two different life styles- would it work?

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osh_1990
@osh_1990
8 Years

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hello,

the man that i like has totally different life than me.

from the 1st impression it may seem that he is unavailable that he is flaky.

he works in some artistic environment when he is an organiser and a boss of some events. he has his own company, office where he is the youngest one. but still has a lot of work.

in january 2017 ive heard he was organising his calendar for november 2017.

i like him, he likes me.

he was very eager to help me before and so one. but never makes promises.

its always me who initiates but then he is always ok t talk and to meet with a friend group.

but when we meet he flirts with me he is ok.

so my question is - is it very important that a particilar woman's life is totally different than a man's life?

i am 26 he is 27 . heis very mobile, travels 3-4 times a week to different cities for some freelance short jobs.

and i do not know. if he is not on his period of hislife that he wants a gf, or he just likes me as a friend.

he only parties hard and then works.

he has a lot of friends, female friends as well. he is a centre of attention.

what do you think?

i finish studies. i am at home working on my computer and sometimes i am fed up giving a hand, initiating meetings. i stopped doing it. i focused on myself. when he flaked(?) for 1 month i felt like being ghosted but he was apologising and so one.

so my question is that -

is it important that two people have the same life- line. the timing is right? i feel he takes me for granted even as a friend and even if he likes me ( which is obvious at parties). he lives very fast. different than me.