breaking it off with a cancer? can we just be frie

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by mangomania on Saturday, August 29, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@mangomania
11 Years

Met this awesome cancer in the beginning of the summer. Had fun together. Sex was great. After a few more sexual encounters he admitted to being involved with a Virgo woman. I told him we can only be friends..He doesn't want to leave it alone. I'm afraid that he is going to be nasty with the end of it all...anyone have any ideas on breaking if off without him getting nasty. .

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@bexi
11 Years

Messy situation..

If he doesn't leave you alone he must certainly leave his virgo alone for good. If not, that alone is the best argument in your case.

Cancers can be pushy towards who they want, so either tell him that it's gonna be just the two of you if that is what u both want, or to leave it at that and go back to his pretend relationship 😉

Nb: once a cheater..u know the drill

Good luck 🙂

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by thinktoomuch
If you just stick to your guns, shouldn´t be a problem at all. So don´t go back on your words just to see how he feels. If you take control of the situation and again - stick to your guns - then no drama.

This is right.

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@Etherealfeeling
11 YearsCancer

As a 25 year old Cancer,
I'll admit transferring feelings of love to friendship is not something that comes easily to me...
Maybe he'll be different. Good luck!
Though considering the situation, he has no right to be nasty towards you.

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@notafollower
11 Years500+ Posts

"Why cant we be friends? Why cant we be friends? Whyy cant we be friends? Why cant we be friends??"
That ish pops in my head Everytime i see this post lol