my last two Aries partners.
Aries 1 I was with for close to 8 years. According to Astrowin our synastry was:
The dual cosmodyne TOTAL score between Libra and Aries 1 is: -28.52
Aries 2 I was with for 14 months. According to Astrowin our synastry was:
The dual cosmodyne TOTAL score between Libra and Aries 2 is: +16.67.
And mark my words Aries 2 is the biggest loser I have ever met in my life. How he turned out to be the person he has become in this life shocks me. I have never met anyone who does not even deserve to be given any life forms name, he does not belong anywhere near our universe and I hope he in fact I know he will get what is coming his way.
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I don't know. All my long term relationships were never with someone who I had moon compatibility with. Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces moon.
Their Venus are what I think made it last. Sag, Leo, Cap.
Than the longest was with the Leo sun while the two others were Scorpio's.
I dated an Aries with a Gemini moon and he was a totally piece of shit lol
Sometimes we date people that are available to us, not necessarily compatible with us. If you are incapable of being single, you don’t discern compatibility but rather date whoever is there at the time. That has nothing to do with attraction. That’s just simply going for what available. I’m not saying you’re like that but my friends who don’t know how to be single tend to date whoever shows interest in them, meanwhile the person isn’t even what they are attracted to either physically or emotionally.
What? No I loved all my boyfriends lol and we were compatible for sometime. Are you saying I shouldn't of dated them because of their charts? Haha I didn't know as much about astrology than as I do now.
Don’t base your life on astrology or seek compatibility via astrological charts. Compatibility for those who aren’t into astrology (and how one ought to do it) is assessed from how much one has in common with the other, similar to same sense of humour, life goals etc. I personally would never base my life on astrology even tho I joke about it all the time on here that I would never date a Libra moon. LOL. Astrology is just an intriguing hobby to kill time with.
Having said that, if you want to go by charts strictly (even though I’m not encouraging that), look to the moon, venus and mars.
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This ☝️
Tbh I wish I knew more about astrology like this conjunct that sextile this third to the three equals nine lol but I don’t nor do I care to learn.
Either you have chemistry or you don’t. And usually after you have that part down then you can delve deeper and it all becomes more clear. You guys sure do impress me tho haha 👌
I’ve seen plenty of Leo moons with Libra moons and Virgo moons with Aqua moons.
I love Virgo moon men and Im an Aquarius moon woman 💗 what is it about them that attracts us I wonder
Lately I’m coming across Virgo moon men and I feel like I really missed out. I find there is such a strong attraction between these two. The two Virgo moon men and I have such a strong pull.
I find myself attracted to them because you can discuss ideas and thoughts with so calmly and logically; their intellect, reasoning skills, calm demeanour and best of all, silent masculinity that is soooo appealing to Aqua moons. They aren’t talkative fools. They talk when they have something intelligent to say, not pointless ranting. Both parties have good listening skills and take the time to ponder/process what’s being said.
quincunx attraction?
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virgo moon is tough. lol
they need to be taught how to love. (they need their opposition, Pisces)
i consistently attract virgo suns/virgo moons/virgo risings/virgo dominants.
at least that's what i'm thinking..why the oppositions NEED eachother.
virgo helps their opposition alot too.
i see alot of this couple/ axis alot.
my sister is is Pisces dominant and i see from her (cause i dont see it in myself and my man much, you are blind to your own) and her husband is virgo domiannt.
and she even said, that her husband is ..well like a PROJECT ..lol. (she has taurus moon though, so she has the trine as well)
he needed to be taught some things.. i could get into it..in details...but i sooooo get it LOLOL
and i was like, OMG. yes, i get you..
I’ve seen plenty of Leo moons with Libra moons and Virgo moons with Aqua moons.
I love Virgo moon men and Im an Aquarius moon woman 💗 what is it about them that attracts us I wonder
Lately I’m coming across Virgo moon men and I feel like I really missed out. I find there is such a strong attraction between these two. The two Virgo moon men and I have such a strong pull.
I find myself attracted to them because you can discuss ideas and thoughts with so calmly and logically; their intellect, reasoning skills, calm demeanour and best of all, silent masculinity that is soooo appealing to Aqua moons. They aren’t talkative fools. They talk when they have something intelligent to say, not pointless ranting. Both parties have good listening skills and take the time to ponder/process what’s being said.
quincunx attraction?
virgo moon is tough. lol
they need to be taught how to love. (they need their opposition, Pisces)
i consistently attract virgo suns/virgo moons/virgo risings/virgo dominants.
at least that's what i'm thinking..why the oppositions NEED eachother.
virgo helps their opposition alot too.
i see alot of this couple/ axis alot.
i adore pisces sun with aries influence
and also pisces moon in any sun
except maybe cancer
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i only know Robin Williams, and Debbie Harry combo (Cancer sun/Pisces moon)
i'm sure there's more...
edit ppfftt my best friend is a Cancer sun, Pisces moon combo LOL i just didnt think of her because she's not a Famous person celebrity. It's a good combo to be honest.
but she is fire dominant and has air houses.
I’d say it’s moon compatibility. Moon is a major reflection of who you are based on what it represents. For some reason, all the guys I’ve seriously and casually dated are Aries moon with various sun signs. I’m seeing a pattern now.
I don't know. All my long term relationships were never with someone who I had moon compatibility with. Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces moon.
Their Venus are what I think made it last. Sag, Leo, Cap.
Than the longest was with the Leo sun while the two others were Scorpio's.
I dated an Aries with a Gemini moon and he was a totally piece of shit lol
Sometimes we date people that are available to us, not necessarily compatible with us. If you are incapable of being single, you don’t discern compatibility but rather date whoever is there at the time. That has nothing to do with attraction. That’s just simply going for what available. I’m not saying you’re like that but my friends who don’t know how to be single tend to date whoever shows interest in them, meanwhile the person isn’t even what they are attracted to either physically or emotionally.
What? No I loved all my boyfriends lol and we were compatible for sometime. Are you saying I shouldn't of dated them because of their charts? Haha I didn't know as much about astrology than as I do now.
Don’t base your life on astrology or seek compatibility via astrological charts. Compatibility for those who aren’t into astrology (and how one ought to do it) is assessed from how much one has in common with the other, similar to same sense of humour, life goals etc. I personally would never base my life on astrology even tho I joke about it all the time on here that I would never date a Libra moon. LOL. Astrology is just an intriguing hobby to kill time with.
Having said that, if you want to go by charts strictly (even though I’m not encouraging that), look to the moon, venus and mars.
This ☝️
Tbh I wish I knew more about astrology like this conjunct that sextile this third to the three equals nine lol but I don’t nor do I care to learn.
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I don't really see truth to the aspects, so I don't follow that.
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Sun sign is pretty much the only compatibility that means anything.
Also moon signs.
Example. Leo moon you are likely to fall for a Leo.
Someone tell me I'm wrong?