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Posted by faceroll
the thing you have to remember is that aries energy is all like LET'S DO THIS. I LIKE YOU. YOU LIKE ME. WE LIKE EACH OTHER. LET'S TELL EACH OTHER THINGS AND BOND AND BE HAPPY. and cancer placements are like "i am going to sit back and observe and make sure you don't do anything to hurt me before i tell you how i feel. and i may never tell you because i can't trust you with my heart." they'll stay and give you enough rope to hang yourself though lol. aries and cancer is a hard match to make work. are you a cardinal moon too? i'm not sure of your placements. if your moon is square or opposing his moon that was also a reason.also you think you're just being honest with your feelings and they feel overwhelmed like you are the most obnoxious human to ever human. because we're really open about our feelings and aggressive and open (did i say open?). but they're not. so it traumatizes them. and sometimes they don't believe the shit we say because it's so easy for us to say it. judging us by their own standards instead of ours.
i had a cancer mars that i knew loved me. i knew from the very beginning. and she would say that i was crazy and that she didn't. until one day EIGHT years later she said "i've always loved you. i just didn't want you to know."
most people don't got that kind of time. lol.
Exactly! Hahaha we Aries put it ALL out there if we feel the bond. We're a sign of passionate action and love being bonded when it feels right. It probably overwhelmed him, for sure. Because I need to communicate and hate being left confused or unsure of what's going on with my lover. But I'd withdraw from him to self-protect in my own way when he was disappearing on me, and he'd come after me like nobody's business! lol if I wasn't talking much, he called me non-stop and begged to come over for things like a hug, just to be close to me for a second. So it was a lot of push-pull with him. Crazy feelings with that one, he admitted getting someone else pregnant when we were on a break, which he cried over when he had to tell that to me, I could tell he didn't want it to happen. Then when he couldn't deal with my request to be official with me while I stood by him, he freaked and said I was 'too emotionally invested' and that I needed to 'leave him be'. He ripped my damn heart out. Then he left me and clung onto he next c
the next convenient chick, I don't even think he loves her either. It's so bad. I think he just has problems. And he's a Cancer with a mom who was emotionally absent, and knowing that Cancer's have certain bonds with their mom, I'm sure that had something to do with it!
Haha my moon is certainly cardinal as well, it's Libra. I ALWAYS want to communicate and put everything out in the open with my love. No pussy-footing! Just want them to be honest and real with me.
Haha! See, freakin' Cancers are their secrecy! They are SO scared of admitting feelings, it's almost worse than Scorpios!
VIT- is the best. Now who is next probably VIS or VIP.. VIT is a good chef....I am thinking I need some emotions in Venus from someone who is suitable to match my needs. And it makes me picky as hell.. so if you want a good homemade meal, act right.
Posted by faceroll
venus in cancer would be a great match for a venus in taurus. if you can handle them not being really open about their feelings until you prove you're trustworthy and won't hurt them. cancer in general is a very self protective sign. but taurus placements really bring out the best in them i think.i'm venus in aries so there's no way for me to sit still long enough to prove things to them. but a venus in taurus is much different.
I dated a Cancer sun Cancer moon, and he was horrible to me. Acted all affectionate and clingy when I was distant due to his coldness, and then he'd never tell me how he felt. He didn't tell me he loved me until he was drunk one night lol and we dated for over a year. He's an extremely self-protective person. I couldn't stand it. Because I share my feelings, I'm an open, bleed for you, type of person. But then again, that's only if I feel safe enough to share that. I think that's my stubborn Taurus Venus. But he was impossible to deal with. Hurt me so badly.
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i really like faceroll's description of cancer placements. lol
it's awesome. good observation skills, and knowing how they are.
anyway, you have to look to their opposite capricorn as well. Capricorns also love security/family, responsibilties, they respect authority, and weirdly they are quite authoritative individuals, while also respectable. and they don't TALK about it, or tell you, it's in how they SHOW you. they can be irritated, annoyed, cranky as hell, and they'll never tell you how they feel. they can hide in their little hide out man cave, and still won't tell you, unless they are really stressed out over work or something and maybe they will open up. Depending. but it's all about love and trust and feeling secure.
and if you are off put by that, and not patient and loving and just do your own thing, then you need to evaluate about your own desire for a partner. Also, fire cannot sustain water, air cannot sustain water either. it's just how it is. that's why earth is very good for water. that's why an individual needs to have, like say a grand water trine, grand earth trine, in water/earth houses and the other individual has to have alot of air/fire.
I like venus in pisces. I can't even explain why since I don't understand as much about this placement as other venus signs. But, my experience with one was a good one, so hey. In theory, perhaps also venus in aquarius but I have no experience with it. I want to like venus in leo since it's cuddly and cute, but it's too much of a people-pleaser placement for me. Like damn, can you focus on your own needs for once?
Posted by TaurusCap323
I haven't seriously dated many different guys so hard for me to say but so far in my experience I'd say my fellow Venus in Aries my fav!I have ViA and had an epic love with another ViA. I feel I'd love to explore more relationships with any fire sign venus.
Theyre all great but if I had to choose, I'd be venus leo, I'd get to be expressive with my charm and the girls would like it.
