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cancerguy
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So far...my first experience with the cancer..has me challenged on the daily,keeps me on my toes,always leaves me guessing & wanting more!drives me crazy like looney tune! Haha!




This is known as the "honeymoon" phase. It will pass, and soon you'll be here telling us how it didn't work out. It always happens. Always.



What a negative outlook!!
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I'm just going by precedence around here. I've seen it over and over.

Phase 1: "do you think he likes me? OMG OMG"
Phase 2: "blah blah blah (push/pull) blah blah blah"
Phase 3: "he has another family, or a kid in cambodia, or problems with his mother, or chose another girl over me" or some similarly stupid thing that you should have seen from the beginning but were so infatuated you ignored everything around you.
Phase 4: "ho hum, thanks for the support, i'm trying to forget, and get over this"

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Posted by Claire
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Posted by missscorp
So far...my first experience with the cancer..has me challenged on the daily,keeps me on my toes,always leaves me guessing & wanting more!drives me crazy like looney tune! Haha!




This is known as the "honeymoon" phase. It will pass, and soon you'll be here telling us how it didn't work out. It always happens. Always.



What a negative outlook!!




I'm just going by precedence around here. I've seen it over and over.

Phase 1: "do you think he likes me? OMG OMG"
Phase 2: "blah blah blah (push/pull) blah blah blah"
Phase 3: "he has another family, or a kid in cambodia, or problems with his mother, or chose another girl over me" or some similarly stupid thing that you should have seen from the beginning but were so infatuated you ignored everything around you.
Phase 4: "ho hum, thanks for the support, i'm trying to forget, and get over this"

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missscorp
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@Claire...rite! At contender..don't egg him on! @ cancer guy..you really know how to crush someones hope! Haha! I once told my cancer I wanted to see more of him...his response....your gonna be sorry...pretty soon you won't be able to get rid of me!! Haha...he's silly! Anyone else perceive theirself as clingy and pre warn the person your seein...and then not live up to it? Cause I'm not sorry yet!!
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@scuba..yes we know your perception!!haha! I beg ta differ! I think they are just as fit for us scorps! =)@clair..awww...thank you =) from the moment my crab seen me walk across the room I had his attention & from the moment I seen him...he had mine and we silently let eachother know it too...he told me it wasn't the norm that he approach someone I told him it wasn't the norm that I'm so inviting when approached. We can both be shy..and to look at us you would never guess it! The heat between us is soooo very mutual, our tastes & likings in regards to personal beliefs, the things we feel most important in a relationship equal...I know what turns him on but I also want an idea as to what turns the crabs off, not that I will change anything about me for him...love me or leave me...its just the process of it all...although we progressively seem to be moving forward in the relationship..its at a granma turtles pace so in between me patiently waiting I'm gathering info to help the both of us...to maybe help me understand him more and work on my patience at the same time =)patience is virtue afterall & love knows no time...the site helps me understand things I may not have in the past instead of jumping to undesiable conclusions =)evrything between us is awesome...its the pace & the thought process I'm being challenged with!..=)
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missscorp
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He once told be I would get tired and bored of him & that I wouldn't be able to get rid of him...based on how genuine and perfect our last encounters and closeness has become...I think maybe he needs time in between to process his feelings since he told me he moved to quicly in his last LTR and it didn't last and was very hurt as a reult of is...and maybe he wants to give me time to "miss" him since he thinks I may grow bored...I'm needing help with the in-between time...thus...this site! =)
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Planet Mercury Girl
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Posted by cancerguy

I'm just going by precedence around here. I've seen it over and over.

Phase 1: "do you think he likes me? OMG OMG"
Phase 2: "blah blah blah (push/pull) blah blah blah"
Phase 3: "he has another family, or a kid in cambodia, or problems with his mother, or chose another girl over me" or some similarly stupid thing that you should have seen from the beginning but were so infatuated you ignored everything around you.
Phase 4: "ho hum, thanks for the support, i'm trying to forget, and get over this"





Hahaha! And pisces are always so proud to say that cancers are their match. Is this really how you feel that cancer men are? Truly?
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LunarMaiden
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The Virgo's I grew up with and know are not highly affectionate types.
You pretty much have to be the type that loves to dish it out but okay with not receiving the same in return.
Or match their affection.

My Virgo girlfriend was affectionate with our Bull girlfriend.
Usually when the Bull was upset, she would hug and wrap her arm around her.
I usually initiate the affection with my Virgal friend.
In fact I initiate affection with everyone, accept my crab twin brother.

Are you openly affectionate and chatty with your Virgo?
Virgo's are not going to be as open and affectionate as a Cancer.

I find that the more aloof and quiet I am the more open and assertive they become.