Young Aquarius man & Cancer woman

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you'll be fine mate just be yourself because that's who you're going to be anyway.

Just leave a bit of those "I"s at the door.

If you've agreed with what you've read about aquarius I'll take a bet on you're much more airy than the rest of some of the aquas here and that in itself could be a detriment for cancers... but again it'll also depend on her chart so unless you wanna chalk it all up to astrology some real effort will go a long way with cancers.
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P2... p2.. she has a lot on her plate right now, I’m not a predator type guy especially when it comes to females I could see myself building a life with. So with her I always had good intentions and tried being a friend first but I made sure I comment on almost every pic so she knows I haven’t stopped thinking of her that way. I had to dig deep in my soul and let her know how I feel. Basically I’m at the point right before the first date. Looking for a cheat sheet for the landmines, I’ve read a bunch already but like your typical Aquarius i can never know to much.. ive been up all night reading on us

Commenting on all the pics is a bit excessive. Just chill... cancers are usually quite slow, you can’t really go wrong 😊
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 CANCER WOMAN + AQUARIUS MAN

the asylum

CHEMISTRY

Here, the most feeling female meets the most emotionally detached man. From the start, this can offer certain peace of mind to both players, just as it could complicate their psychological issues. Aquarius is a mystery man to Cancer, someone who seems to live outside the sphere of her usual experience with men. And something about him brings out her kookier side, a need to capture his attention and make him laugh, all symptoms of falling quite hard for the Waterbearer. She might even assume he’s a bit edgy for her, always irresistible to the Cancer. Not really knowing what to make of her, he is intrigued by her dramatic, or more often comedic displays, not realizing they are a result of his making her a little nervous. The most forthright of the water signs, Cancer verbalizes her feelings unreservedly, a quality that inspires a mixed reaction of jealousy and fear. He’s been told by women before that he doesn’t express himself freely, and he wonders if history will repeat. But she’s looking for someone anchored like this fixed-air sign who sticks to the facts. She finds his steady gaze reassuring, and his even temper promises a quarrel-free bond. She knows that she is histrionic enough for them both. He sees an animated paramour who might inject life with, well, some life.

COMPATIBILITY

Cancer will be made aware that the wide-eyed Aquarian with his soft-spoken demeanor and seeming reserve is often twisted into knots on the inside. He is predisposed to feeling that he doesn’t fit in, despite his typically enviable appearance. His ruler Uranus signifies diversity, and, indeed, Aquarius comes to label his thoughts and feelings as divergent from the norm—he walks among us, looking like the rest, but he feels himself something of an alien, having difficulty relating to his fellow species. And when it comes to relationships, he requires an empathetic partner whose connection with him is unspoken and who’ll provide him plenty of space for his individual hobbies and pursuits. A strong Cancer makes a perfect partner, being so opposite in character, for living a full, well-rounded life together. But a Moonchild who’s a mess of emotions might actually find herself being taken advantage of in this relationship, if not being made to feel like “the crazy one.” Actually, Cancer might only target this man because he is distant, unaccustomed, as she might be, to making emotional connections with men. She may end up perpetuating that problem, in spades. For Aquarius can use Cancer as something of a caretaker, holding her emotional hostage, insinuating she’s imagining things when inevitable conflicts arise. He isn’t one to fight with her; he’d sooner suggest she get a prescription filled for what he’ll blatantly suggest is her instability. Aquarius rules Cancer’s 8th house of the unconscious and mental transformation. And indeed the Waterbearer brings to light, by his very presence in Cancer’s life, a need to rout out root psychological causes of her infamous moodswings, or he may learn to manipulate them for his own purposes.

