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Love at 1st Sight
What Is Love at First Sight
Love at first sight is an immediate strong attraction between two people, often based on physical appearance or a fleeting connection. It can feel like instant chemistry but may develop into deeper love over time. Many believe it involves both emotional and astrological factors that trigger instant attraction.
Fuck! I thought no one ever asked...
Lmao
Haven’t you read my Scorpio love life story?
Ok. 9 years ago me and husband decided to open business.
He had one before so he knew ropes.
I am a Gemini. Talker. So I was talking to about 50 men and they all were nice and I didn’t give a shit!
Until I saw this...
Lightening strikes at ‘hi’ ...
I could hardly keep the conversation. As it ended I went to my husband and said...I would follow this man unleashed to wherever he wanted me to go...
My Cap husband said - yeah he seemed nice!
FIVE years we were friends with my love Scorpio! Not even ever holding hands! Business only! Fuck!
Then mess started until 11:45am today!!! Altogether 9 years!
Take him away from me and I will commit myself.
Who knows why? Nobody!
Sadly it's part of my chart.... asking random people to marry you ain't the best first impression to make.
twice now...must be triplet flames or some shit....have Venus opp. Neptune - aspect of love at first sight, lofty pedestals, and other such blissful delusions...
Not love at first sight but just a strong reaction to someone and the overwhelming feeling they are going to play an important role in my life
"love" at 1st sight? Mmm yeah I think so, turns out he's venus gemini, he has that "je ne sais quoi" that almost conjunct my mars, never wanted to screw someone that much before.
ironically, he's not really my type, but I take him naked 😆 nice guy though.
Um, no. I'm not sure if that's possible?
I have experienced like this insane connection at first sight before. When you first meet someone and you literally feel like you've known them before, you instantly click, your heart starts racing crazily and you feel like you can read eachothers thoughts. It is insane. I feel like you only ever get that kind of connection once or twice in a lifetime.
So...it’s there. What am I supposed to do? It’s not sexual. I mean it is! But we spent a day discussing his job! Because I know it inside out!
He reaches out to me for shit that isn’t sexual at all! Like I am his ‘would had been’ wife!
It called "lust"
Everytime you post u remind me of how blind & terrible Sags are at romantic relationships, no offense.
I dont represent all sagittarious.
I represent DMV
I don't think I ever experienced love that wasn't at first sight
Not love at first sight but just a strong reaction to someone and the overwhelming feeling they are going to play an important role in my life
Same.
no such thing as LOVE at first sight because in order to love you need to know that person so more like chemistry/lust etc etc at first sight.
People who are like the world stopped are nuts.
Only once.
Ever experience it?
Yes. Felt an instant affinity and attraction. Like we'd known each other before and were just rediscovering one another.
It was with the Cap I dated briefly.
He was a piece of shit though.
So really it was just acknowledging and rediscovering my own bowel movements.
Not love at first sight but just a strong reaction to someone and the overwhelming feeling they are going to play an important role in my life
That’s as close as it can get
everybody experience it, but mutually?
now that would be interesting
or just awkward
One time only, it felt like a lighting bolt went through the both of us at the exact same time.
How did you know for her too
N what’s with the lightning bolt thing
I’m curious
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It’s impossible to explain!
If you haven’t felt it - it’s a time wasted to explain!
It’s like a magician pulls a bunny out of the hat and you go SHIT! 👀
Where is THAT came from?
Lmao
no such thing as LOVE at first sight because in order to love you need to know that person so more like chemistry/lust etc etc at first sight.
People who are like the world stopped are nuts.
No darling. Like I said...if you never ate an orange - you can’t duscuss it taste with people who has!
Fight me in that! You’ll lose!
And it’s not like I want to fight!
I am just saying from almost decade of still loving and waking up with his name, living every moment with his image and praying to see him in my dreams!
I had NO idea who he is when lightening striked and I was reborn from the ashes...
Every day when I look into the mirror 😍😍😍😍😏😁😂
Every day when I look into the mirror 😍😍😍😍😏😁😂
I know that's right.
I damn near fell in love again tonight.
Whoa. My public speaking buddies son is hot. Holy smokes.
no such thing as LOVE at first sight because in order to love you need to know that person so more like chemistry/lust etc etc at first sight.
