Cancer guy randomly blocks me?! Please Help :(

And the drama starts again...So last week I ignored my cancer man for 2 days because last couple of weekends he used to keep ignoring my texts and then msg me on weekdays only. He then texted me asking whts wrong and I honestly told him that I feel he avoids me and thus I dont want to be a pile on. he obviously defended himself saying that hes just been busy. After that we were all normal and i felt he was giving me a little more attention, texting me, calling me, telling me he likes me..all this lasted for about 3 days and then he randomly just blocked me on a social app. I called him and he din't answer, then next day he called me back and spoke very normally like nothing happened. He said there is something wrong with his phone - I know it for a fact he is lying. I mean why? why would he do this? Whats going on in his head?

i am still blocked on that social app, and haven't called him after the last time he called because i dont want to chase..Please advise..this is killing me..😢

I had to read your other posts to understand the situation. So! What's going on here is that he is dealing with another female/other females and he has blocked you (hiding you from the female he cares about and also closing a mode of communication with you/lowering the chances of him having to interact with you) and is shady with reciprocating the communication because he is preoccupied. Nothing is wrong with his phone and no one can be that busy. This is just how men and women are when they're not into someone.

Also, from a cancer mans standpoint. He seemed interested in you at first but because of whatever reason (another female interest, boring conversations that don't lead to anything real, was only interested in a little chit chat to pass the time and you served your purpose and now are dismissed, more important things to do) he lost interest in you. Now. The reason why he does speak to you from time to time is because he doesn't want you to feel bad and he feels guilty. So just so he won't feel guilty or that he rejected someone, he's going to come around here and there and and give you minimal attention until you decide to leave him alone and go the other way OR because of the reasons I mentioned before. Yes, cancers to require a lot of patience, space and time, but how it usually works is that they are first head over heels with you and then they back up. If they start out on a bad foot, they're not interested.

Posted by bistrokelly
And the drama starts again.

This is your drama...not his drama.

It sounds like you are not a serious part of his life, do yourself a favor and walk away.

Maybe his busy,but i think that he has somebody else,and he just didn't know how to tell you.But do some research about that,to be convinced that he's cheating.Or maybe he want some space..🙂

Posted by bistrokelly
And the drama starts again...So last week I ignored my cancer man for 2 days because last couple of weekends he used to keep ignoring my texts and then msg me on weekdays only. He then texted me asking whts wrong and I honestly told him that I feel he avoids me and thus I dont want to be a pile on. he obviously defended himself saying that hes just been busy. After that we were all normal and i felt he was giving me a little more attention, texting me, calling me, telling me he likes me..all this lasted for about 3 days and then he randomly just blocked me on a social app. I called him and he din't answer, then next day he called me back and spoke very normally like nothing happened. He said there is something wrong with his phone - I know it for a fact he is lying. I mean why? why would he do this? Whats going on in his head?

i am still blocked on that social app, and haven't called him after the last time he called because i dont want to chase..Please advise..this is killing me..😢

He want you to be curious and to make you confused go ask him why 😄

UPDATE: ok so he unblocks me and texts that his phone is working now. I have not texted back yet...

What does he want? Why play games? lie? is he even interested?

Moods result from feelings-feelings result from our thought:WHICH WE CAN CONTROL. Mature/Healthy people even if moody will think of how their moods-actions effect others.He's neither healthy or mature-and why your not deeply involved -BAIL. Especially if you have NO CHILDREN. Things like this lead to toxic love games and babies- You want a baby daddy like this-lots of fish in the sea of love that will be stable and loving

Yes, don't ever contact him again. He's toying with you.

Update: now he's texting and acting all normal..like there was something really up with his phone and now its fixed....What's on this cancer man's mind? Is he really interested? Is that why he keeps coming back?