agressiveness?

on a first date with a cancer. how do you think cancer will react if you tried to be a bit agressive, but nothing against his or her will.
holding hands kissing? cuddling?

just asking hypothetically, knowing cancers dont make first moves.. its the other person who will have to.

I wouldn't recommend it, from what I can remember my ex who I thought was a Gemini, who I now know was a Cancer wasn't aggressive and I was okay with that because he was alot of fun to be with, I think he started being affection on date 3.

I have a Cancer moon (1st house and zero degrees conjunct Jupiter so its a heavy influence in my chart) and aggressiveness/affection would make me a little uncomfortable on the 1st date (unless I knew them for a long time prior to date 1). I would like it if I had the chance to earn that person's affection. I once dated a Libra who was very affectionate from day 1 and I wondered how in the world can someone show so much affection to someone they barely knew? I perceived that as he's either desperate or not selective with who he gives his affection to (and probably does that to every girl he meets) so it didn't make me feel special.

BUT if you just want to have a sexual relationship then being aggressive & affectionate on date 1 is fine. Otherwise you could give him the wrong impression.

Everyone is different so you should get to know him and hold off on the aggression until you get the signals from him that its okay.

hmm i like it when people are sort of aggressive with me..not overly of course .. but if they know how to handle me then that makes them number 1 in my book.. just let things happen and dont force it..