Venus/Venus, Mars/Mars Compatibilities

Hey there, folks! ^^ I had a question regarding the relationship regarding two people's Venus and Mars signs. I understand for the most part, a boy's Mars and a girl's Venus are the primary factors of one's love life, and of course vice versa. My question is, what if the boy's Mars and girl's Mars, or each of their Venus, don't match up well?

The example at heart would be:

Aries guy, Gemini Mars, Taurus Venus.

Gemini girl, Pisces Mars, Aries Venus.

Regarding Venus/Mars signs, Aries + Gemini, great! Pisces + Taurus, great!

Regarding Mars/Mars, Venus/Venus, Pisces + Gemini, booo! Taurus + Aries, BOOO!

[These boos are based mostly off assumptions, I'd love for someone to verify the validity of these boos]

So, I donno if I'm gonna answer my own question right now, but there was a certain three levels of love I was kinda taught: infatuation, befriending, and then respectful nature. The lowest level of love, respectful, is just kinda like the love you feel for your neighbor or even yourself. The level above that is the love you feel for friends and family. Then the highest level is the infatuation stage, where you're "in love". The idea is, the love in a relationship cannot exist without the rest of the foundation. You can't truly love someone without respecting them, or yourself; you see people get married and have a child very quickly because they were infatuated with each other, without realizing they lacked any compatibility and sooner or later divorce each other. Reason being, infatuation eventually breaks down and goes away, and reverts to the stage underneath, the befriending stage, which is why most marriages work well when they wake up and realize they had married their best friend [or, one of their best friends, at least].

Anyways, I donno if anyone's heard of this or something similar, but am I wrong in assuming the infatuation stage would be portrayed within one's Venus and the other's Mars, and vice versa? Meanwhile, the compatibility within friendship would be portrayed within one's Venus and the other's Venus, or Mars/Mars. Does that make sense? Or does this only make sense in theory, and it's not quite that black and white; that after the primary factors between Venus/Mars, everything else is just sugar and spice? Has anyone noticed a pattern of breakdowns in relationships when Mars/Mars, Venus/Venus don't match up well, even with the compatible Venus::Mars signs?

Posted by Capmercury87
I dont believe that mars in the male should be fit for the girls venus, because I have tried that already. Dated a man with a sag venus and a cap mars, never again! even with him having the same sun as me with a water moon like me. My venus craves other earth venus folk.

I have noticed that there is a attraction but that doesnt make it work.

But did you have a Mars that was also compatible with his Venus? I've tried ignoring that, and sticking with only the male Mars and female Venus to overrule the vice-versa. It did not go well. :C

Posted by Capmercury87
I dont believe that mars in the male should be fit for the girls venus, because I have tried that already. Dated a man with a sag venus and a cap mars, never again!...

my mars is in Sagittarius and my venus is in capricorn

I read your post wrong, sorry for being silly. >.

Half of my boyfriends were Aries Venus conjunct my Aries Mars!

I was FWB with an Aqua Mars conjunct my Aqua Venus. Sex was very experimental, but no romantic attraction whatsoever.

I enjoyed my last bf a lot, both sexually and romantically. He has Aries Mars like me and a Gem Venus for my Aqua Venus.

I just went salsa dancing and was looking forward to dance with a cutie I met last time. His Taurus Mars squares my Aqua Venus and Leo Venus trines my Aries Mars.

Where did the chemistry go? I thought last time it sizzled, this time it fizzled out. He even punched me with his elbow in my face by mistake 😛 What a fiasco!