Posted by Scenic
I like venus in pisces. I can't even explain why since I don't understand as much about this placement as other venus signs. But, my experience with one was a good one, so hey. In theory, perhaps also venus in aquarius but I have no experience with it. I want to like venus in leo since it's cuddly and cute, but it's too much of a people-pleaser placement for me. Like damn, can you focus on your own needs for once?
Your charm and the way you are with someone is creative like pisces.
Posted by TaurusCap323
Hmmm don't really know much about aqua venus...what makes them so great in your opinion?Greatness defies explanation.
I love the friendship vibe. For the rest 11 less than perfect venuses...once you fall in love, friendship takes a back seat. For this venus, they keep it in the forefront of their minds.
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Yes! Friendship is very important to me.
I think I've made a wonderful friendship! I'm so excited. I spent two wonderful weeks with an Aquarius female. She is "The Day of Improved Comfort." So, fitting with me being Venus dominant.
She stopped by my office today and said she missed me. She said it, sang it, so sweetly and so geniunely. I don't recall making an appropriate response. I was just froze in her sweet sincerity. Then, she came by my office again and asked for help with her travel voucher. So cute.
I will follow through the next time.
Posted by TaurusCap323
Hmmm don't really know much about aqua venus...what makes them so great in your opinion?Greatness defies explanation.
I love the friendship vibe. For the rest 11 less than perfect venuses...once you fall in love, friendship takes a back seat. For this venus, they keep it in the forefront of their minds.
Yes! Friendship is very important to me.
I think I've made a wonderful friendship! I'm so excited. I spent two wonderful weeks with an Aquarius female. She is "The Day of Improved Comfort." So, fitting with me being Venus dominant.
She stopped by my office today and said she missed me. She said it, sang it, so sweetly and so geniunely. I don't recall making an appropriate response. I was just froze in her sweet sincerity. Then, she came by my office again and asked for help with her travel voucher. So cute.
I will follow through the next time.
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ahahaha, that's the spirit!
I love love love when stuff like this happens. When people just..connect.
I've noticed how black and white people are with love, with friendship it's all the other colors in between. The entitlement and the projection are at a minimum so the genuine factor is high.
Posted by LittleStar
Aqua Venus. But I don't get any friendship vibes. 😛
You get a Venus in Aqua with Mars in Gemini, your tongue will wrap around your head. *winkles*
Posted by LittleStar
Aqua Venus. But I don't get any friendship vibes. 😛
Houses show what you like to do and look like. Venus 11th means you cooperate well with friends and look like a libra in the friend area. Venus aqau is just the style like your charm or cooperation style would be unique, entertaining
I've only recently realised I'm like highly attracted to venus in cancer...but venus in Libra works best for me somehow
Posted by LittleStar
Aqua Venus. But I don't get any friendship vibes. 😛You get a Venus in Aqua with Mars in Gemini, your tongue will wrap around your head. *winkles*
That's my husband. 😛
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Lol...
ew, you're so lucky.
I'm drawn to Pisces venus, haven't had a good relationship but there's just something about em. Think my Pisces more on likes it. I value taurus in venus. My sis and her Libra venus cheated on my friend with Taurus venus he handled it maturely and won't take her back. Good man.
wow old topic.
and Damnata likes those Venus aquarius!!
my faves are pisces, cappy .... and i would put aries but they want me to be independent and i'm not into that.
i like my girlfriend's leo venus, she is glamourous with that venus.
but my fave is my son's and my husband's venus...gooo gooo choo choo. it's also my sister's and mother's. i know it very well.
Posted by Gob_Shite
While I've tried to be as open as possible, in the past, Pisces, Taurus and Capricorn are the ones that currently appeal to me the most.Of the other earth and water Venuses, I wouldn't want to go there - Virgo is probably too nitpicky and critical, Scorpio would be like selling my soul to the devil, and Cancer is too insecure, paranoid and suspicious for my liking.
I'm not too enthused about fire and air Venuses, though (and I would prefer my SO to have a different Venus to me).
Damnie likes them aqua venuses, gob.
and she's cancer venus, her aries mars will be lit up by your air venus.
Venus in Pisces ! 🙂
Posted by Gob_Shite
While I've tried to be as open as possible, in the past, Pisces, Taurus and Capricorn are the ones that currently appeal to me the most.Of the other earth and water Venuses, I wouldn't want to go there - Virgo is probably too nitpicky and critical, Scorpio would be like selling my soul to the devil, and Cancer is too insecure, paranoid and suspicious for my liking.
I'm not too enthused about fire and air Venuses, though (and I would prefer my SO to have a different Venus to me).
Damnie likes them aqua venuses, gob.
and she's cancer venus, her aries mars will be lit up by your air venus.
Thanks but no thanks...
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😆 aw.
Posted by LittleFairy
Venus in Pisces ! 🙂If that's you then it's all starting to make sense now...
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No ..I am venus in leo. Maybe I am similar though! 🙂
But Venus in Pisces is my fav anyway 🙂
Venus in Aries, ily
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I dated a Cancer sun Cancer moon, and he was horrible to me. Acted all affectionate and clingy when I was distant due to his coldness, and then he'd never tell me how he felt. He didn't tell me he loved me until he was drunk one night lol and we dated for over a year. He's an extremely self-protective person. I couldn't stand it. Because I share my feelings, I'm an open, bleed for you, type of person. But then again, that's only if I feel safe enough to share that. I think that's my stubborn Taurus Venus. But he was impossible to deal with. Hurt me so badly.