I want To Tell Virguy to Stop Talking to Me

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by capris on Friday, April 15, 2011 and has 7 replies.

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@capris
18 Years

I am developing some feelings for this Virguy and is definitely distracting me...I know..almost definite that it is not going to go anywhere. If I tell him to stop talking to me, is he going to get hurt by this. I still want us to be friends, but at a distance...HOw do you virguys respond to this?

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@Cajunspirit
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

The friend thing only works if WE let it be that way.
If you indicate to him to back off, he will drop you.

The only way to do it, is to let it happen naturally. Just keep it mundane and straightforward and he will eventually relegate you to a lesser priority.

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@MedullaOblongata
15 Years

"If you indicate to him to back off, he will drop you."

Yes. Yes.

Really think about this decision though Capris. You may never be able to regain his friendship again, Virgos are very straightforward with their decisions and won't turn back. Be careful what you wish for.

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@PlanetMercuryGirl
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Just act like you're a stupid. Virgo men usually like intelligent women.

Hey, didn't you say that you're developing feelings for him? Why do you think that it is not going to go anywhere? You are horribly confused. You want the guy to "stop" talking to you but you still want to be friends.

Doesn't sound too intelligent. You might get what you wish for after all !!