Cancer man gone cold right after he confirmed we are dating exclusively?

For those who's haven't been following I will try to keep it short. Saw him last Sunday and gave him a birthday present - homemade cake and the cake tin. Met his roommate, he voluntarily gave me his wifi password that night. He also confirmed OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE.

His roommate asked him when are you free? He responded I'm not sure I haven't checked my schedule I just know this is a crazy week. He hasn't checked his schedule for the week even it was Sunday 11pm... I can tell he is really stress from the way he sleeps.

He didn't make plans to see me again when I left, he didn't even say have a good day. All he said was see ya. he sent me a text to thank me for the cake and cake tin, and said very very sweet of you x

He used to send me 1-2 pages long text unless it's short text to confirm meeting location and time. I'm not used to this. we exchanged a few more text. His last text was tuesday and my last text to him was wed.

Haven't heard from him at all and I don't want to add more stress to him as I know he is busy, however this confusion is making me feel disconnected with him.

Sounds like you are being strung along.

He sounds busy with work! That's all 🙂

Posted by pinkbird03
He sounds busy with work! That's all 🙂

I guess I will just let him come to me in his own pace.

When we saw each other face to face in person, he did apologize for being such a bad communicator and he's never had so little time for anyone he dated.

I told him no need to apologize, as my real concern his him being burnt out.....

I do care and I want to connect with him, but I guess it's best not to reach out to add further stress. Will leave it at that one text on Wed.

Posted by brandyp
He just had a busy week RELAX!!

yes I will wait, honestly any good idea to help him to relax when I see him face to face? like date idea?

I'm thinking of something physcial to boost endrophin. however I think i should let him plan the next date.

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He just had a busy week RELAX!!

yes I will wait, honestly any good idea to help him to relax when I see him face to face? like date idea?

I'm thinking of something physcial to boost endrophin. however I think i should let him plan the next date.

Let him come to you and let him plan the date. You don't need to relax him, let him relax you. Let him do some of the work, he's a big boy.

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good point!

Posted by brandyp
He just had a busy week RELAX!!

Busy is the excuse every guy use. Talking about those who are not keen. He surely could spend 2 minutes to send a short text here and there. He is not afraid of losing her. Probably also wondering why is she staying. Bottomline is he has no respect for her. Men don't love women they can't respect.

Posted by Poppyseeds
He also confirmed OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE.

He's starting to get anoyed at having to repeat himself. Dude, lay off.

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Posted by Poppyseeds
He also confirmed OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE.

He's starting to get anoyed at having to repeat himself. Dude, lay off.

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It's the first time he said that, in the past he only mentioned he is not dating / sleeping with others. He didn't even ask if I am. He just assumes that I'm not. As he once mentioned you are confident but I know you place high value in sex and won't do it with anyone.

Was his birthday last Sunday?

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He also confirmed OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE.

He's starting to get anoyed at having to repeat himself. Dude, lay off.

It's the first time he said that, in the past he only mentioned he is not dating / sleeping with others. He didn't even ask if I am. He just assumes that I'm not. As he once mentioned you are confident but I know you place high value in sex and won't do it with anyone.

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He was just stringing you along for more sex or emotion comfort, look at his action. You might have a real connection and he really likes you, from your old posts I could tell things did sound promising and I was rooting for you. But He doesn't look like he has the head space to give you a full blown relationship.

It still doesn't justify the lack of respect. He chased and wooed you and he should also man up to tell you he no longer want to progress things. Poppy this is the biggest favor he did for you, showing you his shortcoming in character. Take this as your closure and stop investing.

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He also confirmed OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE.

He's starting to get anoyed at having to repeat himself. Dude, lay off.

It's the first time he said that, in the past he only mentioned he is not dating / sleeping with others. He didn't even ask if I am. He just assumes that I'm not. As he once mentioned you are confident but I know you place high value in sex and won't do it with anyone.

He was just stringing you along for more sex or emotion comfort, look at his action. You might have a real connection and he really likes you, from your old posts I could tell things did sound promising and I was rooting for you. But He doesn't look like he has the head space to give you a full blown relationship.

It still doesn't justify the lack of respect. He chased and wooed you and he should also man up to tell you he no longer want to progress things. Poppy this is the biggest favor he did for you, showing you his shortcoming in character. Take this as your closure and stop investing.

