Cancer sun scorpio moon

Hello everyone 🙂

Do any of you have this placement or know anything about it? The one thing I do not understand about this placement is these people are extremely secretive. They want to dig deep in you and know everything about you without opening themselves too much. How to deal with them? How do you know if they love you?

@basari
Thats what I have noticed about this guy too, even in large groups he would pick 2 or 3 people who he talks to and and is mostly quiet. But with me he almost talks too much. He starts his sentences with ,"I feel like..." for everything. He has not shown me that he is sensitive at all. Though, he is very moody and always wants me to text him first, invite him out etc etc.

Also he has leo venus

@Uniqueunicorn i have this placement lol, & i sound exactly like the Cancer guy you are talking too. I have gemini venus though, & i'll admit i can be sensitive & picky about who i associate with. I worked hard to control my sensitive & emotional side. But hey, it's who i am. I'm not really secretive per say, but i don't believe in telling my business to people i barely know. Unless you make me feel safe around you & i can trust you, THEN i open up & be less shy than in the beginning. So maybe this guy is that way. Like the more comfortable & safe you make him feel, the more he'll open up his shell & reveal more to you. So give him some time & eventually things will progress further. Be sweet & patient. I guarantee you, it'll be worth it 🙂

Also go by his actions as well. To love someone, you have to show it. So if he is showing you that he cares, then you got nothing to worry about. Whats funny is, idk many Cancers with the same Scorpio Moon as me. So it's interesting to know that there are some out there. It's like a mixture of Scorpio & Cancer lol. But don't worry ok

@basari i have Leo rising too lol. Although, i can be more of listener sometimes. I can talk too but not as much

@uniqueunicorn Well you shouldn't have sex with him if he isn't your BF. He's backing off everytime because he got what he wanted, which is sex from. You noticed everytime you have Sex with him, he acts funny & only talking to you when he sees fit & idealy when he wants sex. You take your "Cookie" back aka your power, Until he is ready for a relationship, or something serious, then you can start up the intimacy. He needs to work, in order to receive the good you can you offer. Since he wants to back off, you do it too. If he asks why, you already know what to tell him. Unless it's friends with benefits, hold off on this sex stuff ok. He probably just sees you as something he can fuq & go as he pleases. I assure you most Good Cancers aren't like that.

@2BlackIndian3: He does listen to me, when I seriously talk to him. So if I ask him to be with me I think he will. But I should'nt have to ask. He should be asking me.

Oh and no he doesnt act funny right before sex lol. I meant to say that nowadays he has been giving me deep stares and acting intensely around me. Like a month ago, he was more funny and silly.

@uniqueunicorn also try calls, if you hate waiting for messages. Also you can hear his voice & tell by his voice tone, what's really going on. Don't be concerned with what he's telling you. Look at what he's doing as in actions. What you just told me, makes perfect sense regarding his current behavior. He got his sex, & now he does what he wants. Don't allow a man to control you like that. When he starts acting serious, then you can give him a piece of the "cookie" not the whole thing. Don't let him have anything if he isn't looking for a real relationship. You have the "Cookie", & you have the power to say NO; this isn't happening no more unless he proves himself as BF material. If he gets mad, ohh well! lol. By the way, i hope this don't get moved to page 2 lol. But remember what i said ok. You'll be fine 😉

@uniqueunicorn well to answer your newer questions, you gotta back off & give him time to come to you. If he knows you like him, & i'm sure he does, then he'll confess his feelings. A Good man would. But since you two are already kissing, cuddling, & having sex; & he still hasn't said ANYTHING about wanting to be your man; Then obviously he might be into you just for sex. He wasn't shy to ask you or get you to have sex. Then he shouldn't be shy to ask you to be his lady. The asking you to be his lady part should have been 1st, See!. To answer your last question, Yes i have told all the women who i had deeeep feelings for, that i love them. I said it 1st because i wanted them to know i mean it. I only had 3 gfs in my life so far. I started dating late, around 19. I just don't reveal my feelings to just any ol lady tho. It's gotta be real you know. But since you two doing all this touching & shyt lol, he should have been told you something.

@uniqueunicorn that's kool you an Aries lol. I like me some Rams lol. But seriously, i wouldn't get him shyt until he takes you serious. No more sex until a relationship is formed. You like him, so let him show & tell you he feels the same & that he wants more. That's all you can do

@uniqueunicorn No problem! & i'm glad i could help 🙂. See i didn't know it was you who wanted sex lol. Well just be careful with all this ok. Take Care!

@2BlackIndian3: I am happy to know you like rams, this is the first time I have ever been romantically involved with a cancer.

@uniqueunicorn Heck yeah i like Rams or Aries lol. I hope to date 1 one day. I like that they are strong & passionate. But all i wanna say for now is be careful with what you say & do with a Cancer alright. We got good memory, & we remember everything you say & do. So Just take it easy ok. Be Safe! 🙂

@basari Well i usually told those women i love you, after we been BF/GF & i know their true feelings for me. Like i mentioned before, if i say it, i mean it. I'm very careful of when & who i say it too you know. But i do make sure the lady i like knows that i care about her.