CARNALITY

Cancer rules Aquarius’s cosmic 6th house of hard work and habits, the latter of which she could easily become for him. He may overly rely on the Crab to manage his daily affairs, treating her much like the medieval wife. It’s also the house of health and function, so, to be fair, he will be aware of the boon to his daily existence that this relationship brings. He might think that this dynamic increases the scope of his all-important independence, which it very well may; but, cosmic energies being paradoxical, it can have the exact opposite effect. This self-same dynamic follows them into the bedroom where, at the outset of the bond, Aquarius will allow the Cancer to work her tail off, quite literally, to please him. And as that 8th house of hers, ruled by Aquarius, is also that of coitus and all ways in which two people become one, she is predisposed to throw herself into sex with the Waterbearer, headfirst. In truth, he is obsessively wanting of oral satisfaction, and Cancer is not only the most talented suceuse in the zodiac, she derives great pleasure from going down. He can be a radical, with futuristic tendencies. In the extreme this might translate to rigging Cancer’s lady parts to electronic gadgets designed to get her off, or introducing mechanical screwing devices, hands-off sex being a particularly Aquarian penchant. He can watch from a nearby armchair. He may also indulge in a bit of rubber and latex, which gives him the sense of having cybersex in real time. Kinkier erotic corners aside, Aquarius finds such a willing participant in the Cancer, inclined as she is to experiment and fulfill the Waterbearer, that he wants to keep a firm hold on her. She may exceed his expectations of how game a girl can be to indulge him, but Cancer thrives on variety and the unexpected. So he can become fixated on finding new and different ways of surprising her and, ironically, it can make him crave more vanilla scenarios devoid of the kitchen sink. Aquarius man tends to want what he cannot have; the more basic sexual instincts and behavior can begin to seem exotic after some time hooking up his lover to those remote controls. Cancer instinctively knows that this liaison is something of a journey down the rabbit hole, meant to expand her sexual awareness and get out every possible ya-ya. But she never sees herself being any kind of fetishist, long term; and if she and Aquarius can’t come to terms with settling into a more conventional sex life, which will always be flavored with a pinch of kink here and there, she will take what she’s learned (about herself) and move on. Aquarius goes through his own transformation, having been loved by such a nonjudgmental woman for all his wacky oats to sow; he experiences the kind of acceptance he can spend a lifetime seeking. Somehow that takes the steam out of his need to be such a sexual radical. Here, he can just be the winsome weirdo he was born to be.


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 CANCER WOMAN + AQUARIUS MAN

the asylum

CHEMISTRY

Here, the most feeling female meets the most emotionally detached man. From the start, this can offer certain peace of mind to both players, just as it could complicate their psychological issues. Aquarius is a mystery man to Cancer, someone who seems to live outside the sphere of her usual experience with men. And something about him brings out her kookier side, a need to capture his attention and make him laugh, all symptoms of falling quite hard for the Waterbearer. She might even assume he’s a bit edgy for her, always irresistible to the Cancer. Not really knowing what to make of her, he is intrigued by her dramatic, or more often comedic displays, not realizing they are a result of his making her a little nervous. The most forthright of the water signs, Cancer verbalizes her feelings unreservedly, a quality that inspires a mixed reaction of jealousy and fear. He’s been told by women before that he doesn’t express himself freely, and he wonders if history will repeat. But she’s looking for someone anchored like this fixed-air sign who sticks to the facts. She finds his steady gaze reassuring, and his even temper promises a quarrel-free bond. She knows that she is histrionic enough for them both. He sees an animated paramour who might inject life with, well, some life.

COMPATIBILITY

Cancer will be made aware that the wide-eyed Aquarian with his soft-spoken demeanor and seeming reserve is often twisted into knots on the inside. He is predisposed to feeling that he doesn’t fit in, despite his typically enviable appearance. His ruler Uranus signifies diversity, and, indeed, Aquarius comes to label his thoughts and feelings as divergent from the norm—he walks among us, looking like the rest, but he feels himself something of an alien, having difficulty relating to his fellow species. And when it comes to relationships, he requires an empathetic partner whose connection with him is unspoken and who’ll provide him plenty of space for his individual hobbies and pursuits. A strong Cancer makes a perfect partner, being so opposite in character, for living a full, well-rounded life together. But a Moonchild who’s a mess of emotions might actually find herself being taken advantage of in this relationship, if not being made to feel like “the crazy one.” Actually, Cancer might only target this man because he is distant, unaccustomed, as she might be, to making emotional connections with men. She may end up perpetuating that problem, in spades. For Aquarius can use Cancer as something of a caretaker, holding her emotional hostage, insinuating she’s imagining things when inevitable conflicts arise. He isn’t one to fight with her; he’d sooner suggest she get a prescription filled for what he’ll blatantly suggest is her instability. Aquarius rules Cancer’s 8th house of the unconscious and mental transformation. And indeed the Waterbearer brings to light, by his very presence in Cancer’s life, a need to rout out root psychological causes of her infamous moodswings, or he may learn to manipulate them for his own purposes.