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Actually he just text me to apologize for going off the radar, saying he is overwhelmed and needed cave time when he is stress. and he said he knows it must be frustrating for me.

Again - look at his action. He is not asking you out. He is simply testing if you were still interested.

Hm so you both talked after the last post. And everything changed for the better and became exclusive even. So now you are back here saying he detached after saying those words out his mouth let's date and be exclusive and then bounce.



Well shit now you can't break up because you're together so now you must work it out. No escaping you got the man of your dreams.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hm so you both talked after the last post. And everything changed for the better and became exclusive even. So now you are back here saying he detached after saying those words out his mouth let's date and be exclusive and then bounce.



Well shit now you can't break up because you're together so now you must work it out. No escaping you got the man of your dreams.

Not trying to escape anything, I was simply confused.

he just apologized for disappearing for a few days. but like illuminati said he is not asking me out.

Posted by Arielle83
Listen to your man.

Stop analyzing.

You have to have a life and patience to date a cancer.

Don't take advice from internet strangers that are pushing their own agenda.

Hi Arielle!

Yea I have a lot going on, I'm not sure if I'm caring too much too soon. He apologized for annoyed me, in fact I wasn't annoyed. it was just frustration from worrying about his well being to things between us.

Is it too much to ask for more communications? like tell him may be nice time he needs a retreat just tell me this is what hes going to do?

I don't want to control him, I just want a way that allows us to stay connected while he gets his need for isolation.

Posted by Arielle83
Listen to your man.

Stop analyzing.

You have to have a life and patience to date a cancer.

Don't take advice from internet strangers that are pushing their own agenda.

I have no hidden agenda. I'm telling it like it is.

But she said they are exclusive. Idk. Just go with the flow.

I also have no hidden agenda I don't even understand when people say they are exclusive and busy with life that they feel something is wrong. If they have a solid foundation no one should worry. We all independent here on this post.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
But she said they are exclusive. Idk. Just go with the flow.

Exclusive dating is a line a lot of guys suck in the girls so they only sleep with him. While he can say wait we are not in relationship. An easy way out for them.

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Posted by Arielle83
Listen to your man.

Stop analyzing.

You have to have a life and patience to date a cancer.

Don't take advice from internet strangers that are pushing their own agenda.

Hi Arielle!

Yea I have a lot going on, I'm not sure if I'm caring too much too soon. He apologized for annoyed me, in fact I wasn't annoyed. it was just frustration from worrying about his well being to things between us.

Is it too much to ask for more communications? like tell him may be nice time he needs a retreat just tell me this is what hes going to do?

I don't want to control him, I just want a way that allows us to stay connected while he gets his need for isolation.

"Hey I kinda miss you when you take off, so can you let me know when you're doing your own thing?"

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that sounds sweet and caring I like that!

To be honest, when leaves me confused is becuase ideally at this eraly dating stage I like a guy to show he is keen to sepend time together or make plans to see each other if he is very very busy. also when he is in cave man mode, I can't read his mind. Thats what convfused me.

SHould I let him tknow this as well? I'm not having a go at him. I just think he needs to know that I can't read mind.

Posted by Instantkarma
Poppyseed, is this the same guy I gave you a synastry reading about?

If it is him, I remember that the synastry looked very iffy about his commitment. It looked good for sex and casual romance but not in a long term way. Still i would like you to be happy with him than be correct in a "reading"

Be strong 😢

yes that's him, but he got in touch and apologized for a few caveman days.

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Posted by Arielle83
Listen to your man.

Stop analyzing.

You have to have a life and patience to date a cancer.

Don't take advice from internet strangers that are pushing their own agenda.

I have no hidden agenda. I'm telling it like it is.

I'm referring to ppl projecting their own cancer issues on her story.

No one knows how it is but her and the guy.

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Wasn't cancer story. It applies to all men. Like I said I hope he is a good man.

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Poppyseed, is this the same guy I gave you a synastry reading about?

If it is him, I remember that the synastry looked very iffy about his commitment. It looked good for sex and casual romance but not in a long term way. Still i would like you to be happy with him than be correct in a "reading"

Be strong 😢

yes that's him, but he got in touch and apologized for a few caveman days.

Ok.. but you don't give yourself completely to him ok? Look for 100% commitment from him. If he takes time, it's ok. Some men are like that. Maybe you can ask him to let you know beforehand, so you don't start to worry ?

