Damnata
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Posted by MlleFiskThis was exactly my reaction when I got "Persecution Complex"
Both interesting and slightly unsettling.
Posted by VanishI have a theory with Virgos and childhood trauma. The only one I met who didn't have any..was a full blown bitch. So maybe this is our path.
1) abandonment: early desertion or rejection by a primary caregiver or attachment object, resulting in an irrational fear of being left, excluded or unloved
characterized by: disproportionate reaction to inconsequential departures, fear of intimacy, desire for constant closeness and reassurance, temper tantrums, crying, jealousy
😢 surprised at how it's probably the only card accurate for me.
Posted by dontgetmewrongThe card you got was "Fixation"
20 please!
fixation:
a) an obsessive or unhealthy preoccupation or attachment
b) a persistent concentration of libidinal energies toward inappropriate objects or relationships
characterized by: thumb-sucking, inability to let go, possessiveness, stalking, creepiness
Ponder deeply...
Posted by exxtasyxThe card you got is "Family Myth"
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family myth: an explanation and justification of family members' roles, self-images, and shared consensual experience
characterized by: sibling rivalries, parent-child conflict, strained family portraits, awkward reunions, silent dinnertimes, spontaneous heart-to-hearts at weddings
Ponder deeply...
IT'S NOT THE SAME CARD, INFINITE!
Y DO PEOPLE NO READ THE OP ?!?!
Y DO PEOPLE NO READ THE OP ?!?!
Posted by HuldraThe card you got was "Stress"
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stress: psychological and physical strain or tension generated by physical, emotional, social, economic, or occupational circumstances, events or experiences that are difficult to manage or endure
characterized by: pulling one's hair out, eating too much, eating too little, sleeping all day, short temper, general surliness and poor health, eye twitches, restless leg syndrome, sleep-eating.
Ponder deeply...
Posted by Infinite8I'm joking. Virgo exasperation..we're hilarious.Posted by DamnataOh! Hahahahahaha... Relax woman! I read, just didn't really understand the *note* part!! I get it now, forgive me, I'm slow... I just had a massage 🙂
IT'S NOT THE SAME CARD, INFINITE!
Y DO PEOPLE NO READ THE OP ?!?!
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Anyway, I would've rather you kept that card. But maybe you overcame this...or it never happened.
You got the "Trauma" card.
trauma: an intense, formative, unpleasant life event so powerful that an individual cannot adequately respond to or process it, marked by upheaval and lasting impact on psychological organization
characterized by: emotional damage, difficulty with similar events, reliving and revisiting, repression, denial, pain, flashbacks, scars, bad dreams.
Ponder deeply...
Posted by DamnatalmaoPosted by AfternoonDelights22You got the "Sunset Vibrator Overlooking Mountain Scenery" card.
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Now raindancer has my 22
Leave it to a virgo sun to mess up alignment!
Posted by AfternoonDelights22No, dummy.Posted by DamnatalmaoPosted by AfternoonDelights22You got the "Sunset Vibrator Overlooking Mountain Scenery" card.
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Now raindancer has my 22
Leave it to a virgo sun to mess up alignment!
I already drew your card so the allignment wouldn't mess up.
You know..virgo sun > virgo rising
You got the "Alienation" card.
alienation : the sensation of estrangement or separation from others, of not belonging in groups, of being different or misunderstood
characterized by: sadness, depression, pouting, bad music, lip or attitude, rule breaking, social isolation, relocation to large cities or remote shacks, shoulder chips, separation from real or deeper self
Ponder deeply...
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Posted by DamnataPosted by AfternoonDelights22No, dummy.Posted by DamnatalmaoPosted by AfternoonDelights22You got the "Sunset Vibrator Overlooking Mountain Scenery" card.
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Now raindancer has my 22
Leave it to a virgo sun to mess up alignment!
I already drew your card so the allignment wouldn't mess up.
You know..virgo sun > virgo rising
You got the "Alienation" card.
alienation : the sensation of estrangement or separation from others, of not belonging in groups, of being different or misunderstood
characterized by: sadness, depression, pouting, bad music, lip or attitude, rule breaking, social isolation, relocation to large cities or remote shacks, shoulder chips, separation from real or deeper self
Ponder deeply...
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Oh the Libra moon card :/
Oh well. I like your desk/table/wood
That is the Pisces card, deldo.
You misfits you.
Boundaries to me sounds like the venus in aqua card.
I love wood furniture. Thank you for not commenting on the specks of dust on the laptop.
You misfits you.
Boundaries to me sounds like the venus in aqua card.
I love wood furniture. Thank you for not commenting on the specks of dust on the laptop.
16, thank you!
Posted by AfternoonDelights22Oh the Libra moon card :/Posted by DamnataPosted by AfternoonDelights22No, dummy.Posted by DamnatalmaoPosted by AfternoonDelights22You got the "Sunset Vibrator Overlooking Mountain Scenery" card.
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Now raindancer has my 22
Leave it to a virgo sun to mess up alignment!
I already drew your card so the allignment wouldn't mess up.
