The complex nature of the Virgo Man

After, reading some of these boards on Virgos. I have decided join in the frustrating quest for answers to the complex nature of Virgo man.

I have interacted with about every sign of the zodaic. However, In realization, I tend to draw Virgo men far more than any other sign. (Aquarius comes in close second.)

As redudant it may seem. However, I would like to hear some input from Virgo Men and those who have dealt with these egimatic creatures of the zodaic on:


- Why do they have a reputation for being casanovas?

I understand every person is different and cannot be define solely by a sun sign. Thank You in advance.

While we wait for responses....

Posted by Lena828

Posted by MadameAthena
- Why do they have a reputation for being casanovas?

Haha😄 Their Venus is usually Libra or Leo?? Both nothing but trouble.

They are charmers aren't they? And not in the cheesy way of certain other signs. I dunno, I like it. They're trouble for me. Spend enough time with a Virgo guy and you'll be hooked.


Plus they're very masculine. They're direct, bold, never sappy, never clingy. Sometimes you want your man to act like a bloody man. None of this let me hold your hand and cry with you ughhh.

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Cool. You made us all sound like Hugh Grant.

I disagree with the insinuation that a man is suppose to be a certain way .... as in, he shouldn't hold your hand and cry. Sounds like that came from someone inexperienced, who is living with her daddy.

Posted by MadameAthena

- Why do they have a reputation for being casanovas?

Virgos have only one way they want to be percieved ... when they 'act' this way in public, which is always, it's not for the purpose of being a casanova. To be viewed as a Casanova is the viewers interpretation; it is a definition put on the Virgo by how they define what they observe.


A Virgo will do anything to maintain a certain standard publicly and will not veer from this standard for fear of embarrassment, ridicule .. which since by nature they feel unworthy of other people to begin with, they certainly cannot risk being ridiculed for something.


This includes all people to Virgo .. you just think it's a Casanova thing because that is how YOU interpret what you see/experience. A Virgo would be pleasing to any person according to what pleases that other person. If it pleases you for him to be a flirt and wink at you, then this is what he will do. That doesn't mean he's a Casanova, it means he is doing whatever it takes to make you like him, to make you believe he notices you = which is all for his own sense of feeling like he keeps you in check so you don't embarrass him, or tease him, or anything that would hurt his delicate feelings about his already fragile self-esteem.

Additionally, I've no clue how you've processed that Virgos have a reputation as being Casanova's, while stating that your entry into this forum comes from observing the Virgo board ... since Virgos in this forum, according to thier board, don't have that reputation.


Why the deception?

Do you think we don't have access to the Virgo board, and have no ability to put two and two together?

How about just stating the truth ... YOU view Virgos as casanovas, and you want to discuss how you feel about that. Because Virgos actually don't have a reputation as being a casanova

Also, the Virgo man isn't complex ... they are in fact, simple.

Apparantly, you have a feeling for a Virgo, and have decided to represent them falsely .. I guess because you cannot discern the difference between how you feel and reality.


The Virgo man is a very simple man.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by MadameAthena

- Why do they have a reputation for being casanovas?

Virgos have only one way they want to be percieved ... when they 'act' this way in public, which is always, it's not for the purpose of being a casanova. To be viewed as a Casanova is the viewers interpretation; it is a definition put on the Virgo by how they define what they observe.


A Virgo will do anything to maintain a certain standard publicly and will not veer from this standard for fear of embarrassment, ridicule .. which since by nature they feel unworthy of other people to begin with, they certainly cannot risk being ridiculed for something.


This includes all people to Virgo .. you just think it's a Casanova thing because that is how YOU interpret what you see/experience. A Virgo would be pleasing to any person according to what pleases that other person. If it pleases you for him to be a flirt and wink at you, then this is what he will do. That doesn't mean he's a Casanova, it means he is doing whatever it takes to make you like him, to make you believe he notices you = which is all for his own sense of feeling like he keeps you in check so you don't embarrass him, or tease him, or anything that would hurt his delicate feelings about his already fragile self-esteem.

