Women with Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars

Do you have trouble finding a man who isn't intimidated by you?

Hadn't ever really thought of that. I do with the more sensitive/un-confident types. But I do have a lot of other rebellious and independent aspects in my chart, so who knows which ones (if not all) contribute to that.

Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

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Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

It is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I have had men tell me I'm intimidating, I'm "too much", "your a strong woman I don't know if I can handle you." But mostly it's just a feeling that no one seems ready for me even when I used to try to dial back my personality.

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Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

It is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I have had men tell me I'm intimidating, I'm "too much", "your a strong woman I don't know if I can handle you." But mostly it's just a feeling that no one seems ready for me even when I used to try to dial back my personality.

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I'm sure you made inquires for more details from them? You assumed you needed to dial back your personality? To be more attractive to men who are intimidated?

I rarely hear of or witness men telling women the truth about what turned them off. Have you? They just tell friends and family.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

It is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I have had men tell me I'm intimidating, I'm "too much", "your a strong woman I don't know if I can handle you." But mostly it's just a feeling that no one seems ready for me even when I used to try to dial back my personality.

I'm sure you made inquires for more details from them? You assumed you needed to dial back your personality? To be more attractive to men who are intimidated?

I rarely hear of or witness men telling women the truth about what turned them off. Have you? They just tell friends and family.

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Yeah they never really clarified even when I'd ask because believe me I'd like to know because it's not like I am this loudmouth in your face woman. I have had people tell me that I have a present but I thought that was more of a stage presence because I do a lot of stuff on stage. I onow I find it hard to let men help me sometimes mostly when it comes to money though. Think it's because I feel like out of them something or they will try to take a vantage of me even though I would love to trust a man long enough to let them do stuff for me. But that can't be the only issue. But yeah are used to feel like I had a dog that my personality for guys I don't feel that way anymore but in my younger years I did.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

It is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I have had men tell me I'm intimidating, I'm "too much", "your a strong woman I don't know if I can handle you." But mostly it's just a feeling that no one seems ready for me even when I used to try to dial back my personality.

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Mine is also conjunct sun and Mars. I've had the same experiences. You just need an alpha male is all.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by VenusAquarius

Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

It is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I have had men tell me I'm intimidating, I'm "too much", "your a strong woman I don't know if I can handle you." But mostly it's just a feeling that no one seems ready for me even when I used to try to dial back my personality.

I'm sure you made inquires for more details from them? You assumed you needed to dial back your personality? To be more attractive to men who are intimidated?

I rarely hear of or witness men telling women the truth about what turned them off. Have you? They just tell friends and family.

Yeah they never really clarified even when I'd ask because believe me I'd like to know because it's not like I am this loudmouth in your face woman. I have had people tell me that I have a present but I thought that was more of a stage presence because I do a lot of stuff on stage. I onow I find it hard to let men help me sometimes mostly when it comes to money though. Think it's because I feel like out of them something or they will try to take a vantage of me even though I would love to trust a man long enough to let them do stuff for me. But that can't be the only issue. But yeah are used to feel like I had a dog that my personality for guys I don't feel that way anymore but in my younger years I did.

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In our younger years, it's most apt to be true as we mature faster. I was 16 dating a man in his 20s. The guys in school were "beneath meh," lol.

Don't worry about what a man thinks of you if you want to find lasting love.

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Lilith conjunct Sun or Mars?

I have Lilith in the 1st. Venus is also 1st cheering her on.

I have the man scorned problem, whether I'm single or not. So, I chose men who are protective cause they handle it well.

It is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I have had men tell me I'm intimidating, I'm "too much", "your a strong woman I don't know if I can handle you." But mostly it's just a feeling that no one seems ready for me even when I used to try to dial back my personality.

Mine is also conjunct sun and Mars. I've had the same experiences. You just need an alpha male is all.

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That's right. I had to find the protective ones because of my 1st house.