Aries Female Cancer Male

Are Cancer males slow and cautious in a brand new dating scene? I have been talking to a cancer over the phone for hours and we will be meeting soon for the first time. He seems very nice and we enjoy talking to eachother.. but he takes forever to call sometimes.. I guess he is really busy.

Plus, me being an Aries, patience is not in my dictionary 🙂

So do Cancer males take their sweet time normally?

I usually take forever to call someone for a number of reason. The general reason being that I simply don't feel like talking to them at that particular moment. If it's someone I like, I'll take forever because I don't want to come off as desperate. I don't know how well Aries and Cancer are together though. Maybe the reverse sex would make a difference because the Aries guy I knew was quite boring. Instead of waiting for him to call you, call him. As a Cancer there is nothing better than me thinking of someone, only to have them call me.

How do you beat it into an Aries girl's head that you can't take a direct approach with a Cancer? Arian:"what is indirect?"Omg! I have been working on this for years, yet I think I scared another Cancer away by being very frank and forward. I asked him out was all I did. I know most cancers can hear me coming from a mile away and instinctively steer clear of me. I've even found some who are trembling with their eyes shut hoping that they are invisible long enough for me to pass without noticing. Haha I can be off the wall sometimes, even lose grasp of the ability to reel my self in at times, but at the end of the day I know who I want to come home to. Cancers have me wrapped around their fingers, and I love it!How do I approach a cancer? I know two male cancers who have spoken to me about pursuing a more serious relationship, so I know it's not impossible. Any advice would be appreciated. I'm trying to read all I can thru these forums and other sites about cancers and the cancer/aries match. I will continue to keep my fingers crossed. Oh, my moon and rising signs are both in scorpio, I hope that plays in my favor.

Arian:"what's patience?" Haha

I've even found some who are trembling with their eyes shut hoping that they are invisible long enough for me to pass without noticing.

Indeed.

Mr. Crabby!

I thought you might like to hear this. I just asked with my cancer male friend what keeps him and I going. I mentioned that I am considering nabbing me a cancer guy to settle down with and want to know what my odds are. His response,"It's assinine stubborn determination that keeps us going. The only cancer worth settling for is colo-rectal.". LMAO! His words are so endearing ( smidgen of sarcasm there). I can't get upset or mad at them even if I wanted to.

Posted by Lady Aries
How do you beat it into an Aries girl's head that you can't take a direct approach with a Cancer? Arian:"what is indirect?"Omg! I have been working on this for years, yet I think I scared another Cancer away by being very frank and forward. I asked him out was all I did. I know most cancers can hear me coming from a mile away and instinctively steer clear of me. I've even found some who are trembling with their eyes shut hoping that they are invisible long enough for me to pass without noticing. Haha I can be off the wall sometimes, even lose grasp of the ability to reel my self in at times

LOL 😄 I hear ya!

Hmm I don't know but I've heard of Aries liking and working with cancer/scorpio just adjusting to our sensitivity, privacy, and our slow to trust ways.

One for team Aries!

Ok, new question: how do I know if he's really really blowing me off, since they disappear to do their own thing every now and then? I remember some long time ago it took me two years of coaxing before finally felt like I had something steady going with this cancer, but he pulled the disappearing act (I assume because of circumstance) for two months. In other words we spoke on the phone everyday for a month, he dissapears for two months without a trace, so naturally I moved on. Then he pops back up ( he had moved out of state), but by that time, I had messed things up so so so bad! Two years it took me and this is how I fuck it up? Omg! FML! I was so ready to reel in the moon and stars for this boy. I was constantly, "Tell me what you want, baby, tell me what you want... I'll drive you anywhere you want!" Hahaha I think we were 16 or 17 at the time. I feel the air(moods) that surround cancers, if I think too much about it I won't get it, but if I keep my mind clear, I feel I get it. Ooo, oooh yesterday, a (nother) male cancer friend (different from the one referred to above) word for word said he "feels we totaly 'get' eachother". I felt sooo smoooooth, haha! Back to the 'getting it' part, I react to their moods by doing (actions) something about it. Every time they are quite not quite chipper (even thought they are very low key about being happy) , I feel like giving them a great big bear hug to make it all go away. I just hope I'm not smothering them. I'm not too much for touchy-feely even hugs, but I love them that Much!

I don't think story had anything to do with my question, but this does: at this point, since I really really want to nab me a cancer, I can be very very persistent... AND Patient! But very persistent, nonetheless. I want to know when to really move on to better my chances of smooching it up with a crabby crab by waiting around for a dud of an opportunity. Kehe I get giddy just talking about them, I don't even have one yet.

Wow, 2.5 hours of sleep a night the past nearly week, it's spanking early in the am, and already I'm running a mile a minute! "Look Ma, no hands! Or coffee, yet! Oh, and I'm talking to myself!!" WhhhEeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

*by NOT waiting around for a dud of an opportunity.

I can't stop!

With the cancer when I was 16 (or 17), every time I spoke to him or even about him, I felt the need to whhhhhhhhiiiiiisssssper *whispering* so I don't make him jump or scurry away. And when we were hanging out, I instinctively unloaded my super charge cans and left them at the door. I honestly feel that if I find a cancer that gives me my space to bouce off the walls from time to time ( he's more than welcome to join), things will be just fine! I'm so EXCITED!

I'm trying to stop this madness I swear!

P.S. Please, please, please don't tell him I don't like to cook. I'll without a doubt do it, but just for him or hire a personal chef or something.

I'm fucking scared right now and you're not even in the same room.