CARNALITY

Cancer rules Aquarius’s cosmic 6th house of hard work and habits, the latter of which she could easily become for him. He may overly rely on the Crab to manage his daily affairs, treating her much like the medieval wife. It’s also the house of health and function, so, to be fair, he will be aware of the boon to his daily existence that this relationship brings. He might think that this dynamic increases the scope of his all-important independence, which it very well may; but, cosmic energies being paradoxical, it can have the exact opposite effect. This self-same dynamic follows them into the bedroom where, at the outset of the bond, Aquarius will allow the Cancer to work her tail off, quite literally, to please him. And as that 8th house of hers, ruled by Aquarius, is also that of coitus and all ways in which two people become one, she is predisposed to throw herself into sex with the Waterbearer, headfirst. In truth, he is obsessively wanting of oral satisfaction, and Cancer is not only the most talented suceuse in the zodiac, she derives great pleasure from going down. He can be a radical, with futuristic tendencies. In the extreme this might translate to rigging Cancer’s lady parts to electronic gadgets designed to get her off, or introducing mechanical screwing devices, hands-off sex being a particularly Aquarian penchant. He can watch from a nearby armchair. He may also indulge in a bit of rubber and latex, which gives him the sense of having cybersex in real time. Kinkier erotic corners aside, Aquarius finds such a willing participant in the Cancer, inclined as she is to experiment and fulfill the Waterbearer, that he wants to keep a firm hold on her. She may exceed his expectations of how game a girl can be to indulge him, but Cancer thrives on variety and the unexpected. So he can become fixated on finding new and different ways of surprising her and, ironically, it can make him crave more vanilla scenarios devoid of the kitchen sink. Aquarius man tends to want what he cannot have; the more basic sexual instincts and behavior can begin to seem exotic after some time hooking up his lover to those remote controls. Cancer instinctively knows that this liaison is something of a journey down the rabbit hole, meant to expand her sexual awareness and get out every possible ya-ya. But she never sees herself being any kind of fetishist, long term; and if she and Aquarius can’t come to terms with settling into a more conventional sex life, which will always be flavored with a pinch of kink here and there, she will take what she’s learned (about herself) and move on. Aquarius goes through his own transformation, having been loved by such a nonjudgmental woman for all his wacky oats to sow; he experiences the kind of acceptance he can spend a lifetime seeking. Somehow that takes the steam out of his need to be such a sexual radical. Here, he can just be the winsome weirdo he was born to be.

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I thought u would ask the Cap male + Cancer female version one

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Urgh! Fine 🙄

Post the cap & crab connection. Do I even want to know... after you calling me a cheating wife
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 CANCER WOMAN + CAPRICORN MAN

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Unlike the other heterosexual pairing of this sign combination, here the relationship is erotic but typically lacks true friendship feelings. Capricorn man isn’t exactly what you call cozy, so Cancer can’t make her signature emotional connection. Rather, there is a bit of tension in the air, although Cancer mightn’t recognize that it’s the sexual kind. Capricorn is well aware his interest in Cancer is purely physical and he tends to want to keep it that way. The Goat can be notoriously objectifying of women and, here, he may be extremely so. He will make blatant remarks, signaling his carnal interest in her, but he is withholding at the same time, making her work for his affection, which may never be forthcoming. Around him, Cancer may feel girlish and giddy, often regressing to behavior she exhibited with men in her more insecure past. He may treat her as no more than a booty call and yet she might try, and try again, to be recognized by him as a serious woman and a potential partner. But this rarely happens. Capricorn may have bookish woman friends—generally he has more female cronies than male ones—but when it comes to actual mating, he usually seeks out nearly clinically submissive women who will have very little say in the relationship, save for yessing him to death.

COMPATIBILITY

Cancer is uncategorical, at least from Cap’s perspective. She is quick witted and intelligent, but not the somber sort he befriends. Nor is she capable of sitting quietly on the sidelines in a love bond. So this coupling is typically over before it’s begun. Those who do enjoy a happy relationship of this combination will have other strong astrological forces in their personal birthcharts. But even they must beware that this doesn’t devolve into codependence. These signs rule each other’s cosmic 7th house, directly opposite the 1st house of self, on the cosmic wheel. The 7th is, thus, the house of the non-self, or other. From the moment these two first lock eyes, they see each other as a foreign influence, often projecting a personality onto the other individual instead of recognizing each other for who they truly are. In Cancer’s case, this can be related to father issues. Often experiencing a gulf with her own father, she may transfer this distanced dynamic onto Capricorn, and thus reenact the kind of quest for male approval she embarked upon with her dad. The Goat, conversely, sees the Cancer in the same light as he might have certain girls from his adolescence. Capricorn matures early and, as such, may have invited ribbing from so-called popular pubescent girls who, in a combination of attraction and revulsion, made fun of a prematurely fuzzy, if not obviously, often overly endowed Capricorn boy who all too easily spilled out of his shorts during gym class. Something about the outspoken Cancer can evoke ancient feelings. And, older and wiser, Capricorn may nonetheless play out something of a revenge fantasy. So if these two do manage to make a real relationship work, each will have had to face their demons head on and not cast the other in their own outmoded dramas.

