Cancer men mood swings

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by pipiri on Sunday, April 30, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@pipiri
9 Years

I have heard about cancer men's mood swings but not experienced until I'm seeing a Cancer guy now. I've dated this guy for about 4 months. He is a nice guy in general (good manners, friendly, and have some good friends as I've seen). But I really can't stand his mood swings. Normally he can be happy this moment and then the next second his mood totally change. Sometimes he gets angry with me and I don't even know why— Sometimes I try to spend more time with him by going to his place to cook for him after work (we are both working). I was cooking and thinking of a nice dinner we can spend together but then the next second we argue over small things and he was the one started it then after that just like nothing happened. I'm not so sensitive but it happens so many times and it makes me feel tired and really upset.

Does anyone feel the same? I really like him but I feel so hopeless in this relationship.

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@Peanut123
9 Years

Yep feel in love with a cancer and we will have a conversation and If I say one thing abou how he just hurt my feelings he gets mad shuts me out so I said forget this I still care but his mood changes are to much to handle who wants to live like that.they can't handle the fact they did something wrong in any situation or admitt to it.

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@jane84
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Grew up with that my whole life (my Father).

His mood swings were exhausting. It's hard to be around him.

But I'm sure not all are exactly like that...

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@pipiri
9 Years

@ peanut123 @jane84

I experienced exactly all things you guys said. He never admit he's wrong, just ignore it, pretend like nothing happened. Even though he try to be nice with me later but I still hate it. I tend to look at people's positive sides so I'm trying to get along with him but I really don't know how long I can handle this.

@peanut123: How long have you guy been together? My previous relationship didn't work well and it took me long to fix my heart so I really want to put effort in this relationship but I'm so scared of getting hurt again

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