Stay safe. Remember about his Neptune to your planets. Js. I would rather you are cautious now than be hurt later.

Tc

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Thanks I will ask him to let him know next time he goes cave mode. Arielle taught me a nice way to say it 🙂

We are dating exclusively, met his flatmate and hopefully a boyfriend girlfriend relationship will come soon.

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Posted by Arielle83
Listen to your man.

Stop analyzing.

You have to have a life and patience to date a cancer.

Don't take advice from internet strangers that are pushing their own agenda.

Hi Arielle!

Yea I have a lot going on, I'm not sure if I'm caring too much too soon. He apologized for annoyed me, in fact I wasn't annoyed. it was just frustration from worrying about his well being to things between us.

Is it too much to ask for more communications? like tell him may be nice time he needs a retreat just tell me this is what hes going to do?

I don't want to control him, I just want a way that allows us to stay connected while he gets his need for isolation.

"Hey I kinda miss you when you take off, so can you let me know when you're doing your own thing?"

that sounds sweet and caring I like that!

To be honest, when leaves me confused is becuase ideally at this eraly dating stage I like a guy to show he is keen to sepend time together or make plans to see each other if he is very very busy. also when he is in cave man mode, I can't read his mind. Thats what convfused me.

SHould I let him tknow this as well? I'm not having a go at him. I just think he needs to know that I can't read mind.

Ya if you want open communication, you have to do it as well.

For all you know he can be thinking you expect him to read your mind too since cancer mirrors.

It takes a while to ease in.

Cancer doesn't rush in. Cautious cancer, and goes with the flow.

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Ok I will be the first to open up more, and let him mirror.

No need to rush, I'm happy to take it slow 🙂

Thanks again!

Actions speaks louder than words, proof is in the pudding cliche cliche. Etc........if what he says is TRUE he will act like it. Sit back, relax and let him show you if he means it. Don't stress just wait and see. If you have to force someone to be good to you they're not worth it.

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Poppyseed, is this the same guy I gave you a synastry reading about?

If it is him, I remember that the synastry looked very iffy about his commitment. It looked good for sex and casual romance but not in a long term way. Still i would like you to be happy with him than be correct in a "reading"

Be strong 😢

yes that's him, but he got in touch and apologized for a few caveman days.

Ok.. but you don't give yourself completely to him ok? Look for 100% commitment from him. If he takes time, it's ok. Some men are like that. Maybe you can ask him to let you know beforehand, so you don't start to worry ?

Stay safe. Remember about his Neptune to your planets. Js. I would rather you are cautious now than be hurt later.

Tc

Thanks I will ask him to let him know next time he goes cave mode. Arielle taught me a nice way to say it 🙂

We are dating exclusively, met his flatmate and hopefully a boyfriend girlfriend relationship will come soon.

Great!

And if he disappears , you get busy with work.and hobbies. :-)

Take care

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I will let him know how I feel, hopefully he will let me know when he disappear 🙂

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Actions speaks louder than words, proof is in the pudding cliche cliche. Etc........if what he says is TRUE he will act like it. Sit back, relax and let him show you if he means it. Don't stress just wait and see. If you have to force someone to be good to you they're not worth it.

yea he reached out and apologized. he is a good man

Yeah, I don't know that him popping up to check in after a week of radio silence, should make everything ok. Unless he suggests a specific day and time to make up for it, it sound more like he's e-tethering you.

It's nice that he apologized for it, but you're clearly unsure of where you stand with this guy, which is not a good thing. A guy that really likes you, and really wants to be with you, will not leave you in doubt.

OP - I have asked two different times, in two different threads, when exactly his birthday is. You keep mentioning it is "coming up" but never give the date.

I asked in this thread if it was last Sunday, when you dropped off the present. No response.

In an effort to find it, I went through your posting history. I did NOT find it. However, I did find posts from roughly a month ago (27 days to be exact), were you also mention wanting to make plans for his "upcoming birthday".

So basically, you've been dating this guy for 3 months and harassing him about birthday plans with you for 1/3 of that time.

I could be wrong, but it siunds like your suffocation is killing this relationship.

Posted by Andalusia
OP - I have asked two different times, in two different threads, when exactly his birthday is. You keep mentioning it is "coming up" but never give the date.