CARNALITY

All such underlying psychology involved in this pairing adds up to some pretty mind-blowing sex. Capricorn really indulges himself, here, unapologetically exploring his every fantasy and desire, or attempting to. Cancer is more consenting an adult than most women, and she enjoys a bit of healthy objectification. So if the Goat barks a series of orders, say, directing her to kneel, unzip him, fish it out, and take it deep, she won’t find this unfeeling per se, but consider it an opportunity to show off her stunning lack of a gag reflex. She’s happy to strip for him, or play with herself, or expose herself in spread-eagle fashion—it’s as much a turn-on for her to perform as it is for him to watch—but she may quickly tire of all this if she senses no affection in Capricorn’s kiss. That is, if he even gives her one. This can be a fairly sordid affair, as Capricorn gets out his aggressions in a signature indirect manner. He can be a melancholy character, which would imply a certain victim mind-set, and yet he’s quite imposing, quietly asserting an anal agenda, for instance. Indeed, no man is more determined to storm the back gate, and Cancer is generally obliging. (Though she is already tallying ways in which she isn’t feeling the love.) He can get into some serious discipline scenes. More than light spanking, Capricorn may seek to deliver a good flogging or caning that Cancer won’t soon forget. But he is never so sadistic as to disregard the Crab’s limits. She will draw the line at providing him with any brand of anal pleasure, just as she is unlikely to participate in watersports, which, for him, simply means weeing on a woman. She is typically happy, however, to play the bondage girl, as, when she is thus restrained, Capricorn is likely to engage in good old-fashioned fucking and the highly responsive Crab will certainly thrill to the penetrative abilities of the Goat. He may also want to use toys on her, perhaps inserting a dildo in her rear while he is occupying the front. Capricorn can be slow to climax; in fact, he may have more difficulty maintaining an erection than other men. So there might be starting and stopping here, necessitating some fluffing on Cancer’s part. Capricorn, being something of a throw-back, isn’t into rubber and latex, but rather enjoys a lover dressing in corsets and garters and other such costumes of yore. Needless to say, this combination is really all about the Goat and his needs, which will wear on Cancer, who wishes he would forgo the bells and whistles and simply go down on her once in a while, not to mention look in her eyes while shagging her or even just utter her name. With very few exceptions, this is a one-sided bond that only reinforces whatever insecurities the Cancerian suffers from. And Capricorn, too: He would do well to engage in a love relationship with a woman who’s more like the straight-laced ladies he befriends. Cancer will need to make a conscious effort to assert her own agenda; ironically, not always giving Cap what he wants contributes to the bond’s longevity.

I’ll read this tomorrow, by the looks of it I’m the cap man and your the crab woman
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Cancer here. Dated an aquarius. He still texts me every so often including two days ago. The connection is magnetic, but we are both opposites. Don’t think these two are a match.

Haven’t seen any long lasting connection either, although it’s usually Aquas that are more into us

I can concur. My sister is a Cancer and her wife is an Aquarius. My sister wears the pants. I guess the best way to describe my sister is someone who looks and talks like a surfer guy, but who is ambitious when it comes to making money. Her Aqua wife is former military, but super quirky and a dork. She literally swoons at my sister.
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Weird, so much of that resonated including the military aspect 😅 I’m so chill like a hippie but completely change in a working environment with the money, business and ambition.

Yep, once there was 2 aquas that were interested and we all knew each other mutually. They can become incredibly infatuated 😬 but have also experienced this with other fixed sign men.
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Pretty sure I came on too strong, I really liked her it’s too bad. Seems like it’s always the females I don’t want that love me, whenever I find someone I actually like I can never get it quite right.. sigh

What happened?

I did think you were overthinking it too much. And liking and commenting on all the post was a bit extra.

