How do I tell my ex?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by nikkistar on Saturday, April 1, 2017 and has 19 replies.

How to Approach Telling Your Ex About Your Pregnancy

Deciding whether to tell your ex about your pregnancy depends on your relationship and circumstances. Consider your emotional readiness and potential impact on both of you. Clear communication is important, especially if he might be involved or affected. Seek support from trusted friends or a counselor to help you make the best decision for your situation.

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So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, not having one in February, but as March flew by, I became a little concerned.

This morning, I took a pregnancy test I bought from Daiso, and it came back pregnant. I haven't talked to the Cancer in 2 weeks, and I know he is just not in a position mentally to be in a relationship. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I tell him? Do I get back with him just for the baby's sake?

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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack

Posted by nikkistar
So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, not having one in February, but as March flew by, I became a little concerned.

This morning, I took a pregnancy test I bought from Daiso, and it came back pregnant. I haven't talked to the Cancer in 2 weeks, and I know he is just not in a position mentally to be in a relationship. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I tell him? Do I get back with him just for the baby's sake?

Trolljob

Daiso does not have condoms or pregnancy tests just egg slicers and the & with no letter S

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Actually, I went the other day, and they have pregnancy tests there. LOL

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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by MrEmptyBackpack

Posted by nikkistar
So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, not having one in February, but as March flew by, I became a little concerned.

This morning, I took a pregnancy test I bought from Daiso, and it came back pregnant. I haven't talked to the Cancer in 2 weeks, and I know he is just not in a position mentally to be in a relationship. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I tell him? Do I get back with him just for the baby's sake?

Trolljob

Daiso does not have condoms or pregnancy tests just egg slicers and the & with no letter S

Actually, I went the other day, and they have pregnancy tests there. LOL

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Lol fuck your first world daiso

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HAHAHAHA

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Posted by nikkistar
So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, not having one in February, but as March flew by, I became a little concerned.

This morning, I took a pregnancy test I bought from Daiso, and it came back pregnant. I haven't talked to the Cancer in 2 weeks, and I know he is just not in a position mentally to be in a relationship. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I tell him? Do I get back with him just for the baby's sake?

You should, Nikki.

You should.

Both the father and the baby deserves it.

I hope you guys can work it out, okay. If not then, hopefully things will work out fine between the three of you in the long run.

All the best for you.

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by MyStarsShine

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Happy April Fools Day nikki

Are you still with the Cancer guy?

No I am not actually lol

That part is true hahaha

I thought so......you okay ?

Yea. As cold as this sounds, it didn't phase me too much. I process things in a logical way. He needs to get on his own two feet, and I will always be a friend if he needs me. No harm, no foul.

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Big strong man for you, girl .....🙂

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Posted by DepthAndDeath

Posted by nikkistar
So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, not having one in February, but as March flew by, I became a little concerned.

This morning, I took a pregnancy test I bought from Daiso, and it came back pregnant. I haven't talked to the Cancer in 2 weeks, and I know he is just not in a position mentally to be in a relationship. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I tell him? Do I get back with him just for the baby's sake?

You should, Nikki.

You should.

Both the father and the baby deserves it.

I hope you guys can work it out, okay. If not then, hopefully things will work out fine between the three of you in the long run.

All the best for you.

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It's

An

April

Fool

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by DepthAndDeath

Posted by nikkistar
So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, not having one in February, but as March flew by, I became a little concerned.

This morning, I took a pregnancy test I bought from Daiso, and it came back pregnant. I haven't talked to the Cancer in 2 weeks, and I know he is just not in a position mentally to be in a relationship. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I tell him? Do I get back with him just for the baby's sake?

You should, Nikki.

You should.

Both the father and the baby deserves it.

I hope you guys can work it out, okay. If not then, hopefully things will work out fine between the three of you in the long run.

All the best for you.

It's

An

April

Fool

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Oh it's 2-Apr already here lol