I asked in this thread if it was last Sunday, when you dropped off the present. No response.

In an effort to find it, I went through your posting history. I did NOT find it. However, I did find posts from roughly a month ago (27 days to be exact), were you also mention wanting to make plans for his "upcoming birthday".

So basically, you've been dating this guy for 3 months and harassing him about birthday plans with you for 1/3 of that time.

I could be wrong, but it siunds like your suffocation is killing this relationship.

Are you a chart reader? Why the OP has to give away his birthday on the thread?

Posted by Shellyd238
Yeah, I don't know that him popping up to check in after a week of radio silence, should make everything ok. Unless he suggests a specific day and time to make up for it, it sound more like he's e-tethering you.

It's nice that he apologized for it, but you're clearly unsure of where you stand with this guy, which is not a good thing. A guy that really likes you, and really wants to be with you, will not leave you in doubt.

That's exactly is my point!!!

I just read the Post again seems like it's been a few days only but still...

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OP - I have asked two different times, in two different threads, when exactly his birthday is. You keep mentioning it is "coming up" but never give the date.

I asked in this thread if it was last Sunday, when you dropped off the present. No response.

In an effort to find it, I went through your posting history. I did NOT find it. However, I did find posts from roughly a month ago (27 days to be exact), were you also mention wanting to make plans for his "upcoming birthday".

So basically, you've been dating this guy for 3 months and harassing him about birthday plans with you for 1/3 of that time.

I could be wrong, but it siunds like your suffocation is killing this relationship.

Are you a chart reader? Why the OP has to give away his birthday on the thread?

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She doesn't. But she keeps mentioning how his birthday is/was " coming up" and how he wouldn't finalize plans with her l.

Maybe it's because it was a month and a half away and he genuinely didn't know what he was doing.

The problem seems to be that he doesn't communicate with you as much as you would like. This makes you self doubt and become insecure. Then your Virgo mind kicks in and we have these multitude of threads where you psycho analyze EVERYTHING.

The thing is, your just as much to blame in this situation as he is.

You need to make your expectations and wishes KNOWN to him. Don't just expect him to read your mind. Communicate with him that you need more communication. Specify exactly how much. If he cares about you he will be eager to text you every day, call you every night.

Posted by LadyNeptune
The problem seems to be that he doesn't communicate with you as much as you would like. This makes you self doubt and become insecure. Then your Virgo mind kicks in and we have these multitude of threads where you psycho analyze EVERYTHING.

The thing is, your just as much to blame in this situation as he is.

You need to make your expectations and wishes KNOWN to him. Don't just expect him to read your mind. Communicate with him that you need more communication. Specify exactly how much. If he cares about you he will be eager to text you every day, call you every night.

I realized that, I responded to him to accept his apology and let him know that I care about him a lot and like to be there for him, but I also respect that he deals with stress by isolation. next time he goes into cave let me know.

I also let him know that I like more communications especially when it's the early exclusive dating stage, I like to see that a guy is keen by seeing me or make plans to see me if he is very busy.

along with some encouraging words for his work situation.

I probably could have been more specific but it didn't come across my mind as I thought the message above was enough... we will see...

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OP - I have asked two different times, in two different threads, when exactly his birthday is. You keep mentioning it is "coming up" but never give the date.

I asked in this thread if it was last Sunday, when you dropped off the present. No response.

In an effort to find it, I went through your posting history. I did NOT find it. However, I did find posts from roughly a month ago (27 days to be exact), were you also mention wanting to make plans for his "upcoming birthday".

So basically, you've been dating this guy for 3 months and harassing him about birthday plans with you for 1/3 of that time.

I could be wrong, but it siunds like your suffocation is killing this relationship.

Are you a chart reader? Why the OP has to give away his birthday on the thread?

She doesn't. But she keeps mentioning how his birthday is/was " coming up" and how he wouldn't finalize plans with her l.

Maybe it's because it was a month and a half away and he genuinely didn't know what he was doing.

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good to know, you seem a bit annoyed when I didn't post his birthday.

Posted by Koniuchaa
Kinda sounds to me like maybe he is just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.

It's hard to say though. Can you videotape an interaction with him for us?

I kid, I kid

I'm afraid the video will have my account shut down hahaha

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The problem seems to be that he doesn't communicate with you as much as you would like. This makes you self doubt and become insecure. Then your Virgo mind kicks in and we have these multitude of threads where you psycho analyze EVERYTHING.

