Virgo - Help

So - I have been ready ALOT about Virgos latley since I am with one, well just got dumped by one so I really need some good advice here.

Basically, my Virgo and I dated 3 years ago, nothing to serious but a lot of drama then we remained friends. Since November we decided that we were going to give eachother a chance, and I've met the whole family, we do things with my son, actually just got back from a trip during memorial weekend and although he doesnt express himself (ever) I know he loves me and he knows I love him...

This weekend we were f*d up and he thought someone was calling me at 5am, asked me for my phone and since i dont have anything to hide i handed it to him. He had my phone for 5 hours...he opened every text, every whatsapp, every ig dm from July 2016 through that day.Although he didnt find me cheating on him because I HAVENT. He had a major issue with the way i reply to people, i guess i come off flirtatious but it is all innocent. He packed up his clothes from the drawer and left my house. I tried texting but he just kept saying stupid things like for me to enjoy my weekend and go find another guy because he was done.

Yesterday I asked to pass by for 5 minutes, he let me, we fell asleep watching tv and then woke me up kicking me out because he had to go see the basketball game...I asked if we were okay and he said no, i asked what can i do to fix things he said, you cant un do what you did.

I stormed out... late night text him good night and he replied.

this morning i text good morning an he replied.

Ive been asking to see him today and he keeps saying "idk"... eventually I am just like wtf tell me what i have to do to make things better, hes the only person who knows but he says he hasnt thought about it....Virgo, not thinking, yeah right.

I asked him to think about it now and he told me "slow down"...

All I can do is give him space now huh? problem is I dont know how to give space... and being a cap/aquarius cusp all I want to do is fix this now now now.

advice............... anyone......bueller?

What's his moon sign?

Do Virgos really care about how you respond to people before you guys were even together? JFC.

Someone who accuses you of cheating and mistrusts you even though you've only ever been faithful and trustworthy is typically cheating themselves. Ime.

He sounds like a little insecure kid.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Someone who accuses you of cheating and mistrusts you even though you've only ever been faithful and trustworthy is typically cheating themselves. Ime.

This! True!

Posted by nikkistar
Do Virgos really care about how you respond to people before you guys were even together? JFC.

because it is a form of knowledge it's mostly about knowing then caring.

If they didn't know about it in the beginning they can be shocked by it later.

And Virgos don't like surprises.

Posted by FknNerd

Posted by Stensco21
What's his moon sign?

And whens his birthday?

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No idea about the moon sign, birthday Sept 7, 1976...

Posted by BEABEA
So - I have been ready ALOT about Virgos latley since I am with one, well just got dumped by one so I really need some good advice here.

Basically, my Virgo and I dated 3 years ago, nothing to serious but a lot of drama then we remained friends. Since November we decided that we were going to give eachother a chance, and I've met the whole family, we do things with my son, actually just got back from a trip during memorial weekend and although he doesnt express himself (ever) I know he loves me and he knows I love him...

This weekend we were f*d up and he thought someone was calling me at 5am, asked me for my phone and since i dont have anything to hide i handed it to him. He had my phone for 5 hours...he opened every text, every whatsapp, every ig dm from July 2016 through that day.Although he didnt find me cheating on him because I HAVENT. He had a major issue with the way i reply to people, i guess i come off flirtatious but it is all innocent. He packed up his clothes from the drawer and left my house. I tried texting but he just kept saying stupid things like for me to enjoy my weekend and go find another guy because he was done.

Yesterday I asked to pass by for 5 minutes, he let me, we fell asleep watching tv and then woke me up kicking me out because he had to go see the basketball game...I asked if we were okay and he said no, i asked what can i do to fix things he said, you cant un do what you did.

I stormed out... late night text him good night and he replied.

this morning i text good morning an he replied.

Ive been asking to see him today and he keeps saying "idk"... eventually I am just like wtf tell me what i have to do to make things better, hes the only person who knows but he says he hasnt thought about it....Virgo, not thinking, yeah right.

I asked him to think about it now and he told me "slow down"...

All I can do is give him space now huh? problem is I dont know how to give space... and being a cap/aquarius cusp all I want to do is fix this now now now.

advice............... anyone......bueller?

The truth is he was looking for an excuse to break up with you anyway. There are plenty of people that can play that role. Have you meeting friends and family etc and then walk off like none of that mattered to them over something silly. Reality is you weren't good enough for him and not to say you're not a wonderful person or worthy. If it's that easy for him to bounce...he's not the one for you.

Seems odd. Would more data or synastry give a better picture?

Virgo Sun (male). I snoop if something's in front of me, but I'd never ask for my gf's phone. It's a certain level of trust or a feeling of security to not go to that level. If there's a concern of cheating I've always felt that it would be glaringly apparent. Freedom and space is required to keep a relationship exciting and healthy.