You know..virgo sun > virgo rising
You got the "Alienation" card.
alienation : the sensation of estrangement or separation from others, of not belonging in groups, of being different or misunderstood
characterized by: sadness, depression, pouting, bad music, lip or attitude, rule breaking, social isolation, relocation to large cities or remote shacks, shoulder chips, separation from real or deeper self
Ponder deeply...
Oh well. I like your desk/table/wood
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It looks like it's polished regularly.
Shut up Leo Moon, you got the best card in the deck.
11 don't know if someone already picked this or not...
so interesting looking up the transference thingy,, I remember being attacked by a dog and since then I was afraid of all dogs for some reason even my dogs at home and they are Shitzu cross Maltese! I just couldn't be around dogs for a while because I felt like they would attack me like the staffy.
so interesting looking up the transference thingy,, I remember being attacked by a dog and since then I was afraid of all dogs for some reason even my dogs at home and they are Shitzu cross Maltese! I just couldn't be around dogs for a while because I felt like they would attack me like the staffy.
Posted by FleshpotYou got the "False self" card.
16, thank you!
false self: the person one pretends to be in order to avoid admitting flaws or internal conflict
characterized by: constant pageant face, smiling from ear to ear without reason, misrepresentation, lying on a resume, great first dates followed by short-lived relationships, two-faced, Gemini
Ponder deeply...
Posted by DamnataI noticed that. Moat of them were less than sunny in outlook (well, really all of them except mine so far).
Shut up Leo Moon, you got the best card in the deck.
Kind of a cool deck though.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11The card you got was "Dysfunctional"
11 don't know if someone already picked this or not...
so interesting looking up the transference thingy,, I remember being attacked by a dog and since then I was afraid of all dogs for some reason even my dogs at home and they are Shitzu cross Maltese! I just couldn't be around dogs for a while because I felt like they would attack me like the staffy.
dysfunctional: incapable of functioning or responding in adequate or healthy ways in life or relationship arenas
characterized by: craziness, inability to perform at simple levels despite unpleasant consequences, repetition of unsuccessful behaviors, totally whacked-out families, need for psychotherapeutic intervention, addiction
Ponder deeply...
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspIt has instructions for 4 games, one of which is pantomimes with friends. Trying to mime the concept and have people guess it...that should be fun.Posted by DamnataI noticed that. Moat of them were less than sunny in outlook (well, really all of them except mine so far).
Shut up Leo Moon, you got the best card in the deck.
Kind of a cool deck though.click to expand
It amazes me how many people got Transference.
Posted by tizianiI.just.can't.with.you.
Mine was just fine (shrugs)
Posted by DamnataDefinitely something to ponder. Thanks, again.Posted by FleshpotYou got the "False self" card.
16, thank you!
false self: the person one pretends to be in order to avoid admitting flaws or internal conflictclick to expand
Posted by Infinite8LMBO!!!!!! I'm only laughing, because I know how those massages are. They take away like 3/4 of your thinking abilities afterwards. lol ha ha ha ha haPosted by DamnataOh! Hahahahahaha... Relax woman! I read, just didn't really understand the *note* part!! I get it now, forgive me, I'm slow... I just had a massage 🙂
IT'S NOT THE SAME CARD, INFINITE!
Y DO PEOPLE NO READ THE OP ?!?!
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Posted by DamnataI know, I know...Posted by GoooberThe card you got is "Passive-aggressive"
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passive aggressive : behavior that is covertly hostile but overtly agreeable : pervasive quality of negativity masked by passive resistance with anger always lurking beneath the surface
characterized by: phrases such as "Whatever you want" or "I don't want to be any trouble" : small acts of sabotage that contradict stated complacence, procrastination: sullen, pouty, scornful demeanor: disavowal of or refusal to state real preferences, desires, needs, feelings
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Posted by DamnataPosted by enfant_terribleThe card you got was "Trigger"
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trigger: an event or thing that causes something to happen : a troubling reminder of a traumatic event, although the trigger itself need not be frightening or traumatic
characterized by: irrational emotional response to songs, smells, colors, or any variant of elements: becoming severely unhinged by small things, flashbacks, PTSD
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Lmao! Pretty accurate.
/Little Albert
Posted by LittleStarYou got the "Neurosis" card.
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neurosis: a relatively mild psychological or mental disorder arising from unconscious, anxiety-inducing conflicts : this anxiety leads to the use of defense mechanisms, which ultimately produce the distressing neurotic symptoms
characterized by: constant and irrational worry or fear, estrangement from the self, depression, hypochondria, histrionics, obsessive-compulsive tendencies, Jewish upbringing
Ponder deeply..
Posted by TachiMichikoThe card you got is "Projection"
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projection: a defense mechanism in which intolerable feelings, impulses, thoughts, or traits are ascribed to other people in order to deny that they are part of oneself: the perception that outside events occur in relation to one's own desires, expectations or needs
characterized by: externalisation, turning of tables, inability to take responsibility for one's demons, unsubstantiated assumptions about others, the phrase "Put on a jacket - I'm cold"
Ponder deeply..