The thing is, your just as much to blame in this situation as he is.

You need to make your expectations and wishes KNOWN to him. Don't just expect him to read your mind. Communicate with him that you need more communication. Specify exactly how much. If he cares about you he will be eager to text you every day, call you every night.

I realized that, I responded to him to accept his apology and let him know that I care about him a lot and like to be there for him, but I also respect that he deals with stress by isolation. next time he goes into cave let me know.

I also let him know that I like more communications especially when it's the early exclusive dating stage, I like to see that a guy is keen by seeing me or make plans to see me if he is very busy.

along with some encouraging words for his work situation.

I probably could have been more specific but it didn't come across my mind as I thought the message above was enough... we will see...

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Next time he sends you a good morning text tell him it put a smile on your face all day long. When he calls you tell him your day was having you feeling so shitty but after hearing his voice you feel so much better. Once he understands how happy these small gestures and efforts on his part make you, he'll make them routine.

And don't let it be one sided either. Start to initiate communication from your end too.

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For those who's haven't been following I will try to keep it short. Saw him last Sunday and gave him a birthday present - homemade cake and the cake tin. Met his roommate, he voluntarily gave me his wifi password that night. He also confirmed OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE.

His roommate asked him when are you free? He responded I'm not sure I haven't checked my schedule I just know this is a crazy week. He hasn't checked his schedule for the week even it was Sunday 11pm... I can tell he is really stress from the way he sleeps.

He didn't make plans to see me again when I left, he didn't even say have a good day. All he said was see ya. he sent me a text to thank me for the cake and cake tin, and said very very sweet of you x

He used to send me 1-2 pages long text unless it's short text to confirm meeting location and time. I'm not used to this. we exchanged a few more text. His last text was tuesday and my last text to him was wed.

Haven't heard from him at all and I don't want to add more stress to him as I know he is busy, however this confusion is making me feel disconnected with him.

I think you should call the police, and get them involved on this stat!

Still haven't answered when his birthday is. Dont think youre going to.

I'm betting it's July 21st or something equally ridiculously far away at this point.

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The problem seems to be that he doesn't communicate with you as much as you would like. This makes you self doubt and become insecure. Then your Virgo mind kicks in and we have these multitude of threads where you psycho analyze EVERYTHING.

The thing is, your just as much to blame in this situation as he is.

You need to make your expectations and wishes KNOWN to him. Don't just expect him to read your mind. Communicate with him that you need more communication. Specify exactly how much. If he cares about you he will be eager to text you every day, call you every night.

I realized that, I responded to him to accept his apology and let him know that I care about him a lot and like to be there for him, but I also respect that he deals with stress by isolation. next time he goes into cave let me know.

I also let him know that I like more communications especially when it's the early exclusive dating stage, I like to see that a guy is keen by seeing me or make plans to see me if he is very busy.

along with some encouraging words for his work situation.

I probably could have been more specific but it didn't come across my mind as I thought the message above was enough... we will see...

Next time he sends you a good morning text tell him it put a smile on your face all day long. When he calls you tell him your day was having you feeling so shitty but after hearing his voice you feel so much better. Once he understands how happy these small gestures and efforts on his part make you, he'll make them routine.

And don't let it be one sided either. Start to initiate communication from your end too.

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Good one. He hasn't responded yet, will see how it goes. In the past I did let him know seeing his text when I wake up is a beautiful thing.

Posted by Andalusia
Still haven't answered when his birthday is. Dont think youre going to.

I'm betting it's July 21st or something equally ridiculously far away at this point.

already pass... lol

why is his birthday so important to you?

Posted by Naturally
Op, I can tell you're a caring person, sometimes you may care too much trust me I know, I think you should continue to be your awesome self and let him come to you (I know you said you already would) that's what attracted him in the first place. He knows how to find you wen he gets his mind together, let him win your heart, mind, body and soul, your time is precious just like his. You may want to be his place of solitude from this crazy world but he needs to be yours as well bc I know cancers make us Virgos turn into emotional messes lol. If he feels that same strange something that you do, he'll scuttle his little butt on up ☺️ If not he knows he'll always regret it and you'll end up happy either way

He responded yesterday and he already apologized, he explained it's stress and he tends to go into cave.

