What should I do next with this cancer man?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Orangedreams on Friday, March 31, 2017 and has 6 replies.

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@Orangedreams
10 Years

I met this guy on holiday this week. We were only able to spend a day together but I immediately felt connected to him. He also seemed to feel the same because he was on cloud 9. He just looked so happy.

Anyway I live in America and he is in the U.K. We have each others instagram and WhatsApp. I'm 25 aqua female and he is a 31 cancer male.

He told me on WhatsApp hopefully he sees me soon and that he really likes me. I feel the same way but it all seems crazy since we only spent a day together.

I told him that we should meet up again on another holiday or something and told him I was going to a music festival next month. He said yes definitely and that he was jealous I was going to the festival.

I feel a little stuck because I really want to see him again but don't know what to do from here.

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@Legend
9 YearsCancer

Do him and forget him.. Unless you both are single, then keep doing each other. Long term relationship wise, you will be a nightmare for him and he will suffocate you.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Long distance relationships are hard enough when you already have a solid base of love and trust built between the two of you. Your starting from the ground up. If I was you I'd just enjoy the moment without pressuring it to be anything in the future.

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@Orangedreams
10 Years

Posted by Legend
Do him and forget him.. Unless you both are single, then keep doing each other. Long term relationship wise, you will be a nightmare for him and he will suffocate you.

How would I be a nightmare for him?

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@Orangedreams
10 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Long distance relationships are hard enough when you already have a solid base of love and trust built between the two of you. Your starting from the ground up. If I was you I'd just enjoy the moment without pressuring it to be anything in the future.

So should I keep messaging with him or drop it? I'm so sad I met someone amazing and it was ripped away from me after so many disappointments...