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Your sex drive....
Understanding Your Sex Drive and Astrology
Your sex drive is influenced by various factors including your Mars sign and its position. Mars represents energy and libido in astrology, and its placement can indicate your sexual motivation and needs. Recognizing your Mars sign helps you understand your personal sex drive and how it manifests in your life.
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High when partnered up. Ideally daily but we don't live in utopias so I will deal with life as it comes and will work around my partner's needs. But if I had my way..daily would be the way to go.
Low when I'm by myself. Almost asexual.
When I was younger it was imperative. Now..I don't know. I put other things above that.
Aries.
4th house.
Posted by Ssupes
Super high sex drive.
What's your Mars and what house is it in??
Posted by Infinite8
High & moderate.
What's your Mars and house?
Extremely low...
When Saturn was in Scorpio, I noticed a dip.I hope to get back to normal soon now that its gone.
I have Mars exalted in Capricorn.
We actually have a high libido Tiz cuz our virgo placements keep on screwing us!
Oh man the mars in scorpio capslock mafia is here..
Posted by Damnata
We actually have a high libido Tiz cuz our virgo placements keep on screwing us!touche!
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You know it always surprised me how bird watching is a hobby but voyeurism is frowned upon. You watch birds there too.
Alas, I digress.
Posted by Damnata
Oh man the mars in scorpio capslock mafia is here..
lol They just needed to put the OOOMPH in their answers!! I understand it!! LOL
Posted by Damnata
Oh man the mars in scorpio capslock mafia is here..lol They just needed to put the OOOMPH in their answers!! I understand it!! LOL
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Walk the walk. They sure can talk a mean capslock game. (no offense to sane mars in scorpios)
Posted by tiziani
Low. Honestly don't feel I need it ever anymore. It's habit.😱 EVER?!?!??
Lol well I can't remember the last time I pictured myself having sex with someone, put it that way
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lol This makes me sad for you!!
Posted by GENERALIZOD
DON'T FEED THE KOALAS!
You're just jelly cuz I can bang in trees. Unlike you.
Posted by GENERALIZOD
MOVING ON TO THE OTHER ZOO ANIMALS!
Watch the pythons man. They aren't there to blow you.
Actually nevermind. Go and hug them.
Posted by GENERALIZOD
DON'T FEED THE KOALAS!But they are too cute!! I have to!!
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Koalas are also pros at watersports.
Posted by Rabbit
I have no sex drive.
You're so vague man. You stated that before and then I joked you're married to a Virgo so that explains it and you responded you get more sex than the average dxper.
Decide already, libra!
Taurus Mars
High but extremely controlled.
Its crazy to think as much as I love sex and giving pleasure its been a few years since I've slept with anyone.
I'm really just tired of being cheated on and having my kindness taken advantage of so I quit. Is sex really worth my sanity? I fall in love with any woman I sleep with whether its been 5 months or a few hours. I also have a tendency to white knight poorly, and only pick the ones with extra problems thinking I can fix them.
I'm done with games, and want something real or nothing at all.
Posted by GENERALIZOD
SHE NAGGED RABBIT'S SEX DRIVE AWAY!
When I brought that up, he disagreed.
He needs to take a stance on this.
Posted by Soul
I fall in love with any woman I sleep with whether its been 5 months or a few hours. I also have a tendency to white knight poorly, and only pick the ones with extra problems thinking I can fix them.
Here, here cancer venus.
Posted by Rabbit
Nothing in that statement is mutually exclusive.
There were more than one statements you trickster.
Fine, you have no sex drive and no excel tables.
lol, earth placements. I see you.
You're in touch with basic functions and amplify it with that sun of yours.
Posted by Soul
I fall in love with any woman I sleep with whether its been 5 months or a few hours. I also have a tendency to white knight poorly, and only pick the ones with extra problems thinking I can fix them.Here, here cancer venus.
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Leo is a saviour too. says Linda Goodmann's book.
Posted by Rabbit
I have no sex drive.You're so vague man. You stated that before and then I joked you're married to a Virgo so that explains it and you responded you get more sex than the average dxper.
Decide already, libra!
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He has Mars in Cancer in the 7th house.. If I were to guess, it's moderate! lol That's just my guess..
Posted by Rabbit
Fact is I'm always ready. There's no "drive".
There it is!! lol
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25
I'm a slut.Mars Virgo
lol Mars in Virgos are either asexual or sluts. lol
Posted by Rabbit
Fact is I'm always ready. There's no "drive".LOL THAT'S LIKE THE HULK! "I'M ALWAYS ANGRY!"
Exactly. But much less of a mangina than Mark Ruffalo.
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You both married Virgos though.
Posted by tiziani
I'm like Damnata's answer. Outside a relationship, almost asexual.Inside a relationship, close the venetian blinds dear because it's a long weekend in.
Aaahhhhh... Finally a middle ground of commonality 🙂
I see. So, your libido is totally dependent on "relationship"?