Pace the tempo
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Nothing really haha just aren’t talking as much as we were, she has a lot going on in her personal life. I was fine with waiting for the relationship to develop more but I wanted to be there lol didn’t want her to forget me. Guess I was too there lol I’ll give her a few weeks see if she hits me up. We spoke on the phone & she didn’t sound how she normally does. I could tell she East tired/stressed out
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Pretty sure I came on too strong, I really liked her it’s too bad. Seems like it’s always the females I don’t want that love me, whenever I find someone I actually like I can never get it quite right.. sigh

What happened?

I did think you were overthinking it too much. And liking and commenting on all the post was a bit extra.

Pace the tempo

Nothing really haha just aren’t talking as much as we were, she has a lot going on in her personal life. I was fine with waiting for the relationship to develop more but I wanted to be there lol didn’t want her to forget me. Guess I was too there lol I’ll give her a few weeks see if she hits me up. We spoke on the phone & she didn’t sound how she normally does. I could tell she East tired/stressed out
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If you’re still talking then there’s some hope, even if she is really busy and stressed out with other stuff.

Just don’t waste too much time waiting around for her, especially if she isn’t showing anything tangible.
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Cancer here. Dated an aquarius. He still texts me every so often including two days ago. The connection is magnetic, but we are both opposites. Don’t think these two are a match.

Haven’t seen any long lasting connection either, although it’s usually Aquas that are more into us

Dated - if I can call it this - a few Cancer women. They're drawn to me as if I'm exciting, creative, sensitive yet tough, wild and offbeat - exactly the things they are not. I find them soft warm intuitive and resilient. Sex with Cancer women is very rewarding and nurturing for us Aquas. I would go as far as saying sex with Cancer women is a very good match for an Aqua. But if you take the sex out, there's nothing there for either of them. Cancer's too moody, too traditional, too soft, too slow, too grabby, clingy, greedy for an Aqua who's too cold, aloof, absent-minded, social for a Cancer. Cancer women are very good for a rebound. It's not meant to last, it's instead one of the best ONS an Aqua man can have. I heard it works better with Aqua females and Cancer males, but as far as Aqua males and Cancer females are involved, this relationship is best as friends with benefits / fuck buddies/ comfort sex. Nothing else.
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It’s a better business relationship, had 3 aqua bosses before.

Never been drawn to an aqua but there’s great creative spark, some are just dull robots and few are great conversationalist. It really depends cos Aquarian energy is too diverse, difficult to lump them all into one category.
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Cancer here. Dated an aquarius. He still texts me every so often including two days ago. The connection is magnetic, but we are both opposites. Don’t think these two are a match.

Haven’t seen any long lasting connection either, although it’s usually Aquas that are more into us

Dated - if I can call it this - a few Cancer women. They're drawn to me as if I'm exciting, creative, sensitive yet tough, wild and offbeat - exactly the things they are not. I find them soft warm intuitive and resilient. Sex with Cancer women is very rewarding and nurturing for us Aquas. I would go as far as saying sex with Cancer women is a very good match for an Aqua. But if you take the sex out, there's nothing there for either of them. Cancer's too moody, too traditional, too soft, too slow, too grabby, clingy, greedy for an Aqua who's too cold, aloof, absent-minded, social for a Cancer. Cancer women are very good for a rebound. It's not meant to last, it's instead one of the best ONS an Aqua man can have. I heard it works better with Aqua females and Cancer males, but as far as Aqua males and Cancer females are involved, this relationship is best as friends with benefits / fuck buddies/ comfort sex. Nothing else.

It’s a better business relationship, had 3 aqua bosses before.

Never been drawn to an aqua but there’s great creative spark, some are just dull robots and few are great conversationalist. It really depends cos Aquarian energy is too diverse, difficult to lump them all into one category.


plus they can see details like no-one else (but not like virgo, who is the best at it)
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Cancer here. Dated an aquarius. He still texts me every so often including two days ago. The connection is magnetic, but we are both opposites. Don’t think these two are a match.

