piggytoo240
@piggytoo240
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Can anyone make sense of this—
Yes I am for real with these aspects and I don't know if they are good or bad. I was hoping maybe someone that understand astrology better than I do can help shed some light on if it could be a good match or not. As in what's good and what's bad about our compatibility.
As far as spending a lot of time to find my self esteem and self confidence. I am stable as far as that goes. I do have a life. I own and operate a business that services clients daily. I have family and friends that care about me and my welfare as I do them. So I found me years ago and when I feel as if I ready to be a single woman I will make the move to do so.
I hope you don't feel that I'm overcome with depression and belong in some psycho institution because I don't. Im a Scorpio and a very strong one. I use bad experience to better myself, learn from them and to be a stronger person in life. I protect myself very well from evil people that set out to hurt others for no reason.
But back to the cancer. Im trying to find advice or any tips on how to improve communication between two beings. When we find time to spend together things are great and we miss each other and have fun together until something will change his mood and than i don't know what to say to bring him out of his mood. We will both become quiet and cuddle up and watch tv.
Lol.. I dont know maybe I be talking him to death.
As far as spending a lot of time to find my self esteem and self confidence. I am stable as far as that goes. I do have a life. I own and operate a business that services clients daily. I have family and friends that care about me and my welfare as I do them. So I found me years ago and when I feel as if I ready to be a single woman I will make the move to do so.
I hope you don't feel that I'm overcome with depression and belong in some psycho institution because I don't. Im a Scorpio and a very strong one. I use bad experience to better myself, learn from them and to be a stronger person in life. I protect myself very well from evil people that set out to hurt others for no reason.
But back to the cancer. Im trying to find advice or any tips on how to improve communication between two beings. When we find time to spend together things are great and we miss each other and have fun together until something will change his mood and than i don't know what to say to bring him out of his mood. We will both become quiet and cuddle up and watch tv.
Lol.. I dont know maybe I be talking him to death.
i dont' know... Scorpios like to dig for answers and solutions when there isn't all that much there....
The 'why this, why that... where is this going?.. what did you mean by that?'... can be a bit much. Maybe it's that fixed desire for emotional control?
If you want everything clear and on track, where is the room for the natural building and growing of a relationship? It's like people who schedule time for sex... I just don't get it
Do you test his love for you with questions and actions? Cancers know when people are trying to manoeuvre them in any certain direction and it can make them more prone to resist.
And why would you feel the need to "bring him out of his mood"? So you can have control over his emotional state when he's with you? Why not just accept his mood and let him get over it himself?
He's working on making things better... what are YOU working on? Isn't the fact he's working on it and tells you he loves you enough? I guess not...
The 'why this, why that... where is this going?.. what did you mean by that?'... can be a bit much. Maybe it's that fixed desire for emotional control?
If you want everything clear and on track, where is the room for the natural building and growing of a relationship? It's like people who schedule time for sex... I just don't get it
Do you test his love for you with questions and actions? Cancers know when people are trying to manoeuvre them in any certain direction and it can make them more prone to resist.
And why would you feel the need to "bring him out of his mood"? So you can have control over his emotional state when he's with you? Why not just accept his mood and let him get over it himself?
He's working on making things better... what are YOU working on? Isn't the fact he's working on it and tells you he loves you enough? I guess not...
^^^^
Do you test his love for you with questions and actions? Cancers know when people are trying to manoeuvre them in any certain direction and it can make them more prone to resist.
(Uh no I dont put him through any tests,that's normally what he tries to do with me but I ignore him when he does it. I dont try to maneuver him in any direction. I accept him as he is which is what attracted me to him. He does like the test game though....i just don't intertain it.)
And why would you feel the need to "bring him out of his mood"? So you can have control over his emotional state when he's with you? Why not just accept his mood and let him get over it himself?
(Well I dont like to see him down or anyone else for that matter. I just try to make him smile and know that it's not the end of the world and to keep his head up....as in being supportive. 😛 )
He's working on making things better... what are YOU working on? Isn't the fact he's working on it and tells you he loves you enough? I guess not...
(Well as for myself. I am working on opening another business by the summer. And yes the fact that he's working things out to better our relationship is enough. As we both have busy schedules and his a lot more crazier than mine. But I'm understanding and patient.) 😉
Do you test his love for you with questions and actions? Cancers know when people are trying to manoeuvre them in any certain direction and it can make them more prone to resist.
(Uh no I dont put him through any tests,that's normally what he tries to do with me but I ignore him when he does it. I dont try to maneuver him in any direction. I accept him as he is which is what attracted me to him. He does like the test game though....i just don't intertain it.)
And why would you feel the need to "bring him out of his mood"? So you can have control over his emotional state when he's with you? Why not just accept his mood and let him get over it himself?
(Well I dont like to see him down or anyone else for that matter. I just try to make him smile and know that it's not the end of the world and to keep his head up....as in being supportive. 😛 )
He's working on making things better... what are YOU working on? Isn't the fact he's working on it and tells you he loves you enough? I guess not...
(Well as for myself. I am working on opening another business by the summer. And yes the fact that he's working things out to better our relationship is enough. As we both have busy schedules and his a lot more crazier than mine. But I'm understanding and patient.) 😉
Posted by MoonMan
I'm not a professional astrologer, it's just a hobby.
I have to be honest, I thought you were joking about your astrology aspects with the two of you.
It's a very interesting combination at first glance.
If I have time over the next few days I'll look into it a little.
There are others here who have good knowledge.
Awwwww! Why thank you MoonMan. Any help you offer with this astrology stuff would be greatly appreciated
Yaay!!