Haha yes that's fair to say. I am big time emotional about sex, if it's me physically involved. No joke. I guess it's an emotional security thing but I don't think about it too deeply either way.
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Coming across mad virgoish in this topic. I will make some room for you on the Virgo board when you feel the need to walk away from all those "Is my libra man gay or just venusian?" topics.
Mars in Cancer. 4th House.
Sounds like zero, right?
...the aspects change that. As in so help my next lover, cause they're going to be a borderline sex slave if I have my way.
Posted by GENERALIZOD
SHE NAGGED RABBIT'S SEX DRIVE AWAY!When I brought that up, he disagreed.
He needs to take a stance on this.
Both of you are wrong. He's just mind-fucking...
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I do get that. But the topic is about actual fucking. 😄
He's just a lovable bunny.
Super high (independent) sex drive
Mars Gemini
5th house
Posted by tiziani
I'm like Damnata's answer. Outside a relationship, almost asexual.Inside a relationship, close the venetian blinds dear because it's a long weekend in.
Aaahhhhh... Finally a middle ground of commonality 🙂
I see. So, your libido is totally dependent on "relationship"?
Haha yes that's fair to say. I am big time emotional about sex, if it's me physically involved. No joke. I guess it's an emotional security thing but I don't think about it too deeply either way.
I see. Well, I was also very protective of my emotional security so I had some techniques to protect myself... I
Get it and I understand your need to do so.But the libido was always strong and alive. It's just that I am very disciplined on how I expressed it and with whom.
Could you tell me the kind of techniques?
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Dance
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25
I'm a slut.Mars Virgo
lol Mars in Virgos are either asexual or sluts. lol
Oh hellz no my Libra Venus would put a gun to my head. 😢
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That wouldn't help much
Posted by SirHorns
Mars in Cancer. 4th House.
Sounds like zero, right?...the aspects change that. As in so help my next lover, cause they're going to be a borderline sex slave if I have my way.
I have actually heard that Mars in Cancers have very high sex drives.
Posted by Damnata
lol, earth placements. I see you.You're in touch with basic functions and amplify it with that sun of yours.
so are you a slut as well? 😛 If so, then *Fist*
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We're Virgos dude. We draw back from the archetype of the Great Harlot. lmao.
Posted by Rabbit
I would never stoop so low as to mindfuck anyone....
Mind effing is fun!! 😛
Posted by Rabbit
I would never stoop so low as to mindfuck anyone....
My dear Sir, I never implies you'd stoop low.
Posted by Rabbit
I would never stoop so low as to mindfuck anyone....My dear Sir, I never implies you'd stoop low.
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lol So true!!^^^^
Posted by SirHorns
Mars in Cancer. 4th House.
Sounds like zero, right?...the aspects change that. As in so help my next lover, cause they're going to be a borderline sex slave if I have my way.
I have actually heard that Mars in Cancers have very high sex drives.
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Yes. True.
Having sex all day is on my bucket list.
Posted by SirHorns
Mars in Cancer. 4th House.
Sounds like zero, right?...the aspects change that. As in so help my next lover, cause they're going to be a borderline sex slave if I have my way.
I have actually heard that Mars in Cancers have very high sex drives.
Yes. True.
Having sex all day is on my bucket list.click to expand
Thanks to so Mars in Taurus!
Checked-off many times over!
High, I constantly have to control myself lol
Virgo mars in 4th
My record 11 hours
Posted by wecarealot
It seems like a lot of Virgo Mars people have intense sex drives. I remember someone asking this question on another astrology forum and TONS of Virgos Mars folks reported being horny as hell all the time. Taurus Mars, too. Air Mars signs were on the lower side (especially Libra Mars) as to be expected.It's strange because you'd think Virgo Mars would be more on the frigid side.
Yup, but I think the aspect counts too, and some other things. I actually made my own sex-drive quiz, think I'm gonna dump it here some day.
My mars is conjunct sun, opposite moon and square uranus. All of those aspect makes my drive so hight I think, combined with a scorp venus in 5th house. I just need a lot, regardless of my partners sex-drive lol, if I want it, I'll find a way to get him in the mood 😄
I pretend I don't, but I have mars in scorpio first house
I see Mars in Virgo are popular on here. I'm liking it!!
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25
I'm a slut.Mars Virgo
What he said
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25
I'm a slut.Mars Virgo
lol Mars in Virgos are either asexual or sluts. lol
Oh hellz no my Libra Venus would put a gun to my head. 😢
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So would my scorp moon.
Posted by crabcap
High, I constantly have to control myself lolVirgo mars in 4th
seriously, no joke.
Posted by wecarealot
It seems like a lot of Virgo Mars people have intense sex drives. I remember someone asking this question on another astrology forum and TONS of Virgos Mars folks reported being horny as hell all the time. Taurus Mars, too. Air Mars signs were on the lower side (especially Libra Mars) as to be expected.It's strange because you'd think Virgo Mars would be more on the frigid side.
Its even more pronounced when there is willing master to aide the servant to orgasm.
Mars in taurus. High, unless I don't like you that much.
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