Cancer Appreciation

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Dxp Fam, I never thought I'd say this but I'm genuinely humbled by the sign of Cancer for the first time.

Been watching Married at First Sight: Season 3, Samantha Role who is a Cancer... just wow. new appreciation and respect for cancer women.She started off being a bitch but caught herself, grew immensely as a person and despite being rejected she showed so much LOVE. Like wtf how do u guys do that?? After her major heart break with the Taurus dude she came the next day with a big smile and an apology to him for being a bitch at the beginning and her heart so vulnerbale, full of love butyet so much strength.

Now I realize why some people say that Cancers move so quick through their feelings and how some ppl feel like oneday they love and next day they dont. Well that's because they love sooo much and feel so thoroughly that when the feelings wash over they're ready to move on with their life.
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So here's the scene:

She: I want to stay married to you.

Him: I want a divorce.

She: runs out and sobs hysterically (broke my heart to see someone like that no lie)

When producers ask her what she wants to do:

She: I just want to go home!

Them: ok ok who do you want to take you home?

She: Neil!!! (the taurus guy who shes heartbroken over).

Like how much strength does it take to be around someone who just broke your heart whether intentionally or unintentionally?
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Posted by Mariposa_

This isn’t a good example, coming from someone who was actually married for almost a decade.

Everything that woman did; apologizing, forgiving, emotionally growing and still wanting to be with him? I did all that and I’m not even a cancer.

This is love at first sight, she barely knows him. It’s not love, it’s fear of being alone.



It has nothing to do with the Taurus but her resolve to 1) see her own mistakes, 2) grow from them, 3) fully experience her emotions at every level, through the bad, the sad, and the good and 4) to step outside of her ego to accept the friendship despite wanting to make it work with him romantically.
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Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Mariposa_

This isn’t a good example, coming from someone who was actually married for almost a decade.

Everything that woman did; apologizing, forgiving, emotionally growing and still wanting to be with him? I did all that and I’m not even a cancer.

This is love at first sight, she barely knows him. It’s not love, it’s fear of being alone.



It has nothing to do with the Taurus but her resolve to 1) see her own mistakes, 2) grow from them, 3) fully experience her emotions at every level, through the bad, the sad, and the good and 4) to step outside of her ego to accept the friendship despite wanting to make it work with him romantically.


Is it really this or is all this said and done on her part because of media? Most likely ashamed?

This show is a joke and tries to glamorize marriage but it goes deeper beyond that. It’s different when the cameras aren’t rolling and you’re crying yourself to sleep every night because your marriage is deteriorating.
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Yeah i can see your point if you believe reality shows are completely made up. However, I think for the main part the people are who they are.