I’m very selective about who I’m close to, and it takes me forever so once I’m in, definitely.
But I have issues showing emotions, so maybe ppl don’t think I care. I process things in private, but strong in public.
Like when we found out my mom had breast cancer, I didn’t react, but thought of what we have to do in the steps ahead. My sis lashed out at me cuz she wouldn’t stop crying and being upset and because I wasnt crying, she thought I didn’t care. My mom knew I’m a spring into action person, cry later, type of thing.