Cancer men! I have some questions for you

Hey! I never find myself on the Cancer board but I'm curious to know what you think of Aries women?

I've never dated a Cancer man and never had a cancer friend. My brother is a Cancer tho. I know you guys can be very very very moody and sensitive to a person speech.

For those who have had a relationship with an Aries woman, what was it that made you drawn to her?

What did you like about her after you got to know her?

I've heard that a Cancer and Aries can have a healing effect on each other. Supposedly take the pain away from past relationships. Do you believe this to be true?

I honestly can't explain the attraction I have towards Aries women. But every time there is this very strong, magnetic attraction towards someone and I decide to look up her sun/moon sign, it's always Aries. The attraction is far less superficial than normal attractions where I see their beauty from the inside out, instead of the reverse.

I've only had flings with Arian women, but these were quite intense but sadly did not develop into anything more than that. I also believe that these two can heal each other, and restore their faith in love and romance. However, it takes maturity, time, patience, reciprocation, love, and a whole lot of sex 😉

I also think that a male crab/female ram has a better chance of success than the reverse in heterosexual relations. The reason being is because of the feminine/masculine energies these two placements give along side societal assignment of gender roles of our culture. The male crab can help the female ram see the beauty of femininity and emotion, and the female ram can help the male crab get more in touch with his masculinity and being more assertive in that he wishes to pursue. These energies in respective bodies will likely magnify the traits that make this pairing difficult as is.

Posted by Aries_Luminary
Hey! I never find myself on the Cancer board but I'm curious to know what you think of Aries women?

I've never dated a Cancer man and never had a cancer friend. My brother is a Cancer tho. I know you guys can be very very very moody and sensitive to a person speech.

For those who have had a relationship with an Aries woman, what was it that made you drawn to her?

What did you like about her after you got to know her?

I've heard that a Cancer and Aries can have a healing effect on each other. Supposedly take the pain away from past relationships. Do you believe this to be true?

for me it's purely physical in most cases.

Posted by Crabra
I honestly can't explain the attraction I have towards Aries women. But every time there is this very strong, magnetic attraction towards someone and I decide to look up her sun/moon sign, it's always Aries. The attraction is far less superficial than normal attractions where I see their beauty from the inside out, instead of the reverse.

I've only had flings with Arian women, but these were quite intense but sadly did not develop into anything more than that. I also believe that these two can heal each other, and restore their faith in love and romance. However, it takes maturity, time, patience, reciprocation, love, and a whole lot of sex 😉

I also think that a male crab/female ram has a better chance of success than the reverse in heterosexual relations. The reason being is because of the feminine/masculine energies these two placements give along side societal assignment of gender roles of our culture. The male crab can help the female ram see the beauty of femininity and emotion, and the female ram can help the male crab get more in touch with his masculinity and being more assertive in that he wishes to pursue. These energies in respective bodies will likely magnify the traits that make this pairing difficult as is.

Thank you for your detailed response.

If you don't mind sharing, what are the placements of your moon, Venus, mars, and Mercury?

Posted by Fun4Life
Love Aries women - just something about them.The same passion for love/sex and in your face attitude, straight to the point, with a touch of mystery. Not a big fan of what happens when you "P" them off, but otherwise, I like them a lot. What is it that drew me to her? Well let's see, hotter than hail, and the 1st time she asked me if I "had any ties", and I said "what for", I was hooked when she told me to tie her up. Unfortunately the bed had no posts to accommodate her, but she more than made up for it in other ways. Healing effect? Yeah - she had a way of making the rest of the world disappear when I was with her. Totally living "in the now" - mindfulness, for you psychologists out there.

Came very, very close to marrying one, but ultimately, there was an insecurity with her loyalty I had difficulty getting past. She was the type that would turn all the heads when we entered the club, and she fed on that adoration.

Your interest seems to be with our physical charm. Me personally, and I can't speak for all Aries women, I desire for someone to see past that through to my more genuine qualities.

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Posted by Aries_Luminary
Hey! I never find myself on the Cancer board but I'm curious to know what you think of Aries women?

I've never dated a Cancer man and never had a cancer friend. My brother is a Cancer tho. I know you guys can be very very very moody and sensitive to a person speech.

For those who have had a relationship with an Aries woman, what was it that made you drawn to her?

What did you like about her after you got to know her?

I've heard that a Cancer and Aries can have a healing effect on each other. Supposedly take the pain away from past relationships. Do you believe this to be true?

for me it's purely physical in most cases.

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Do you know what that may be for you?

What are your other placements if you don't mind?

Posted by Fun4Life

Posted by Aries_Luminary

Posted by Fun4Life
Love Aries women - just something about them.The same passion for love/sex and in your face attitude, straight to the point, with a touch of mystery. Not a big fan of what happens when you "P" them off, but otherwise, I like them a lot. What is it that drew me to her? Well let's see, hotter than hail, and the 1st time she asked me if I "had any ties", and I said "what for", I was hooked when she told me to tie her up. Unfortunately the bed had no posts to accommodate her, but she more than made up for it in other ways. Healing effect? Yeah - she had a way of making the rest of the world disappear when I was with her. Totally living "in the now" - mindfulness, for you psychologists out there.