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Ok.. Thanks

Posted by P-Angel
Additionally, I've no clue how you've processed that Virgos have a reputation as being Casanova's, while stating that your entry into this forum comes from observing the Virgo board ... since Virgos in this forum, according to thier board, don't have that reputation.


Why the deception?

Do you think we don't have access to the Virgo board, and have no ability to put two and two together?

How about just stating the truth ... YOU view Virgos as casanovas, and you want to discuss how you feel about that. Because Virgos actually don't have a reputation as being a casanova

First off, I have been on boards and a lot of people in the past have inquired about the virgo males being players, cheater, liars and etc... So, I am not being deceitful at all. Perhpas, you should do some research. Secondly, I noticed you have tendency to attack people on the boards with your reponses; Which gives away your immaturity and inability to communicate with people in a civil manner. You jump down my throat like a prosecutor. When in fact, I did nothing wrong. If you want to know where it all stems from, just ask. No need create assumptions. You just made yourself look like a Jackass.

Also, if you viewed my entire post you would of seen the following: "
I understand every person is different and cannot be define solely by a sun sign."

Not every virgo is alike. I have plenty of virgo male friends who are deeply loyal and would never cheat. So, let me tell you this in the most uncouth manner: F.U.C.K. Y.O.U. :-) 😄

complex lol there is nothing complex about virgos, they are shallow and critical and judgemental b/c they see themselves as obsolete in some way, they are just as insecure as pisces and judge everything moving

Posted by starlover
^ ^ then i must have married the "one that got away" 😄...i still, after years and years cannot figure that guy out

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What's your sign? If I may ask.

Posted by starlover
^ ^ then i must have married the "one that got away" 😄...i still, after years and years cannot figure that guy out

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lucky you?

Posted by Pandemonium
Perhaps we will act CHildish with an Aries? Or Hungry with a Taurus? Or schizo with a Gem? or Nurturing with a Crab? or Proud with a Lion? or Critical with the Virgos? or LoveyDovey and indicisive with the Libras? or Adventurous with the Sadges? or Entrepreneurial with the Caps? Or Sapce cadets with the Aquas? Or cry babies with the Pisces?

heheheh 🦇

Sexual with a scorpio? Lol

Posted by MadameAthena


- Why do they have a reputation for being casanovas?

uhm...WUT?

i aint neba hurd sich a thang

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by P-Angel
Also, the Virgo man isn't complex ... they are in fact, simple.

That's always been my understanding of Virgo guys. Or most, anyway.

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Not only are they simple ... they pride themselves on being so accommodating and easy to "get", that they will explain themselves, even to those who don't deserve a justifiction, in order to avoid complication.

Now that the creator of this thread has clarified ... we find that she says this because she couldn't keep her Virgo, so naturally, it must mean he is too complex since he decided to venture out of the relationship.


Excuses .....

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by P-Angel
Also, the Virgo man isn't complex ... they are in fact, simple.

That's always been my understanding of Virgo guys. Or most, anyway.

Not only are they simple ... they pride themselves on being so accommodating and easy to "get", that they will explain themselves, even to those who don't deserve a justifiction, in order to avoid complication.

Now that the creator of this thread has clarified ... we find that she says this because she couldn't keep her Virgo, so naturally, it must mean he is too complex since he decided to venture out of the relationship.


Excuses .....

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:::Buzzzzzz::: you hear that? That's the sound of a jack rabbit (dildo). Go f._u.-c.-k yourself. :-)

DoubleGemini,

You stand correct. However, I don't need to explain myself or my situation to anyone; especially,to a bitter rusty piece of p.-u.-s.-s.-y, who probably cums dust.

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Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^^^LOL @ cums dust......I know what u mean....I never got along with Virgo men, it never gets past the first date....I get on a better with the females....I find Virgo men to be very nasty....I dont do nasty...I find Pisces men to be very nasty as well..always a hidden agenda, I never feel secure with a Pisces man, to fickle for my tastes...I'm the only one that can be fickle in a realtionship😉

Regarding Virgo men, they either have truly gentle personalities and are happy to help others out without expecting favors in return OR at the opposite of the spectrum, the rest are full of spite and prejudice. Sweet Virgo guys are arguably some of the best people on earth whereas corrupt Virgo men conversely might be the worst.
Most often, you'll be able to tell right away which description the individual Virgo falls under. What you see is what you get so given that, I can't call 'em a mystery.
Virgettes are typically mild-mannered, admirable and unlikely to draw negative attention to themselves, IMO.