Haven’t seen any long lasting connection either, although it’s usually Aquas that are more into us

Dated - if I can call it this - a few Cancer women. They're drawn to me as if I'm exciting, creative, sensitive yet tough, wild and offbeat - exactly the things they are not. I find them soft warm intuitive and resilient. Sex with Cancer women is very rewarding and nurturing for us Aquas. I would go as far as saying sex with Cancer women is a very good match for an Aqua. But if you take the sex out, there's nothing there for either of them. Cancer's too moody, too traditional, too soft, too slow, too grabby, clingy, greedy for an Aqua who's too cold, aloof, absent-minded, social for a Cancer. Cancer women are very good for a rebound. It's not meant to last, it's instead one of the best ONS an Aqua man can have. I heard it works better with Aqua females and Cancer males, but as far as Aqua males and Cancer females are involved, this relationship is best as friends with benefits / fuck buddies/ comfort sex. Nothing else.

It’s a better business relationship, had 3 aqua bosses before.

Never been drawn to an aqua but there’s great creative spark, some are just dull robots and few are great conversationalist. It really depends cos Aquarian energy is too diverse, difficult to lump them all into one category.

yes, creative collab with cancers is always good as far as im concerned, they bring a tad of extra sensibility and sensitivity to the project, plus they can see details like no-one else (but not like virgo, who is the best at it) . however, they're rather slow and can get lost in a project for months. their ambition to perfect can slow it down way too much. otherwise, they re warm and social and friendly in a working environment and if you don't mind their child-like personalities sometimes, you'll be fine.

on a personal level, they're a bore and too territorial too clingy they will TEXT you all the time asking if you re ok and if you miss them, a bit too paranoid for my taste. i guess taurus and scorpio are their best match
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Agree on the professional front, Aquas bring out the best in us... in fact 2 of them created a new higher job positions in separate companies. So I know I excel around them 😊

And you’re not wrong about the attention to detail, we’re good with it (on a personal level I have too much Virgo, so I get the point you’re making).



Crab women can be dull, can’t relate to most of them but have known sooooo many. I don’t understand neediness, clingy or possessive behaviour... but have experienced enough suffocation from Aquas, Taurus & Scorpio’s.
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Agree on the professional front, Aquas bring out the best in us... in fact 2 of them created a new higher job positions in separate companies. So I know I excel around them 😊

And you’re not wrong about the attention to detail, we’re good with it (on a personal level I have too much Virgo, so I get the point you’re making).



Crab women can be dull, can’t relate to most of them but have known sooooo many. I don’t understand neediness, clingy or possessive behaviour... but have experienced enough suffocation from Aquas, Taurus & Scorpio’s.

totally agree - i bring out the best in my cancer collabs (they prefer working directly with me and not with their sag boss hahaha)

ohh, fixed sign man can be suffocating, unfortunately (try leo, if you think we're too much lol), but on behalf of all aqua males out there i will say we also go about our stuff and minding our business which for an insecure cancer woman (not saying they re all like that) can be too unreliable. then the aqua will have to justify each and every of his actions (ranging from nights out with friends, to not picking up or not putting enough emojis in a text) which will drain him. but, i repeat, sex with cancer women is among the best - we bring out the wild side in them
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That’s good to hear that people like working with you and you read my mind, love Leo men. Their ego doesn’t allow them to be that obsessive 😂 which is a good thing for people like me, who need a lot of space.

Again can’t relate to keeping tabs on people, if anything I like pushing people to go out there more often. Don’t think I’m a typical crab maybe 😅
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Again can’t relate to keeping tabs on people, if anything I like pushing people to go out there more often. Don’t think I’m a typical crab maybe 😅

Every now and then you run into a Cancer who's peculiar, indeed. And I know some Cancer girls really appreciate their privacy x nests 😛

Very much so in terms of privacy. Personally wouldn't allow too many people through my threshold unless I know them enough
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This is very true ^
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 CANCER WOMAN + CAPRICORN MAN

the apex

CHEMISTRY

Unlike the other heterosexual pairing of this sign combination, here the relationship is erotic but typically lacks true friendship feelings. Capricorn man isn’t exactly what you call cozy, so Cancer can’t make her signature emotional connection. Rather, there is a bit of tension in the air, although Cancer mightn’t recognize that it’s the sexual kind. Capricorn is well aware his interest in Cancer is purely physical and he tends to want to keep it that way. The Goat can be notoriously objectifying of women and, here, he may be extremely so. He will make blatant remarks, signaling his carnal interest in her, but he is withholding at the same time, making her work for his affection, which may never be forthcoming. Around him, Cancer may feel girlish and giddy, often regressing to behavior she exhibited with men in her more insecure past. He may treat her as no more than a booty call and yet she might try, and try again, to be recognized by him as a serious woman and a potential partner. But this rarely happens. Capricorn may have bookish woman friends—generally he has more female cronies than male ones—but when it comes to actual mating, he usually seeks out nearly clinically submissive women who will have very little say in the relationship, save for yessing him to death.

