Venus/Pluto aspects - Transformations through relationships

What are your thoughts on this?

Posted by raad182
What are your thoughts on this?

luckily i only have quincunx on this aspect. i love but not obsessed.

Been there, done that. I'm greatful for it. I love improving as a person.

I'm so over my old ways.

I don't get into relationships unless I'm going to give it my all.

I hate using people now. I hated it then but I hate it even more now because I hate the pain it causes others. I guess I can say that I'm less selfish in my relationships nowadays and I try to be straight forward.

I feel like I'm a better lover these days.

My past relationships have shown me the pain my selfishness and pride causes others. Quite sure I have some bad karma headed my way to make up for all the people I've hurt and I'm ready to be humbled.

Other than that, great placement. You tend to attract the most intense lovers.

Only felt it in synastry. The person who's pluto conjuct my Venus was truly there for me. Back then, I would overhear him defend me. Imagine that, DEFEND ME not talk behind my back. He also gave me advice and really helped me out at the time. Before I met him, I felt like the old talkative me was gone, but when I did, I realized it was just sleeping inside me this whole time. I felt free with him. I grew with him. I realized that I might have overlooked some potentially good guys then because of how they looked. The guy I'm talking about wasn't the best looking, but I really liked spending time with him. I grew with him and this was the first time I've ever felt that with anyone. At the time, I felt like I could marry him. He made me realize how important it is to grow in a relationship and now that's one of the things I need to have in a relationship.