Posted by PieridaThe card you got is "Compartmentalization"
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compartmentalization: the unconscious separation, isolation, and categorization of particular thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, a mechanism to protect from the anxiety of internal inconsistency
characterized by: incongruity in thoughts and/or behavior, dishonesty, inability to associate related experiences, assertions of bizarre connections between incidents that have little in common
Ponder deeply..
Posted by derpetteThe card you got is "Overcompensation"
33 pls!
overcompensation: exaggeration of behavior in order to offset some perceived liability, motivated by feelings of inferiority, guilt or inadequacy
characterized by: excessive gift giving, affection, compliments, excuses : overperformance in social situations, loudness, stage monopolizing: know-it-all pedantry, making others feel stupid, need to display all feathers at once : bullying, taunting
Ponder deeply...
Posted by TachiMichikoIt might be someone around you who is projecting on you.
that one was incorrect.
i embrace my demons
because i know the true
dark negative side of self.
everyone has one. i choose
not to deny mine because
doing so would make me
less than human. and all
humans have a nasty side.
i just believe there is a time
and a place to let loose the
demons and there is a time
to use peace to solve things.
I'm saying this because with water signs and being emotional sponges, the card could relate to someone else you hold dear.
I hope all is well, regardless.
Posted by DamnataOhmy god, that's true...Posted by Nirvana707You got the "Hypochondria" card.
My age 24. *Excited*
hypochondria: a persistent conviction that one is seriously ill: fixation on imaginary physical ailments
characterized by: preoccupation with the workings of the body, scheduling too many doctor's appointments, excess hand-sanitizier use, inability to control related anxiety.
Ponder deeply...
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Posted by twodrinkmaximumThe card you got is "Repression"
25 please
repression: an unconscious, involuntary defense mechanism which expels unacceptable thoughts, fantasies, memories or impulses from consciousness, in order to protect the individual from that which might cause anxiety, pain, or guilt.
characterized by: inability to satisfy pleasure instincts or access emotion, frigidity, unfulfilled longings, lack of self-knowledge, uptightness, fear of cutting loose
Ponder deeply..
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Posted by leonaYou got the "Boundaries" card.
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boundaries: personal limits that modulate in relation to levels of intimacy: organizing principles for physical and psychological participation within a system: described as rigid, flexible, diffused, open, or closed
characterized by:
lax boundaries: oversharing, inappropriate emotional displays, getting to know others too quickly
impermeable boundaries: closed and defended or false public self, hypersensitivity, fear of intimacy
Ponder deeply..
Posted by WateryGemThe card you got was "Stress"
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stress: psychological and physical strain or tension generated by physical, emotional, social, economic, or occupational circumstances, events or experiences that are difficult to manage or endure
characterized by: pulling one's hair out, eating too much, eating too little, sleeping all day, short temper, general surliness and poor health, eye twitches, restless leg syndrome, sleep-eating.
Ponder deeply...
Posted by DamnataIt's fitting for today.Posted by WateryGemThe card you got was "Stress"
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stress: psychological and physical strain or tension generated by physical, emotional, social, economic, or occupational circumstances, events or experiences that are difficult to manage or endure
characterized by: pulling one's hair out, eating too much, eating too little, sleeping all day, short temper, general surliness and poor health, eye twitches, restless leg syndrome, sleep-eating.
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Posted by FlamebaitThe card you got is "Externalization"
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externalization: a defense mechanism whereby outside causes or impulses are attributed to events or outcomes that in fact were influenced largely by oneself, in order to avoid exposing the actual, internal causes or impulses
characterized by: tendency to blame others, failure to see one's own role in recurring situations, lack of self-knowledge, paranoia, whininess
Ponder deeply...
Posted by exoYou got the "Hypochondria" card.
12 please. 🙂
hypochondria: a persistent conviction that one is seriously ill: fixation on imaginary physical ailments
characterized by: preoccupation with the workings of the body, scheduling too many doctor's appointments, excess hand-sanitizier use, inability to control related anxiety.
Ponder deeply...
Posted by TeenaYou got the "Distancing technique" card.
28 :-)
distancing technique: the deliberate maintenance of psychological distance from and lack of emotional involvement with others in order to:
a) moderate a relationship's characteristics and intensity
b) cope with situations that could betray one's weaknesses
characterized by: aloof coolness, resistance to intimate acquaintanceship, noncommittal tendences, isolation, alientation
Ponder deeply...
Posted by DamnataWow!very impressivePosted by TeenaYou got the "Distancing technique" card.
28 :-)
distancing technique: the deliberate maintenance of psychological distance from and lack of emotional involvement with others in order to:
a) moderate a relationship's characteristics and intensity
b) cope with situations that could betray one's weaknesses
characterized by: aloof coolness, resistance to intimate acquaintanceship, noncommittal tendences, isolation, alientation
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Thanks Damnata 🙂
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fixation:
a) an obsessive or unhealthy preoccupation or attachment
b) a persistent concentration of libidinal energies toward inappropriate objects or relationships
characterized by: thumb-sucking, inability to let go, possessiveness, stalking, creepiness
Ponder deeply...