COMPATIBILITY

Cancer is uncategorical, at least from Cap’s perspective. She is quick witted and intelligent, but not the somber sort he befriends. Nor is she capable of sitting quietly on the sidelines in a love bond. So this coupling is typically over before it’s begun. Those who do enjoy a happy relationship of this combination will have other strong astrological forces in their personal birthcharts. But even they must beware that this doesn’t devolve into codependence. These signs rule each other’s cosmic 7th house, directly opposite the 1st house of self, on the cosmic wheel. The 7th is, thus, the house of the non-self, or other. From the moment these two first lock eyes, they see each other as a foreign influence, often projecting a personality onto the other individual instead of recognizing each other for who they truly are. In Cancer’s case, this can be related to father issues. Often experiencing a gulf with her own father, she may transfer this distanced dynamic onto Capricorn, and thus reenact the kind of quest for male approval she embarked upon with her dad. The Goat, conversely, sees the Cancer in the same light as he might have certain girls from his adolescence. Capricorn matures early and, as such, may have invited ribbing from so-called popular pubescent girls who, in a combination of attraction and revulsion, made fun of a prematurely fuzzy, if not obviously, often overly endowed Capricorn boy who all too easily spilled out of his shorts during gym class. Something about the outspoken Cancer can evoke ancient feelings. And, older and wiser, Capricorn may nonetheless play out something of a revenge fantasy. So if these two do manage to make a real relationship work, each will have had to face their demons head on and not cast the other in their own outmoded dramas.

CARNALITY

All such underlying psychology involved in this pairing adds up to some pretty mind-blowing sex. Capricorn really indulges himself, here, unapologetically exploring his every fantasy and desire, or attempting to. Cancer is more consenting an adult than most women, and she enjoys a bit of healthy objectification. So if the Goat barks a series of orders, say, directing her to kneel, unzip him, fish it out, and take it deep, she won’t find this unfeeling per se, but consider it an opportunity to show off her stunning lack of a gag reflex. She’s happy to strip for him, or play with herself, or expose herself in spread-eagle fashion—it’s as much a turn-on for her to perform as it is for him to watch—but she may quickly tire of all this if she senses no affection in Capricorn’s kiss. That is, if he even gives her one. This can be a fairly sordid affair, as Capricorn gets out his aggressions in a signature indirect manner. He can be a melancholy character, which would imply a certain victim mind-set, and yet he’s quite imposing, quietly asserting an anal agenda, for instance. Indeed, no man is more determined to storm the back gate, and Cancer is generally obliging. (Though she is already tallying ways in which she isn’t feeling the love.) He can get into some serious discipline scenes. More than light spanking, Capricorn may seek to deliver a good flogging or caning that Cancer won’t soon forget. But he is never so sadistic as to disregard the Crab’s limits. She will draw the line at providing him with any brand of anal pleasure, just as she is unlikely to participate in watersports, which, for him, simply means weeing on a woman. She is typically happy, however, to play the bondage girl, as, when she is thus restrained, Capricorn is likely to engage in good old-fashioned fucking and the highly responsive Crab will certainly thrill to the penetrative abilities of the Goat. He may also want to use toys on her, perhaps inserting a dildo in her rear while he is occupying the front. Capricorn can be slow to climax; in fact, he may have more difficulty maintaining an erection than other men. So there might be starting and stopping here, necessitating some fluffing on Cancer’s part. Capricorn, being something of a throw-back, isn’t into rubber and latex, but rather enjoys a lover dressing in corsets and garters and other such costumes of yore. Needless to say, this combination is really all about the Goat and his needs, which will wear on Cancer, who wishes he would forgo the bells and whistles and simply go down on her once in a while, not to mention look in her eyes while shagging her or even just utter her name. With very few exceptions, this is a one-sided bond that only reinforces whatever insecurities the Cancerian suffers from. And Capricorn, too: He would do well to engage in a love relationship with a woman who’s more like the straight-laced ladies he befriends. Cancer will need to make a conscious effort to assert her own agenda; ironically, not always giving Cap what he wants contributes to the bond’s longevity.

I’ll read this tomorrow, by the looks of it I’m the cap man and your the crab woman

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