@Damnata
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Posted by goligold
24
The card you got is "Passive-aggressive"
passive aggressive : behavior that is covertly hostile but overtly agreeable : pervasive quality of negativity masked by passive resistance with anger always lurking beneath the surface
characterized by: phrases such as "Whatever you want" or "I don't want to be any trouble" : small acts of sabotage that contradict stated complacence, procrastination: sullen, pouty, scornful demeanor: disavowal of or refusal to state real preferences, desires, needs, feelings

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Posted by backtokemet
50
The card you got is "Compartmentalization"
compartmentalization: the unconscious separation, isolation, and categorization of particular thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, a mechanism to protect from the anxiety of internal inconsistency
characterized by: incongruity in thoughts and/or behavior, dishonesty, inability to associate related experiences, assertions of bizarre connections between incidents that have little in common

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
47
The card you got is "Self-awareness"
self-awareness: a relatively objective, flexible, open, and accepting sense of oneself: an ongoing process of learning and exploring one's own internal aspects, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors
characterized by: lack of defensiveness, capacity to admit culpability or wrongdoing, insight into self and others, receptivity to truth, participation in psychotherapy

Posted by tiziani
5 please
You got the "I deserve to be blown" card
It's part of the major enchilladas arcana.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
47
The card you got is "Self-awareness"
self-awareness: a relatively objective, flexible, open, and accepting sense of oneself: an ongoing process of learning and exploring one's own internal aspects, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors
characterized by: lack of defensiveness, capacity to admit culpability or wrongdoing, insight into self and others, receptivity to truth, participation in psychotherapy
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Very nice!
Posted by tiziani
5 please
You got the "Empathy" card.
empathy: the capacity to understand and enter into another person's emotions or perspective : distingueshed from Sympathy as feeling with rather than feeling for
characterized by:
lack of empathy: disregard for some or all emotions, narcissism, limited life experience, dichotomous thinking, callousness
excess of empathy: quality of "having no skin", tendency to feel everybody's pain, hypersensitivity.

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Posted by starlover
Oh right 😄I still want number 7
Thanks!
You got the "Psychosomatic" card.
psychosomatic: of or relating to a physical condition caused or aggravated by mental or emotional stressors such as internal conflict or anxiety
characterized by: obsession with Internet diagnoses, ignoring emotional issues, disdain for therapy, misuse of medicine, habitual ibuprofen consumption

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Posted by tiziani
Thank you D!
I still stand by the initial card, troll.
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Posted by RainDancer
36 merci beaucoup 🙂
The card you got is "Dichotomous thinking"
dichotomous thinking: the practice of viewing situations, people, emotions or thoughts in black-and-white terms, as all or nothing, good or bad
characterized by: extreme activity swings, true-believer syndrome, binge dieting, inability to compromise or forgive, shame, self-loathing, short-term relationships, cluelessness.

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That's the deck, starlover. 😄
Posted by 1stTierReadings
lmao so has nata posted all 50 by now—
No.
Go back to renouncing your whorish ways ands, the cards speaketh the truth.
Posted by justagirl
69!Oh wait... between 1 and 50...
hmmm 34.5 so i get half of that 69!
😆
You got the...
uhm...

...this card.
Posted by 1stTierReadings
lmao so has nata posted all 50 by now—
Selective reading is your forte.
Posted by 1stTierReadings
also what is that big thing in the background? 😛
It's not the Toshiba you knew and loved. 😄
Posted by 1stTierReadings
HAHAHAHAHAHA!i knew it looked different!!!
some r2d2 type of model only built for romania!
Nah, we upgraded from the middle ages.
Posted by femmefatale
Number 8 for me, please.
You got the "Coping mechanism" card.
coping mechanism: leaned techniques which enable the individual to navigate emotionally stressful situations and maintain internal consistency while adjusting to a particular environment
characterized by: unvarying behavior in varying circumstances, childlike shutdown during tough times, odd but consistent reactions to certain situations, inability to handle emergencies

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Posted by 1stTierReadings
what happened to the toshiba doe did it finally die this mercury retrograde?
Nah, mah baby is alive and healthy.
Posted by Impulsv
7
You got the "Alienation" card.
alienation : the sensation of estrangement or separation from others, of not belonging in groups, of being different or misunderstood
characterized by: sadness, depression, pouting, bad music, lip or attitude, rule breaking, social isolation, relocation to large cities or remote shacks, shoulder chips, separation from real or deeper self

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Posted by justagirl
Okay okay my real number is always 5 🙂 it's my lucky number!
You got the "Neurosis" card.
neurosis: a relatively mild psychological or mental disorder arising from unconscious, anxiety-inducing conflicts : this ansiety leads to the use of defense mechanism, which ultimately produce the distressing neurotic symptoms
characterized by: constant and irrational worry or fear, estrangement from the self, depression, hypochondria, histrionics, obsessive-compulsive tendencies, Jewish upbringing

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Posted by BlackMamba
44
You got the "Symbiosis" card.
symbiosis: any relationship between individuals where interdependencies exist: a mutually reinforcing scenario between individuals who both need and are gratified by each other, sometimes to the point of unhealthy fusion
characterized by: complementarity, codependence, back-scratching, resistance to individuation or separation.

