Poppyseeds
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Posted by thinktoomuchSeriously we need to exchange user name hahaPosted by PoppyseedsSee, you´re making teeny tiny things into huge problems!
@arielle83 @DividedWeCapricorn @illuminati @Islandgal24
Just an update, later on he reacher out to me and said he realized that he didn't respond to my invitations. He apologized for that and gave me a clear no, then he asked if I'm free on the weekend to go out.
@arielle83 you didn't only just get me, you get him as well 🙂
You seriously need to learn how to relax about this.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Not sure if it has an impact, as I don't want kids. I rather keep buying properties hahaPosted by PoppyseedsTrue.Posted by Arielle83Women do too, that's why I work my ass off and looking to buy my second property.
Well you're adults and adults work and have careers.
Tbh a relationship is never my priority.
Money and success is.
Most guys need validation through career/financial success, not a relationship.
I want it all, career and love
I think the bio clock brings the intensity though.click to expand
Well. There you go. Have fun on your next date
have our differences. Here we have 24 hours in 1 day and there are people in this world busy every minute of that hour. I think what you said as people don't want to respond back right then, because maybe a lot is on there mind, or just don't feel like it is more of a reason I'd accept.
Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by PoppyseedsBut the thing is thought poppyseeds: you will take this. You have been here asking questions about him since you two got together, but you keep going on with him. Which is probably why you´re really angry. Honestly.Posted by kissmygritsMay be you are a doormat who will take any crumbs that a man is throwing at you.
Well then dump him then. I hope his new neighbor is cute, can cook like his Mom and is less demanding.
Having self respect is not being demanding. You are just a troll
Some other poster: nobody is EVER too busy to reply to a text, I would have to wildly disagree. Ofcours one can be too busy. There are also loads of other possibilities: maybe they just don´t feel like it, maybe they´re weighing their options, maybe he forgot your question. Maybe he just doesn´t know the answer yet.
The way you are treating this, I´d really truly say, that you are not ready to be with him, maybe this type of man will never be your type.click to expand
r and I don't feel that we're very difficult people. Just don't read too much into it and you'll this gal should be okay. But if you over analyze what's going on with us cancers I feel you could ruin something good before it began. Maybe I'm the only one who feels this way? But I do like to go with the flow. When I have a lot going on in my mind I do not respond right away to people. I have a lot I have to sort out before I can put any thought into a text. Especially if it's something that's not urgent.
Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by PoppyseedsBut the thing is thought poppyseeds: you will take this. You have been here asking questions about him since you two got together, but you keep going on with him. Which is probably why you´re really angry. Honestly.Posted by kissmygritsMay be you are a doormat who will take any crumbs that a man is throwing at you.
Well then dump him then. I hope his new neighbor is cute, can cook like his Mom and is less demanding.
Having self respect is not being demanding. You are just a troll
Some other poster: nobody is EVER too busy to reply to a text, I would have to wildly disagree. Ofcours one can be too busy. There are also loads of other possibilities: maybe they just don´t feel like it, maybe they´re weighing their options, maybe he forgot your question. Maybe he just doesn´t know the answer yet.
The way you are treating this, I´d really truly say, that you are not ready to be with him, maybe this type of man will never be your type.click to expand
Exactly. She's sabotaging something good. She should let the dude know he hurt her feelings. He probably thinks everything is fine.
Posted by kissmygritsExample of cancer changes their moods like it's nothing. Didn't you said I was high maintenance earlier?
Exactly. She's sabotaging something good. She should let the dude know he hurt her feelings. He probably thinks everything is fine.
You are. I'm done with you while you're being cray. 😉
Posted by kissmygritsYou are not just cray, you also have 8 seconds memory, you were like oh I'm so done with this post, yet you keep coming back. You remind me of the other cancer woman who keeps complaining and posting.
You are. I'm done with you while you're being cray. 😉
OP don't feed the trolls
How am I a troll when y'all are the blockheads coming into our forum repeating threads about your insecurity? Read what advise we already gave you. It's not that hard!
I actually like Virgos. I'm friends with a ton of them. My Dad was one.
But jeez I want the others to drag you back to their pen. Chain your crazy ass to the radiator if need be.
I actually like Virgos. I'm friends with a ton of them. My Dad was one.
But jeez I want the others to drag you back to their pen. Chain your crazy ass to the radiator if need be.
Posted by SensitiveBluesThere has to be something else going on. My Virgo bestie is very assertive and doesn't take shit from anybody let alone a man. She is my age though. Maturity I guess?Posted by kissmygritslol every virgo female that comes on our forum turns out to be crazy as feck, i feel for my crab brothers dealing with these dumb bytches.
You are. I'm done with you while you're being cray. 😉click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesYou all make is feel the feelz and we don't know how to process. So our motherboard blows the fuck up and catches fire. But our back is turned so we don't know there's a fire; only that we'really suddenly hot and bothered all of a sudden.Posted by kissmygritslol every virgo female that comes on our forum turns out to be crazy as feck, i feel for my crab brothers dealing with these dumb bytches.
You are. I'm done with you while you're being cray. 😉click to expand
Long story short - we are emotionally retarded and you all ooze emotions (whether yu2mean to or not).
😆
Posted by sunkisses26I think I come off as pissy. I just can't stand it when folks won't listen. My Aries Mom comes out. 😄
op @kissmygrits isn't a troll I think she made a joke on one of the pages and you took offense perhaps b/c your sensitive to your situation....but...she is generally very considerate of others feelings on here and tends to be gentle in her delivery ...
Hahaha like a chest burster in Alien.
Well, I think people should know that what makes us cancerians crazy is our mood swings. We most of the time will have the last word, even if we already said bye. But I don't think @kissmygrits is a terrible person. I mean still trying to give advice, despite what words were exchanged between you both. Maybe just make up already! you're clearly back on good terms with cancer guy, so if you can't ignore the posts that may be offensive to you, then block them.