People who are like the world stopped are nuts.
No darling. Like I said...if you never ate an orange - you can’t duscuss it taste with people who has!
Fight me in that! You’ll lose!
And it’s not like I want to fight!
I am just saying from almost decade of still loving and waking up with his name, living every moment with his image and praying to see him in my dreams!
I had NO idea who he is when lightening striked and I was reborn from the ashes...
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Don't worry I've eaten the orange, so to say.
But when you mature and you realize that you were just in love with a portion of yourself, a fantasy and that these OCD habits & thoughts are more to do with you than actual love.
no such thing as LOVE at first sight because in order to love you need to know that person so more like chemistry/lust etc etc at first sight.
People who are like the world stopped are nuts.
No darling. Like I said...if you never ate an orange - you can’t duscuss it taste with people who has!
Fight me in that! You’ll lose!
And it’s not like I want to fight!
I am just saying from almost decade of still loving and waking up with his name, living every moment with his image and praying to see him in my dreams!
I had NO idea who he is when lightening striked and I was reborn from the ashes...
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but I will say love is what you call it.
And it does become silly to try to be objective about a very subjective topic. So you win...enjoy! lol
Ever experience it?
Gotta go dig up my answers for when UVD did the topic under her 1st username, roku, or some'n likat.
Im delusional as fuk. My idea of romance never measures up to reality
😂🤣
I'm dreamy af 2
My fantasizing is unreal
no such thing as LOVE at first sight because in order to love you need to know that person so more like chemistry/lust etc etc at first sight.
People who are like the world stopped are nuts.
No darling. Like I said...if you never ate an orange - you can’t duscuss it taste with people who has!
Fight me in that! You’ll lose!
And it’s not like I want to fight!
I am just saying from almost decade of still loving and waking up with his name, living every moment with his image and praying to see him in my dreams!
I had NO idea who he is when lightening striked and I was reborn from the ashes...
Don't worry I've eaten the orange, so to say.
But when you mature and you realize that you were just in love with a portion of yourself, a fantasy and that these OCD habits & thoughts are more to do with you than actual love.
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How can you say this shit if you have NO idea—
Oranges was an allegory!
I said if you don’t know something - you can’t argue with those who knows!!! It’s just haven’t happened to you so...shut up!
no such thing as LOVE at first sight because in order to love you need to know that person so more like chemistry/lust etc etc at first sight.
People who are like the world stopped are nuts.
No darling. Like I said...if you never ate an orange - you can’t duscuss it taste with people who has!
Fight me in that! You’ll lose!
And it’s not like I want to fight!
I am just saying from almost decade of still loving and waking up with his name, living every moment with his image and praying to see him in my dreams!
I had NO idea who he is when lightening striked and I was reborn from the ashes...
but I will say love is what you call it.
And it does become silly to try to be objective about a very subjective topic. So you win...enjoy! lol
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Love has never been defined and explained and it’s the biggest mystery of the human existence!
Argue your ass off! You can only stay your opinion if you know what you talking about. And you don’t!
It could have happened to me 💘
One day 2yrs and 1 week ago (yes I remember the date) I was arriving to an clinic grand opening party and as I was parking I saw this guy through my rearview mirror, he was walking towards the same building I was going to.
I don't know why I felt nervous/shy like I like him but I waited in my car because I didn't want to be in the same elevator with him.
Then I went on and got to the party, shortly after my friend (the host) introduced me to some people. One of them stayed talking to me for a little bit and I mentioned that I had just gotten there and he says, me too, I walked in right before you. Then I realize that's the guy I had seen on the parking lot.
Long story short, we stayed, talking, laughing, he wasnt leaving my side or talk to other people which is weird at these type of events.
All of a sudden he says "are you an aquarius?" I was so surprised because we hadn't mentioned astrology. So I said "yes! Wow good guess!" I asked him what he was and he says "Capricorn!" I was surprised because my ex is also a cap! I asked his bday and he says 26th (me: Haha damn . My ex is the 25th!! ) obv. I didnt say that to him. Anyway, we kept the night going...he had been drinking I offered to take him home and 2yrs later we are still very close.