Came very, very close to marrying one, but ultimately, there was an insecurity with her loyalty I had difficulty getting past. She was the type that would turn all the heads when we entered the club, and she fed on that adoration.

Your interest seems to be with our physical charm. Me personally, and I can't speak for all Aries women, I desire for someone to see past that through to my more genuine qualities.

We were very young. I was 27, she was 24 - it was raw passion. She was smart, but the aloof, mysteriousness, made me insecure. Like I said, I would have "wifed' her, but we couldn't stay consistent in the relationship. At the time there was another virgin Virgo competing in the mix. I felt more secure with her, but it didn't have the staying power of Ms. Aries. When you're in a rock band, like I was at the time, it was a wild world of love.

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I totally understand. It's frustrating sometimes. My Venus is in Taurus so I'm very loyal and devoted. But not to just every and anyone. Only the one who can touch my heart.

Like I was saying it can be frustrating when a guy becomes worried by the attention we often get from the opposite sex. Those are things that can be out of your control. And you shouldn't have to dim your light in order for someone to feel secure with you. You should trust that we chose you. I've usually only have these problems with Earth signs. I've never dated a water sign. And fire signs seem to like or be unbothered by the things that make others feel uncomfortable. And air signs could care less.

Next time, try to have faith and trust more. Don't miss out on someone who can bring a light to your life

Posted by P6X58DE
Very very attracted to Aries females..

Never actually been with an Aries, but damn...

We're in the same boat. There is this one Cancer who I've had a thing for since high school. His birthday is July 12. I've always felt he liked me too but he never makes a move. So nothing ever happens. We're both 30 now and still see each other since all of our high school friends still hang out. He always makes a point to come speak to me and hold side conversations but he never makes a move. So I assume he doesn't like me that way.

Women seem so obsessed over Cancer men. It's true, so many women are so curious about my Cancer husband. How we met, where we met, are we ACTUALLY married, how long. He has like 60 female admirers. At this point I am sure Cancer men are the most wanted. People have figured out that under those shy sweet smiles and good sense of humor lies a workaholic who treats women well because he honors them. Cancer guys usually don't have any addictions or major mental issues like some other dudes. They're also pretty good in bed and easy to live with.

Posted by everfreshjuice
Women seem so obsessed over Cancer men. It's true, so many women are so curious about my Cancer husband. How we met, where we met, are we ACTUALLY married, how long. He has like 60 female admirers. At this point I am sure Cancer men are the most wanted. People have figured out that under those shy sweet smiles and good sense of humor lies a workaholic who treats women well because he honors them. Cancer guys usually don't have any addictions or major mental issues like some other dudes. They're also pretty good in bed and easy to live with.

I probably shouldn't say this seeing as how I'm on the Cancer board but I don't like water signs. Too emotional and too sensitive for me. And I'm probably too much for them.

It's just this one guy. They're cool as friends but I couldn't see myself being with one. I have no patience for their moodiness.

I'm curious about this guy even tho In th back of my mind I know it wouldn't work

Posted by Aries_Luminary

Posted by rabidtalker

Posted by Aries_Luminary
Hey! I never find myself on the Cancer board but I'm curious to know what you think of Aries women?

I've never dated a Cancer man and never had a cancer friend. My brother is a Cancer tho. I know you guys can be very very very moody and sensitive to a person speech.

For those who have had a relationship with an Aries woman, what was it that made you drawn to her?

What did you like about her after you got to know her?

I've heard that a Cancer and Aries can have a healing effect on each other. Supposedly take the pain away from past relationships. Do you believe this to be true?

for me it's purely physical in most cases.

Do you know what that may be for you?

What are your other placements if you don't mind?

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I have mars in aries square my cancer sun and opposed uranus in libra

Posted by Aries_Luminary

Posted by Crabra
I honestly can't explain the attraction I have towards Aries women. But every time there is this very strong, magnetic attraction towards someone and I decide to look up her sun/moon sign, it's always Aries. The attraction is far less superficial than normal attractions where I see their beauty from the inside out, instead of the reverse.

I've only had flings with Arian women, but these were quite intense but sadly did not develop into anything more than that. I also believe that these two can heal each other, and restore their faith in love and romance. However, it takes maturity, time, patience, reciprocation, love, and a whole lot of sex 😉

I also think that a male crab/female ram has a better chance of success than the reverse in heterosexual relations. The reason being is because of the feminine/masculine energies these two placements give along side societal assignment of gender roles of our culture. The male crab can help the female ram see the beauty of femininity and emotion, and the female ram can help the male crab get more in touch with his masculinity and being more assertive in that he wishes to pursue. These energies in respective bodies will likely magnify the traits that make this pairing difficult as is.

Thank you for your detailed response.

If you don't mind sharing, what are the placements of your moon, Venus, mars, and Mercury?

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Gemini moon

Gemini Venus

Leo Mercury

Taurus Mars