cancer broke up, recontacted now?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by mnemini on Sunday, September 8, 2013 and has 2 replies.

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@mnemini
13 Years

cancer man broke up with me a month ago. he was pretty angry, but said we could be friends. he tried then texted me saying we couldnt and it was "not appropriate" for him to text me. he was very upset by me pushing to talk about our issues and work things out(i'm a gemini, love talking, not great for cancer obviously).

right before we split he let me spend hte night with him, (nothing happened) but he was in his shell the whole time, and angry the next day when i tried to talk again.

it's been a month. i did not contact him but to send a letter explaining how i still felt, and that i also felt he was giving up too easily, and out of fear. and regardless of our issues/fighting that it was important to find the person who would fight FOR you. me (obviously)

no word. not surprised. i emailed him recently regarding a document i'd sent him a long time ago. my computer crashed and he had the only copy. simply asked for it. nothing more.

he didnt get back to me for three days, then he texted, said hed do it next week, as he was out of town for business. continued to text me, see how i was, what i'd been up to. then late in the night, asked if id come visit him while he was away. i told him i didnt want games, and he apologized multiple times, and said he was being too selfish.

texted again today to apologize, again. but still answered texts after a month of no contact.

dont know what to think?

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@SupremeQueen
13 Years

Ugh.. Cancers never let go nor can they make up their minds he's prob having a mental battle of whether or not he wants to talk to you :-/

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@mnemini
13 Years

supreme queen i love your profile! and thanks for the response. i know this, for sure. I guess it's just nice to hear any word from other cancer's/those who love cancer men!