Posted by Islandgal24I have no hard feelings for her, perhaps she was trying to be funny at the start, but tones can get lost in post.
Well, I think people should know that what makes us cancerians crazy is our mood swings. We most of the time will have the last word, even if we already said bye. But I don't think @kissmygrits is a terrible person. I mean still trying to give advice, despite what words were exchanged between you both. Maybe just make up already! you're clearly back on good terms with cancer guy, so if you can't ignore the posts that may be offensive to you, then block them.
Will see how things goes next date, no set time or place of meetings has been set up yet. I have expressed interest to his suggestion to meet up. Now his turn to lead.
@arielle83
he asked me to confirm what time am I free on the day we meet.
He also asked if I want to go see his new place even he hasn't finished unpacking..
Is he trying to have sex? I'm just a bit shocked as so far he didn't even try to grab me inappropriately... all we did was kissing.
We didn't even have the talk.... May be sex is all he wants?
he asked me to confirm what time am I free on the day we meet.
He also asked if I want to go see his new place even he hasn't finished unpacking..
Is he trying to have sex? I'm just a bit shocked as so far he didn't even try to grab me inappropriately... all we did was kissing.
We didn't even have the talk.... May be sex is all he wants?
I don't think any guy who only wants sex would keep showing up after 2 fucking months without sex.
lol.. i can foresee how this relationship goes.. even if OP made it to official
Posted by maomaoWhat an insightful comment
lol.. i can foresee how this relationship goes.. even if OP made it to official
He's going to lay you down on all of his boxes. COME THE FUCK ON!
Posted by kissmygritsProbably on his bed.
He's going to lay you down on all of his boxes. COME THE FUCK ON!
Let's all be realistic. What men doesn't want sex.
He worked so hard putting it together. 😆 😆 😆 😆
Date was great, he cooked me dinner and thanked me for sharing the first meal he cooked at his new place.
Ended up slept over but didn't go all the way.
He said I'm the only one he is dating, and he has been abstained for 4 months. Reason being he really wants to find a serious relationship. he said lets take it slow and see each other once a week. I said to him friends with benefit is not what I want. He said that's DEFINITELY NOT what he want either. He said by us seeing each other once a week consistently he assumes that we both want to pursue something serious.
@kissmygrits There are many boxes but didn't lay on them hahahahahahahaha
Ended up slept over but didn't go all the way.
He said I'm the only one he is dating, and he has been abstained for 4 months. Reason being he really wants to find a serious relationship. he said lets take it slow and see each other once a week. I said to him friends with benefit is not what I want. He said that's DEFINITELY NOT what he want either. He said by us seeing each other once a week consistently he assumes that we both want to pursue something serious.
@kissmygrits There are many boxes but didn't lay on them hahahahahahahaha
Posted by Poppyseeds
Date was great, he cooked me dinner and thanked me for sharing the first meal he cooked at his new place.
Ended up slept over but didn't go all the way.
He said I'm the only one he is dating, and he has been abstained for 4 months. Reason being he really wants to find a serious relationship. he said lets take it slow and see each other once a week. I said to him friends with benefit is not what I want. He said that's DEFINITELY NOT what he want either. He said by us seeing each other once a week consistently he assumes that we both want to pursue something serious.
@kissmygrits There are many boxes but didn't lay on them hahahahahahahaha
Yay! Now hit him up for box fort play date! You got this.
Posted by kissmygritsWell we did play finally 🙂 After 2 months of dating (almost 3 moths of talking) we have developed enough trust in each other.Posted by Poppyseeds
Date was great, he cooked me dinner and thanked me for sharing the first meal he cooked at his new place.
Ended up slept over but didn't go all the way.
He said I'm the only one he is dating, and he has been abstained for 4 months. Reason being he really wants to find a serious relationship. he said lets take it slow and see each other once a week. I said to him friends with benefit is not what I want. He said that's DEFINITELY NOT what he want either. He said by us seeing each other once a week consistently he assumes that we both want to pursue something serious.
@kissmygrits There are many boxes but didn't lay on them hahahahahahahaha
Yay! Now hit him up for box fort play date! You got this.click to expand
He made me breakfast next day, I'm not sure if you have experience this, cancer and virgo are somewhat on the same wave length? Like there's lots of unspoken understanding?
He wants to take it slow and I'm fine with it as I know we are only dating and sleeping with each other and no one else. I asked him is this because you dunno if you will move to other city? I sense that you really do want a relationship but you are not ready, I can sense that you want connection but you don't want to get too attached becuase you don't want to hurt each other, hence you never call only text.
He said YES that's the problem I have, I really don't want to leave I love being here, that's why I got a new place and have my name on a lease, it's great to have a sense of belonging. he also added the only thing that will take me away is if there are bigger job in other country. (he lived overseas in the past 3 years)
He also added he's been single for 18 months and in preserved mode, because the relationship was in tense with many fights. His ex broke up with him by starting a fight and didn't move back here with him.
I told him no one really knows what's going to happen, lets just keep getting to know each other and enjoy our time together. I'm glad we both are very open to talk about stuff. Having said that, I hope this is not a sad love story where people can't be together due to circumstances...
Posted by NaturallyI have many Cancerian friends, the female crabs often confide in me. The girls who do that both have Virgo moms!
Glad things are on a positive path, virgo and cancer are a great match ^_^
So far things are good, him and I have lots in common in our values and interests. We can talk for 6 hours straight which both of us have never experience.
His most recently ex from 18 months ago was also virgo, they fought a lot during the relationship, he said now he is striving for harmony.
I will keep looking, if / when you see him just have fun.
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