I replied and see how it goes. Don't want to bored those who's been following. It's on page 3 🙂

Posted by Andalusia
Still haven't answered when his birthday is. Dont think youre going to.

I'm betting it's July 21st or something equally ridiculously far away at this point.

You are still pushing. You really think she does have to give you his birthday even she said she doesn't.

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Are you a chart reader? Why the OP has to give away his birthday on the thread?

She doesn't. But she keeps mentioning how his birthday is/was " coming up" and how he wouldn't finalize plans with her l.

Maybe it's because it was a month and a half away and he genuinely didn't know what he was doing.

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Op, I can tell you're a caring person, sometimes you may care too much trust me I know, I think you should continue to be your awesome self and let him come to you (I know you said you already would) that's what attracted him in the first place. He knows how to find you wen he gets his mind together, let him win your heart, mind, body and soul, your time is precious just like his. You may want to be his place of solitude from this crazy world but he needs to be yours as well bc I know cancers make us Virgos turn into emotional messes lol. If he feels that same strange something that you do, he'll scuttle his little butt on up ☺️ If not he knows he'll always regret it and you'll end up happy either way

He responded yesterday and he already apologized, he explained it's stress and he tends to go into cave.

I replied and see how it goes. Don't want to bored those who's been following. It's on page 3 🙂

I saw, their emotions and actions tend to mimick the tides, they have a way with making sense out of chaos and making chaos wen you make sense lol. Just stay vigilant of your needs too, I know wen I saw my cancer friend he'd make things better then slide off again, constant cycle. I hope you guys can crack the misunderstood cancer-Virgo curse ☺️ Lol

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Sounds like they are very good at being consistence at being inconsistence?

I guess the ebb and flow is natural in life.

so far there's one one small misunderstanding between us. All sorted. It's the first time I directly communicate my needs, in the past I just drop hints like good to see your text in the morning, good to hear your voice.

Anyway now that I have shown him I care and my needs. It's up to him to meet me half way or be on his own.

@arielle83 sent him the text in the morning, no respond. He said he's been in cave mode.. but I saw him on chatting apps many times today... at one point we both were on for 10 minutes...

Seems like he has time to chat with others just no time to talk to me..

I think it's a bit rude to do that especially when he was giving me a sincere apology and I was accepting his apology and showing him care?

I honestly duuno what to think anymore..

if he is wanting to end things but lacking the courage I'm not sure if I should end it myself..

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Still haven't answered when his birthday is. Dont think youre going to.

I'm betting it's July 21st or something equally ridiculously far away at this point.

already pass... lol

why is his birthday so important to you?

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Love it is an astrology site, she was probably going to offer to chart read but you evading the question.

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@arielle83 sent him the text in the morning, no respond. He said he's been in cave mode.. but I saw him on chatting apps many times today... at one point we both were on for 10 minutes...

Seems like he has time to chat with others just no time to talk to me..

I think it's a bit rude to do that especially when he was giving me a sincere apology and I was accepting his apology and showing him care?

I honestly duuno what to think anymore..

if he is wanting to end things but lacking the courage I'm not sure if I should end it myself..

You are exhausting him. He told you he os stressed and you are adding to it even though uou said you do not want to.

Just try and give him space and relax. Dont cut the cord off of a quick assumption.

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@arielle83 sent him the text in the morning, no respond. He said he's been in cave mode.. but I saw him on chatting apps many times today... at one point we both were on for 10 minutes...

Seems like he has time to chat with others just no time to talk to me..

I think it's a bit rude to do that especially when he was giving me a sincere apology and I was accepting his apology and showing him care?

I honestly duuno what to think anymore..

if he is wanting to end things but lacking the courage I'm not sure if I should end it myself..

You are exhausting him. He told you he os stressed and you are adding to it even though uou said you do not want to.

Just try and give him space and relax. Dont cut the cord off of a quick assumption.

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Darling I think he is just stringing her along. If she was sending what she quoted earlier, it should be harmless, as she was accepting his apologies, showering care and her standard, encouragement blah blah blah.

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Still haven't answered when his birthday is. Dont think youre going to.

I'm betting it's July 21st or something equally ridiculously far away at this point.

already pass... lol

why is his birthday so important to you?

Love it is an astrology site, she was probably going to offer to chart read but you evading the question.

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She said she is not a chart reader.