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Posted by VivaciousScorpio
8
The card you got is "Transference"
transference: the unconscious displacement of feelings and attitudes from one person to another, especially the reassignment of dynamics from formatively significant figures (parents, caretakers) to contemporary relations (love interests, therapists)
characterized by: resentments inconsistent with current relationships, unsubstantiated assumptions about others' judgments, childlike dependencies, Oedipus complex

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Posted by KiKiBerry
25
The card you got was "Inferiority complex"
inferiority complex: a collection of repressed fears and resentments associated with inferiority, resulting in unresolved feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, and self-criticism, esp. in comparison with others
characterized by: overcompensation, acting out, withdrawal, insecurity, timidity, pessimism, depression, tendency to be impelled by external rather than interal motivations, "Woe is me" syndrome
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Hmph "Woe is me"-depression has been my attitude the last week or so...
Than you D & cards for affirming I obviously need to get my life :-/
Posted by tiziani
I just want it to be this leather-bound, first edition red book that looks officious and academic. Only make about 5 copies max. Leave them in libraries around the word - so people are like "holy sh**, Sag Moons really ARE evil. It dates back to olden times!"
We AREN'T evil- you just can't handle us 😛
Posted by Damnata
Posted by justagirl
69!Oh wait... between 1 and 50...
hmmm 34.5 so i get half of that 69!
😆
You got the...
uhm...
...this card.
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😈 thankie!
Posted by Damnata
Posted by justagirl
Okay okay my real number is always 5 🙂 it's my lucky number!
You got the "Neurosis" card.
neurosis: a relatively mild psychological or mental disorder arising from unconscious, anxiety-inducing conflicts : this ansiety leads to the use of defense mechanism, which ultimately produce the distressing neurotic symptoms
characterized by: constant and irrational worry or fear, estrangement from the self, depression, hypochondria, histrionics, obsessive-compulsive tendencies, Jewish upbringing
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Posted by thisismylife2015
16
The card you got was "Affirmation"
affirmation: approval of another person's statements, knowledge, or insight, expressed in order to encourage motivation or self-confidence : aphorisms, rhymes, or cursive phrases designed to heal via inner repetition
characterized by: false cheer, statements of the obvious, patronization : embroidery, calligraphy, bumper stickers, talk shows, refrigerator magnets

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Posted by Soul
I pick my lucky number.13
The card you got was "Denial"
denial: a defense mechanism that allows a person to ignore or forget certain information in order to avoid conscious awareness of painful or unacceptable thoughts, feelings, desires, or aspects of reality
characterized by: inconsistencies in self-representation, guilt, shame, self-punitive behavior, externalization, dishonesty, overcompensation, defensiveness, rivers in Egypt

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Posted by MlleFisk
29
The card you got was "Unconscious"
unconscious: the part of the mind that is only rarely subject to awareness, containing repressed instincts, memories, wishes, ideas and images too anxiety-inducing to be introduced into consciousness
characterized by: Freudian slips, meaningful dreams, dissociated acts, seemingly inexplicable conclusions, psychotherapeutic revelations

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Posted by Curiousram
8
You got the "Boundaries" card.
boundaries: personal limits that modulate in relation to levels of intimacy: organizing principles for physical and psychological participation within a system: described as rigid, flexible, diffused, open, or closed
characterized by:
lax boundaries: oversharing, inappropriate emotional displays, getting to know others too quickly
impermeable boundaries: closed and defended or false public self, hypersensitivity, fear of intimacy

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Posted by AfternoonDelights22
22
You got the "Sunset Vibrator Overlooking Mountain Scenery" card.
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Yep can't argue with denial lmao!
Posted by Mystik_Enigma
27
compartmentalization: the unconscious separation, isolation, and categorization of particular thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, a mechanism to protect from the anxiety of internal inconsistency
characterized by: incongruity in thoughts and/or behavior, dishonesty, inability to associate related experiences, assertions of bizarre connections between incidents that have little in common

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Posted by cheekyfaerie
35, when ya get around to it. 🙂
The card you got is "Family Myth
family myth: an explanation and justification of family members' roles, self-images, and shared consensual experience
characterized by: sibling rivalries, parent-child conflict, strained family portraits, awkward reunions, silent dinnertimes, spontaneous heart-to-hearts at weddings

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Posted by Nevermore
My mind pops up "37" for some odd reason..
The card you got is "Rationalization"
rationalization: a defense mechanism in which an individual unconsciously finds plausible explanations to justify unreasonable or intolerable behavior or feelings, thereby concealing true motivations
characterized by: defensive indignation, misrepresentation, self-righteousness, storytelling, lack of self-awareness, inability to accept ignoble parts of self, guilt