Now I don't know if I love him. We are not a couple.
WHY ya heck you aren’t a couple??!
WHYyyy??!! I am going to hetnanjeart attack...now!
It could have happened to me 💘
One day 2yrs and 1 week ago (yes I remember the date) I was arriving to an clinic grand opening party and as I was parking I saw this guy through my rearview mirror, he was walking towards the same building I was going to.
I don't know why I felt nervous/shy like I like him but I waited in my car because I didn't want to be in the same elevator with him.
Then I went on and got to the party, shortly after my friend (the host) introduced me to some people. One of them stayed talking to me for a little bit and I mentioned that I had just gotten there and he says, me too, I walked in right before you. Then I realize that's the guy I had seen on the parking lot.
Long story short, we stayed, talking, laughing, he wasnt leaving my side or talk to other people which is weird at these type of events.
All of a sudden he says "are you an aquarius?" I was so surprised because we hadn't mentioned astrology. So I said "yes! Wow good guess!" I asked him what he was and he says "Capricorn!" I was surprised because my ex is also a cap! I asked his bday and he says 26th (me: Haha damn . My ex is the 25th!! ) obv. I didnt say that to him. Anyway, we kept the night going...he had been drinking I offered to take him home and 2yrs later we are still very close.
Now I don't know if I love him. We are not a couple.
WHY ya heck you aren’t a couple??!
WHYyyy??!! I am going to hetnanjeart attack...now!
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Maybe because the bond is not strong enough..
No but came close to it . Something about that bond between Fire &Air (magical lol)
Ever experience it?
yep
one was an Aqua sun, Cancer moon - obvious
other was an Aries sun, Scorp moon - obvious
to feel connection, bond, chemistry, etc.... is quite common, but love? not so frequent 🙂
What if it’s infatuation and not love?
Like a passing fart that is gone in the wind
Yes, with the gemini
Yes, with the gemini
What's the update on this?
Yes, with the gemini
What's the update on this?
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Ah, it’s over now, but it was really deep and lovely.
I ended it, cuz he hacked my phone, he was looking for another men.
He sent me “I missed you” but I never answer.
I can’t trust him again, I feel like sometimes I’m dying inside, but I can’t go back to someone who did this, I tried but it will never work cuz it’s easy to love someone again, but you can’t trust them again, never.
Gemini and Sagittarius are good friends, but as lovers gemini men are so jealous and crazy and stalkers, I just can’t with all this scary things, I’m simple sag, wanna some peace in life (:
Every love I had in my life was from the first sight. I really don’t get it how do people ‘grow into’ loving each other? 🤷♀️
Um, no. I'm not sure if that's possible?
I have experienced like this insane connection at first sight before. When you first meet someone and you literally feel like you've known them before, you instantly click, your heart starts racing crazily and you feel like you can read eachothers thoughts. It is insane. I feel like you only ever get that kind of connection once or twice in a lifetime.
So...it’s there. What am I supposed to do? It’s not sexual. I mean it is! But we spent a day discussing his job! Because I know it inside out!
He reaches out to me for shit that isn’t sexual at all! Like I am his ‘would had been’ wife!
I think you should distance yourself. I mean, you are married... you know? Your husband would be devastated
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I just love when people worry about my life more than I am. Thanks
Um, no. I'm not sure if that's possible?
I have experienced like this insane connection at first sight before. When you first meet someone and you literally feel like you've known them before, you instantly click, your heart starts racing crazily and you feel like you can read eachothers thoughts. It is insane. I feel like you only ever get that kind of connection once or twice in a lifetime.
So...it’s there. What am I supposed to do? It’s not sexual. I mean it is! But we spent a day discussing his job! Because I know it inside out!
He reaches out to me for shit that isn’t sexual at all! Like I am his ‘would had been’ wife!
I think you should distance yourself. I mean, you are married... you know? Your husband would be devastated
I just love when people worry about my life more than I am. Thanks
Hee hee! You did ask in your above statement what you should do! And You're welcome : )
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It was rhetorical question...a while ago...
Anime was my love at first sight.
Lust at first sight. Yeah.
It’s only love if it’s tested by time.
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Ever experience it?