Leo woman confused about aquarius man, HELP PLEASE.?

He is very confusing to me. One day he says he wants me to be on his side and cares for me, says wants to meet me and when will i be available and then next day nothing unless i start a conversation. Says he is afraid that he dont want to lose the friend in me, and ultimately lose me altogether thats why he grows distant sometimes.. but me as a leo, i care too much so i always end up asking him if he is okay and how did his day go at the end of the day. Which he appreciated and told me that i was the first girl who never left or shouted at him for being distant and never gave up on him. He is very supportive and caring as well, always gives me suggestions when i ask for his opinion. He used to share his issues with me when we first started talking but now he barely does it.

But i hate when he dont answer sometimes, and i completely hate the inconsistency. Like take your time, but dont be like i want to marry you and then ignore the good morning message the whole day.. and no he is not busy because he comes online on insta and it shows that the person came online..

I have moon, sun, jupiter and asc in leo and venus in virgo

he has sun in pisces,

moon in leo,

jupiter in taurus and venus in aquarius..