Do Virgos come back?

What are your experiences?

from my observation on my virgo friends, they don't come back.

and i've been with virgo once. she never wanted me back lol.

Posted by Lilianni
What are your experiences?

Depends on the situation like any other sign. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. I've seen both scenarios with Virgos.

I don't and it's hilarious when fellow Virgos don't get the memo.

Virgo here. I did go back several times, into an abusive relationship. My Scorpio Venus says no. But our Sun moon conjunction said otherwise. And the moon Pluto. Ugh.

Posted by Damnata
I don't and it's hilarious when fellow Virgos don't get the memo.

*rolls eyes*

Posted by shaymaci
Virgo here. I did go back several times, into an abusive relationship. My Scorpio Venus says no. But our Sun moon conjunction said otherwise. And the moon Pluto. Ugh.

How long did it take for you to get out of the relationship? Do you ever check up on him from time to time?

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Posted by shaymaci
Virgo here. I did go back several times, into an abusive relationship. My Scorpio Venus says no. But our Sun moon conjunction said otherwise. And the moon Pluto. Ugh.

How long did it take for you to get out of the relationship? Do you ever check up on him from time to time?

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Months. Mainly because I believed he could be helped. Until I discovered he was a narcissistic sociopath and there was no helping him. Not anymore

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Posted by Damnata
I don't and it's hilarious when fellow Virgos don't get the memo.

*rolls eyes*

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Seriously lol. It's amusing to me.

Are you talking about relationship?

Posted by Lilianni
What are your experiences?

lol

Posted by Nathan912
Are you talking about relationship?

Yes. In romantic relationships and friendships.

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Posted by Lilianni
What are your experiences?

Situation dependant.

Need more details for analysis.

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Well, I don't have a specific situation, I just mean in general whether it's romantic or platonic. Under what circumstances have they come back?

Posted by Wonderlesswave
Hell yeah they always come back

? My ex virgo came back every day for three years until he got the hint

Lol wtf

From what I've seen, once a virgo decides things are done (male or female), it doesn't change, probably 10 or so I've noticed.

Yes... especially if you're the one that broke it off...in my experience.

Yes.

But it's like calling in the cavalry.

If your ass needs saving, the Virgo will appear.

They're good like that ime.

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Posted by Nathan912
Are you talking about relationship?

Yes. In romantic relationships and friendships.

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Relationship wise

No.... I can love with all my heart and I will always put them first and but if I don't feel loved and appreciated back and it's only me doing all the work and give, I will walk out and never look back. Very simple I always believe If you love someone you will do anything to make your partner feel loved and appreciated and will always find a way to make them happy, I'm not stupid to stick around to the person that can only give me half of their heart and will put me on last all the time.

Friendship wise

No.... I'm extremely nice and I will talk to anyone and I can be friend to anyone. But if people give me reason to avoid them and cut them off in my life then I won't hesitate to do it, there some people you don't know personally that will give you a reason right away that they are not worth your energy and time and I cut few people in my life and never regret one bit and I'm glad they are finally out in my life because they are very energy draining and will always try put you down, too much negativity, hatred, jealousy drama and trouble.

All of my let's just be friends are friends I don't have anymore ?

Im the type to never understand people who LET others walk all over them over and over again. Once I cut you off, its the end for us.

BUT...

One of my very good Virgal friends, born a day after me is the exact opposite, she allows her on again off again bf to walk all over her, to make a fool out of her, and she still allows him back because "she is in love with him"... Ive talked to her about it and she throws all reason out the window so now we dont even talk about it and I do not offer anymore advice or insight.

Posted by Lush
I've had a Virgo offer to come back in the future. When we parted ways he told me that if I ever wanted to get back together, in the future, that I should let him know, even if we are old & married have children with other partners.

Wow what a shit. I thought Virgo's were supposed to be more moral than that. Guess not.

In my experience, I'm going to say yes. My experience has been with family and friends only. I've never been romantically involved with a Virgo, thank God.

With a couple of them, it was clear that I wasn't invested in the friendship anymore. A few months would pass and they'd try to get my attention again in some way or another. It's like, "you know, if you had just been NICER to me when it mattered...."

Yeah.

In my experience I've had my Virgo come back a couple times but she only came back as a friendly figure as in she apparently had NOBODY to talk to. Although at the same time she would usually start it off as if she was playing me though, she wouldn't bring up if she was seeing somebody until the very end, when we're parting ways.

All in all, I wouldn't know what to do tbh, I wouldn't give them the light of day, but maybe that's because of my pride? Idk I just don't find them all that trust worthy afterwards ya know

I go back ONLY if the feeling is there AND I still see a future as a possibility. But if you don't have those no, I will never go back

I go back ONLY if the feeling is there AND I still see a future as a possibility. But if you don't have those no, I will never go back

I have. when I still love the person and realized that I did a lot of mistakes in the relationship so I'd like to be able to fix it. So if it seems like I've already did my best and exhausted myself but still no positive outcome I can just walk away with no turning back and no regrets on my side.

Virgos leave when you want them and they come back once you don't, but they're timing is impeccable bc it's in those moments when you finally decide you don't want them but since it's so fresh you can be manipulated back into their web.

I had such low self esteem that I believed he could love me. He was a vampire of sorts. Sucked me dry each time.

Glad I've grown from that, I'm way better without him and I'm glad to say I didn't need to get another guy for me to realize that.

Self love is the best love.

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Posted by Lush
I've had a Virgo offer to come back in the future. When we parted ways he told me that if I ever wanted to get back together, in the future, that I should let him know, even if we are old & married have children with other partners.

Wow what a shit. I thought Virgo's were supposed to be more moral than that. Guess not.

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^^^ lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hell no they're not

trust me, they can be the ultimate wolf in sheep's clothing.

From my personal experience its only when you truly love someone and u made mistakes in the relationship I have to stop myself with my scorpio ex .....i just keep getting pulled back in ?

Posted by emivirgo
From my personal experience its only when you truly love someone and u made mistakes in the relationship I have to stop myself with my scorpio ex .....i just keep getting pulled back in ?

Girl I feel you. That scorpio has something on you