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Posted by wecarealot
8
You got the "Psychosomatic" card.
psychosomatic: of or relating to a physical condition caused or aggravated by mental or emotional stressors such as internal conflict or anxiety
characterized by: obsession with Internet diagnoses, ignoring emotional issues, disdain for therapy, misuse of medicine, habitual ibuprofen consumption

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Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Well me and my mother are close...
Et tu, Oedipus?
Posted by shellshocker
19
The card you got is "Narcissism"
narcissism: from the Greek myth of Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection, narcissism is an excessive preoccupation with oneself to the exclusion of others
characterized by:
a) sense of entitlement, drive to unattainable self-perfection, impaired capacities for concern, empathy, love
b) obsessive self-critique, fixation with one's flaws, self-blame for all outcomes (pessimism omnipotence)

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Posted by Gooober
3
The card you got is "Passive-aggressive"
passive aggressive : behavior that is covertly hostile but overtly agreeable : pervasive quality of negativity masked by passive resistance with anger always lurking beneath the surface
characterized by: phrases such as "Whatever you want" or "I don't want to be any trouble" : small acts of sabotage that contradict stated complacence, procrastination: sullen, pouty, scornful demeanor: disavowal of or refusal to state real preferences, desires, needs, feelings

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Posted by Damnata
Posted by shellshocker
19
The card you got is "Narcissism"
narcissism: from the Greek myth of Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection, narcissism is an excessive preoccupation with oneself to the exclusion of others
characterized by:
a) sense of entitlement, drive to unattainable self-perfection, impaired capacities for concern, empathy, love
b) obsessive self-critique, fixation with one's flaws, self-blame for all outcomes (pessimism omnipotence)
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I think I'm the only one to get this card yet. I am awesome!!!!
Thx!
Posted by BlackMamba
I feel like a 4 today. So 4.
The card you got is "Repression"
repression: an unconscious, involuntary defense mechanism which expels unacceptable thoughts, fantasies, memories or impulses from consciousness, in order to protect the individual from that which might cause anxiety, pain, or guilt.
characterized by: inability to satisfy pleasure instincts or access emotion, frigidity, unfulfilled longings, lack of self-knowledge, uptightness, fear of cutting loose

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Posted by shellshocker
Posted by Damnata
Posted by shellshocker
19
The card you got is "Narcissism"
narcissism: from the Greek myth of Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection, narcissism is an excessive preoccupation with oneself to the exclusion of others
characterized by:
a) sense of entitlement, drive to unattainable self-perfection, impaired capacities for concern, empathy, love
b) obsessive self-critique, fixation with one's flaws, self-blame for all outcomes (pessimism omnipotence)
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I think I'm the only one to get this card yet. I am awesome!!!!
Thx!
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Ahaha the sense of irony with getting narcissism and adding "I'm the only one to get this card"
You loony Cancer.
Posted by munchykin
48
The card you got was "Inferiority complex"
inferiority complex: a collection of repressed fears and resentments associated with inferiority, resulting in unresolved feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, and self-criticism, esp. in comparison with others
characterized by: overcompensation, acting out, withdrawal, insecurity, timidity, pessimism, depression, tendency to be impelled by external rather than interal motivations, "Woe is me" syndrome

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Posted by Vanish
33 please 🙂 or 6. You choose depending on whether you believe in the numerology life path master numbers.
The cards you got were "Abandonment" and "Transference"
1) abandonment: early desertion or rejection by a primary caregiver or attachment object, resulting in an irrational fear of being left, excluded or unloved
characterized by: disproportionate reaction to inconsequential departures, fear of intimacy, desire for constant closeness and reassurance, temper tantrums, crying, jealousy
2) transference: the unconscious displacement of feelings and attitudes from one person to another, especially the reassignment of dynamics from formatively significant figures (parents, caretakers) to contemporary relations (love interests, therapists)
characterized by: resentments inconsistent with current relationships, unsubstantiated assumptions about others' judgments, childlike dependencies, Oedipus complex

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Posted by RainDancer
Can I pick another?If yes, I chose 22
The card you got was "Transference"
transference: the unconscious displacement of feelings and attitudes from one person to another, especially the reassignment of dynamics from formatively significant figures (parents, caretakers) to contemporary relations (love interests, therapists)
characterized by: resentments inconsistent with current relationships, unsubstantiated assumptions about others' judgments, childlike dependencies, Oedipus complex

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You got the "Hypochondria" card.
hypochondria: a persistent conviction that one is seriously ill: fixation on imaginary physical ailments
characterized by: preoccupation with the workings of the body, scheduling too many doctor's appointments, excess hand-sanitizier use, inability to control related anxiety.
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