Overall, I like their sign. Not to mention they are great to work with; you can have fun with them on the job yet be able to stay productive together.

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This is true my ex was on the bad side of the spectrum. While my virgo male friends are on the good or so I think. Lol

Posted by starlover
MadameA (((hugs))

Just remember...better to be out of a relationship than live with a man that sleeps with other people WHILST he is living with you.

As i said before my Virgo ex never cheated on me, we parted gently and i can say he was true to me for all the time we were together

P-Angel...best not to throw stones at glasshouses hey? That could be your Virgo that was cheating on you...right?

I don't know if he was cheating for sure. But, I know that if you are lying about communication with your ex, its for a reason. He was very dishonest with me and lacked intergity. I caught him lying and that was enough for me to want to break free. I don't care virgo or not. I have standards that I will abide by. I am not the kind of woman who needs a man to feel happy and fulfilled. Achieving my goals and aspirations, give me that feeling naturally.

Lol.. Funny!

Posted by starlover


P-Angel...best not to throw stones at glasshouses hey? That could be your Virgo that was cheating on you...right?

What are you babbling about this time?

Oh, I get it .. she said she was Scorpio, so now you have to act like you need to protect her .. right !!


Anyway ... she is wrong, of course .. I know that's hard for you to believe that a Scorpio woman would ever actually misrepresent another due to their injured ego ... but, you're going to have to deal with it being said.


Now go cry .. I know it's difficult for you ... here's a tissue.

Posted by MadameAthena

I have decided join in the frustrating quest for answers to the complex nature of Virgo man.

Posted by MadameAthena

I know that if you are lying about communication with your ex, its for a reason. He was very dishonest with me and lacked intergity. I caught him lying and that was enough for me to want to break free. I don't care virgo or not. I have standards that I will abide by.

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The ignorants, which is most of the people ... wouldn't be able to put these two together to reach the conclusion that you can't STAND that he left you.

He is a liar, lacks integrity ........ you make a thread to discuss how eager you are to understand him.

That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ means you want him.



What were you saying about having standards that you refuse to have violated —?


Oh wait, you probably can't put those two together either, after all, you did it.

Posted by starlover

P-Angel...best not to throw stones at glasshouses hey?

What are you referring to?

I tell her the truth, and you insinuate that I have a glass house?

The batteries must of died on your jack rabbit because you have return with you sexual frustrations to lash out on me. BTW, for future notice, rechargeable batteries are far more effective. 😉

P-Angel, let me make this clear, I Left him. He wants Me back. I have no desire to reconcile. This "truth" you say you are giving me is nothing more than a closed minded opinon from a woman who makes her own assumptions which are far from TRUE. My ego is happily intact by the way. 🙂 🙂 🙂

Tsk.. Tsk.. Tsk.. It must suck to be you. Poor old fish hag, if you had half the balls of a scorpion, you would be having some out of this world, uber fantastic, spiritually transcending Sex!! Unfortunately, you're a fish in a sexless union with a virgo who probably out banging a sexy scorpio or a passionate aries.

Posted by starlover
LOL is MadamA a Scorp...oh i missed that
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Yep. 🙂 I am a scorpio

Posted by starlover
Oooohhh MadamA I am about to have some ""uber fantastic, spiritually transcending Sex"" with a totally passionate Aries guy (Moon, Pluto, Saturna and MC in Scorp) roaaarrrrrrr

Awwwww dont let fishy woman get to yer...she is only getting off on it....she dont mean it really. Save all the intense Scorpio energy for LOVING

YES!!! Virgo men LOVE Scorp women, then again most men do

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((hugs))

Very true, we keep em on their toes.
By the way, love the new pic 😉

Posted by starlover
My mother used to say "keep them on their toes" bless her.

Thanks for the compliment...🙂 xx

She was right. And us, scorpios defintely do a good job at that. 😉

You're welcome.