Pluto aspecting venus

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by PancakeFace on Wednesday, July 6, 2016 and has 14 replies.

Understanding Pluto Square Venus in Relationships

Pluto square Venus creates intense emotional connections and power struggles. The relationship can be transformative but also challenging, often involving deep passions and control issues. The Venus person may feel overwhelmed or less intense, but the dynamic fosters growth. Communication and boundaries are essential to navigate this aspect effectively.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

I came across a video on you tube by modern cosmic. Talking about the most explosive postions in two peoples charts.

After a little research i realise my girlfriend and i have pluto square her venus.

I would really like some expwriances from other people who have this aspect or know of it. Anybody?

Im the pluto person and lemme tell you our relationship is intense. But ive heard the venus person doesn't feel it as strong. So anyone wanna share any insight?

Cheers

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

I liked her since the day i met her. I never really believed in soul mates but i felt something with her straight away. I liked her secretly for a year that we were just friends.

As for interaction it was great i adored her. We did argue once when her partner at the time took a dislike to me

Then we argued, it was bad. I said a lot of mean things to her i usually would t say to anybody. Being a scorp moon i try usually not to let people know what im thinking. With her though i did.

I'm not.exactly sure. I know she considered me her best friend and at one point she claims she had feelings for me but we were with other people at the time. She never mentioned anything.

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

It can be fantastic attraction...

These are some good links:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-conjunct-pluto-in-synastry-5389018

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-conjunct-pluto-in-synastry-5587235/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-square-pluto-double-whammy-5174908/

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-pluto-4271686?sort=desc

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/synastry-venus-conjunct-pluto-5492576

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/who-is-more-obsessive-pluto-or-venus-in-conjunctio-5391149

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/hottest-aspects-to-have-between-partners-5493012

http://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/relationships/what-is-the-hardest-aspect-bond-in-synastry-to-break/

http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!venus-pluto-in-synastry/cn89

http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/11/13/synastry-q-a-plutonian-relations/

But it's not always roses, I currently have a pluto opposition venus with someone who I've said maybe 5 total sentences to........ I cant seem to get away from this person and I feel repulsion towards her.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by rabidtalker
It can be fantastic attraction...

These are some good links:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-conjunct-pluto-in-synastry-5389018

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-conjunct-pluto-in-synastry-5587235/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-square-pluto-double-whammy-5174908/

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/venus-pluto-4271686?sort=desc

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/synastry-venus-conjunct-pluto-5492576

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/who-is-more-obsessive-pluto-or-venus-in-conjunctio-5391149

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/hottest-aspects-to-have-between-partners-5493012

http://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/relationships/what-is-the-hardest-aspect-bond-in-synastry-to-break/

http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!venus-pluto-in-synastry/cn89

http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/11/13/synastry-q-a-plutonian-relations/

But it's not always roses, I currently have a pluto opposition venus with someone who I've said maybe 5 total sentences to........ I cant seem to get away from this person and I feel repulsion towards her.

Hey! Thanks for taking the time to link me. Im gonna check these out. And damn really? That bad? Why do you think that is?

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by PancakeFace

Hey! Thanks for taking the time to link me. Im gonna check these out. And damn really? That bad? Why do you think that is?

I was at physically attracted to this person but I saw how she uses her looks to use other people to her advantage, was a huge turnoff to me and I became deathly afraid of her doing that to me. That's definitely some pluto at work.

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Omg so afraid of her power what u perceived over u?

Interesting

I am the pluto in that interaction though.... but I think my intense fear of being manipulated, betrayed etc came through, hence I felt repulsion for her because I envisioned her trying to do to me what I saw her do to others.

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I was the Venus and I can say that I definitely felt the intensity and the attraction. It was a real killer tho' when it ended. Terribly painful.

Would you say your relationship with the pluto person was very different to your other relationships?

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@PancakeFace
10 Years

Posted by Nevermore

Posted by PancakeFace
I liked her since the day i met her. I never really believed in soul mates but i felt something with her straight away. I liked her secretly for a year that we were just friends.

As for interaction it was great i adored her. We did argue once when her partner at the time took a dislike to me

Then we argued, it was bad. I said a lot of mean things to her i usually would t say to anybody. Being a scorp moon i try usually not to let people know what im thinking. With her though i did.

I'm not.exactly sure. I know she considered me her best friend and at one point she claims she had feelings for me but we were with other people at the time. She never mentioned anything.

I hate to ask deeper though.. but I'm urge to it, if you don't want to answers few of these. that's okay. The reasons is that I had also this aspect towards someone and I'm the Venus.. So:

- How long does it take to be together? Especially with that intense feeling?

- What was her reaction? Has been constant staring at you?

- Were you guys open & honest with each other?

- Did something happen that you use the power towards her?

- How many times is there love/hate action going on?

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We decided.to be together as soon as i told her how I felt about her. We decided to make it work no matter what obstacles come our way. We've been super close ever since. I stare at eveyone I think because of my moon sign. I feel differently towards her than anyone else I've ever known. We don't don't do the love hate. We trust each other and we work out any issues we have. I think because we love each other with the same intensity it works in our favour greatly.