Piggy 😛
Hey!
Ok, so here's my story....VERY brief summary!
I had been with my Cancer man for 7.5 years. He's from another country, after we had been together for 2.5 years, I met his mom, after 5 yrs, he took me home with him & I met his father & the rest of his family. His mom was actually planning our wedding. And then....it ended. He used a bs excuse, but I think it was because his mom was pressuring him to marry me. So, we've never really been...out of contact. We have dinner sometimes recently, he's been a little more flirty. We were both at a function for a mutual friend. I was sitting at a table, obviously i wanted x to sit with me, but I knew he'd sit with "the crew" (his boys) BUT he came in, sat down right next to me & stayed there the entire time. He got up to talk to a few people, but for the most part he stayed beside me. We talked the whole time, afterwards, my best friend told me a few people had asked her if we were back together. After the function, the flirting increased, we were texting each other or emailing almost everyday, it was nice. And then, I messed up. LOL Well, I attempted a nice gesture, I went to his house, unannounced, with food, cheesecake & his fave beer. He was pissed. Mostly because I had just shown up. But the reason he was pissed was because he likes to be in power, likes to have the upper hand, & by showing up like that, I threw him off & he didn't know how to react.
We've been apart for almost 4 years, but it seems like he is showing interest again. I'm wondering if he's getting closer to wanting to settle down & maybe wants to do that with me. BUT I'm not sure.
What do ya'll think? Also, I haven't heard from him since this episode which was....almost 2 wks ago. He's in the middle of a disappearing act. Usually, when he decides to speak to me again, he'll text or email me something very insignificant, but by him doing that, he knows, that I know, we're cool. LOL
Ok, so here's my story....VERY brief summary!
I had been with my Cancer man for 7.5 years. He's from another country, after we had been together for 2.5 years, I met his mom, after 5 yrs, he took me home with him & I met his father & the rest of his family. His mom was actually planning our wedding. And then....it ended. He used a bs excuse, but I think it was because his mom was pressuring him to marry me. So, we've never really been...out of contact. We have dinner sometimes recently, he's been a little more flirty. We were both at a function for a mutual friend. I was sitting at a table, obviously i wanted x to sit with me, but I knew he'd sit with "the crew" (his boys) BUT he came in, sat down right next to me & stayed there the entire time. He got up to talk to a few people, but for the most part he stayed beside me. We talked the whole time, afterwards, my best friend told me a few people had asked her if we were back together. After the function, the flirting increased, we were texting each other or emailing almost everyday, it was nice. And then, I messed up. LOL Well, I attempted a nice gesture, I went to his house, unannounced, with food, cheesecake & his fave beer. He was pissed. Mostly because I had just shown up. But the reason he was pissed was because he likes to be in power, likes to have the upper hand, & by showing up like that, I threw him off & he didn't know how to react.
We've been apart for almost 4 years, but it seems like he is showing interest again. I'm wondering if he's getting closer to wanting to settle down & maybe wants to do that with me. BUT I'm not sure.
What do ya'll think? Also, I haven't heard from him since this episode which was....almost 2 wks ago. He's in the middle of a disappearing act. Usually, when he decides to speak to me again, he'll text or email me something very insignificant, but by him doing that, he knows, that I know, we're cool. LOL
^^^^^ WTF... OK AND YOU'RE POSTING HER BECAUSE!!!
Not to be rude but you may want to start your own thread. This one here has only room for advice/tips regarding me and my mate.
Mmmm K....now going forward
Not to be rude but you may want to start your own thread. This one here has only room for advice/tips regarding me and my mate.
Mmmm K....now going forward
Posted by piggytoo240
^^^^^ WTF... OK AND YOU'RE POSTING HER BECAUSE!!!
Not to be rude but you may want to start your own thread. This one here has only room for advice/tips regarding me and my mate.
Mmmm K....now going forward
your true colors are showing...
True colors indeed! LOL
And just fyi, "WTF" is considered being rude, at least to me.
peace!
peace!
Posted by shellshockerPosted by piggytoo240
^^^^^ WTF... OK AND YOU'RE POSTING HER BECAUSE!!!
Not to be rude but you may want to start your own thread. This one here has only room for advice/tips regarding me and my mate.
Mmmm K....now going forward
your true colors are showing...click to expand
Sorry you feel that way. As we all are of color....noone is perfect. And sorry but there is no room for cat scratching here I'm not into that. But I truly will speak by mind and respect you for doing the same. Normally if I came across a thread that I am not interested in. I would just exit.
Posted by Vilitbtrfly79
True colors indeed! LOL
Uh you would have to have known me in order to know what my true color is 😉
Hummm...as a Cancer, when I want someone I am there. That moon in Taurus could explain the silence and and lack of communication. If he is going through bad times he may be withdrawing from everyone. Cancers can do that. If not, he just may not be that into you. If it persist -> Leave.
Posted by Vilitbtrfly79
And just fyi, "WTF" is considered being rude, at least to me.
peace!
Oh I'm sorry! Let me apologize to you for my rudness...you know practice makes perfect. 😛
Live, Love, Laugh,Be merry.
Posted by cancerlovestaurus
Hummm...as a Cancer, when I want someone I am there. That moon in Taurus could explain the silence and and lack of communication. If he is going through bad times he may be withdrawing from everyone. Cancers can do that. If not, he just may not be that into you. If it persist -> Leave.
Thank you for posting. I appreciate your honesty. I will definitely keep your advice as it is informative.
Thanks again
Enjoy your day! 😛
Piggy
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